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Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by AllKnowing: 7:57pm On Jan 12
This is for men.

Mentally rise above sex. All the free sex you’ve had in the past hasn’t helped you financially or spiritually. Or has it?

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by AllKnowing: 8:04pm On Jan 12
It’s 2024 and this year you have to level up. You’re either levelling up by your family’s might/ connection or you’re gonna have to do so leveraging on your connections.

If you’re like the rest of us, there’s no powerful, influential family to push you up; so here’s where you need your OWN connections.

Stick with me.

Your home boys can lift you up. Sure! But what about these girls around you. Have you ever sat to think about the potent force that females possess? This is where we have to disagree with the teachings of the redpill.

The redpill teaches men that women “ain’t sh*t” and that you don’t need them for anything besides stroking your ego after you “make it”. I’d argue that the wisest man utilises all the resources available to him. Everything!

But here’s a template for levelling up. You can use it, you can vilify me. Your business.

1. Appreciate and draw women to you.

It’s always been easy for me to have girls around me. Not bragging; I still don’t know what quality I possess that draws them in. I’m not the most attractive dude I know. Maybe it’s because I have the ability to listen, to not judge, to observe and maintain the frame of a friendly outsider.

2. Mentally rise above sex

This is the most important point. If you spent 2024 without sex, I promise you, you’d live to see 2025. No bragging rights for sex. Think about it this way: If you could never fill a basket with water, then why keep pouring into it?

If you could never have enough sex in life, why kill and embarrass yourself over it? Men tend to chase and chase and chase everything just to get a 5-minute romp in the sheets. You’ll never have enough sex, my brother.

3. Let these girls know you don’t need sex from them

I live in Europe. And this is my story: dated a white girl for a year. But that fell apart. Since then, I’ve moved on even easier than I thought I would. My ex is still very much present in my life as friends. I don’t desire a rerun of our relationship nor does she.

Other foreign men here complain about not getting a girl to go out on a date. Even an African babe. I don’t know what that feels like; being sapiosexual, I find myself drawn to Caucasian females who are well-travelled, passionate about the arts, who take up solo trips round the world. I learn from them. I no longer try to f*ck them. It isn’t the first 20 things I think about. That’s changed something…

Most nights, I don’t sleep alone. There’s always some new Caucasian chick texting to come over for games, a sleepover, or an African meal. I don’t get in a frenzy worrying if she’ll let me f*ck her when she comes over. If she makes a move and I find her attractive, I’ll take the bait.

If she’s overweight and ugly, I haven’t got a white fetish, please sleep the sleep you came to my apartment to sleep. “Don’t wanna have sex; I’m on meds”

4. So WHAT DO YOU NEED?

You need to level up! Only admit classy, pretty, high-achieving girls into your circle. My new criteria: Caucasian, got a career/ passion, makes about €3000 (the models I’m close with conveniently do $8000 per month working abroad). And you? I don’t make as much but they don’t need to know that. I bring flowers to dinner, I pick you up in a nice Uber, I dress old-money, I’m well-mannered, I invest in healthy meals because I go to the gym four times a week, my apartment is cosy, I work on one new thing about my dreams every week.

See? Even if I were a loser, these girls would never know.

But this is important: When they win, you have to be genuinely happy for them. Expel envy. Draw them closer. Also, with drastic changes all around the world, women are out-earning men. Wealthy simps aren’t even helping matters.

5. The game plan.

You aren’t chasing sex. You aren’t faking it; it’s your present state-of-mind. Don’t go masturbating every so often now, that’s just worse. These women will feel the powerful new energy you possess and come even closer. They’ll tell you about the new contacts they’ve made. Listen, don’t judge, observe. As friends, you can ask for help from a point of power and humility (yes, it’s a thing). She can help you, you’ll be eternally grateful. If she won’t, it’s no matter, you’ll ultimately find the help you need.

These girls can connect you to the men, the places, the opportunity you need. She’s more drawn to you because you aren’t like the other guys who want to only f*ck her. You aren’t gay, she’ll know that because you dated hot girls before her and because every now and then during your hangouts you’ll register a sexual move and that’s it.

