Please help me, I met her two years back and honestly, I love her. I couldn't marry her all this while because of the economic prob in the country. She just secured a local government job but I have not secured a job yet. Though she has a jealousy issue, which I am managing. Recently I met a lady just 20 years. Though we are not dating yet but I am sure we feel something strong for each other. My main gf has been quarreling with me for a while now thinking I am dating the other lady. Now,, I am thinking of marrying her and start life while the economic struggle continues but someone told me that she will have issue with getting pregnant and child bearing due to her age. I am confused because I honestly need atleast a child. I know anything can happen in life but I wish to have children. Delay in this may cause problem in our home if I marry her. Please I beg you my people what is the probability of conceiving at 37 Help a bro to make a life time decision.

lonikit:
Please help me, I met her two years back and honestly, I love her. I couldn't marry her all this while because of the economic prob in the country. She just secured a local government job but I have not secured a job yet. Though she has a jealousy issue, which I am managing. Recently I met a lady just 20 years. Though we are not dating yet but I am sure we feel something strong for each other. My main gf has been quarreling with me for a while now thinking I am dating the other lady. Now,, I am thinking of marrying her and start life while the economic struggle continues but someone told me that she will have issue with getting pregnant and child bearing due to her age. I am confused because I honestly need atleast a child. I know anything can happen in life but I wish to have children. Delay in this may cause problem in our home if I marry her. Please I beg you my people what is the probability of conceiving at 37 Help a bro to make a life time decision.

which kind thinking be That?

She is Good To Go

lonikit:
Please help me, I met her two years back and honestly, I love her. I couldn't marry her all this while because of the economic prob in the country. She just secured a local government job but I have not secured a job yet. Though she has a jealousy issue, which I am managing. Recently I met a lady just 20 years. Though we are not dating yet but I am sure we feel something strong for each other. My main gf has been quarreling with me for a while now thinking I am dating the other lady. Now,, I am thinking of marrying her and start life while the economic struggle continues but someone told me that she will have issue with getting pregnant and child bearing due to her age. I am confused because I honestly need atleast a child. I know anything can happen in life but I wish to have children. Delay in this may cause problem in our home if I marry her. Please I beg you my people what is the probability of conceiving at 37 Help a bro to make a life time decision.

That's a blatant lie, brother.A 37 year old lady can still give birth to a healthy baby , not of talk of one in her early forties.
Don't mind all these wise dullards who don't know anything.
38 and 39 year olds still birth healthy babies.

Your friend wants to date her , hence his flawed advice to you

Yes even at 45

Of course it's possible for a 37-uear old tongue birth.

But are you INSANE?

What do you want with an aging, nagging, jealous woman WAAAY past her prime when you have a young and fresh 20-year old on lock?

Firstly, the 37-year old now has money while you're still jobless. How long do you think she's going to put up with that before she starts abusing you and your generation?

You met her at 35. Do you know how many exes she's had? How many abortions? Any possible complications with the abortion(s)? Do you know?

ALSO, are you ready for her to CONTROL you? She will determine who you can and cannot be friends with? Are you cool with that?

She's already 37. Next year, she'll be 38. If you marry her at 38 and she gets pregnant same year, your baby could come when she's 39 if you're lucky.

Now you must understand that as a woman ages, the risks involved in pregnancy is greater for both the mother and child.

Is that a risk you're willing to take?

Dump the jaded 37-year old and hold on to the 20-year old lady FOR NOW.

ALSO, are you INSANE?

Who thinks of marriage and starting a family without a job in the current economy?

Baby things are SUPER expensive right now.

