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10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Abbbeyyy(m): 2:28pm On Feb 20, 2017
When men meet ladies, the basic thing most of them want to do is to get down with them. Depending on the outcome of events, some men may decide to go into a long term relationship with them or opt in for the fling option.

Without wasting much time, there are certain pointers women should watch out for when they meet new guys as this would help them discover what the men could be up to.
The following signs would help ladies know whether a man would act like a gentle man or make attempt to sleep with them as soon as they visit them:

1. When he seems extra nice and smooth. Ladies, when you visit a man in his house for the first time and he is super nice, you should start to be on your guards. He is probably doing this so he does not get you pissed or offended in any way before he makes his move.

2. When the room is squeaky clean

Most men are used to scattering their rooms and apartments. When you see that a man has arranged everywhere and the bed is well made, then you should watch out. If it were to be a guy visiting him, chances are he would not do a single thing in that room. He wants you to be impressed so you would not use his room as an excuse when he hits on you.

3. When his friends leave you two alone

When you visit a man and his friends start to leave the room one by one, then he is up to something. This would make the sexual tension in the room to heighten. The friends might have been let in on the plan about him trying his luck the first day.

4. When he offers you alcohol, Alcohol is a form of aphrodisiac and it makes most ladies feel light headed. When a man offers you alcohol in his house when you are visiting for the first time, he probably wants to help you ‘feel free’.
Drinking alcohol would in no time reduce your tension and load you with bouts of dutch courage. When he finally makes his advances, your self-defense would have been too low to put up a fight.

.5. When he has his hands in his pocket the most time Men do this all the time when they have a bulging erection. Please do not mistake this for them being gentlemanly. Men try hiding the fact that they are aroused by dipping their hands into their pockets so you do not notice the erection.

.6. When he has loud music played Men do this so people would not hear what is happening in the room. If his house is a self-contain, then you can be sure that he wants it badly. Men feel ladies would be more comfortable if their moans were suppressed by the noise coming from a sound system.

.7. When you are asked not to visit with your friend A man knows that a lady visiting him for the first time would be edgy and may want to have someone with her. If they have a very cordial relationship, he might tease her about that.Some daring guys would make provision for such occasions and would make a friend keep the company of whoever the lady takes along.

.8. When he disappears for a couple of minutes Dear ladies, do not think he wants you to get settled well in the house. He probably got turned on by your appearance he had to take a walk. You can be sure he would have a condom with him by the time he returns.

9. When you talked dirty the night before

It would be sheer coyness by acting as if you did not know he would make a move on you when you talked dirty the night before. He would definitely want to experiment and sleep with you when you visit.

10. When he gets touchy

When a lady visits a man for the first time and he becomes touchy, he is doing this to read your body language. Ladies are easily moved by touching; if a lady shows no objection to his advances, it may be a green light for him to touch other places. He may just get lucky and touch a soft spot on your body.

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Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Jafar1: 2:30pm On Feb 20, 2017
lol, konji na bastard

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Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Phranex(m): 2:32pm On Feb 20, 2017
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What say you..

Drop ya whatsapp..
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 2:34pm On Feb 20, 2017
Really................ tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Flatties: 2:37pm On Feb 20, 2017
Uhm uhm *clears throat*

Well op..










You are correct . cheesy
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 2:38pm On Feb 20, 2017
Some of your points are not valid, hasty generalisation.

1: Being nice on first dates doesn't necessarily imply he wants sex. Both parties turn nice to one another.

2: Did you expect someone expecting a visitor to leave his room dirty?, i guess no cos i would do same if in his shoes.

3: By right his friends are meant to give the both of you space, any reasonable friend would leave. It doesn't mean he wants to bed you.

7: Was she suppose to visit with her friend in the first place?, is he dating the both of them?. grin

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Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Michellla(f): 2:39pm On Feb 20, 2017
You're halfway right.

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Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by jaybee3(m): 2:42pm On Feb 20, 2017
Only number 10 is kinda noteworthy!!
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 2:52pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Some of your points are not valid, hasty generalisation.