A few days ago, a new friend passed out drunk on my bed during her first visit. Took care of her, made her dinner and breakfast, genuinely tended to her. Made NO PASSES at her. Today I got a friend and a free hospital card should I ever need a favour.


FINAL WORDS: In today’s ever-changing world, resources aren’t only skills and degrees to level up with. Women can be your own valuable resource.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Natbrowny: 8:09pm On Jan 12
My homie be like..

My body count don reach 2000.

I dont doubt.. I fit count like 800

Bro reflected and be like. Nobody give am awards. And no shishi.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by 4KNGOATS(m): 8:13pm On Jan 12
AllKnowing:
This is for men.

Mentally rise above sex. All the free sex you’ve had in the past hasn’t helped you financially or spiritually. Or has it?
Only sensible men with responsibilities reason like this

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by NastiLord: 9:33pm On Jan 12
I knack crayfish vendor today. Girl breast soft and puffy. Planning to knack her friend that sells pumpkin leaves

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by yemmit90: 9:40pm On Jan 12
Being awhile I commented in Romance section .

@op, you don't need women for whatever reason except for business or to sleep with. Be focus on your goal , only a weak man chose women as friends. From my years of experience in life, only your mum, wife or some female family members should be consider, others has nothing to offer you than pains. If you are single and need sex, just pick one and do the do without being on losing side to her.

Besides, if you don't want women to know you need sex from them or use them for business, then what is the point of relating with them? Women only offer emotional baggage or financial responsibility on male friends, and I hope you realise this someday.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Osoboshi: 4:37am On Jan 13
NastiLord:
I knack crayfish vendor today. Girl breast soft and puffy. Planning to knack her friend that sells pumpkin leaves
una go kill pesin with laughter for this nairaland

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by NSNO(m): 5:18am On Jan 13
Truly redpillers behave like guys who just discovered that their dick can stand or like teenagers with more testosterone than sense.

Women this, women that as if they don't have anything to do with their lives.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by AllKnowing: 6:36am On Jan 13
yemmit90:
Being awhile I commented in Romance section .

@op, you don't need women for whatever reason except for business or to sleep with. Be focus on your goal , only a weak man chose women as friends. From my years of experience in life, only your mum, wife or some female family members should be consider, others has nothing to offer you than pains. If you are single and need sex, just pick one and do the do without being on losing side to her.

Besides, if you don't want women to know you need sex from them or use them for business, then what is the point of relating with them? Women only offer emotional baggage or financial responsibility on male friends, and I hope you realise this someday.




Same thing I said. Women are a useful resource to level up with (tha business)

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by FRANCISTOWN: 7:25am On Jan 13
AllKnowing:



Same thing I said. Women are a useful resource to level up with (tha business)
I agree with the no sex. I'm celibate.
But I disagree with this business thing.
Why should I be friends with a woman? What does her friendship offer me? If she helped you secure a connection. She'd still be the one to terminate the connection once you start falling out of lines with her.

Why should I let a total stranger come in my house and sleep over, or play video games, or go eat dinner together? I'm too busy for that. I can't be used for the purpose of leisure. If I'm going to have anything to do with a woman, it's either business or nothing.
I don't have that luxury of time to play video games with a lady, who has time for nonsense?

The thing is, why must ladies always be in the picture? Your were delivering your lines so well until you introduced the women factor.
Na me go come dey so chit-chat with women , wey e no be say I swallow parrot.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Elemosho478: 7:34am On Jan 13
AllKnowing:
It’s 2024 and this year you have to level up. You’re either levelling up by your family’s might/ connection or you’re gonna have to do so leveraging on your connections.

If you’re like the rest of us, there’s no powerful, influential family to push you up; so here’s where you need your OWN connections.

Stick with me.

Your home boys can lift you up. Sure! But what about these girls around you. Have you ever sat to think about the potent force that females possess? This is where we have to disagree with the teachings of the redpill.

