Reason why a back up plan is needed for everyone....
If you're earning 2500 per month, keep 500 in a separate account...
If he's done that monthly from January 2023 to now... He would have almost 6k pounds....
This means that even if he gets thrown out... He can still get an apartment and sort himself out for another few months until he gets a stable job....
Them no dey trust women finish....
As for the woman, she's a witch.... I see all homosexuals as such... E no get werin anybody Wan tell me...she will reap her rewards very soon and it won't he good at all....
Na her kids I pity for... She Wan just ruin their lives....
Imagine pvssy make man homeless because of another pvssy...... This life no balance at all

He should go to the Salvation Army. They will provide shelter him, till he is back on his feet.

Tunde835:
All men should have been aware about the notorious laws supporting women in the UK against them to be able to avoid this kind of situation.

Not only in the UK, the whole Europe

eazzzy1:
Why did it lead to physical altercation? He wanted to beat the lesbian out of her? Women are supposed to be the emotional ones and men the tactful ones. He knew what would happen if he reacted the way he did but still did anyway. She probably is the one with the visa while he’s the attaché.

First, a man doing menial jobs to sponsor his wife studying is dumb to me, it almost always end up the same way. She becomes better than you and merely tolerates you or leave.

The man should have delayed his reaction till he was in a better place regarding his immigration status. When you look at it properly, cheating with a woman doesn’t seem that terrible, nothing a good talk and a rearrangement can’t fix. He just has to join in 🤷🏼.

It’s funny how these UK stories usually come from a third party. Never the ones directly involved.

I agree with this. The more a woman studies, the more arrogant she becomes. Women think they're intelligent and capable just because they have degrees and see a man that's less educated than them as less worthy of respect and love. There's countless stories of women leaving their men after getting more education or after being promoted at work and outearning them. Women are usually only in love with what a man can provide, not the man himself and if they think that they or someone else can provide more? They leave.

garriAndsugar:
Something he should have turned to 3some and bang the hell outta both of them

I thought they said when life gives you lemons make lemonade out of it.

The guy na fool. I’ll Bleep hell out of both hoes. We’ll be living together self. At least she’s not cheating on him with a man 😒

KanuSE:


Like Pastor Oyakhilome, right?

A man can call himself a Pastor, but it does mean that he is born again or a disciple of Christ indeed.

It is God's children that can reference God indeed and bear His fruits.

Mind you, the above does not mean that I am judging a man.

zed7:
Even if the man records himself while narrating his experience, I will still have my doubts.
Everything is for clout these days. Social media will be the end of man.

Which part did you think is fabricated?

To me the lesbian part is suspicious but it is plausible.

But the other part of being thrown out happens everyday, because it is the wife that have the visa, he is a derivative on her student visa as and such he is dispensable.

In fact if he does not get an employer able to sponsor his visa very soon, he will be out of status and would most likely find himself deported.

Word of caution to anyone male or female who find themselves on one of these non-immigrant derivative visas, try as much as possible and the soonest to switch to a visa where you will be primary.

You can also go to school, also get a student visa in your name, e get why.

Yes, I know you guys have kids to take care of and one need to work to pay bills while the other go to school….well, guess what? When they throw your ass in the street and out of the home, the kids will still survive and bills would still be paid.

So let both of you go to school, both work and both take care of the kids, there are day cares, etc.

And Please be wise especially for men, you are no longer in Africa where you have an edge….if you suspect that your wife is cheating and you are a derivative on her visa, please don’t confront her, don’t spy on her, smile and pretend you did not see or know anything but start working on your primary visa applications, only confront her when you can stand on your feet by yourself immigration-wise.

Stonecoldstare1:

Like say Naija better,lol....dude every region have their faults,in Nigeria,the patriachy,in the west it's the women......you only don't complain in Nigeria because you are a man who benefits from patriarchy as it's a system meant to favor you, there's no equality anywhere

Guy west is abnormal and could cause someone that is not used to their decadence slide into depression , serious mental breakdown and possibly suicide, those whites are worse than perverts

motymop:
Fake story.

One of the lies they always tell Nigerian men abroad is that your wife can just throw you out of the house.

Your wife can't throw you out of the house no unless she obtained an occupation order from the court

Another lie is that, if you are caught cheating, your wife can take half of your property.

Most of these lies is to make Nigerian men loyal abroad.

On the throwing out part, I think you are wrong (for USA). Men are generally stronger physically. So if you get into argument with your wife and she decides to kick you out of the house, she will call the Police and claim that you were beating her. When Police arrives, they will try to confirm her allegations. If they believe her, the Police will arrest you and take you to jail. You will appear before a Judge, given bail and ordered not to get back to the house until the case is settled. You have to make alternative arrangement or move in with a friend or relative.

eazzzy1:
Why did it lead to physical altercation? He wanted to beat the lesbian out of her? Women are supposed to be the emotional ones and men the tactful ones. He knew what would happen if he reacted the way he did but still did anyway. She probably is the one with the visa while he’s the attaché.

First, a man doing menial jobs to sponsor his wife studying is dumb to me, it almost always end up the same way. She becomes better than you and merely tolerates you or leave.

The man should have delayed his reaction till he was in a better place regarding his immigration status. When you look at it properly, cheating with a woman doesn’t seem that terrible, nothing a good talk and a rearrangement can’t fix. He just has to join in 🤷🏼.

It’s funny how these UK stories usually come from a third party. Never the ones directly involved.

@the bolded, it tells you most are made up tales by the.moonlight. I guess they do it for the likes that add no value to them.

Another simp spotted! I swear to God Nigeria men will never learn, the woman knew he was a weakling and the woman don see am finish.

NoSmoking:
Wait first!


Is this friend a male or female!?


