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LADIES N GENTLEMEN, THE BIG PICTURE

JESHAL007:
If the poorest of the poor men can cherish their commitment, if majority of sexually thirsty men can control their urges, if emotional and vulnerable men can control their urges to have a crush or onetitis, I'm telling most ladies will be bankrupt, they would sit up and return to their traditional gender role, entitlement and promiscuity will drop, they would behave and keep themselves on guard

But simps won't let this happen

quittting masturbation can be done. ive been there and now im out
you can also be free too

https://www.nairaland.com/7939213/one-guide-end-addiction

Kimcutie:
I just want to drop something, masturbation is the main reason why you're simping

Stop masturbation this 2024.

Studying about the redpill has not only taught me about the female nature but also taught me how to make women chase me instead of doing the chasing. It’s unfortunate that an average African man was taught in his childhood that men are hunters and hunters chase while women are the prize. If you still carry this mentality you will discover after so many years that you’ve spent your time, resources and energy chasing something that can’t pay your bills.

Have you noticed that when a girl chose you she does the spending? But if par adventure you start simping for this same girl that can’t stay a day without seeing you or hearing your voice she will start doing the running so that you will be the one doing the chasing and spending.

Most guys still think it’s their job to ask a girl out and if a girl asks them out they see it as odd and see her as a loosed girl but it isn’t. It simply proved that you’re the prize and important things are chased after. You can’t claim to be the prize and you’re walking up to every girl that catches your fancy. Mind you, if guys don’t approach a girl in a week or two I bet you the third week she will sleep in a church cos she will start thinking she has spiritual problems.

Why do girls think they’re beautiful, sexy, wife material, materialistic etc? Because guys have told them so. An average girl believes what guys tell them more than what their girlfriends tell them. I have seen girls that brag that they’ve sweet puss*ies simply because their exes told them so. Women feed on attention and when you deprive them of attention you deflate their pride and shakara.

Sure sometimes you are too horrny, your mind is idle, you are relaxed, you are lonely, you decide to masturbate and watch porn, it happens after all sex is an hardwired biological drive, it is like hunger or thirst, but don't let this natural urge make you to start simping, don't let it make you chase women and waste attention and resources on them

Remember be chosen
Aim for genuine desire

Please, always remember that

The goal is never to condemn wo.men but to save men.

As a man like you, my goal is to help you realize and internalize the fact that you're the prize.

Especially if you're a man in your prime who has passed through the fire of hard work to create your value.

You need to internalize the reality that you're the prize any sane, feminine and traditional wo.man should have.

But why would you now start downgrading yourself to get the attention of these Agbommas who are not even worth it?

My brothers, think about it yourself.

Why should you start accepting the nonsense that a jezebelic and manipulative wo.man frustrates your life with? That is a scarcity mindset you should not have in your prime.

The type of wo.man who should not even have access to you in the first place is the wo.man you're begging to date you? A woman that should jump to the high heavens because you asked her to date you is the wo.man you're worried would reject you?

You are young, handsome, financially stable or still working hard to create your value. You have your commitment to offer and you're scared a wo.man would reject you?

How did men fall that low?

The truth is that when you realize you're the prize and put in the work to create your value, a feminine traditional wo.man will be naturally attracted to you and she won't stress you because she's happy, contented and very appreciative of the fact that she got the prize.

This is when you experience the true nurturing and motherhood attention/capacity of a wo.man who desires you.

There's a process to these things and I'll share it with you:

1. Work to create your value
2. Realize you're the prize
3. You'll naturally be repulsed by a wo.man who doesn't measure up to your standard. You yourself will see that you deserve better.
4. You'll attract the good, feminine and submissive wo.man who's happy and willing to do her part to make your life better just as you're making her life better.
5. This is the wo.man you'll offer your commitment and make sacrifices for in marriage.

If you understand all these, why would you throw your life away by marrying a jezebelic wo.man who does not even bring the bare minimums of Femininity and Womanhood to your life?