The redpill teaches men that women “ain’t sh*t” and that you don’t need them for anything besides stroking your ego after you “make it”. I’d argue that the wisest man utilises all the resources available to him. Everything!

But here’s a template for levelling up. You can use it, you can vilify me. Your business.

1. Appreciate and draw women to you.

It’s always been easy for me to have girls around me. Not bragging; I still don’t know what quality I possess that draws them in. I’m not the most attractive dude I know. Maybe it’s because I have the ability to listen, to not judge, to observe and maintain the frame of a friendly outsider.

2. Mentally rise above sex

This is the most important point. If you spent 2024 without sex, I promise you, you’d live to see 2025. No bragging rights for sex. Think about it this way: If you could never fill a basket with water, then why keep pouring into it?

If you could never have enough sex in life, why kill and embarrass yourself over it? Men tend to chase and chase and chase everything just to get a 5-minute romp in the sheets. You’ll never have enough sex, my brother.

3. Let these girls know you don’t need sex from them

I live in Europe. And this is my story: dated a white girl for a year. But that fell apart. Since then, I’ve moved on even easier than I thought I would. My ex is still very much present in my life as friends. I don’t desire a rerun of our relationship nor does she.

Other foreign men here complain about not getting a girl to go out on a date. Even an African babe. I don’t know what that feels like; being sapiosexual, I find myself drawn to Caucasian females who are well-travelled, passionate about the arts, who take up solo trips round the world. I learn from them. I no longer try to f*ck them. It isn’t the first 20 things I think about. That’s changed something…

Most nights, I don’t sleep alone. There’s always some new Caucasian chick texting to come over for games, a sleepover, or an African meal. I don’t get in a frenzy worrying if she’ll let me f*ck her when she comes over. If she makes a move and I find her attractive, I’ll take the bait.

If she’s overweight and ugly, I haven’t got a white fetish, please sleep the sleep you came to my apartment to sleep. “Don’t wanna have sex; I’m on meds”

4. So WHAT DO YOU NEED?

You need to level up! Only admit classy, pretty, high-achieving girls into your circle. My new criteria: Caucasian, got a career/ passion, makes about €3000 (the models I’m close with conveniently do $8000 per month working abroad). And you? I don’t make as much but they don’t need to know that. I bring flowers to dinner, I pick you up in a nice Uber, I dress old-money, I’m well-mannered, I invest in healthy meals because I go to the gym four times a week, my apartment is cosy, I work on one new thing about my dreams every week.

See? Even if I were a loser, these girls would never know.

But this is important: When they win, you have to be genuinely happy for them. Expel envy. Draw them closer. Also, with drastic changes all around the world, women are out-earning men. Wealthy simps aren’t even helping matters.

5. The game plan.

You aren’t chasing sex. You aren’t faking it; it’s your present state-of-mind. Don’t go masturbating every so often now, that’s just worse. These women will feel the powerful new energy you possess and come even closer. They’ll tell you about the new contacts they’ve made. Listen, don’t judge, observe. As friends, you can ask for help from a point of power and humility (yes, it’s a thing). She can help you, you’ll be eternally grateful. If she won’t, it’s no matter, you’ll ultimately find the help you need.

These girls can connect you to the men, the places, the opportunity you need. She’s more drawn to you because you aren’t like the other guys who want to only f*ck her. You aren’t gay, she’ll know that because you dated hot girls before her and because every now and then during your hangouts you’ll register a sexual move and that’s it.

A few days ago, a new friend passed out drunk on my bed during her first visit. Took care of her, made her dinner and breakfast, genuinely tended to her. Made NO PASSES at her. Today I got a friend and a free hospital card should I ever need a favour.


FINAL WORDS: In today’s ever-changing world, resources aren’t only skills and degrees to level up with. Women can be your own valuable resource.



You have been brainwashed to think women hate sex and men that are proud of their sexuality.


You are wrong if you think you have to mentally castrate yourself and forget about sex first to have any meaningful connection with women.

