When I was still a child, I think I was in primary 4 or 5, there was this lady I used to call aunty.
She always smiled and played with me. She calls me her husband and even buy alot of sweet and biscuits for me.

Later one day, one hot afternoon like that, she called me to come. I ran there thinking maybe sweet and chewing gum is about to sup
She started playing with me. In my mind, I was like "aunty bring out this sweet na". Instead aunty brought out my small pee pee and was playing with it

I cant recall if I was hard or sexually aroused. But this aunty took off my short niker and told me to lay on her. She held me hard and was using me to move up and down her private part.
This continued for a long time.
Now that I am old, I understand what she did even though to me as a bby, it didn't make any sense.


Why do men don't talk about females sexually abusing them as kids.
Whats your experience?

The society trivializes the plight of males. That's all.

When I got to jss2 I was starting to understand life and what is right and what is wrong.
There is a lady we used to go and play at their house because of many fruit trees in the compound.

She kinda liked me different from the other kids. When my friends try to go to the house to ask for fruits, she will turn them back. But if I am with them, she will let us in and even give me fresh fruits.

I felt special always visit. Plus she was in the university then. I can't recall how it all happened again but we both ended up alone in their Palor one day. She asked me of my age and I told her I was 12. She smiled and was asking me all sorts of questions.

Sex was the last thing on my mind. I just saw her as a sister that likes me. She endup having sex with me that day
. It also continued for a long time.

They will soon come and call it misogyny and talking down on them

LagosSuperStar:
When I was still a child, I think I was in primary 4 or 5, there was this lady I used to call aunty.
She always smiled and played with me. She calls me her husband and even buy alot of sweet and biscuits for me.

Later one day, one hot afternoon like that, she called me to come. I ran there thinking maybe sweet and chewing gum is about to sup
She started playing with me. In my mind, I was like "aunty bring out this sweet na". Instead aunty brought out my small pee pee and was playing with it

I cant recall if I was hard or sexually aroused. But this aunty took off my short niker and told me to lay on her. She held me hard and was using me to move up and down her private part.
This continued for a long time.
Now that I am old, I understand what she did even though to me as a bby, it didn't make any sense.


Why do men don't talk about females sexually abusing them as kids.
Whats your experience?

You won't talk because you don't understand, but now you understand you just talked.

If this story is true, then you had been abused and it's a painful thing that our society neglect these cases of sexual abuse against the male child.

I am also a victim of this abuse but I never mentioned it to anyone. I still see the lady, she is married with two kids now. I allowed myself to heal from the trauma. I buried the memory within me, I don't let it affect my relationship with my society.

Majority of male children have this experience. I think the issue is since there are no physical hurt or pain it's tend to be overlooked.

I can remember mine those days if u know what I means to singled out of many kids and be pampered more than ur mom.
I think I was 10 then and I kn fully well that my dick can't stand, I think it always try to stand when it starts acting like it's breathing. She well always lay on me and tell me to hold her butt.
And I think my mum did notice the way she's found of me nd will always say something like u r going to a boarding school these girls will corrupt u, u can't stay in this house oo.

We did enjoyed the whole thing but not knowing what I intend to do cause I can remember I didn't do any penetration since my d is small

LagosSuperStar:
When I was still a child, I think I was in primary 4 or 5, there was this lady I used to call aunty.
She always smiled and played with me. She calls me her husband and even buy alot of sweet and biscuits for me.

Later one day, one hot afternoon like that, she called me to come. I ran there thinking maybe sweet and chewing gum is about to sup
She started playing with me. In my mind, I was like "aunty bring out this sweet na". Instead aunty brought out my small pee pee and was playing with it

I cant recall if I was hard or sexually aroused. But this aunty took off my short niker and told me to lay on her. She held me hard and was using me to move up and down her private part.
This continued for a long time.
Now that I am old, I understand what she did even though to me as a bby, it didn't make any sense.


Why do men don't talk about females sexually abusing them as kids.
Whats your experience?

I had the same experience when I was 6yrs old.

I was asked to stay the night with my mother's female friend the day my mother travelled to Lagos to buy some goods for sale.

I was 16 then.

The lady was living alone in a one room apartment.

