cococandy:


This is a lame comeback to avoid self reflection. But it won’t stop me from telling you it as it is.

Black men in general have a hard time getting respect from other races of men because you are the only ones who disparage your women publicly. A lot of you merit respect on individual basis and I’m sure when people get to meet and know you, they might discover that and respect you according to your personal qualities. But as a group, it’s hard to respect you.

Sure every race of men have their problems and so do their women. They fight and do all whatever within their communities but you guys are the only one who make it point to loudly tell other races of women how lowly you think of your own women. You don’t think it affects how they view you but it does. Who will respect someone that thinks so lowly of the wombs that birth and raised them?

This is evident in the fact that as a collective, you don’t care to improve your community for your women and children even though you’ve been in leadership for centuries.

As terrible as white men are (and this is coming from someone who wouldn’t touch them with a foot long pole), one thing they know for sure is that they value their future generations and work relentlessly as a collective to conquer the world for them. That’s why the negro community remains conquered to this day.

You have a goal. And your goal is to make sure that none of your future generations looks like you. That’s why you’re obsessed with white women and light skin black women.

You’ve accepted your place as a lesser race hence your need to mate with anyone other than yourselves. Pretty sure once a light skin woman smiles at you, you’ll leave your Ghanaian babe and go running. Truly pathetic.

Take it easy ma 🤣🤣

YoshihideSuga:


By education, what level of education do you mean? There are uneducated women in Nigeria and other parts of Africa. Our ladies might (a very big might) be more educated than African American women, but that's as a result of immigration since education is a major pipeline for immigrants to enter the US. So stating categorically that our women are more educated than African American women isn't the right thing to do.

Yes you are right, I meant our women in the US. Though the average AA woman is just like our average Nigerian woman here too, no difference in terms of education

jubrilELsudan:
THE WORST WHITE WOMAN IS STILL MANY TIMES BETTER THAN THE BEST NIGERIAN WOMAN MANY TIMES OVER

Keep deceiving yourself

cococandy:


This is a lame comeback to avoid self reflection. But it won’t stop me from telling you it as it is.

Black men in general have a hard time getting respect from other races of men because you are the only ones who disparage your women publicly. A lot of you merit respect on individual basis and I’m sure when people get to meet and know you, they might discover that and respect you according to your personal qualities. But as a group, it’s hard to respect you.

Sure every race of men have their problems and so do their women. They fight and do all whatever within their communities but you guys are the only one who make it point to loudly tell other races of women how lowly you think of your own women. You don’t think it affects how they view you but it does. Who will respect someone that thinks so lowly of the wombs that birth and raised them?

This is evident in the fact that as a collective, you don’t care to improve your community for your women and children even though you’ve been in leadership for centuries.

As terrible as white men are (and this is coming from someone who wouldn’t touch them with a foot long pole), one thing they know for sure is that they value their future generations and work relentlessly as a collective to conquer the world for them. That’s why the negro community remains conquered to this day.

You have a goal. And your goal is to make sure that none of your future generations looks like you. That’s why you’re obsessed with white women and light skin black women.

You’ve accepted your place as a lesser race hence your need to mate with anyone other than yourselves. Pretty sure once a light skin woman smiles at you, you’ll leave your Ghanaian babe and go running. Truly pathetic.

A lot of you black women especially the African American women don't respect your black men and you expect him to treat you like a queen. You will be dragging head of household with him, you don't help him build or generate wealth. You talk down on him and disparage him in public. Submitting to your husband is a big no for you. The white women introduced feminism to this world but na black women don carry am for head pass. Look at how an average black man treats his mother like the goddesses they are and you are here insinuating rubbish that black men are terrible to black women by default. Black men give as good as they get. No time for rubbish, especially in 2024 and beyond. You don't like it? Too bad, cos we don't f**king care!

Aklee4994:
within 3 years this guy born three children maybe na online dating...but the story is not clear

The thing no understand me too, e be like say him change the children name after her death.