🤕

Both
But the female one

Lalami3232:
Na wa ooooooo!!!
If you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall

Virgins sef nko?

BloomingDale:


He should have taken a good hard look at himself and asked himself where he went wrong that the wife was no longer attracted to him.

If it was the other way round, your submission would have changed. That's what make you a woman, a gender filled with selfishness and manifestly incapable of balanced reasoning.

NovusHomo:


If you ask me, I'd rather my wife sleeps with another woman, not another man.

Because you are still single.

BloomingDale:
Lesson : Don’t bite the hand that feeds you. Hope the man learnt his lessons.

Please how was the woman feeding the husband?
Did you read another post

Basicend:


A man can call himself a Pastor, but it does mean that he is born again or a disciple of Christ indeed.

It is God's children that can reference God indeed and bear His fruits.

Mind you, the above does not mean that I am judging a man.

Oh wow! I'm happy you got my point.

Lalami3232:
Na wa ooooooo!!!
If you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall

Just dey play.. non virgins ke?

Nah, I don't believe this story.. Who owns the house? Are they divorced? Don't the man have evidence of her cheating? Why homeless

Women know their around. Women are gifted with tricks.

Lalami3232:
Na wa ooooooo!!!
If you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall

KanuSE:


Like Pastor Oyakhilome, right?

And Pastor Ayo Ositsejafor

Boldideas:


I am 45 years old, trust me I look 33 years old because I am just alone with my son. Most of all my age mates look like scrap because marriage in reality terms offers no peace of mind like when you're alone.

Immediately I went broke I lost my peace, she attempted stabbing and I recorded it without her knowledge and ran to the police station. This gave me an upper hand in custody. She first ran away with my son and asked me to come get him at 1.4 years old. I tried begging her and she said no!!!

Today, my boy is your years old, my eyes saw shege! But now dude wakes me up to pray in the morning and at night.

Now am happy than ever, simply because am alone with my son and any nice maid that can cook a ton😂😂😂😂😂😂

I'm happy for you breh.

Hmmmm....which kind wahala be this? This is one of the disadvantages of not allowing people with different sexual orientations to openly express themselves. The woman would have simply not married a man if she's allowed to express her inclination towards women. Na wa o. I hope the man is able to find help and heal. It is well.

I hate hearing all these nonsense stories. This should not be the end of his life. He should go look for another apartment, and stop crying

NoSmoking:
Wait first!


Is this friend a male or female!?


🤕

I also want to ask because it's confusing ... It the wife now lesbian or what or it's a mistake from the op using her for he

seguno2:


Please how was the woman feeding the husband?
Did you read another post

Oya na, make him try enter the house. lol.

Amumaigwe:


If it was the other way round, your submission would have changed. That's what make you a woman, a gender filled with selfishness and manifestly incapable of balanced reasoning.

Oga, I said what I said. Let the man take a good hard look at himself. Maybe he has put on a potbelly and his prick has shrunk. Maybe he ain’t romantic anymore. Let him take a good hard look at himself and make the necessary changes. After all he is the captain of the ship. All derailment is his fault. If he was a lady I would have said he should dress sexy but maybe he can try that too. Make him do all necessary things to get back inside the house, make the winter cold no go kill am.

poseidon12:


On the throwing out part, I think you are wrong (for USA). Men are generally stronger physically. So if you get into argument with your wife and she decides to kick you out of the house, she will call the Police and claim that you were beating her. When Police arrives, they will try to confirm her allegations. If they believe her, the Police will arrest you and take you to jail. You will appear before a Judge, given bail and ordered not to get back to the house until the case is settled. You have to make alternative arrangement or move in with a friend or relative.

It is a temporary removal and the police can not stop the nan from returning to his house.

If a woman wants to remove a man because of domestic violence she has to request an emergency protective order from the police or a Magistrate’s Order and it usually last between 30 to 90 days

Wallade:


Oga, if the spouse ate in heated argument and police is called in, police will throw the man out for the night and give the wife the opportunity to file an occupation order,
or whatever against the husband. Especially considering that children are involved.

An occupational order is temporary and usually last for 1 year.

maasoap:

Even with established physical altercation? What about the popular ones that we have witnessed?



This one too is also not strange. In fact, if it is only one house you both owned, it is going to her. So, what do you think would happen in both cases?

It is a temporary removal and she needs permission from court to enforce it and it usually last from 1 to 3 months.

In the case of house ownership, the woman does not automatically get the house,it also depends on the law of that state, in most cases the equity in the house is split 50/50

DyshApp:
A Nigerian man has become homeless in the UK after he confronted his wife for sleeping with her female best friend on their matrimonial bed.

The tweep who shared the incident on X, revealed that the wife had been secretly planning for her friend to come join her in the UK.

Narrating the heart-wrenching incident, he wrote;

“A man and his wife were able to secure UK VISA for themselves and their 3 children. It was a dream come true for them as they had been working on it for a very long time. They got to UK in 2022. Everything was smooth and sweet. The wife was schooling. The husband was taking care of the children and also working to support the wife’s schooling. The wife secretly started preparing documents for her friend from Oshogbo . She eventually went over to UK to join them. The wife would spend almost all her time with the friend and do almost everything together The husband started questioning her but she claimed her friend was just in need of help to settle in. She started calling him inconsiderate . Subsequent unfolding of events made the man grow even more suspicious. He installed spy cameras in his bedroom and realized that his dear wife was sleeping with her friend on his matrimonial bed . He couldn’t believe his eyes. He accosted her and she finally openly admitted that she is in love with the friend and wanted to be with her. It lead to a physical altercation and the police threw the man out The man became homeless in UK as at 15th December, 2023.”

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This is good for the useless Man who Left Nigeria for UK. The problem of Nigeria today is UK.

Nothing from that self proclaimed doctor is true!