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Tranquility2345:
And na guys wey you dey even try pass with women you dey ask for advice? You are a real Jew man walahi

Pukkalolo:
Apologies bro. I thought I've responded to this already.

I just noticed Rizzputin, adambeatz and SPAMBOX7 great inputs on the matter.

So, let me just add mine.

Let's begin.

You are already smashing her, so you are way ahead of the other guys who are yet to even get a hug from her.

She wants you to commit to her, but you're not doing that, so she wants to end whatever sexual relationship going on between you and her.

So if you want her to keep giving you the pussy, you should commit to her. That's the simple answer.

But if you don't sincerely want to commit her, then don't. Otherwise, that's deception and manipulation. I don't encourage manipulation, deception and games. Don't commit to a woman because of you want to be getting sex. That's weak. Commit to her because she adds value to your life.

Never make marriage promises to a woman because you want to keep sleeping with her. If you have no intention of committing to her or maybe marrying her, then for goodness sake, leave her alone and move on. It's wrong to mislead someone into something you have no true interest in. It's totally wrong and evil. Remember, Karma is real.

The above statement might not sit well with some guys here, but remember you have sisters and you'll have daughters too. I'm not tryna act like a saint here, but at least do on to others girls what you like other men to do on to your sisters and daughters.

Ok, let's begin properly.

So kobams, here's the thing...

She's trying to protect herself and her heart. That's what every girl does.
She said she wants to stop giving you the pussy because it feels "safer" for her.

Take notes of the word, "Safe"

Making a woman feel safe is the blueprint to getting her.

The nice guy doesn't make the woman feel safe because she assumes he have a hidden agenda or expectations of getting sex as reward.

The way I show my women love is totally genuine and even "tough"... I'm not expecting anything in return. I don't need sex from them.

Last week I was talking to one of my girls on phone, along the line, she told me she's feeling headache. I was like, "Ok." Then I immediately hang-up the phone.

30 minutes later, I appeared at her place with drugs in my hand for her headache. She was surprised. She was like "are you for real?" I looked into her eyes said, "I can't fuckin just sit around and watch you have headache."

That melted her heart.

That's the way I treat all ladies I've already slept with. I show them I genuinely care. This way they feel safe with me. Many times, the women I'm already getting sexual with are the ones always disturbing me for the sex again and again. Infact, I'm the one always pushing the sex away.

That's because I make them feel safe about getting sexual with me. I make them feel safe by showing genuine interest in them.

Sounds "basic"??

But that's how most legit Playboy actually show love to women... If you've hangout with Real Pimps, you'd understand what I'm talking about. This is why women easily fall in love with them.

Yes, you've already bleeped her. But you still need to make her feel safe about continuing fucking you.

Pukkalolo:
...But I'm a rebel. I don't rebel against society, because the society is not the problem. I don't rebel against women because women aren't the problem.

I rebel against that inner-loser in me that wants to keep me broke, useless and lonely. That inner-loser loser doesn't want me to get the best out of life. The inner-loser wants me to settle for less, and masturbate to porn.

Anytime an opportunity presents itself, the inner-loser in us always hinder us from taking action by coming up with excuses... The inner loser prefers the comfort and instant gratification.

My number one rule is, "No Hesitation"

My No Hesitation rule apply in all areas of my life: career, business, women...

..The moment you hesitate is the moment you give your inner-loser the POWER to hinder you, and that is the moment you lose. This is way we lose opportunities upon opportunities on a daily basis. And we hope that one day, some day something might magically change.

But the only thing that needs to change is our tolerance for that inner-loser in us. We need to rebel against our inner-loser, by facing our fears and taking action.

I get that powerful rush of dopamine anytime I rebel against my inner-loser and CONFIDENTLY face my fears..

Pukkalolo:
Yes bro, hesitate to make a move to a girl and life in general.

Hesitation leads to masturbation OR better put, he who hesitate masturbate.

I always put that statement at the back of my mind every moment when opportunity arises for me to take action.

By the way, when I say hesitation leads to masturbation, I'm mainly talking about mental masturbation.

Mental Masturbation is when you engage in useless internal dialogue and stimulating conversation with yourself, usually as an excuse to avoid taking an action.