LastProphet:
There are 2 categories of people that marry white - those that moved abroad as professionals, students who live over there at the same level as white people, and those that go as non professionals, the ones that cross desert etc. The first group marry young white girls and the white girls even feel lucky, while the latter group end up with white grandmas because of visa. You don't lump these two together because their class, experience and status are worlds apart. Dora Akunyilis daughter married to a fine white boy of her age that she attended school with and they have equal social status and she doesn't care about his papers because she has her own or can get her own. How can hundreds of people comment without knowing this?

I swear u are smart, the mumus always feel its grandma's that guys always marry,na who dey under pressure for papers dey marry any available woman.i am dating a 29year old foreigner. I for post our photos but too many sadists here

YoshihideSuga:


You're right about the psychology, but if his brother was born in the UK and lives in an environment with few black women, you really cannot blame him.

my message was for his brother being an adult when he entered uk.

TBH it does not work that way, it all depends on how you handle them from the beginning. i was with one before separating and we worked hand in hand they are just too emotionally draining. mind you bills are 50 50 too..

FitCorper:
Omo na slavery for most oh! I know them wella de go lie so others go fall enter the same mess as them. They are slavery 2.0 and gats be loyal dogs otherwise na deportation b their reward.

Omo I calm down read all comments and I can say this is the most interesting topic I've read in 2024 so far, and the best comment came from Cococandy.. gosh I love her abeg she too Sabi talk sense.. she's my 2024 crush officially. She supposed teach for havard

Obierika:


Keep deceiving yourself

THUNDER FIRE YOU WITH YOUR Keep deceiving yourself

If u marry an American working class lady,u will start enjoying ur American dream immediately

cococandy:


This is a lame comeback to avoid self reflection. But it won’t stop me from telling you it as it is.

Black men in general have a hard time getting respect from other races of men because you are the only ones who disparage your women publicly. A lot of you merit respect on individual basis and I’m sure when people get to meet and know you, they might discover that and respect you according to your personal qualities. But as a group, it’s hard to respect you.

Sure every race of men have their problems and so do their women. They fight and do all whatever within their communities but you guys are the only one who make it point to loudly tell other races of women how lowly you think of your own women. You don’t think it affects how they view you but it does. Who will respect someone that thinks so lowly of the wombs that birth and raised them?

This is evident in the fact that as a collective, you don’t care to improve your community for your women and children even though you’ve been in leadership for centuries.

As terrible as white men are (and this is coming from someone who wouldn’t touch them with a foot long pole), one thing they know for sure is that they value their future generations and work relentlessly as a collective to conquer the world for them. That’s why the negro community remains conquered to this day.

You have a goal. And your goal is to make sure that none of your future generations looks like you. That’s why you’re obsessed with white women and light skin black women.

You’ve accepted your place as a lesser race hence your need to mate with anyone other than yourselves. Pretty sure once a light skin woman smiles at you, you’ll leave your Ghanaian babe and go running. Truly pathetic.

💯

Nothing more to add

Mavor:
A lot of you black women especially the African American women don't respect your black men and you expect him to treat you like a queen. You will be dragging head of household with him, you don't help him build or generate wealth. You talk down on him and disparage him in public. Submitting to your husband is a big no for you. The white women introduced feminism to this world but na black women don carry am for head pass. Look at how an average black man treats his mother like the goddesses they are and you are here insinuating rubbish that black men are terrible to black women by default. Black men give as good as they get. No time for rubbish, especially in 2024 and beyond. You don't like it? Too bad, cos we don't f**king care!

Hehehe

The original post by Kolanife triggered alot of women(especially the angry & embittered ones) on this thread
Didnt you notice how they kept on prodding and prodding and prodding for more information on his relationship with the foreign
woman?Simply to acquire Info that they wanted to use to attack him and all "blackmen"
Too bad kolanife did not ignore them but feel right into their trap.
I just dey laugh all of them.
Guess what?Deep down in their hearts,black women are threatened by white women because they believe white women are better than them and they also believe white men are better than black men.
They suffer more from an inferiority complex towards other races than blackmen but they project those insecurities onto blackmen.
Never be deceived by their fake victimhood

jubrilELsudan:


THUNDER FIRE YOU WITH YOUR Keep deceiving yourself

Na the one wey fire you remain!!!