You can only save this kinda advice for needy men that are desperately seeking women friendships and attention.

You lack experience and knowledge and still very naive, women don't have the quality and value to be a good friend like men, so castrating yourself just to get close to them doesn't worth it and most women are just going to see you as insincere, untrustworthy trying to get in their pants by acting like you don't want sex when you are not gay or impotent.

You will also be very easy to take advantage of and easy prey when many women see your desperation to be friends and get attention from them to the extent of castrating yourself and acting like you don't want sex in fact many women will hate your gut for it and will never trust you for anything meaningful.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Elemosho478: 7:41am On Jan 13
AllKnowing:
This is for men.

Mentally rise above sex. All the free sex you’ve had in the past hasn’t helped you financially or spiritually. Or has it?


Sex is part of being a man and part of what make a man a man.

It's nature that made it that way, it is like saying men should stop being themselves and stop being men and castrate themselves just to get close to women.

Are you even a man ?

Who told you women hate sexual men or you need to kill your sexual side to get any connection with women?

Women only hate weak, desperate, needy and valueless men and your post have that written over it.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Elemosho478: 7:52am On Jan 13
AllKnowing:



Same thing I said. Women are a useful resource to level up with (tha business)


Are you even a man ?

You really believe you can use women to level up for anything ? keep deceiving yourself

They would have drained a lot from you before you even get a ounce of anything from them lol

Women also hate neediness.

1st rule of interaction with women, don't communicate that you need them for anything with your body language or words. Your game plan scream neediness and a lot of women are just going to use you and take advantage of you without you getting anything in return.


You are also a shady and manipulative guy you only want to befriend women so you can use them for their connection or so they can level you up, real men work for their shit themselves without relying on people especially women, your game plan is all about making men a pvssy ass nigga and acting like a castrated dog all for some non existent benefits from women.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Chris2863(m): 7:58am On Jan 13
NastiLord:
I knack crayfish vendor today. Girl breast soft and puffy. Planning to knack her friend that sells pumpkin leaves
after that one, you go need knack the one that sells red oil

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by codedgalaxy: 9:11am On Jan 13
Lol,
Dear op, in as much as you wanna make sense.
I humbly disagree with you on some of your points.
Listen, The earlier you realise that genders of opposite sex dont mingle together except there is energy to leech upon and devour, the better for you.
Men dont friend women except there is sex to be gained, and women dont tangle with men except there is a whole lot to be gained, thats including good sex. Else both are out wasting each others time.
.
Will tell you are short story, there was this pretty girl i was vibing with base on your format,(mutual levels)
We were real close. One evening she called me to come take her home cause she was drunk, of which i obliged.
The place was close so i went on foot. In less than no time i was there.
Damn she wasn't drunk, but her breath reeked of vodka smell.
like a big brother i scolded her for a while before taking her hand to lead her home.
Of which she declined, that if i wasnt taking her to my place i should just forget about it.
Damn she had plans for me.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by RomanceMoney(m): 9:46am On Jan 13
AllKnowing:
It’s 2024 and this year you have to level up. You’re either levelling up by your family’s might/ connection or you’re gonna have to do so leveraging on your connections.

If you’re like the rest of us, there’s no powerful, influential family to push you up; so here’s where you need your OWN connections.

Stick with me.

Your home boys can lift you up. Sure! But what about these girls around you. Have you ever sat to think about the potent force that females possess? This is where we have to disagree with the teachings of the redpill.

The redpill teaches men that women “ain’t sh*t” and that you don’t need them for anything besides stroking your ego after you “make it”. I’d argue that the wisest man utilises all the resources available to him. Everything!

But here’s a template for levelling up. You can use it, you can vilify me. Your business.

1. Appreciate and draw women to you.

It’s always been easy for me to have girls around me. Not bragging; I still don’t know what quality I possess that draws them in. I’m not the most attractive dude I know. Maybe it’s because I have the ability to listen, to not judge, to observe and maintain the frame of a friendly outsider.

