12345baba:
Lie lie story, what's the name of Nigerian movie u watched last night. The way u write I doubt if u done Bleep before talk more of giving belle

It may be true, my elder brother did worse

You are an idiot..

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

If you want to claim responsibility of the child, they supposed bill you for all the money spent, from pregnancy until date. Which I know you have no such money.
You are just a vagabond who is running and relocating. 😆 just keep running and relocating and leave them alone.

God bless you 🙏 Big Time 💯

Lifeinlight:
Lol, you no get pikin anywhere oga

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

This thin requires wisdom and lots of begging coz you ran away from responsibility.

What IF she Abort the pregnancy? Will you be claiming any child?

Maybe she's not your daughter

Op you're a clown.

You're really self centred and entitled.

Let me tell you if you really want to get back you'll start from the ground up and there's no guarantee that it'll work.

Start afresh. You're still holding ground and rights. If it was my sister you'll be in a cell by now or at least you go don collect if you showed up acting like this.

TheWinterBird:


You've audacity ooo. This is a child you wanted her to kill and whom you abandoned for 7-years. And you just paraded back into their lives in December (which was just two weeks ago) expecting her to allow you to see her and saying you want to sue her. The heck?! Is she not the one who ought to sue you?! Not to mention the 7-years of child support you're owing her. Your audacity is something else.

Funny man, indeed!
He is claiming bragging rights na wa o!
'My picking,my daughter, and her mother would not allowed me'
Allowed you to do what?
That girl you said she should abort,abi,I no read well and supposing she is claiming another person's name?
Who told you is your daughter!
Go Court and see how you will be floored!
The only road for you is to calm down,get responsible Elders,to go and beg the whole Family and Pray God gives you favour before them.

Philipmaxwell:


Bros, you foolish oo.. She has already grown up with a father.. Going through your responses just show that the mother truly love that child to be protecting her from you, because from what I see, you just wan come cause them more pain and ruin the life of that child...

Carry your money and go and remain irresponsible and stupid.. It suits you well

Bongadu:



It's my child , I've the right to be her father

I don't want my daughter to grow up without a father

Bros, you foolish oo.. She has already grown up without a father.. Going through your responses just show that the mother truly love that child to be protecting her from you, because from what I see, you just wan come cause them more pain and ruin the life of that child...

Carry your money and go and remain irresponsible and stupid.. It suits you well

After all said and done, OP might not even be the biological father.

In case you are, explore your legal rights as a biological dad,

The child has a right to her dad, the mistakes and bitterness of adults does not change that.
7 years is better than never or 28 years later.

People will behave badly but we must not allow our reaction to make us even worse than them.

My uncle's daughter got regnant like 26 years ago. Her Bf's dad insisted on aborting it but my uncle and aunt refused. The child was born and raised by uncle's family for at least first 21 years of life. Although the bf was later coming and bringing the girl presents. He never married my cousin and both parted ways.

The guy died when the girl was about 12. If the girl had been aborted as his father insisted he would have had no kid.

A few years ago, the girl was getting married, it was the granddad (the boy's father) who collected the bride price in his house. My uncle did not even attend.

My uncle took the position that he did his best for the child's survival and happiness and avoided rancour.

It happened to my female cousin and life went on.

@ Bongadu, learn from your mistake.

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

Can you please say that shit you talk to your hand and smell it. You left for some years and now you wanted to claim the child. Na idiot you be.

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

You don Bleep up, just keep trying to win them back. It will take time but they will definitely come through.

Don't be unfortunate, allow ur daughter to grow to a certain age before trying to approaching her. Your Ex is right to frustrate you. You acted in a stupid manner

Switinthemiddle:
My story is almost the same with urs but the difference between us was that she told me she had gone for abortion but later called me up to tell me it didnt fall thru. I initially didnt want to come back home but after much pressure frm my family i came back. My family stood behind me and took care of her during her first few months. She and my mum literally became 5 and 6 even till now. I came back when she was like 7 months gone and i have never made a better decision in my life. After much begging and petting my babymama accepted me back and our relationship has healed as a result. I think parenthood has changed us both and our outlook on life. Everyday i look at my angel Vannessa and i just smile. She's the best gift God ever gave me.
so guy dont miss another day in your girl's life. E get y

I think he lost his chance.

Oyindidi:
It may be true, my elder brother did worse

the write up is not convincing.

Thabothabo101:


This is a great comment and I hope the OP takes heed. OP, please read this and other comments carefully and be nice to your ex.

The last thing you want to do is to start threatening her (your ex) with lawyers and police. That will only make things worse. Give her space, go about your day, and fill up your time with activities, you sound like an idle man.