We think the world is the enemy. We think women are the enemy. But in reality, we have an enemy inside us. The inner-loser in us is the real enemy that want us to stay lonely, broke and useless.

But I'm a rebel. I don't rebel against society, because the society is not the problem. I don't rebel against women because women aren't the problem.

I rebel against that inner-loser in me that wants to keep me broke, useless and lonely. That inner-loser loser doesn't want me to get the best out of life. The inner-loser wants me to settle for less, and masturbate to porn.

Anytime an opportunity presents itself, the inner-loser in us always hinder us from taking action by coming up with excuses... The inner loser prefers the comfort and instant gratification.

My number one rule is, "No Hesitation"

My No Hesitation rule apply in all areas of my life: career, business, women...


Using interaction with women for example.

My NO hesitation rules says when I'm in proximity with a girl I like, I should immediately initiate conversation with her, because if I don't the inner-loser in me will start overanalyzing the situation and giving me excuses and then I end up taking no action.


The moment you hesitate is the moment you give your inner-loser the POWER to hinder you, and that is the moment you lose. This is way we lose opportunities upon opportunities on a daily basis. And we hope that one day, some day something might magically change.

But the only thing that needs to change is our tolerance for that inner-loser in us. We need to rebel against our inner-loser, by facing our fears and taking action.

I get that powerful rush of dopamine anytime I rebel against my inner-loser and CONFIDENTLY face my fears.

At the core, this is the different between me and the nice guy.

When the nice guys see a girl he like, he admire her, gush over her and fantasize about dating her, but he never takes action. And then before she's out of his sight, he'd looks more intensely at her sexy ass, so he could properly store the image in his brain; this will come in handy when he wants to jerk off later that night.

But when I'm in proximity with a girl I find attractive, I immediately initiate conversation with her. I don't try to rehearse the perfect line or polish myself to look cool in her eyes. I simply just act and allow the outcome take care of itself.

My No hesitation rules actually made me more "street smart" because it teaches me to accurately read people's body language and social environs from the get-go and respond to it accordingly...

I leave no room for hesitation because the moment I hesitate is the moment my inner loser begins to come out and then I start to doubt myself.

Mazifx:
Negodu what a full grown man is doing,this life eee,lack of self worth is the worst thing that can happen to a man.It will make you put yourself in very demeaning situations and positions

PinkNature:
You've just taught me something I'll need to work on.

Is there any aspect where you did not apply the 'No Hesitation' rule? Give us a lesson/story.

King!

PinkNature:
Hello kings, I need advice from men who are business inclined or men who have an idea, first hand experience or anything kind of input will be beneficial.

In school, my friend started a POS shop, where he also sells other accessories like chargers, headphones, earpiece and he also charges phones in his shop. He's a student just like me but a level higher. He employed someone who works for him in the shop, but always supersede everything that goes on in the shop.

Before this holidays, my friend had a man to man conversation with me, that he wanted me start up something for myself because he wants me to grow as he's also growing. (Because I'm always broke in school and I sometimes borrow money from him to survive) He suggested that I should use the platform already existing (Front of his shop and also the advantage of the customers that he already has) to start up my own business.

He suggested SIM card registration and told me to make research about the business, make some savings and he is also willing to give out a little loan to support me. Right now, I do not have the capital to start and I'm also a bit skeptical on how rewarding SIM card registration will be or any rewarding business I can start with budget of 50k. (Registering Opay ATM's and sales of Female shoes is out of it because he wishes to start up the formal for himself and latter for his woman)

I need advice please.

Pukkalolo:
Apologies bro. I thought I've responded to this already.

I just noticed Rizzputin, adambeatz and SPAMBOX7 great inputs on the matter.

So, let me just add mine.

Let's begin.

You are already smashing her, so you are way ahead of the other guys who are yet to even get a hug from her.

She wants you to commit to her, but you're not doing that, so she wants to end whatever sexual relationship going on between you and her.

So if you want her to keep giving you the pussy, you should commit to her. That's the simple answer.

But if you don't sincerely want to commit her, then don't. Otherwise, that's deception and manipulation. I don't encourage manipulation, deception and games. Don't commit to a woman because of you want to be getting sex. That's weak. Commit to her because she adds value to your life.