1: Being nice on first dates doesn't necessarily imply he wants sex. Both parties turn nice to one another.

2: Did you expect someone expecting a visitor to leave his room dirty?, i guess no cos i would do same if in his shoes.

3: By right his friends are meant to give the both of you space, any reasonable friend would leave. It doesn't mean he wants to bed you.

7: Was she suppose to visit with her friend in the first place?, is he dating the both of them. grin

hi
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by yaqq: 2:52pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Some of your points are not valid, hasty generalisation.

1: Being nice on first dates doesn't necessarily imply he wants sex. Both parties turn nice to one another.

2: Did you expect someone expecting a visitor to leave his room dirty?, i guess no cos i would do same if in his shoes.

3: By right his friends are meant to give the both of you space, any reasonable friend would leave. It doesn't mean he wants to bed you.

7: Was she suppose to visit with her friend in the first place?, is he dating the both of them. grin all go still end up 4 nacking
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 2:54pm On Feb 20, 2017
Abbbeyyy:
When men meet ladies, the basic thing most of them want to do is to get down with them. Depending on the outcome of events, some men may decide to go into a long term relationship with them or opt in for the fling option.

Without wasting much time, there are certain pointers women should watch out for when they meet new guys as this would help them discover what the men could be up to.
The following signs would help ladies know whether a man would act like a gentle man or make attempt to sleep with them as soon as they visit them:

1. When he seems extra nice and smooth. Ladies, when you visit a man in his house for the first time and he is super nice, you should start to be on your guards. He is probably doing this so he does not get you pissed or offended in any way before he makes his move.

2. When the room is squeaky clean

Most men are used to scattering their rooms and apartments. When you see that a man has arranged everywhere and the bed is well made, then you should watch out. If it were to be a guy visiting him, chances are he would not do a single thing in that room. He wants you to be impressed so you would not use his room as an excuse when he hits on you.

3. When his friends leave you two alone

When you visit a man and his friends start to leave the room one by one, then he is up to something. This would make the sexual tension in the room to heighten. The friends might have been let in on the plan about him trying his luck the first day.

4. When he offers you alcohol, Alcohol is a form of aphrodisiac and it makes most ladies feel light headed. When a man offers you alcohol in his house when you are visiting for the first time, he probably wants to help you ‘feel free’.
Drinking alcohol would in no time reduce your tension and load you with bouts of dutch courage. When he finally makes his advances, your self-defense would have been too low to put up a fight.

.5. When he has his hands in his pocket the most time Men do this all the time when they have a bulging erection. Please do not mistake this for them being gentlemanly. Men try hiding the fact that they are aroused by dipping their hands into their pockets so you do not notice the erection.

.6. When he has loud music played Men do this so people would not hear what is happening in the room. If his house is a self-contain, then you can be sure that he wants it badly. Men feel ladies would be more comfortable if their moans were suppressed by the noise coming from a sound system.

.7. When you are asked not to visit with your friend A man knows that a lady visiting him for the first time would be edgy and may want to have someone with her. If they have a very cordial relationship, he might tease her about that.Some daring guys would make provision for such occasions and would make a friend keep the company of whoever the lady takes along.

.8. When he disappears for a couple of minutes Dear ladies, do not think he wants you to get settled well in the house. He probably got turned on by your appearance he had to take a walk. You can be sure he would have a condom with him by the time he returns.

9. When you talked dirty the night before

It would be sheer coyness by acting as if you did not know he would make a move on you when you talked dirty the night before. He would definitely want to experiment and sleep with you when you visit.

10. When he gets touchy

When a lady visits a man for the first time and he becomes touchy, he is doing this to read your body language. Ladies are easily moved by touching; if a lady shows no objection to his advances, it may be a green light for him to touch other places. He may just get lucky and touch a soft spot on your body.