2. Mentally rise above sex

This is the most important point. If you spent 2024 without sex, I promise you, you’d live to see 2025. No bragging rights for sex. Think about it this way: If you could never fill a basket with water, then why keep pouring into it?

If you could never have enough sex in life, why kill and embarrass yourself over it? Men tend to chase and chase and chase everything just to get a 5-minute romp in the sheets. You’ll never have enough sex, my brother.

3. Let these girls know you don’t need sex from them

I live in Europe. And this is my story: dated a white girl for a year. But that fell apart. Since then, I’ve moved on even easier than I thought I would. My ex is still very much present in my life as friends. I don’t desire a rerun of our relationship nor does she.

Other foreign men here complain about not getting a girl to go out on a date. Even an African babe. I don’t know what that feels like; being sapiosexual, I find myself drawn to Caucasian females who are well-travelled, passionate about the arts, who take up solo trips round the world. I learn from them. I no longer try to f*ck them. It isn’t the first 20 things I think about. That’s changed something…

Most nights, I don’t sleep alone. There’s always some new Caucasian chick texting to come over for games, a sleepover, or an African meal. I don’t get in a frenzy worrying if she’ll let me f*ck her when she comes over. If she makes a move and I find her attractive, I’ll take the bait.

If she’s overweight and ugly, I haven’t got a white fetish, please sleep the sleep you came to my apartment to sleep. “Don’t wanna have sex; I’m on meds”

4. So WHAT DO YOU NEED?

You need to level up! Only admit classy, pretty, high-achieving girls into your circle. My new criteria: Caucasian, got a career/ passion, makes about €3000 (the models I’m close with conveniently do $8000 per month working abroad). And you? I don’t make as much but they don’t need to know that. I bring flowers to dinner, I pick you up in a nice Uber, I dress old-money, I’m well-mannered, I invest in healthy meals because I go to the gym four times a week, my apartment is cosy, I work on one new thing about my dreams every week.

See? Even if I were a loser, these girls would never know.

But this is important: When they win, you have to be genuinely happy for them. Expel envy. Draw them closer. Also, with drastic changes all around the world, women are out-earning men. Wealthy simps aren’t even helping matters.

5. The game plan.

You aren’t chasing sex. You aren’t faking it; it’s your present state-of-mind. Don’t go masturbating every so often now, that’s just worse. These women will feel the powerful new energy you possess and come even closer. They’ll tell you about the new contacts they’ve made. Listen, don’t judge, observe. As friends, you can ask for help from a point of power and humility (yes, it’s a thing). She can help you, you’ll be eternally grateful. If she won’t, it’s no matter, you’ll ultimately find the help you need.

These girls can connect you to the men, the places, the opportunity you need. She’s more drawn to you because you aren’t like the other guys who want to only f*ck her. You aren’t gay, she’ll know that because you dated hot girls before her and because every now and then during your hangouts you’ll register a sexual move and that’s it.

A few days ago, a new friend passed out drunk on my bed during her first visit. Took care of her, made her dinner and breakfast, genuinely tended to her. Made NO PASSES at her. Today I got a friend and a free hospital card should I ever need a favour.


FINAL WORDS: In today’s ever-changing world, resources aren’t only skills and degrees to level up with. Women can be your own valuable resource.


Liked, Shared And Followed.


This is Too Much Sense in Paragraphs.


This Will Certainly Help Some Men Rethink Their Ways With Women.



The World is Filled With Many Use-less Women Because Many Use-less Men Made Them Use-less.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Elemosho478: 11:15am On Jan 13
RomanceMoney:



Liked, Shared And Followed.


This is Too Much Sense in Paragraphs.


This Will Certainly Help Some Men Rethink Their Ways With Women.



The World is Filled With Many Use-less Women Because Many Use-less Men Made Them Use-less.


You are deceiving yourself if you think you can just put yourself in a mindset not to want sex, sexual urges is not something you can just switch on and off with a mindset, we are created like that by nature so you can't just put yourself in a mindset not to want sex we can only restrain and control the urges.