Never make marriage promises to a woman because you want to keep sleeping with her. If you have no intention of committing to her or maybe marrying her, then for goodness sake, leave her alone and move on. It's wrong to mislead someone into something you have no true interest in. It's totally wrong and evil. Remember, Karma is real.

The above statement might not sit well with some guys here, but remember you have sisters and you'll have daughters too. I'm not tryna act like a saint here, but at least do on to others girls what you like other men to do on to your sisters and daughters.

Ok, let's begin properly.

So kobams, here's the thing...

She's trying to protect herself and her heart. That's what every girl does.
She said she wants to stop giving you the pussy because it feels "safer" for her.

Take notes of the word, "Safe"

Making a woman feel safe is the blueprint to getting her.

The nice guy doesn't make the woman feel safe because she assumes he have a hidden agenda or expectations of getting sex as reward.

The way I show my women love is totally genuine and even "tough"... I'm not expecting anything in return. I don't need sex from them.

Last week I was talking to one of my girls on phone, along the line, she told me she's feeling headache. I was like, "Ok." Then I immediately hang-up the phone.

30 minutes later, I appeared at her place with drugs in my hand for her headache. She was surprised. She was like "are you for real?" I looked into her eyes said, "I can't fuckin just sit around and watch you have headache."

That melted her heart.

That's the way I treat all ladies I've already slept with. I show them I genuinely care. This way they feel safe with me. Many times, the women I'm already getting sexual with are the ones always disturbing me for the sex again and again. Infact, I'm the one always pushing the sex away.

That's because I make them feel safe about getting sexual with me. I make them feel safe by showing genuine interest in them.

Sounds "basic"??

But that's how most legit Playboy actually show love to women... If you've hangout with Real Pimps, you'd understand what I'm talking about. This is why women easily fall in love with them.

Yes, you've already bleeped her. But you still need to make her feel safe about continuing fucking you.

Karlifate:


The Redpill haters & trolls right now:

Pukkalolo:
Apologies bro. I thought I've responded to this already.

I just noticed Rizzputin, adambeatz and SPAMBOX7 great inputs on the matter.

So, let me just add mine.

Let's begin.

You are already smashing her, so you are way ahead of the other guys who are yet to even get a hug from her.

She wants you to commit to her, but you're not doing that, so she wants to end whatever sexual relationship going on between you and her.

So if you want her to keep giving you the pussy, you should commit to her. That's the simple answer.

But if you don't sincerely want to commit her, then don't. Otherwise, that's deception and manipulation. I don't encourage manipulation, deception and games. Don't commit to a woman because of you want to be getting sex. That's weak. Commit to her because she adds value to your life.

Never make marriage promises to a woman because you want to keep sleeping with her. If you have no intention of committing to her or maybe marrying her, then for goodness sake, leave her alone and move on. It's wrong to mislead someone into something you have no true interest in. It's totally wrong and evil. Remember, Karma is real.

The above statement might not sit well with some guys here, but remember you have sisters and you'll have daughters too. I'm not tryna act like a saint here, but at least do on to others girls what you like other men to do on to your sisters and daughters.

Ok, let's begin properly.

So kobams, here's the thing...

She's trying to protect herself and her heart. That's what every girl does.
She said she wants to stop giving you the pussy because it feels "safer" for her.

Take notes of the word, "Safe"

Making a woman feel safe is the blueprint to getting her.

The nice guy doesn't make the woman feel safe because she assumes he have a hidden agenda or expectations of getting sex as reward.

The way I show my women love is totally genuine and even "tough"... I'm not expecting anything in return. I don't need sex from them.

Last week I was talking to one of my girls on phone, along the line, she told me she's feeling headache. I was like, "Ok." Then I immediately hang-up the phone.

30 minutes later, I appeared at her place with drugs in my hand for her headache. She was surprised. She was like "are you for real?" I looked into her eyes said, "I can't fuckin just sit around and watch you have headache."

That melted her heart.

That's the way I treat all ladies I've already slept with. I show them I genuinely care. This way they feel safe with me. Many times, the women I'm already getting sexual with are the ones always disturbing me for the sex again and again. Infact, I'm the one always pushing the sex away.