REMOVE marriage from your mind and focus on getting a job or skill in the new year.

lonikit:
Please help me, I met her two years back and honestly, I love her. I couldn't marry her all this while because of the economic prob in the country. She just secured a local government job but I have not secured a job yet. Though she has a jealousy issue, which I am managing. Recently I met a lady just 20 years. Though we are not dating yet but I am sure we feel something strong for each other. My main gf has been quarreling with me for a while now thinking I am dating the other lady. Now,, I am thinking of marrying her and start life while the economic struggle continues but someone told me that she will have issue with getting pregnant and child bearing due to her age. I am confused because I honestly need atleast a child. I know anything can happen in life but I wish to have children. Delay in this may cause problem in our home if I marry her. Please I beg you my people what is the probability of conceiving at 37 Help a bro to make a life time decision.

YES

Namaster:
Of course it's possible for a 37-uear old tongue birth.

But are you INSANE?

What do you want with an aging, nagging, jealous woman WAAAY past her prime when you have a young and fresh 20-year old on lock?

Firstly, the 37-year old now has money while you're still jobless. How long do you think she's going to put up with that before she starts abusing you and your generation?

You met her at 35. Do you know how many exes she's had? How many abortions? Any possible complications with the abortion(s)? Do you know?

ALSO, are you ready for her to CONTROL you? She will determine who you can and cannot be friends with? Are you cool with that?

She's already 37. Next year, she'll be 38. If you marry her at 38 and she gets pregnant same year, your baby could come when she's 39 if you're lucky.

Now you must understand that as a woman ages, the risks involved in pregnancy is greater for both the mother and child.

Is that a risk you're willing to take?

Dump the jaded 37-year old and hold on to the 20-year old lady FOR NOW.

ALSO, are you INSANE?

Who thinks of marriage and starting a family without a job in the current economy?

Baby things are SUPER expensive right now.

REMOVE marriage from your mind and focus on getting a job or skill in the new year.

None of this is certain, all you said may be inversely proportionate to the 20 year old while the 37 year old may turn out to be a good wife.

Don't ever marry a 33+ woman.

The older a woman gets, the more they lose their sweetness. What are you looking for in a woman of over 30 years?
What? You need to ask that question and infact inform one of your family members and they will tell you the truth

I sincerely appreciate all your inputs. Thank you all.

She can.

Absolutely
Just make sure you both don’t drink, smoke, do drugs while pregnant

Both of you. Cos you can still transfer alcohol to the fetus during sex and it affects a baby’s development leading to issues like autism

Seen 50 year old mothers. No issues with the child at all.

BUT, late maternal age starts at 37.

The risk of congenital abnormalities starts to increase... at that point.

Why risk it for a person that might not if roles were reversed.

I would go for a younger gal if na me. You can bang her well and wish her good luck sha.

You no get work you dey reason marriage. Na you Dem supposed dey run away from

Yankee101:
Absolutely
Just make sure you both don’t drink, smoke, do drugs while pregnant

Both of you. Cos you can still transfer alcohol to the fetus during sex and it affects a baby’s development leading to issues like autism

None of us drinks sir/ma. Please are you a medical practitioner??

You want to marry and have children while being jobless You must be mad

TemplarLandry:
At 37, she doesn't have problems conceiving.
Don't let your ignorant friend mislead you.

Thank u

Onyiiobi7735:

That's a blatant lie, brother.A 37 year old lady can still give birth to a healthy baby , not of talk of one in her early forties.
Don't mind all these wise dullards who don't know anything.
38 and 39 year olds still birth healthy babies.

Thank u

Curious345:
Your friend wants to date her , hence his flawed advice to you

Lolzz. Thank you

Namaster:
Of course it's possible for a 37-uear old tongue birth.

But are you INSANE?

What do you want with an aging, nagging, jealous woman WAAAY past her prime when you have a young and fresh 20-year old on lock?

Firstly, the 37-year old now has money while you're still jobless. How long do you think she's going to put up with that before she starts abusing you and your generation?

You met her at 35. Do you know how many exes she's had? How many abortions? Any possible complications with the abortion(s)? Do you know?

ALSO, are you ready for her to CONTROL you? She will determine who you can and cannot be friends with? Are you cool with that?

