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nice decision but even if she is not earning high, as long as she get prospects... she is a green light.

Invite us for your wedding o

Havesomesense:
I dated a girl for years, I was spending my money on her most times, I had to break up with her this December because I need to invest more in my future.
Moving forward I’m only going to Date women earning high income, if she’s not making enough money, I’m not going to Date her.

Moniya4Real:
Look! I was once in your shoes but I now regret every bit of it . The girl I last dated knew nothing but money. Funny thing is she was working as well but I used the proceeds from her own business for AJO. I got glued cos of the mind/blowing sex she was providing me then. So sad she had to leave me cos the amount I was struggling to giver her(60% of virtually every kobo I earned). didn’t seem enough to keep her cos her previous guy is a yahoo boy.
My advice bro, is: don’t do more than yourself. A girl that truly likes you will be appreciative of the little you provide and offered her . Don’t be surprised, such girls usually have another guy(s) that supply her material needs.

@OP, Run she no love You. I was once in your Shoe. The love rekindles or starts when you chest the billing, it's like a Subscription. Once it's finishing, she starts giving you cold shoulders. Then she bills you, it starts all over again.

True, You see those Yahoo boys Ex, leave them.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

I was earning like 300 - 400K weekly, If betting pays me again, her weekly Allowance increases, so I can't say. Sometimes 30k, 40k, 50k being the highest 1time. Excluding, Baby i want
sharwama ChickenChips, Hollandia, Suya etc. Cinema trips, Date nights, Outing etc

Bro its not gonna be Easy, Run
Count Your losses. Before it's too late, She doesn't love you

If from a poor Background, double your speed in running. You aren't the only one.

Use her pants with her period go baba lawo and do the needful

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Break up.I jst did same wit mine over having alot of money n still demanding salary every month frm me.Invest in ur future n forget any woman that wants to keep taking u back

peter0071:
nice decision but even if she is not earning high, as long as she get prospects... she is a green light.

Invite us for your wedding o

Son of dem earn high income bt are not financially intelligent. They want to buy everything they desire without planning n budgeting. leave such ladies...they will drag u down. Invest in ur future.

Wainey:
Is she the one that got you that job?
Does she cook for you?
Does she sex you?
Does she wash your clothes and clean your house?
Is she welcoming to your family?
Does she talk about a future with you?
Is she 100% faithful to you?
Is she carrying your child in her womb?

If she meets all these, then she deserved the 100k monthly.

Sh3 still doesnt deserve it...its too mch for someone that earns only 400k

Wainey:
I never cared about who liked my comment, I didn't even notice anyone liked the comment. you are irrelevant.

So if you think liking or unliking my comment is a big deal, then u are just as stupid as the OP.

Don't even worry about mentioning me, cos I never cared about that even

Bro for real...u a simp.bt d gud news is u can metamorphose into something beta...jst stop being a damn SIMP

bdon123:
Sh3 still doesnt deserve it...its too mch for someone that earns only 400k

you are looking at it from the fact she is a woman.
In this Country where job opportunity is chocked, if someone gives me a job of 400k, I wouldn't mind giving that person 100k.

Wainey:
you are looking at it from the fact she is a woman.
In this Country where job opportunity is chocked, if someone gives me a job of 400k, I wouldn't mind giving that person 100k.

He never said she gave him d job...he said he maintains her wit 100k everymonth

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

how much do you give your mum or sisters monthly? What does your gf do for you that makes you pay her monthly?

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

You are considering keh? Or you should have broken up already

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

bro dont woooory i will help u...gimmmme her nomba sir?(no oofencese)

Run ooo you dey feed somebody else entire family

Young man, do u have a car? If yes, how much petrol do u buy monthly? Do the maths, also take out the 109k u give her monthly, and let's know how much you're left with at the end of every month. I am just trying to help u with sense nio.. cos I know your 400k woulda been taking u out f poverty, and gradually stepping u into a big boy kini, but with this Tinubu Nigeria, hmmmmmm.... If you're still not getting the point , lemme ask u, u dey mad? Why u go dey pay her 100k monthly when she can also work and earn for herself? People of the world, make we tell am? U never see wife ooooo... Na leech dey your hand so.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

bdon123:
He never said she gave him d job...he said he maintains her wit 100k everymonth

if u had read my first comment before calling me simp, I said if she was the one that gave u the job, then there is no issue in giving her 100k.

Next time try and read someone's commentn, no be to deh jump deh call someone simp

It’s her entitlement mentality for me🙄

You're a slowpoke

If her pekus dey sweet you it worth it cos u can't bleep your mum, If otherwise dumb her sorry ass

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

..
Stop lying.
Where is 400k work

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Doesn't she have a father?😤😤😤😤 or you're dating those ones forming bae but uses firewood and fireworks to cook at their backyard😀😁😂😁😀

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Continue to lie?

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

You are being played sir, respect yourself and leave this union.

Bye.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

You earn 400k and give 100k to a woman, which is 25% of your income. You have bills, family and personal expenses but you chose to be so 'generous' to a lazy girl who doesn't know the value of money...

Well, my advice for you is to increase the amount you give her to 200k.

Good luck! 🙂

I pity your parents.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

I am afraid you don't have a girlfriend, you only have a liability that would soon drain you.

Be wise as you step into the new year.

Stop being careless with your funds.

Breakup with her asap. Be wise bro.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

If she is a smart lady, she would use your 100k and turn it into 150 or 200.

Or she views you as her atm. Don't pet any woman o. If she forkup, clear her her Bleep up. If she can't cope she will leave or change.
That's how young ladies of nowadays learn. If you do that way she will begin to get wise and want to make you see her as useful so she will like to explore what she has .

I once had a lady like that, she saw me as someone who gives her food because I use to be generous and at work, I can buy food for people. This lady very beautiful will stylishly come to my place during break. And when I got to know is when I was told she bleeps almost every one at workplace. She is an usher in church and one Sunday I saw her at one of my guys place on a Sunday. And the guy doesn't have time for love, he is someone I know what he can do.

So since then I stopped. Depend on how you present yourself to a woman, that's how she will see you. But inside the life there are some well cultured women too. They won't ask you but you will see the need to give them and they will show you how industrious they are by turning what you gave them into another thing admirable.


Everyone has that indept gift they were given.

Ynix:
Just give her all your salary, reach out to your mom, dad and siblings to also add theirs. Then tell her that you don't mind that she double or triple date to meet her financial demands.

70 years old man your mumu never do you, take it to another level in 2024

Collect like 10 million naira loan and give to her

70 Year old man

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Are you her father.........

Keep on handling her all your money...... When she dumps you, your eyes go clear .......

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Spending 25% of your income on a boy or girl you're not married to is senseless!

Don't get entangled with an arungun/akotileta.

With This I'm sure you would not have any investments. This is a time for you to save and invest as much as possible.

When the chips are down... Every man for himself.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Why did you let her know how much you earn? Therein lies your first problem

Dear poster. A woman who really likes you will never demand or ask you for money anyhow because her feelings are genuine. I can bet that if you stop giving your her money she will leave you. just respect yourself and be with someone who really wants you that way you will enjoy the relationship. Women are not so hard to understand. Save your money and put it into something more meaningful that will yield profit.