As a matter of fact, when you're in your prime and you have become an Alpha, you would feel really disgusted having anything serious to do with an Agbomma or jezebelic wo.man

What happened to the soft, sweet, family-oriented, feminine and traditional wo.men who have kept themselves for high value men like you? As a king, these are the real queens you should have serious interest in if you're looking for a wife and mother for your unborn children.

The ones Agbomma tries to gaslight with the "pick mes" label because they still have their Femininity and Womanhood in tact.

Instead of Agbomma to think about her life why no serious man is picking her but she's being passed across the streets like Barca tikitaka against Man City, she's busy shaming a more responsible wo.man.

My brother,

Why would you now go and collect the ball after 120 minutes that Barca and Man City have finished passing around with it when you can get a ball that hasn't gone through such intense matches?

In fact, do you know that it's not the ball that is used for warm up before a match that is eventually used when the match starts? A new ball is brought to start the match proper.

Why would you get yourself entangled in the dark web of a streets girl?

Why would you do such harm to yourself?

Why you?

youngvikthor:
Please, always remember that

The goal is never to condemn wo.men but to save men.

As a man like you, my goal is to help you realize and internalize the fact that you're the prize.

Especially if you're a man in your prime who has passed through the fire of hard work to create your value.

You need to internalize the reality that you're the prize any sane, feminine and traditional wo.man should have.

But why would you now start downgrading yourself to get the attention of these Agbommas who are not even worth it?

My brothers, think about it yourself.

Why should you start accepting the nonsense that a jezebelic and manipulative wo.man frustrates your life with? That is a scarcity mindset you should not have in your prime.

The type of wo.man who should not even have access to you in the first place is the wo.man you're begging to date you? A woman that should jump to the high heavens because you asked her to date you is the wo.man you're worried would reject you?

You are young, handsome, financially stable or still working hard to create your value. You have your commitment to offer and you're scared a wo.man would reject you?

How did men fall that low?

The truth is that when you realize you're the prize and put in the work to create your value, a feminine traditional wo.man will be naturally attracted to you and she won't stress you because she's happy, contented and very appreciative of the fact that she got the prize.

This is when you experience the true nurturing and motherhood attention/capacity of a wo.man who desires you.

There's a process to these things and I'll share it with you:

1. Work to create your value
2. Realize you're the prize
3. You'll naturally be repulsed by a wo.man who doesn't measure up to your standard. You yourself will see that you deserve better.
4. You'll attract the good, feminine and submissive wo.man who's happy and willing to do her part to make your life better just as you're making her life better.
5. This is the wo.man you'll offer your commitment and make sacrifices for in marriage.

If you understand all these, why would you throw your life away by marrying a jezebelic wo.man who does not even bring the bare minimums of Femininity and Womanhood to your life?

As a matter of fact, when you're in your prime and you have become an Alpha, you would feel really disgusted having anything serious to do with an Agbomma or jezebelic wo.man

What happened to the soft, sweet, family-oriented, feminine and traditional wo.men who have kept themselves for high value men like you? As a king, these are the real queens you should have serious interest in if you're looking for a wife and mother for your unborn children.

The ones Agbomma tries to gaslight with the "pick mes" label because they still have their Femininity and Womanhood in tact.

Instead of Agbomma to think about her life why no serious man is picking her but she's being passed across the streets like Barca tikitaka against Man City, she's busy shaming a more responsible wo.man.

My brother,

Why would you now go and collect the ball after 120 minutes that Barca and Man City have finished passing around with it when you can get a ball that hasn't gone through such intense matches?

In fact, do you know that it's not the ball that is used for warm up before a match that is eventually used when the match starts? A new ball is brought to start the match proper.

Why would you get yourself entangled in the dark web of a streets girl?

Why would you do such harm to yourself?

Why you?