You are impotent or gay if your dIck don't get hard after seeing a sexy woman you are attracted to or feel like having sex with her, but any man that is not impotent or gay but pretending not to want sex is insincere and untrustworthy.

Real men own their sexual side and never deny it but won't let it control them and their actions.

Sensible women will see you first as a shady and untrustworthy guy the moment you tell them you don't want sex but show many interest in them, or saying you want it but don't need it and talking kinda zigzag like a snake.

It is also kind of insulting and disrespectful to women when you tell them you don't want sex from them. To women it mean you are saying you don't find them attractive or sexually appealing and women don't take that kind of words lightly even from men they are not interested in sleeping with.

It is like a woman telling a man she will never have sex with him, how will that man feel? he would feel insulted, same way with women.

The moment you start saying you want sex but don't need it talking zigzag like a woman, women will just see you as a snaky and untrustworthy man that don't know what he want, they will just drop you faster because they hate those kind of men the most that are not decisive enough.

The Op think he has designed some kind of game plan to befriend women because he has been brainwashed to think women hate sex but that plan is only going to get him many women enemies that hate his gut and only get some few women that are only interested in using him and taking advantage of him.

Going around telling women you are not interested in sex with them is like going around calling women ugly lol. He is only going to get women enemies and predators not friends.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by RomanceMoney(m): 11:47am On Jan 13
Elemosho478:



You are deceiving yourself if you think you can just put yourself in a mindset not to want sex, sexual urges is not something you can just switch on and off with a mindset, we are created like that by nature so you can't just put yourself in a mindset not to want sex we can only restrain and control the urges.


You are impotent or gay if your dIck don't get hard after seeing a sexy woman you are attracted to or feel like having sex with her, but any man that is not impotent or gay but pretending not to want sex is insincere and untrustworthy.

Real men own their sexual side and never deny it but won't let it control them and their actions.

Sensible women will see you first as a shady and untrustworthy guy the moment you tell them you don't want sex but show many interest in them, or saying you want it but don't need it and talking kinda zigzag like a snake.

It is also kind of insulting and disrespectful to women when you tell them you don't want sex from them. To women it mean you are saying you don't find them attractive or sexually appealing and women don't take that kind of words lightly even from men they are not interested in sleeping with.

It is like a woman telling a man she will never have sex with him, how will that man feel? he would feel insulted, same way with women.

The moment you start saying you want sex but don't need it talking zigzag like a woman, women will just see you as a snaky and untrustworthy man that don't know what he want, they will just drop you faster because they hate those kind of men the most that are not decisive enough.

The Op think he has designed some kind of game plan to befriend women because he has been brainwashed to think women hate sex but that plan is only going to get him many women enemies that hate his gut and only get some few women that are only interested in using him and taking advantage of him.

Going around telling women you are not interested in sex with them is like going around calling women ugly lol. He is only going to get women enemies and predators not friends.








You are partly right with some of your words.

However, You Are Wrong On The Part That All Women Need From Men is "Sex" As Your Long Writeup Insinuate.


I think you've missed the whole point that the OP was Trying To Pass Across Which Is:

"Sex Is Not The Only Thing Men Should Prioritise With Every Lady That They Come Across With".



Get This Quote Above, And Know Peace.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Elemosho478: 12:23pm On Jan 13
RomanceMoney:



You are partly right with some of your words.

However, You Are Wrong On The Part That All Women Need From Men is "Sex" As Your Long Writeup Insinuate.


I think you've missed the whole point that the OP was Trying To Pass Across Which Is:

"Sex Is Not The Only Thing Men Should Prioritise With Every Lady That They Come Across With".



Get This Quote Above, And Know Peace.


Read again there's no where in my post that i stated that all what women need from men is sex.

The Op stated that men must stop thinking about sex and should start saying to every women they don't want sex, he is advocating acting like an eunuch just because he think not wanting sex increase his chances with women, what a simp.

Women will gladly prey on you as long as they are sure you mean it, who doesn't like free attention and resources as long as he is not that bad, but the reality is the OP doesn't mean it he is just being manipulative to get close to women and use them.