Ojagun:


Hehehe

The original post by Kolanife triggered alot of women(especially the angry & embittered ones) on this thread
Didnt you notice how they kept on prodding and prodding and prodding for more information on his relationship with the foreign
woman?Simply to acquire Info that they wanted to use to attack him and all "blackmen"
Too bad kolanife did not ignore them but feel right into their trap.
I just dey laugh all of them.
Guess what?Deep down in their hearts,black women are threatened by white women because they believe white women are better than them and they also believe white men are better than black men.
They suffer more from an inferiority complex towards other races than blackmen but they project those insecurities onto blackmen.
Never be deceived by their fake victimhood

No mind them. A typical black woman respects her boss in the office or her pastor more than she respects her husband. In the States, a lot of black men are going for Asian or Whites because of the peace of mind and respect they get. At the end of the day everybody should go for his or her preference in life. I will not be emotionally blackmailed by anyone just because you and I share the same color of skin. Women these days lack personal accountability and that is the genesis of their problem.

CandidAdmin:
Dyingfestus and Bongadu, abeg wetin be "yt"?

Bact to the topic.

Sometimes I feel 9ja women pass them.

9ja women cheat, white also cheat.
9ja women do partenity fraud, they do it more.
9jb women dey lash bestie, omo, white dey friendzone a lot.
9ja women still dey submissive, those ones no dey submissive at all.
When it comes to divource, gosh, as long as you're dating white women, say bye-bye to half of your shit.

how much will black woman take off you divorce. Clown

Cromagnon:
how much will black woman take off you divorce. Clown

What's with the insult?

Besides is there a law that says a woman will take part of your properties after divource in Nigeria?

LastProphet:


True they get tired atimes and don't believe in enduring after that. But many have remained married. And few marry you in order to defraud you of the house or whatever, never, rather it is our own ladies followed by African American women that do that. No white woman would marry you if she didn't love you, none

You are very unwise dear. Keep thinking that white women are marrying for love. They are marrying for a moment. A feeling of excitement in the moment is not love.

Great experience especially when with a lady from Eastern Europe. Overall it's a great experience for so many reasons. Lots of these white women have respect - Not talking about greeting you.
They are usually emotional intelligent.
If she loves your culture then she is all yours for real.
Economically, they can lift you up because. One reason for that is they don't need to send their relatives money.
In all it still depends on the individual.

Aaaaarghmed:
I swear u are smart, the mumus always feel its grandma's that guys always marry,na who dey under pressure for papers dey marry any available woman.i am dating a 29year old foreigner. I for post our photos but too many sadists here

My brother our country and race has unfair number of dumb people, is the only reason I stay on social media to see what % we can reduce otherwise I have no business here, I doubt my age mate is here. Imagine hundreds of people commenting and none could quickly see that the op has a wrong context to his question? I'm happy for you pls live your life. Anytime you are ahead don't inform others of your progress, that's the key to more exploits.

I'm noticing a lot of eastern Europe comment. I think they are submissive and good wives because of poverty. Unlike American or richer europe.

NaBanga:


You are very unwise dear. Keep thinking that white women are marrying for love. They are marrying for a moment. A feeling of excitement in the moment is not love.

Your education will take too long, for someone still assuming that love means it lasts forever and that it's not live because it's short-lived, I have nothing to say to you. You don't even know who you are talking to, cheers young man

They are so emotional attached so do not bridge.When they are in fully for the lovey dovey thing,they do not want side attractions from you, all she needs is trust and be open minded.
They will go lengths for you to be more happy with them by showing you what love or how love plays out,that you will tell yourself deeply to double up your love for her..But do not mess up,because the aftermath of catching you in an act of dishonesty can bring the real craze out of them.

cococandy:


This is a lame comeback to avoid self reflection. But it won’t stop me from telling you it as it is.

Black men in general have a hard time getting respect from other races of men because you are the only ones who disparage your women publicly. A lot of you merit respect on individual basis and I’m sure when people get to meet and know you, they might discover that and respect you according to your personal qualities. But as a group, it’s hard to respect you.

