motymop:
Fake story.

One of the lies they always tell Nigerian men abroad is that your wife can just throw you out of the house.

Your wife can't throw you out of the house no unless she obtained an occupation order from the court

Another lie is that, if you are caught cheating, your wife can take half of your property.

Most of these lies is to make Nigerian men loyal abroad.

Oga, if the spouse are in heated argument and police is called in, police will throw the man out for the night and give the wife the opportunity to file an occupation order,
or whatever against the husband. Especially considering that children are involved.

DyshApp:
A Nigerian man has become homeless in the UK after he confronted his wife for sleeping with her female best friend on their matrimonial bed.

The tweep who shared the incident on X, revealed that the wife had been secretly planning for her friend to come join her in the UK.

Narrating the heart-wrenching incident, he wrote;

“A man and his wife were able to secure UK VISA for themselves and their 3 children. It was a dream come true for them as they had been working on it for a very long time. They got to UK in 2022. Everything was smooth and sweet. The wife was schooling. The husband was taking care of the children and also working to support the wife’s schooling. The wife secretly started preparing documents for her friend from Oshogbo . She eventually went over to UK to join them. The wife would spend almost all her time with the friend and do almost everything together The husband started questioning her but she claimed her friend was just in need of help to settle in. She started calling him inconsiderate . Subsequent unfolding of events made the man grow even more suspicious. He installed spy cameras in his bedroom and realized that his dear wife was sleeping with her friend on his matrimonial bed . He couldn’t believe his eyes. He accosted her and she finally openly admitted that she is in love with the friend and wanted to be with her. It lead to a physical altercation and the police threw the man out The man became homeless in UK as at 15th December, 2023.”

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I am 45 years old, trust me I look 33 years old because I am just alone with my son. Most of all my age mates look like scrap metal because marriage in reality terms offers no peace of mind like when you're alone.

Immediately I went broke I lost my peace, she attempted stabbing me in front of a 7 month old boy and I recorded it without her knowledge and ran to the police station. This gave me an upper hand in custody. She first ran away with my son and asked me to come get him at 1.4 years old. I tried begging her and she said no!!!

Today, my boy is four years old, my eyes saw shege! But now dude wakes me up to pray in the morning and at night.

Now am happy than ever, simply because am alone with my son and any nice maid that can cook a ton😂😂😂😂😂😂

Lalami3232:
Na wa ooooooo!!!
If you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall

Isreal DMX married a virgin and what was the outcomes...

humberjade:
Seems the said friend is female, abi shey my eyes dey pain me ni.


So she has been bis*xual all these while, but used the man to have kids. I guess this has been on even before their marriage, he was just a means to an end. His services are no longer needed.

Choi, women ehn!!!

Beware when your woman is asking you to travel together as a family. They often know things you don't.

Better to travel alone and be visiting.

pansophist:
A woman's love contains injustice and blindness to all that she does not love. Frederick Nietzsche.

The above-written is huge.

So deep; but very true.

In other words, it is all fueled by the emotion.

And he forgot UK is different from Nigeria where men bully women and walk away free.

Violence doesn't solve anything

Atheistan:
Be careful lads when entrusting your life on a woman.
I wouldn't agree to be a dependent on my wife's visa.

Absolutely sir.

Spot on.

Someone said he should have turned it into a three some. Continue deceiving yourselves. It is your homophobia that drove the man to homelessness. If not, the woman wouldn’t have made him go through the harrowing process of a heartbreak. She knew she had a better chance abroad to live her truth. Hence the reason she waited to relocate.

Watch her get married to this female partner and raise the man’s children together. We have seen stories like these unfold time and time again.

Our society has been plagued by unprecedented misogyny. The earlier we start to fix this, the better!

just2endowed:


I don't understand, what lesson are you referring to? Is there any lesson 5hat the man caught her with another woman in his matrimonial bed? Or what lesson can he derived from it? The mistake the man probably made was touching the woman or any of the ladies.

Pls enlighten me

He should have taken a good hard look at himself and asked himself where he went wrong that the wife was no longer attracted to him.

zedegit:


Beware when your woman is asking you to travel together as a family. They often know things you don't.

Better to travel alone and be visiting.

Not that they know more than you, but you feel they are well grounded and wouldn't betray you, but the thing is that, you can never really know a woman well enough until she has a societal edge over you.

eazzzy1:
Why did it lead to physical altercation? He wanted to beat the lesbian out of her? Women are supposed to be the emotional ones and men the tactful ones. He knew what would happen if he reacted the way he did but still did anyway. She probably is the one with the visa while he’s the attaché.