That's because I make them feel safe about getting sexual with me. I make them feel safe by showing genuine interest in them.

Sounds "basic"??

But that's how most legit Playboy actually show love to women... If you've hangout with Real Pimps, you'd understand what I'm talking about. This is why women easily fall in love with them.

Yes, you've already bleeped her. But you still need to make her feel safe about continuing fucking you.

Ishilove:
Maturity. There's a vast difference between what you've written and the ideals held by Martinez and other ignorant disciples of ubunja (that one called our sisters and mothers Pússy Cartel).

Ishilove:
Maturity. There's a vast difference between what you've written and the ideals held by Martinez and other ignorant disciples of ubunja (that one called our sisters and mothers Pússy Cartel).

CovenHighPriest:
Lol Ubunja really left a mark didn't he?

Iamblessed85:
I hope you were not annoyed by what Ubunja said? Not every man holds such toxic ideals although you would agree with me that the times warrant some sorta body armor to protecr the heart

Ishilove:
I'm not annoyed, just disgusted. Ubunja is a very despicable individual.

You can guard your heart without denigrating the value of the other gender. I am sorrounded by men who love and take care of me and it will be quite abominable of me to give the generality of the menfolk a bad name because of the actions and misdeeds of a few

Pukkalolo:
Apologies bro. I thought I've responded to this already.

I just noticed Rizzputin, adambeatz and SPAMBOX7 great inputs on the matter.

So, let me just add mine.

Let's begin.

You are already smashing her, so you are way ahead of the other guys who are yet to even get a hug from her.

She wants you to commit to her, but you're not doing that, so she wants to end whatever sexual relationship going on between you and her.

So if you want her to keep giving you the pussy, you should commit to her. That's the simple answer.

But if you don't sincerely want to commit her, then don't. Otherwise, that's deception and manipulation. I don't encourage manipulation, deception and games. Don't commit to a woman because of you want to be getting sex. That's weak. Commit to her because she adds value to your life.

Never make marriage promises to a woman because you want to keep sleeping with her. If you have no intention of committing to her or maybe marrying her, then for goodness sake, leave her alone and move on. It's wrong to mislead someone into something you have no true interest in. It's totally wrong and evil. Remember, Karma is real.

The above statement might not sit well with some guys here, but remember you have sisters and you'll have daughters too. I'm not tryna act like a saint here, but at least do on to others girls what you like other men to do on to your sisters and daughters.

Ok, let's begin properly.

So kobams, here's the thing...

She's trying to protect herself and her heart. That's what every girl does.
She said she wants to stop giving you the pussy because it feels "safer" for her.

Take notes of the word, "Safe"

Making a woman feel safe is the blueprint to getting her.

The nice guy doesn't make the woman feel safe because she assumes he have a hidden agenda or expectations of getting sex as reward.

The way I show my women love is totally genuine and even "tough"... I'm not expecting anything in return. I don't need sex from them.

Last week I was talking to one of my girls on phone, along the line, she told me she's feeling headache. I was like, "Ok." Then I immediately hang-up the phone.

30 minutes later, I appeared at her place with drugs in my hand for her headache. She was surprised. She was like "are you for real?" I looked into her eyes said, "I can't fuckin just sit around and watch you have headache."

That melted her heart.

That's the way I treat all ladies I've already slept with. I show them I genuinely care. This way they feel safe with me. Many times, the women I'm already getting sexual with are the ones always disturbing me for the sex again and again. Infact, I'm the one always pushing the sex away.

That's because I make them feel safe about getting sexual with me. I make them feel safe by showing genuine interest in them.

Sounds "basic"??

But that's how most legit Playboy actually show love to women... If you've hangout with Real Pimps, you'd understand what I'm talking about. This is why women easily fall in love with them.

Yes, you've already bleeped her. But you still need to make her feel safe about continuing fucking you.

LifeofDream:
I notice I'm always attracting girls but end up not making a move...

Been a follower of this thread for long but I still don't grab how I can take the rope to the finishing line..

This girls will steal glance tire but I no dey make move, some will even knowingly march my legs and start conversing with me but I always give this "others will come vibes"...

I think rizzputin talk about the process of taking everything from respect to romance.. One thing is common among this girls, they usually give me that respect and always try to show me they'll be loyal...