Sadio mane has sense. He married a traditional Muslim girl with conservative values. Not all these models video vixens woke feminism women.
He even said all these social media girls are not marriageable.
Stuff is the modern woman is damaged. It's not their fault exactly. The western world makes a girl believe being a virgin at 18 is improper.
The next thing is boyfriend after boyfriend. Emotional damage from bad boys addiction to past boyfriends oloshoism sex addiction etc. By the time they are in their late 20s they are damaged.
Western civilization has sold us a lie.
By the way sadio mane is a traditional Muslim

Amazing! These children are still here debating about women for years 🥲.
I wish it was money matters… imagine the progress 🤦🏽‍♂️

A long but eye opening piece on the feminization of men. Especially in regards to our modern lifestyle.

AyoII:
It is not their faults. But they can take control of their lives. Somehow.

This is not a sexist post, but a time for reflection, and adjustments.

It is not also a medical advice because I do not have the training in such fields. But I can read and write. I can think and reflect. I can search, and research.

Testosterone is not just a sex hormone. It is more. In it are the key blocs that makes a man, man. Physically, mentally, psychologically and otherwise. It has huge impact on a man's mood and control. Even his build.

Few years ago, a medical director in one of the leading fertility centres in Lagos cried out over the poor quality of sperms they are getting from donors, mostly aged 25 to 30, lacking virility, poor motility and no vibrancy.

Few other experts confirmed same.

They are victims of circumstances that seem to be beyond their control, but are not. It is in the food they are eating, the drinks they take, the stuff they use as body care products, and unfortunately in the air they breathe.

The food, beverage, and cosmetics industry are stealing our manhood, profit is dealing a blow to a whole generation of offspring, turning them into mentally weak men, destroying their testosterone and packing their bodies up with feminization chemicals.

You find them exchanging words with women like they are in a market square. Their self control is zero. Carriage is zero., with no presence even where they are successful in their chosen fields.

They have that urge to have the last word in any argument and their mannerisms show telltale signs that these ones lack the sterner stuff that makes men men.

You can't even tell them to be a man because the meaning is lost on them. And you could be tagged something else and be thoroughly canceled.

The key hormone that makes men men is testosterone, and in the last 50 years, the rate at which it is dropping is frightening. It is not a Nigerian problem. It is global. Men are being feminized at a rate unknown is human history, and we are losing manhoods faster than we think.

There is physiological shift: Across the population, men today have less testosterone compared to men of the same age a generation ago. Explaining the reasons behind this epidemic is complex. But I will try.

According to a study published in the Journal of Clinical Endocrinology and Metabolism, there is a “substantial” drop in men’s testosterone levels since the 1980s, with average levels declining by about 1% per year. This means, for example, that a 60-year-old man in 2004 had testosterone levels 17% lower than those of a 60-year-old in 1987.

Another study of Danish men produced similar findings, with double-digit declines among men born in the 1960s compared to those born decades before, and that of those born in 1990’s reflects the same negative trajectory.

While reproductive disorders like testicular cancer are on the rise, sperm counts are sinking. Never have we witnessed the present levels of infertility challenges in human history thus leading to the rise of fertility clinics and testosterone replacement therapies globally.

Even to perform their statutory duties, men in their 30’s now rely wholly on sexual enhancers to meet demands, which in turn wreck havocs in their entire system. Experts say youngmen are driving up demands in the sexual enhancement market.

According to IMIR Research Analyst, the Global Sexual Enhancement Supplements Market size is expected to reach USD 608.94 Million by 2028, exhibiting a CAGR of 10.65% during the forecast period, 2021-2028. The market size stood at USD 300.36 Million in 2021.20.

Researchers have also found that there is a decline in musculoskeletal strength among young men: In a 2016 study, the average 20- to 34-year-old man could apply 98 pounds of force with a right-handed grip, down from 117 pounds by a man of the same age in 1985. Though grip strength isn’t necessarily a proxy for overall fitness, it’s a strong predictor of future mortality.