First, a man doing menial jobs to sponsor his wife studying is dumb to me, it almost always end up the same way. She becomes better than you and merely tolerates you or leave.

The man should have delayed his reaction till he was in a better place regarding his immigration status. When you look at it properly, cheating with a woman doesn’t seem that terrible, nothing a good talk and a rearrangement can’t fix. He just has to join in 🤷🏼.

It’s funny how these UK stories usually come from a third party. Never the ones directly involved.

If you ask me, I'd rather my wife sleeps with another woman, not another man.

garriAndsugar:
Something he should have turned to 3some and bang the hell outta both of them

I thought they said when life gives you lemons make lemonade out of it.

You people just assume rubbish,not all straight men are turned by girl on girl stuff,it irritates me to the bone, I'm pretty sure the man is that way

garriAndsugar:
Something he should have turned to 3some and bang the hell outta both of them

I thought they said when life gives you lemons make lemonade out of it.

Better still, lemon cake.

Mini Mushin with all the run downness of Nigeria to go with! So uncultured, so unprincipled, anything goes.
They fvck themselves and friends, neighbors and even the pastas are not left out!

Itzteewhy:
What is it with youkay people sef. Na only them

To be honest I don't see why Nigerias are japaing to that country sef.... Youkay is just another low budget Nigeria albeit a modern one.. See better country like Australia, Sweden, Denmark et al wey people supposed migrate to but na youkay everybody wan die for

Boldideas:
I am 45 years old, trust me I look 33 years old because I am just alone with my son. Most of all my age mates look like scrap because marriage in reality terms offers no peace of mind like when you're alone.

^^^



When someone used the phrase 'condemned iron' in a conversation with me a while ago, I thought they were referring to my broken, beat up automobile. Now I'm not so sure...

NoSmoking:
Wait first!


Is this friend a male or female!?


🤕

It's a girl,the wife is obviously bisexual and wanted a monogamous relationship with a woman

Kurumaru:
Somethin wey u go stylishly convert to 3some aiye.. u go dey do police and thieve...

Not all straight men are turned on by lesbian porn,it irritates me to the core

😂

eazzzy1:
Why did it lead to physical altercation? He wanted to beat the lesbian out of her? Women are supposed to be the emotional ones and men the tactful ones. He knew what would happen if he reacted the way he did but still did anyway. She probably is the one with the visa while he’s the attaché.

First, a man doing menial jobs to sponsor his wife studying is dumb to me, it almost always end up the same way. She becomes better than you and merely tolerates you or leave.

The man should have delayed his reaction till he was in a better place regarding his immigration status. When you look at it properly, cheating with a woman doesn’t seem that terrible, nothing a good talk and a rearrangement can’t fix. He just has to join in 🤷🏼.

It’s funny how these UK stories usually come from a third party. Never the ones directly involved.

How do you know it was the man that started the physical altercation? Where did you read from the post that the man was doing menial job? Cheating with a woman doesn't seem that terrible really? Are you being sarcastic or you are dumb?

Boldideas:


I am 45 years old, trust me I look 33 years old because I am just alone with my son. Most of all my age mates look like scrap because marriage in reality terms offers no peace of mind like when you're alone.

Immediately I went broke I lost my peace, she attempted stabbing and I recorded it without her knowledge and ran to the police station. This gave me an upper hand in custody. She first ran away with my son and asked me to come get him at 1.4 years old. I tried begging her and she said no!!!

Today, my boy is your years old, my eyes saw shege! But now dude wakes me up to pray in the morning and at night.

Now am happy than ever, simply because am alone with my son and any nice maid that can cook a ton😂😂😂😂😂😂

Some people don't know that there a reason why, in most families, you will find that wives live longer than their husbands. Women have a special talent in frustrating men, and this usually results in health deterioration, especially HBP.

The funny thing is, most of my friends, colleagues that are married are not happy. In fact, they're miserable. There's always one complain or the other about their wives. However, these same people never miss an opportunity to advice you to go and get married. Sometimes, it feels they want you to be as miserable as they are.

pansophist:
In other words she is a lesbian who deceived a man into marriage, use his resources, knowledge and support to enter the UK, then file for her real love to join her, while destroying everything she has built with her husband?

And later they will be complaining only men do it

When you re-asses these White people, you get to see that they are just as smart as they are stupid. What kind of society operates a one-sided law? Where an altercation between couples will always end up in favour of the women, while the men lose it all.
Isn't that insane? Lots of lopsidedness in the western laws shows that they can be very stupid and unintelligible.