I do all except 10&6
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 2:54pm On Feb 20, 2017
If i try all those she no gree i go free her na.Abi to initiate sex with a first visit girlfriend na bad thing?
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 2:55pm On Feb 20, 2017
realBliss:


hi
Hello!.

yaqq, e go end up for nacking on the long-run.
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 2:56pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Hello!.
yaqq, e go end up for nacking on the long-run.

lol, but what's the major purpose of dating?
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 2:56pm On Feb 20, 2017
I agree with most of the points here
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Abbbeyyy(m): 2:56pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Some of your points are not valid, hasty generalisation.

1: Being nice on first dates doesn't necessarily imply he wants sex. Both parties turn nice to one another.

2: Did you expect someone expecting a visitor to leave his room dirty?, i guess no cos i would do same if in his shoes.

3: By right his friends are meant to give the both of you space, any reasonable friend would leave. It doesn't mean he wants to bed you.

7: Was she suppose to visit with her friend in the first place?, is he dating the both of them. grin

Hmmm..Well said.. That's y i used the word 'could..just a possibility that it might happen
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Abbbeyyy(m): 2:58pm On Feb 20, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
I agree with most of the points here

Hmm.. Because u do most of them abi
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 2:58pm On Feb 20, 2017
realBliss:



lol, but what's the major purpose of dating?
Every man to his definition. grin
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 3:00pm On Feb 20, 2017
Abbbeyyy:


Hmmm..Well said.. That's y i used the word 'could..just a possibility that it might happen
So we are talking base on "probability" here. No problem then.
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:02pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Every man to his definition. grin
what's your own definition?
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 3:05pm On Feb 20, 2017
realBliss:


what's your own definition?
To love someone and be loved equally.

What's yours?.
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 3:06pm On Feb 20, 2017
Abbbeyyy:


Hmm.. Because u do most of them abi
Do I?
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:09pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
To love someone and be loved equally.

What's yours?.

it is an act of socializing with an opposite sex, getting to know more about him/her,to protect and care for them unconditionally..
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 3:14pm On Feb 20, 2017
realBliss:


it is an act of socializing with an opposite sex, getting to know more about him/her,to protect and care for them unconditionally..
Alright!, yours is cool.
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:17pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Alright!, yours is cool.
what's your dating life like?
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 3:19pm On Feb 20, 2017
realBliss:


what's your dating life like?
You're asking for a confidential information. I think i'll pass.
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 3:22pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Some of your points are not valid, hasty generalisation.

1: Being nice on first dates doesn't necessarily imply he wants sex. Both parties turn nice to one another.

2: Did you expect someone expecting a visitor to leave his room dirty?, i guess no cos i would do same if in his shoes.

3: By right his friends are meant to give the both of you space, any reasonable friend would leave. It doesn't mean he wants to bed you.

7: Was she suppose to visit with her friend in the first place?, is he dating the both of them?. grin
Help me ask the op o.
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:23pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
You're asking for a confidential information. I think i'll pass.

pass to where, should i pm you?
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by DonEd(m): 3:26pm On Feb 20, 2017
I won't agree with your every tenet stated.

1. Some guys like me keeps a squeaky clean apartment not just to impress but that's how we love it. Clean.

2. There are several ways to hide an erection if it occurs perhaps that's ur own style.

3. Being nice and smooth could be theatrical or inborn, that shouldn't be a judgment stick

4. Offering a lady alcohol on her first visit isn't a guarantee that she is gonna get down with u. Some ladies would even ask for it because they prefer that to soft drinks.

5. If a guy has intentions to bed a lady, he will have prepared his arsenal before her arrival and not running out to get some.

6. A lady visiting with her friend may not always be conviniencing with most guys this can be likened to his friends giving them the room cos one won't be free to express certain things or ask certain questions.

7. Loud music could be the person's manner of relaxing but its not cool since u aren't having a party.

8. Touchy or talking dirty the previous night, na una sabi.

Anyway, nice writeup OP

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Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by Nobody: 3:32pm On Feb 20, 2017
realBliss:


pass to where, should i pm you?
I don't take random pms.

Thanks!.
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:34pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
I don't take random pms.
Thanks!.
random? okay
Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by enuk80(m): 3:39pm On Feb 20, 2017
dis op must be mad..d op just mention all my tricks that works for me...dis op should be evicted from NL

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