Experts say that the decline in testosterone levels is linked to higher rates of obesity which suppresses testosterone. Some of the causes are what people can control, some are outside their control.

For example, increased exposure to environmental toxins, such as pesticides, parabens, and chemicals common in household products like phthalates and bisphenol A are causing weight gain in many men.

The massive attacks on the male hormone are primarily being driven by the quantity of xenoestrogens around us today. These fake estrogens attach to certain cell receptor sites and displace testosterone. Over time they build up in your system and exert estrogen dominance in men thus feminizing men with female hormones.

When I see men eat out of plastic packs, or drink hot stuff out of plastic, I feel for them because they do not know what they are doing to their bodies especially in a country where regulatory agencies are dead.

Bisphenol-A should have no business in food wraps, plastics and the plastic linings of cans, where it leaches into your foods and beverages. But they are everywhere. That’s why I tell young men to always choose glass storage containers or mugs over plastics.

Another is Phthalates. They are not just found in plastics.They’re in everything from deodorants to shower curtains to carpeting. In your home, you’ll find them in almost anything that has a fragrance like shampoo, perfume, skin cleansers, air fresheners, laundry detergents and so on. When you use them, the phthalates seep into your body.

Even some drugs we take have can cause testosterone loss as they interfere with the production of cholesterol, the initial basic building block of all your steroid hormones…including testosterone.

Aside that, scientists claim that between 33% and 50% of men with this metabolic disorder have low plasma testosterone. Add to that, sedentary lifestyle saps the testosterone right out of your body, even among men of younger ages.

This means that every hour you spend as a television-watching-couch-potato you’re robbing your body of the hormone that defines your maleness.

Why are you developing breasts? You should be worried.

Becareful about the thinks you eat, and what you feed your sons, noodles day and night, MSGs masquerading as seasoning cubes are destroying our men and these profit chasing businesses do not care about you.

TBC

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Mane always a man who gets value for his services and money…….Marriage with an 18y/o virgin is a masterstroke

Omo

Battalion1:
Omo

Omo say wetin happen?

DarkCaesar:
Mane always a man who gets value for his services and money…….Marriage with an 18y/o virgin is a masterstroke

Bro was wise enough not to fall for Western and 'woke' ladies.

Needless to say, that his bride is made for life.

JESHAL007:
IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.

They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife.

Lol. Why evils?

Battalion1:
Omo

This has always been men's mumu buttons for ages but feminism came with lies that even doing all these things will not stop him from cheating.

I just pray let many young women out there use this lady as a role model in marriages, maybe marriages will no longer be fearful. Make cheating rates reduce.

Better to be alone as a man and maintain your self esteem and reputation than invite women that will rip off everything you've worked for.

Self-control is important especially when you aren't ready for the consequences of sex like marriage, nurturing kids, pregnancy, commitment, provision, protection, emotional attachment, physical attachment, heartbreak, and stds/stis.

adambeatz:
Bro, lemme generalize it from my view, any man that wants to marry or married a bleaching material in the name of love is either mentally retarded or should be physically blind.

A woman that bleaches is a very insecure human being and they wear the insecurity by bleaching as a badge, the one's that are good in deception use hydrogen peroxide to wash their knuckles and other obvious spots that would give them away. When they enter their husband's home and keep up with the bleaching, it would later cause damage to their body organs, the body tries to produce melanin, the bleaching creams breakdown the melanin and the body is forced to expel the damage while trying to repair(na them be the real wolverines with admantium in their body causing their healing factors to go haywire). A never ending cycle of which when it's time to give birth they've ended up producing substandard kids cause their body's where never at optimal peak conditions before giving birth. Not to talk of the smell they give off under heat when they don't apply their heavy perfume.[b]

