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Re: Deleted by MrAgbako: 9:00pm On Jan 05 |
E dey happen. Just sit her down for some lessons teachings. But Remember she will always make her choice. |
Re: Deleted by Ishilove: 9:15pm On Jan 05 |
joseph1832:I agree with you because at her age, even allowing a boy touch your hand was a taboo. I didn't know jackshit. See, my parents were never particularly strict with us but we still turned out fine. I don't know what they did specifically, but whatever it was was sufficient enough to make sure we turned out fine. What parents of these days are doing is obviously not working. They are too lax and careless with these kids 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Deleted by Rexymania(m): 9:24pm On Jan 05 |
Your sister duh lost, it will take the grace of God to bring her back |
Re: Deleted by marsup: 9:57pm On Jan 05 |
Pls tell your mum asap. She needs to be educated before she ruins herself. This is just nasty... 1 Like |
Re: Deleted by SleekyP(m): 10:17pm On Jan 05 |
didi100: Flog the hell out of her first, when she becomes an adult & she remembers the incident….she will be thanking you. Ah! 1 Like |
Re: Deleted by didi100: 10:46pm On Jan 05 |
[color=#990000][/color] Matter resolved.Thread closed.Thank you all |
Re: Deleted by ednut1(m): 2:38pm On Jan 06 |
At 12 omo |
Re: Deleted by Nazgul: 3:53pm On Jan 06 |
Ishilove:Early exposure to social media is what is corrupting kids these days, coupled with the fact that so many parents themselves practically spend more on social media than training their kids. When I was 12, I didn't know what social media was, all I knew then was go to school, come back home, eat and sleep. That's how I grew up. Today a child of 6 can effectively operate her parents Android or iPhone. By 10 she already has a Facebook account and would start nagging her parents for teens Android device (tablet). Most of these teens tablets are sim enabled and can access the internet. So if she has an Android device, data and a Sim card, what on Earth would stop her from engaging in nasty chats with boys? Secondly, religion played a huge role during my time. We had morning and evening devotions everyday as a family. As young as I was then, I had this consciousness about God and how to live a holy life. Truth is 98% of any girl you meet who is keeping her Virginity until her wedding night, is doing so based on her religious beliefs and relationship with God. She would tell any guys coming her way that she doesn't want to defile herself because her body is the temple of God. I believe it's safe to say that most parents of today are cold towards religion...this has made their kids grow up with very little regard for God. Religion that used to act as a restraining agent during our time has been banished from the lives of these ones. So what do you expect? A girl of 14 would be telling you my ex and you're like you already have an ex at 14? Nothing is restraining her from exploring her sexuality cos her parents themselves don't give a fvck about God. |
Re: Deleted by Ishilove: 4:29pm On Jan 06 |
Nazgul:Now that you mention religion, we need to ask ourselves some salient questions. How many churches these days preach holiness? Very few. Even the one I attend doesn't preach holiness. Their focus is on slaying our enemies and fulfilling destiny. It is just the God consciousness that you described that has kept me on the straight and narrow right from childhood where the fire for God burned brighter in our churches. Now the love of God has waxed cold in many people's hearts and this is reflecting in our society and on how these children are turning out. I am of the belief that if you fear God, there are some things you will never be involved in |
Re: Deleted by Nazgul: 5:20pm On Jan 06 |
Ishilove:Lol... MFM is trying compared to some of these new generation Pentecostal churches. Even though their holiness is based on outward appearance by giving dress codes for their members, believe me, they're not that bad. Ishilove:Me too...this was made possible by the consistent nurturing of our parents. I knew God from a very tender age and the knowledge of him, is what restrains me from doing certain things which I know is evil in his sight, my conscience would not allow me do it. Ishilove:That's because their parents abandoned God long before their kids were born. So when these kids come into the world, there's nothing restraining them from becoming useless to themselves, their parents and the society. I once read about a girl who at 17 had committed 3 abortions. If such girl was raised to fear God, she would always have her conscience screaming at her whenever she veers off course. But because her parents didn't bother, she lived her life whoever she wanted. And 3 abortions with an handful of STDs was the consequence. Ishilove:True. |
Re: Deleted by Ishilove: 5:46pm On Jan 06 |
Nazgul:Jesus Christ. 3 abortions?? At that age I was too busy trying to pass JAMB and 'man' didn't even feature in my thoughts. Today's parents have really failed their kids |
Re: Deleted by Nazgul: 6:56pm On Jan 06 |
Ishilove:Today's parents don't know what parenting entails. Haven't you noticed the high rate of sex, Alchol and drug abuse amongst secondary school students? The worst is that more than 99% of these kids are living right under their parents roof, yet with their obvious reckless lifestyle, their parents still wouldn't notice what's going on until something terrible happens to them. Many parents of today are not fit to be called parents. They just don't care. Today's fathers would prefer to sleep with anything in skirt than spend quality time with their kids. Today's mother's would prefer to post flashy pictures of themselves on social media than to monitor and observe the life of their kids. This is why the word morals has been banished from our society. Go to tik tok and see how teenage girls market themselves for prospective clients. |
Re: Deleted by jaxxy(m): 7:45pm On Jan 06 |
She needs corrective sex education ASAP and some love but also discipline and guidance. These kids already corrupt themselves from social media and spread it to each other and with our poor sex education talks in this part of the world where parents are either too strict or shy to address this topic the kids are left to experiment and find out by themselves. |
Re: Deleted by nams77: 8:03pm On Jan 06 |
NoToPile:. Op I advise you adopt this advice. Ono the thing shock me sha |
Re: Deleted by didi100: 3:10pm On Jan 18 |
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