Sure every race of men have their problems and so do their women. They fight and do all whatever within their communities but you guys are the only one who make it point to loudly tell other races of women how lowly you think of your own women. You don’t think it affects how they view you but it does. Who will respect someone that thinks so lowly of the wombs that birth and raised them?

This is evident in the fact that as a collective, you don’t care to improve your community for your women and children even though you’ve been in leadership for centuries.

As terrible as white men are (and this is coming from someone who wouldn’t touch them with a foot long pole), one thing they know for sure is that they value their future generations and work relentlessly as a collective to conquer the world for them. That’s why the negro community remains conquered to this day.

You have a goal. And your goal is to make sure that none of your future generations looks like you. That’s why you’re obsessed with white women and light skin black women.

You’ve accepted your place as a lesser race hence your need to mate with anyone other than yourselves. Pretty sure once a light skin woman smiles at you, you’ll leave your Ghanaian babe and go running. Truly pathetic.

Most men marry white ladies simply because of paper and other benefits of which most of them still return home to marry black ladies, but same cannot be said of black women, alot of black ladies despise and broke shame black men for white men which they later regret, example Kora obidi and DJ cuppy to mention but a few.

CandidAdmin:


What's with the insult?

To emphasize the absurdity of your statement

Besides is there a law that says a woman will take part of your properties after divource in Nigeria?

Did I mention Nigeria
Did you
Is the divorce law for whites different for black women?

Cromagnon:
To emphasize the absurdity of your statement

Did I mention Nigeria Did you Is the divorce law for whites different for black women?

Crap.
I'm responsible for what I type not what you understood.
I said 9ja women not black women.
And when I said 9ja women, I meant in Nigeria.
Again, there's no law saying you'll give someone half your shit in 9ja.

CandidAdmin:


Crap.

I'm responsible for what I type not what you understood.

Aviation you are of you don't Ecolab yourself beyond all reasonable doubt

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I said 9ja women not black women.

Are Nigerian women white?

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And when I said 9ja women, I meant in Nigeria.

But are they about though

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Again, there's no law saying you'll give someone half your shit in 9ja.

so what does have to do with white women

tensazangetsu20:
Women are the same everywhere just pray to find someone who is good and God fearing

Lol this is a lie the devil has sold to us, men and women are not the same every where. Have you started dating in Chile, by now you should have experienced differences in dating cultures. It can never be the same.

NaBanga:
I have never see it end well. If a white woman marries you and gets tired, you will see finish. I have seen it several times to my peers. Initially they will lavish you with the best of life and you will think you are in heaven. When they are done, they are done. The courts will be on their side and you will walk away with your job at most. Nigerian women have the decency often to openly fight you. You will know who is your enemy. White women will smile and tell you that you are doing what's best for the family. They will smile and tell you that the two of you are separating on good terms. They will play meek and mild through the process. Once they have the house, the kids and child support,, they will still be acting like a lamb. You won't even realize what has happened until it's all over. Then they will show you a stone face.

For it to end well, it means changing your mentality totally. It involves re-orientation and that’s takes a toll on you. Everyone should stick to their culture and we will be fine.

Bongadu:
yt women are over rated, you'll hate yourself for forking one tbh

No wonder you are dumb enough to abandon your kid that come crying after 7 fuxkcing years

You're worse than any Nigerian woman I know

nedekid:
Even those that marry nigerians abroad, do their children ever come back to naija?
Once you relocate with your kids abroad, they have lost. You may come back, but your kids will hardly, they will build a life there and by the next generation, naija will just be history, especially as the country is not doing well and so no urge to have roots.
Anyway back to the topic, my bro married to British, what he misses the most is pepper, ewa, beans and dodooo, amala etc, not the yeye food, tea, cookies, bland food, not spicy.
The final one is black kpekus. Omo, the last time he was here, he just de halla say Nigerian ladies get shape! Every one, from tomatoe seller, food vendor, fuel station attendant etc. I de tell am say na the kind cloth them de wear, him no gree. Lol
Omo, him no wan see light skin lady. He talk say na the one weh black like charcoal him one nack. Lol.
Nb: I hear if you are a godly fellow and not ready to eat kpekus, don't marry oyinbo.

All submissions very valid.