The girls who don't bleach don't know what God gave them, I've come across some of them who use all natural skin care routines and have their dark skin under the sun looking much better that the fair skinned (both the bleach & non bleaching). If not for the western brain washing in all our media having everyone think white skin is better, have you guys seen dark skin and fair skinned women during old age without skin surgery, you'd rush for the dark skin, a fair skinned woman can't stay under the sun for long cause she doesn't have the melanin to absorb the light fromt the sun hence she turns red and always seeks shelter. I only f*ck with dark skinned babes and during dating I make sure they upgrade their skin so even if we don't end up, my next nigga wey wan take over go appreciate the works of my hand. One love

Bro u just dey vex. Seems you've got a lot of experience with them. My spec is usually thick, chubby, black, decent back, natural African female smell(pheromone). Could opt for natural light skin if no options-- generally not a fan of lepka or light skin don't know wetin guys dey see for lepka & light skinned. D lepka ones sef na dem get problem pass. Bones everywhere. Abeg!

JESHAL007:
Self-control is important especially when you aren't ready for the consequences of sex like marriage, nurturing kids, pregnancy, commitment, provision, protection, emotional attachment, physical attachment, heartbreak, and stds/stis.

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Hello bro, I saw you sent me a pm, don't have access to my mail. Can we chat on WhatsApp?

Hedgefunds:
Hi , can you share your story so we can learn? And be careful of mentors?

Walai:
Hello bro, I saw you sent me a pm, don't have access to my mail. Can we chat on WhatsApp?

Saw you mentioned you r igala and into construction ..can I see some of ur project...r u in kogi st now?

Yes, but to be sincere, I got attached to a construction as a labourer not a professional when my Keke hustle dwindled. You can check my 2020 threads.
Currently not with them but I can provide contacts.
As for being Igala, yes I have Igala blood in my veins but grew up in SE/SW. Not too familiar with Kogi

Hedgefunds:
Saw you mentioned you r igala and into construction ..can I see some of ur project...r u in kogi st now?

DieRich5:
Happy new year red fam


Yesterday 2nd, I saw my girlfriend with another boy going out and dem pass my street nd I was just going out to meet my aunt, luckily I came back cus light just come so I need to drop my fone at home, on my way home, I saw dem Nd I was shock Nd she greeted me, I didn't answer, I just pass dem...

The thing pain me, I'm not calling her and I'll just break up with her if she call me

I don't know why I'm sad

Understandable that you felt this way. However, more work still needs to be done in your red pill journey to the extent that things like this don't pain you. There is a simple level one ought to get to where one understands women well enough that if one stumbles on one's wife or gf flirting or sleeping with another man, one simply ends the union without feeling sad or heartbroken, or even attacking or killing the man fùcking his wife.

A redpiller understands female nature and prepares his mind and heart for the possibilities that comes with dealing with women. As he ages, fewer things take him by surprise or leave him heart broken. He moves on like a boss. It is well.

The thing pained you probably because your heart fell in love, you thought she is different and you made investment based on that, and what have you. I believe you will be stronger if you decide to go into a relationship again.

I don't know why I'm sad Nd funny thing I've had sex with more than 6 girl in this our 1 yr+ relationship

Well well, absolute equality can't be drawn between male and female infidelity and promiscuity when it comes to serious relationship and marriage. Men and women are not the same. If your wife loses her job and becomes broke, it won't have the same effective on the union as you losing your job and becoming broke. It all boils down to the differences between genders and how they differently perceive certain qualities in the opposite gender. I could say more to explicate, but ponder on it. Never draw absolute equality between male and female infidelity or promiscuity in a relationship.

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Most times I see this feminism as a move to curtail birth rate all over the world and to destroy families, that's why unmarried young women and many young divorced women abound the earth.

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All hands must be on deck to save blind kings from the valley of simphood.

AndrewTate:
Amazing! These children are still here debating about women for years 🥲.
I wish it was money matters… imagine the progress 🤦🏽‍♂️

You can open a thread in the business section and start the discussions