At night she pulled off her clothes in my presence and asked me to bath with her. Omo, I saw bearded kpekus and I was charged. I turned to the wall to hide my ignorance but she smiled and turned me to herself and started stroking my gbola to my delight.

She bent over and asked me in which I shyly did.

She later urged me to lay on her and repeat what I did earlier.

Fluid flowed out of me as I reached the peak. I thought I had urinated inside her and I apologised profusely but she merely laughed at me.

Today I understand that she sexually abused me! But I enjoyed the show sha.

Idiots feminists where are you come and defend your gender. If it’s men we wouldn’t hear words.

Let me say that 70% of male children are victims of sexual abuse but the sad truth is that no one will speak for them because they think we enjoy(ed) the abuse. I was a victim nd i know other guys that were victims as well.

Make we no shook mouth for this matter, as a child and as an adult.

advanceDNA:
They will soon come and call it misogyny and talking down on them

Who exactly are the they? What has rape and pedophilia got to do with misogyny?

You know the people that downplay men that were raped? Your fellow men, they call them simps and all sorts of rubbish when they want to voice out, so many ngos helping victims but you hardly see men among them, use your tongue to count your teeth.

SyrusdeHansome:
Let me say that 70% of male children are victims of sexual abuse but the sad truth is that no one will speak for them because they think we enjoy(ed) the abuse. I was a victim nd i know other guys that were victims as well.

Men should start by speaking for themselves, no one is your mouthpiece, voice out the way females voice out. Start an ngo for male victims and call out your abusers on social media same way females do, women have been doing it for ages what's stopping men from doing same?

I feel sad

DONFRANSKID:
Idiots feminists where are you come and defend your gender. If it’s men we wouldn’t hear words.

Hear yourself, we are not foolish to defend rape and pedophilia like most of you, and yes you will not hear word when men defend rapist and pedophilic men, we will scream to high heavens, keep waiting for us to scream for you, as per we are held your tongue from speaking up.

DaddyCash:


Today I understand that she sexually abused me! But I enjoyed the show sha.

See someone that was a victim of sexual abuse, just take a look at the rubbish he typed, why would anyone take you serious with this type of mentality?

immortalcrown:
The society trivializes the plight of males. That's all.

It is your fellow men that trivialises the plight of men, not the society.

JovialJune:



Who exactly are the they? What has rape and pedophilia got to do with misogyny?

You know the people that downplay men that were raped? Your fellow men, they call them simps and all sorts of rubbish when they want to voice out, so many ngos helping victims but you hardly see men among them, use your tongue to count your teeth.

Why are u triggered....I nor call u
..u guys are always triggered ..
...we can't talk online without u wailing..

JovialJune:



See someone that was a victim of sexual abuse, just take look at the rubbish he typed, why would anyone take you serious with this type of mentality? .

See ur life?? U want to invalidate him because of his rape experience...if men did same u will start crying blood calling seun....

..are u saying it make less than rape becos he had an erection? Is that not u women's argument all the time?? That her vjay was creaming when penetrated and she didn't scream and she kinda enjoyed it abit doesn't make it less of rape....

All these young boys raped in highschool abroad ..u think they ddnt bragg about how they fvcked their hot school teacher to their friends? Does it make it less than rape??

See... I was part of post jury team to a rape case...where camera caught the girl moaning and not struggling ....and they still found the guy guilty ..the argument was that the body of a person can respond to sex weda the victim wants it or not ...it's basic biology.....especially when theyve tried to say stop and the abuser ddnt so they surrender to the assault....

There are many rape victims that have reportedly technically enjoyed the assault makes it sometimes shameful and difficult for them to report..

advanceDNA:


Why are u triggered....I nor call u
..u guys are always triggered ..
...we can't talk online without u wailing..

Triggered? Wailing? Do you have assimilation deficiency or what? You have a problem with comprehension or what? Because how can a grown aśs adult not understand simple English that this is all you could come up with?

JovialJune:


Triggered? Wailing? Do you have assimilation deficiency or what? You have a problem with comprehension or what? Because how can a grown aśs adult not understand simple English that this is all you could come up with?