She's already 37. Next year, she'll be 38. If you marry her at 38 and she gets pregnant same year, your baby could come when she's 39 if you're lucky.

Now you must understand that as a woman ages, the risks involved in pregnancy is greater for both the mother and child.

Is that a risk you're willing to take?

Dump the jaded 37-year old and hold on to the 20-year old lady FOR NOW.

ALSO, are you INSANE?

Who thinks of marriage and starting a family without a job in the current economy?

Baby things are SUPER expensive right now.

REMOVE marriage from your mind and focus on getting a job or skill in the new year.

Thank you

Onyiiobi7735:

That's a blatant lie, brother.A 37 year old lady can still give birth to a healthy baby , not of talk of one in her early forties.
Don't mind all these wise dullards who don't know anything.
38 and 39 year olds still birth healthy babies.

The person is a medical practitioner.

PinkNature:
Don't ever marry a 33+ woman.

Thank u

Gift96:
The older a woman gets, the more they lose their sweetness. What are you looking for in a woman of over 30 years?
What? You need to ask that question and infact inform one of your family members and they will tell you the truth

OK, thank you.

GeneralOjukwu:
Seen 50 year old mothers. No issues with the child at all.

BUT, late maternal age starts at 37.

The risk of congenital abnormalities starts to increase... at that point.

Why risk it for a person that might not if roles were reversed.

I would go for a younger gal if na me. You can bang her well and wish her good luck sha.

Alright, thank u

You better go and find work first. That 20 year old would show you shege so you better focus on the woman you have.

JOACHINpedro:
You no get work you dey reason marriage. Na you Dem supposed dey run away from

Just thinking of starting from somewhere since she is working now. I will continue the hustle while she helps out for now. It is just a plan. And why I seek advice.

Thank you for ur inputs

Namaster:
Of course it's possible for a 37-uear old tongue birth.

But are you INSANE?

What do you want with an aging, nagging, jealous woman WAAAY past her prime when you have a young and fresh 20-year old on lock?

Firstly, the 37-year old now has money while you're still jobless. How long do you think she's going to put up with that before she starts abusing you and your generation?

You met her at 35. Do you know how many exes she's had? How many abortions? Any possible complications with the abortion(s)? Do you know?

ALSO, are you ready for her to CONTROL you? She will determine who you can and cannot be friends with? Are you cool with that?

She's already 37. Next year, she'll be 38. If you marry her at 38 and she gets pregnant same year, your baby could come when she's 39 if you're lucky.

Now you must understand that as a woman ages, the risks involved in pregnancy is greater for both the mother and child.

Is that a risk you're willing to take?

Dump the jaded 37-year old and hold on to the 20-year old lady FOR NOW.

ALSO, are you INSANE?

Who thinks of marriage and starting a family without a job in the current economy?

Baby things are SUPER expensive right now.

REMOVE marriage from your mind and focus on getting a job or skill in the new year.

Op, if you have understanding then you should listen to this unpopular advice.

*********END OF DISCUSSION********

lonikit:
Please help me, I met her two years back and honestly, I love her. I couldn't marry her all this while because of the economic prob in the country. She just secured a local government job but I have not secured a job yet. Though she has a jealousy issue, which I am managing. Recently I met a lady just 20 years. Though we are not dating yet but I am sure we feel something strong for each other. My main gf has been quarreling with me for a while now thinking I am dating the other lady. Now,, I am thinking of marrying her and start life while the economic struggle continues but someone told me that she will have issue with getting pregnant and child bearing due to her age. I am confused because I honestly need atleast a child. I know anything can happen in life but I wish to have children. Delay in this may cause problem in our home if I marry her. Please I beg you my people what is the probability of conceiving at 37 Help a bro to make a life time decision.

if you are so keen on kids, y not try to get her pregnant before marriage

lonikit:


The person is a medical practitioner.

What he said is not an established fact.
I have seen 37,38,39 year olds give birth to healthy babies.So forget what he said.