Tunde835:
All men should have been aware about the notorious laws supporting women in the UK against them to be able to avoid this kind of situation.

Aware? Isn't it the same law they enjoy in Nigeria? Why is it such a bad thing?

Fake story.

Edusouls:
Westerners have been dammed long ago, they are totally lost in the world, their redemption is almost impossible, these people have decayed beyond a corpse buried without coffin for 4months, all those japa minded Nigerians una never see something, the hidden horrors of the western world is an uncharted territory for una foreigners una never see something, soon japa reverse back to Nigeria go happen

Like say Naija better,lol....dude every region have their faults,in Nigeria,the patriachy,in the west it's the women......you only don't complain in Nigeria because you are a man who benefits from patriarchy as it's a system meant to favor you, there's no equality anywhere

BadMaster:

Some people don't know that there a reason why, in most families, you will find that wives live longer than their husbands. Women have a special talent in frustrating men, and this usually results in health deterioration, especially HBP.

The funny thing is, most of my friends, colleagues that are married are not happy. In fact, they're miserable. There's always one complain or the other about their wives. However, these same people never miss an opportunity to advice you to go and get married. Sometimes, it feels they want you to be as miserable as they are.

Why wouldn't women live longer than men when 40 year old men want to marry 20 year old girls and pretend to be ignorant of nature?

garriAndsugar:
Something he should have turned to 3some and bang the hell outta both of them

I thought they said when life gives you lemons make lemonade out of it.

The man is a useless vagabond. Look at the opportunity that Satan just gave him without stress. He would have been fuccking the two female dogs simultaneously for life.

We the Yoruba and Igbo Demons Association (YIDA) are disappointed in the idiot.

eazzzy1:
Why did it lead to physical altercation? He wanted to beat the lesbian out of her? Women are supposed to be the emotional ones and men the tactful ones. He knew what would happen if he reacted the way he did but still did anyway. She probably is the one with the visa while he’s the attaché.

First, a man doing menial jobs to sponsor his wife studying is dumb to me, it almost always end up the same way. She becomes better than you and merely tolerates you or leave.

The man should have delayed his reaction till he was in a better place regarding his immigration status. When you look at it properly, cheating with a woman doesn’t seem that terrible, nothing a good talk and a rearrangement can’t fix. He just has to join in 🤷🏼.

It’s funny how these UK stories usually come from a third party. Never the ones directly involved.

The really allowed emotions to control him.... why not start fuccking the who.re?

BadMaster:

Some people don't know that there a reason why, in most families, you will find that wives live longer than their husbands. Women have a special talent in frustrating men, and this usually results in health deterioration, especially HBP.

The funny thing is, most of my friends, colleagues that are married are not happy. In fact, they're miserable. There's always one complain or the other about their wives. However, these same people never miss an opportunity to advice you to go and get married. Sometimes, it feels they want you to be as miserable as they are.

You are very accurate sir.

But the matter is deeper than that. It is spiritual. When Eve ate the serpent's fruit, she became subject to the force of deception and Rebelion. That wiring became a symbol of her offspring.

It is very spiritual. I know "educated / exposed" dudes here will start fighting me, but life is very spiritual. You will have to connect extremely well to God as man, to have a fulfilling marriage journey.

I'm happy she threw the fool out into the cold, kicked him to the curb... hahahaha 🤣

Basicend:


You are very accurate sir.

But the matter is deeper than that. It is spiritual. When Eve ate the serpent's fruit, she became subject to the force of deception and Rebelion. That wiring became a symbol of her offspring.

It is very spiritual. I know "educated / exposed" dudes here will start fighting me, but life is very spiritual. You will have to connect extremely well to God as man, to have a fulfilling marriage journey.

Like Pastor Oyakhilome, right?

motymop:
Fake story.

One of the lies they always tell Nigerian men abroad is that your wife can just throw you out of the house.

Your wife can't throw you out of the house no unless she obtained an occupation order from the court

Another lie is that, if you are caught cheating, your wife can take half of your property.

Most of these lies is to make Nigerian men loyal abroad.

Dey play.. Don't you know that the woman is a LGBTQ member(first class citizen)

matify83:
Being homeless in that "London cold" would not be funny at all.

I hope they wont expect the man to still be commited to the family's upkeep after the humiliation.

To the wife and her friend: KARMA never forgives such acts

@bolded - there's nothing like karma...abegi.