Shioor......did I call ur name ...why are u asking who are they if u are not triggered over "nothing" and stilk pretending....

I don't want seun to beat me so I won't insult u back... ..I know u will cry misogyny, attack aand disrespect against the entire women race

advanceDNA:


See ur life?? U want to invalidate him because of his rape experience...if men did same u will start crying blood calling seun....

..are u saying it make less than rape becos he had an erection? Is that not u women's argument all the time?? That her vjay was creaming when penetrated and she didn't scream and she kinda enjoyed it abit doesn't make it less of rape....

All these young boys raped in highschool abroad ..u think they ddnt bragg about how they fvcked their hot school teacher to their friends? Does it make it less than rape??

See... I was part of post jury team to a rape case...where camera caught the girl moaning and not struggling ....and they still found the guy guilty ..the argument was that the body of a person can respond to sex weda the victim wants it or not ...it's basic biology.....especially when theyve tried to say stop and the abuser ddnt so they surrender to the assault....

There are many rape victims that have reportedly technically enjoyed the ride...which makes it sometimes shameful and difficult for them to report..

I invalidated his rape experience? Someone said he enjoyed the experience, I called him out on it, yet you say I invalidate his rape experience? And the bolded is what you could come up with as an excuse? Something is wrong with most of you and the way you reason

Name one female, just one, that has ever come out to say "though it was rape, but I enjoyed it" name one if you've ever seen any, the nonsense most you spew out as an excuse for rubbish is why the society is what it is today, no accountability, no self reflection to see if an action or reaction will have a positive or negative impact on you as a person or the next person, you want to be pitied but you do not pity yourselves, you brag about rape, say you enjoy the rape, yet expect people to take you serious as a victim, how? Explain how?

advanceDNA:


Shioor......did I call ur name ...why are u asking who are they if u are not triggered over "nothing" and stilk pretending....

I don't want seun to beat me so I won't insult u back... ..I know u will cry misogyny, attack aand disrespect against the entire women race

Explain in full context pls, what has misogyny got to do with being raped and pedophilia? Explain in full details I'm waiting.

JovialJune:



I invalidated his rape experience? Someone said he enjoyed the experience, I called him out on it, yet you say I invalidate his rape experience? And the bolded is what you could come up with as an excuse? Something is wrong with most of you and the way you reason

Name one female, just one, that has ever come out to say "though it was rape, but I enjoyed it" name one if you've ever seen any, the nonsense most you spew out as an excuse for rubbish is why the society is what it is today, no accountability, no self reflection to see if an action or reaction will have a positive or negative impact on you as a person or the next person, you want to be pitied but you do not pity yourselves, you brag about rape, say you enjoy the rape, yet expect people to take you serious as a victim, how? Explain how?

Look madam rest.... U wahala too much...
Does it make it less than rape?? That's all I asked u but u are dodging and insulting all ur family members

Those highschool kids that fvcked their teacher and told their friends about it?? Dem no arrest the teacher?? ...does it make it less than rape??
Everybody's rape experience is different ..if u can't accept that...and expect rape victims to behave a certain way then u are wicked ..

..because when men say/ask rape victims why ddnt she scream, why ddnt she have any body marks or bruises...u will say they are supporting rape...

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JovialJune:


Explain in full context pls, what has misogyny got to do with being raped and pedophilia? Explain in full details I'm waiting.

If u can't figure out simple sarcastic context in a comment....madam I cant help u...
no be every statement be fight..... That's one problem with u guys here.... Everything is attack to you

JovialJune:


Men should start by speaking for themselves, no one is your mouthpiece, voice out the way females voice out. Start an ngo for male victims and call out your abusers on social media same way females do, women have been doing it for ages what's stopping men from doing same?

How can a child speak for himself

JovialJune:


It is your fellow men that trivialises the plight of men, not the society.

fellow men indeed
If you don't have any positive content to contribute we would appreciate it if you keep quiet

Pelumisamuel:
fellow men indeed
If you don't have any positive content to contribute we would appreciate it if you keep quiet

If you don't have the capacity to assimilate and comprehend properly due to limited thought process, try not to quote me again.

Pelumisamuel:
How can a child speak for himself

Are all men little children?