I swear, he sounds idle and stranded with himself then wants to pour it oh his woman

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

Who told you the child belongs to you ? Na only you get pennnnnis ? Aside from DNA, Wait for the child to start school and secretly visit the school to check her surname before you start shouting "she is my daughter, I want to take care of her"

Bongadu:



It's my child , I've the right to be her father

I don't want my daughter to grow up without a father

But you didn't want to be a father to the child; you didn't want the child to exist in the first place. Since you assumed the child was dead to you for 7 years, why don't you continue the assumption? It's safe for everyone you know.

Switinthemiddle:
My story is almost the same with urs but the difference between us was that she told me she had gone for abortion but later called me up to tell me it didnt fall thru. I initially didnt want to come back home but after much pressure frm my family i came back. My family stood behind me and took care of her during her first few months. She and my mum literally became 5 and 6 even till now. I came back when she was like 7 months gone and i have never made a better decision in my life. After much begging and petting my babymama accepted me back and our relationship has healed as a result. I think parenthood has changed us both and our outlook on life. Everyday i look at my angel Vannessa and i just smile. She's the best gift God ever gave me.
so guy dont miss another day in your girl's life. E get y

So have you married her?

Bongadu:

She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

Come back for your daughter when you are grown up. small pikin still dey worry you like malaria.

how did you know she is your daughter have you done DNA test?

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

You'll give birth to daughters too and what goes around comes around.

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

So a murderer like you have the gut to request to be in the life of someone you paid for to be kìlled...
YOU WILL NEVER KNOW PEACE BY THE GRACE OF GOD.
IF I WERE THAT GIRLS FATHER, I'LL MAKE SURE I MAKE ARRANGEMENTS FOR YOU END IN LIFE.
You don't deserve the gift of life I swear.

At 32, you still don't have sense. From your write up, it's very obvious you don't even plan on having a reasonable relationship with your ex that you abandoned for 8 years while she was pregnant. The only thing you seem to care about is the child that you paid money to be aborted.

For now, the only thing that should be on your mind is seeking forgiveness and friendship with your ex. When that's sorted, the issue of seeing your "daughter" won't even pop up because it would come naturally. If you allow your foolishness to continue by trying to use force you would suffer.

If I was a brother to your ex, I would have dealt with you myself. Imagine the effrontery and audacity to claim a child that you never bothered to ask about for years.

You want to sue her for your own irresponsibility?
You made a mistake back then because you were young and stupid, now that you are an adult, you are still displaying unnecessary arrogance, and insensitivity.
Just imagine the pain, the loneliness and stress she must have gone through, pre and post natal... And you think you can huff and puff because you claim to have enough to take care of the child now?
It doesn't work that way...you are just a sperm donor.
The decision you made to abandon her when she needed you the most, will haunt you always, and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.

You are a bastard. Ppl like you should be sh#t and dragged by the balls. Your ex is someone's daughter FFS. You made her go through all the hell of giving birth and raising the child alone. Now it's time for you to casually stroll in and claim paternity. I have a daughter in whom I'm pleased, I knoe how bad this feels. If I was your exs father, I will have teach u a lesson u won't forget. Anuofia.

GboyegaD:


Is that enough to deny her of her father? She is not been fair to the daughter. I understand her pains but she needs look past that for the sake of her daughter.

Oloriburuku na him you be.
Most of you don't deserve peace and happiness in life.
You don't even deserve the gift of life.
I'm sure you're more stupíd than the retaɍded poster.
Someone asked for a child to be killed and even paid for the job to be done.
The mother refused.
The bastård ran away for seven years and now he came back few weeks ago and had the audacity to be requesting for the child.
If I were that girl's father, I'll definitely make an arrangement for that bãstard to be beaten to death.

Kukutente23:

Sperm donor is a term created by frustrated feminists. A father is a father whether good or bad. There are people who abandoned their children for 20+ years. He's even lucky he's received sense at this early stage. The child deserves to have her father. It should not be immediate but talk of losing rights is totally off the mark!

You're clearly a block head. A chimp is far more intelligent than you.

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

you should be in jail and you're here whining like a pig.

G00dharddick:


Do a DNA test first then come back and tell me what the result says before I'll advise you on what to do.

Noticed how pained and angry most of the women here are at the mentioned of DNA test? There's more to the eyes bro. She's just waiting for the girl's real father to come and it's certainly not you

From a woman who doesn't want him at all? She'd be relieved if he's not the father. Is all well with you upstairs? You blockheads on this forum need to form a group of your own.

Kukutente23:
The bitterness from all these feminists and their Simpsons on this thread? Chai!!

No. You're the one who is sick in the head.

The OP no get common sense