Lazy ass nigga lookin for women to level him up.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by NastiLord: 7:55pm On Jan 14
Chris2863:
after that one, you go need knack the one that sells red oil
If i like be that but e get one wey dey sell baby wears for the market. She sexy die tongue
Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Mandela27: 8:08pm On Jan 14
This is deep

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by sacajawea: 8:41pm On Jan 14
NastiLord:
I knack crayfish vendor today. Girl breast soft and puffy. Planning to knack her friend that sells pumpkin leaves
Serious?
Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Palazee(m): 9:47pm On Jan 14
All road leads to sex

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Jerrymander: 9:35pm On Jan 25
Guys what I think OP is sayn is to use these girls the way they use men for money, too. Girls don’t think about sexxxx first first meeting. They reason ur resources INITIALLY, take it, and reward you wit sexxx later.

Why can’t men do it too?

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by drimzsmoke(m): 9:37pm On Jan 25
NastiLord:
I knack crayfish vendor today. Girl breast soft and puffy. Planning to knack her friend that sells pumpkin leaves


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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by MikeofKd(m): 10:33pm On Jan 25
Nice one op , I feel like most naija men just view women as sex objects rather than friends or companions , women can be very valuable and can be of significant impact to you if you play ur cards right.

For me ,I tend to have more women as friends ,I enjoy conversations with different women , I learn certain things from them as well. Its not all the time sex sex sex, sometimes learn from women , learn how they think and so much more, its would only add to your knowledge.

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Jerrymander: 1:05am On Jan 26
MikeofKd:
Nice one op , I feel like most naija men just view women as sex objects rather than friends or companions , women can be very valuable and can be of significant impact to you if you play ur cards right.

For me ,I tend to have more women as friends ,I enjoy conversations with different women , I learn certain things from them as well. Its not all the time sex sex sex, sometimes learn from women , learn how they think and so much more, its would only add to your knowledge.

Seconded!!!!!!
Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by jaywon442: 10:18am On Jan 26
MikeofKd:
Nice one op , I feel like most naija men just view women as sex objects rather than friends or companions , women can be very valuable and can be of significant impact to you if you play ur cards right.

For me ,I tend to have more women as friends ,I enjoy conversations with different women , I learn certain things from them as well. Its not all the time sex sex sex, sometimes learn from women , learn how they think and so much more, its would only add to your knowledge.
.

Thirded

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by Minsk24: 10:35am On Feb 05
Great thread OP....
your points are very good, mentally rise above sex, it is very important for a man to achieve self-control.... Thumbs up OP

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Re: Why You Must Rise Above Sex. Forget The Redpill! by lovediehatelive(m): 1:40pm On Feb 05
It's like I understand the point op is trying to make.

In summary: men are naturally attracted to women for sex. When a man sees a woman, the natural thing is to want to sleep with her.

Women are naturally attracted to men for what men can offer. It may be material, financial, emotional, and plenty plenty. When a woman sees a man, she starts sizing his pocket and what she can get from him.




But it would be rude and offensive to a man if a lady he's meeting for the first time just asks him for money.

Same way it would be rude for and offensive for a man to just see a woman and ask her for sex straight up.


Yes, that's how nature designed it, but as humans, we normally don't eat our food raw.

We like it cooked and other things added to it.

An animal can just start eating raw rice straight up or meat.

But humans have to first cook or prepare it one way or the other.



So the point is, a man doesn't want to be seen as ATM by any woman.

Why a woman doesn't want to be seen as a prostitutte by any man.

So, we have to pretend and cook it up.

Men have to find something to make her see reason with him. It could be care, showing concern all all those frustrating stuff to cook it up.

With this, you keep giving subtle hints that you desire her.

Women should pretend they genuinely care, and as they engage in discussion and get along with the man, they start dropping subtle hints that they need money or whatever from the man.


Before you know it, these things gets cooked to a stage that the man or woman doesn't feel disrespected

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