Pls how do I take it from respect to romance...

@Rizzputin Pukkalolo Ubunja IAmHim1 adambeatz ayoll and other bosses, pls your guide is needed

Pukkalolo:
Here's why you end up not making a move and moving the interaction forward:

You're scared of fucking up the interaction and you are trying to ensure smoothness of the interaction...

Please read open mindedly because I'm about to show why many guys aren't making progress with women or even life in general...

Let's begin...

You said, "This girls will steal glance tire but I no dey make move, some will even knowingly march my legs and start conversing with me but I always give this 'others will come vibes'...."


No bro, you are not giving the "others will come vibes"...., you are actually giving the "I'm scared of fucking up the interaction vibe."


When you see that an interaction might work out, i.e the girl respect you or is attracted to you and showing you sign of loyalty, you become uncomfortable because you are scared of fucking things up at some point DOWN the road, and spoil the respect she has for you.

So, you avoid moving the interaction forward, because you are scared of fucking up the interaction.... That's to say, you undermines your progress and prevents yourself from actually getting her.

You basically hinder your success, but in order for you to feel good about it, you deceive yourself with the saying: "others will come."


Most people don’t realize that, this is why they don't succeed with women or life in general.

They procrastinate and put off things, because they are scared of losing their "rep"; they are scared of making mistakes, failing, or fucking up things...

As a result they hamper their own success, and so they settle...they settle for less...they settle for porn.... Because at least with porn, there's no risk of fucking things up. There's no rejection because there's no real woman involved: it's just you, your lotion, your hand and your dick.

I'll tell you one of the BIG reason for my success with women... It's NOT because I've got game, neither is it because I know any redpill, alpha or seduction techniques...

Here's the BIG obvious reason:

I'm willing to Bleep things up with women.

All this game crap or smooth alpha bullshit is a false facade that prevent you from actually being ALPHA.

Because, paradoxically, showing BALLS and willingness to make mistakes, fail, or Bleep things up is the most ALPHA shit ever....

Every guy wants to date the best chics and have amazing sex—but not every guy is willing to go through the messy conversations, the tension, the rough, awkward and irregularities of male-female interaction....

And your ability to go through with that stems from your willingness to Bleep up.

But because you are not willing to Bleep up, you tell yourself, "others will come."

So you asked and wonder "how do I take it from respect to romance..."

Romance is NOT equal to smooth interaction

Romance is equal to emotional turbulence, irregularity, tension and drama....and fucking things up and risk losing her.

Trying to ensure smoothness of the interaction hinder your chance of romance with her.

To be frank, I only go for the beautiful ones, but in order to attract those caliber of chics I understand that I must be willing to embrace the emotional turbulence, irregularity, tension and drama that comes with trying to date beautiful women.

Therefore, your romantic success isn't determined by your ability to create smooth interaction with women, but by your ability to create tension, emotional jolt and drama in the interaction. Which means, you must be willing to create drama, build up tension and blow sh*t up.

The movie industry make use of these concept very well: they dial up the uncertainty, suspense and anticipation to an intense level and get you extremely focused on the screen, wondering what might possibly happen next.



Romantic success or success in life in general is messy, dramatic and filled with tension and uncertainties.

The guys who have the BALLS and BACKBONE to handle these tension, drama and uncertainties are the successes.

CaveAdullam:
There's a higher rate of rejection when you cold approach women on motion.

To minimize the rejection rate, approach women in stationery positions more.

Examples:

That girl buying groceries.
That girl waiting for a bus.
That girl sitting with her phone.

Friends were strangers once upon a time.

On motion, you can compliment, suggest and then, escalate.

Move.

luminouz:
Pukkalolo... Kindly ignore that asslicker crying for your attention. Don't let IT derail the thread.

Who but a dîngbat would ask someone to provide evidence of his success with women so he can send Xmas money? Dem tell you say we be smellos for here?

Mumu

luminouz:
Pukkalolo... Kindly ignore that asslicker crying for your attention. Don't let IT derail the thread.

Who but a dîngbat would ask someone to provide evidence of his success with women so he can send Xmas money? Dem tell you say we be smellos for here?

Mumu