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Cooolme:
so I'm considering putting him in a good boarding school cos he's too young to come stay with me at the moment.

Thanks.

Problem solved

brain54:
OP didn't state that he avoids males...

It's just what is available for him to interact and play with in that neighborhood.

I enjoyed playing with female kids growing up... Even though I was a bit shy around them.

Boys will always be boys... Except he starts showing other signs then nothing to worry about!

brother, things are a whole lot different. Boys are not boys these days. The shits we have online like gay porn or celebrities whom have left their masculine nature and started implanting big ass and boobs has started and would continue to change what we had. It would affect and continue to project rubbish into the brains of upcoming generation. So it's a whole different situation. During our own time we did not even know what is porn talk more of gayporn that easily available to every he and she goats.

Your concern is understandable and not out of proportion. However, reconsider put him in a boarding house because of his tender age. This is because of his tender age.

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allthingsgood:
clearly you dont know what you are talking about. Most gay men will tell you they knew they were gay from childhood.

The truth is that, if that boy is gay, nothing you do in this world will change it. You cant "correct" nature.
But that said, playing with girls does not mean he is gay or will even act girly.
Remember that all foetuses start out as girls. i see no reason why children cant innocently play as they like, without you adults foisted your poisoned intentions on them.

most gay people lie just to justify their life. Everything about them is lies. They are few in numbers and would do anything to make numbers swell and make it seem normal

betshopagent:
brother, things are a whole lot different. Boys are not boys these days. The shits we have online like gay porn or celebrities whom have left their masculine nature and started implanting big ass and boobs has started and would continue to change what we had. It would affect and continue to project rubbish into the brains of upcoming generation. So it's a whole different situation. During our own time we did not even know what is porn talk more of gayporn that easily available to every he and she goats.

Bro if my 10 year old male kid...

Did not gravitate or attracted towards playing more with female kids then I will be more worried.

Only time I will be worried is if he started acting girlish, showing female tendencies or acts of molestation to them kids.

That's the best way I can put it!

As long he isn't playing with that little girl alone because the imbalance is too much. He's a male that close to puberty. His play mate shouldn't be a girl that is that young.

ellalina:
He has game, buy GTA San Andreas for him. His brain will adjust quickly

Ah San Andreas Ke?
That game isn't for minors lol

This is how it starts. Your mom will never see anything wrong with it until it is too late. You guys better get a grip of things now.

Why are parents nonchalant these days?

Cooolme:
In my my post I didn't make any sexualizing comment, I'm talking about shaping the boy as he grows up.

Bro you did...

Stop denying that.

It's what your post suggests!

Cooolme:
In my my post I didn't make any sexualizing comment, I'm talking about shaping the boy as he grows up.

I have nephews and nieces of the same ages you mentioned, and they all play together. Let him have the freedom he deserves with the love ones around him if you are truly about shaping him up as he grows. Life is all about stages, isolating him from that freedom is most dangerous.

dreamwords:
you forgot to tell us your age as well after telling us the age of every one in your story,
we are wating

I don't hide my age, I'm 23

brain54:
Bro if my 10 year old male kid...

Did not gravitate or attracted towards playing more with female kids then I will be more worried.

Only time I will be worried is if he started acting girlish, showing female tendencies or acts of molestation to them kids.

That's the best way I can put it!

I share your sentiments but I would also be worried if he spends most of his playing time with mostly females just like what the OP portrayed above. Everything should be balanced.

Cooolme:
What brought this one now?
Did you see me mention something like this?
You're weird.

If he is not doing the inappropriate things with them then forget about him playing with girls bcus it's normal. Abi you dey reason say bobrisky play with girls na em make am to be gay?

Fryx:
Welcome to the club bro.

I think mentally deranged people lives here, they think weirdly.

First three comments and all their brains could interpret is “sex” whereas you clearly pointed out why you don’t want him around girls.

Sometimes I feel lost if a created a topic and they all come acting weird.

Back to your concern.

Boarding school will be better. He will learn a lot of life skills there.

For those saying boarding school is worse, it depends on who you are.

When I was in school, my hostel is considered the baddest. Even if you kill a human being among us, no one will hear it outside, we will all keep mum and bear the punishment together.

That does not affect me negatively It only teach me how to be tough and build some team spirit within me.

I am a fragile looking young man, takes very much like my mum and quite handsome. I can tell you how many guys in my hostel are gays cause they made advances towards me. I call out one and he stopped disturbing me, the other molested a junior student and was expelled so I don’t need to bother about him.

However, no one disturb me except that the gay guy I called out in the midst of my mates usually pick trouble with me. But he can’t beat me. However, like I said we keep our shit to ourselves, no one outside our hostel hear anything about the matter.

I went to school and come out unaffected by the unpleasant experiences. But I learnt a lot of skills that will later help me in life.

If you are corrupted in a boarding school, you will stilll be corrupted outside boarding school.

If your brother has good morals, take him to a boarding school. Don’t be scared of the rumors.

Thanks for you input, Boss.
As for the trolls, I'm getting used to them but thing is there will surely be sensible comments somehow.

Cooolme:
Greetings everyone. This festive season, I traveled to my family house and noticed something.

We rented out the 2 bedroom in our compound to this couple with a little girl around 4 year old I think.

Understand that my lil Bro (10) is the last born, so he stays with my Mom and 3 other of my sisters including the eldest. He is very close to our last sister (13), they do literally everything together.

So I noticed whenever our last sister plays with this our neighbour's kid, my lil Bro leaves whatever he's doing to join them. He grew up with the ladies in the house though cos My dad is late so I'm more like the father figure now. I don't live with them, the 2nd boy (17) lives with me and is in the university at my state of residence. This is a new estate we moved into and unlike our former estate where he goes out to play with his peers at the play ground, this one is very quiet and more like OYO (on your own).

Normally, there's a gaming console in the house and also a desktop computer, put them all in the house last year, he could make use of that whenever he's bored but he choose to play with the girls. My Mom doesn't have a problem with that but I don't want him to start behaving like a girl or something, so I'm considering putting him in a good boarding school cos he's too young to come stay with me at the moment.

Also looking out for the best way possible to handle this, need advice from mainly parents please.

Thanks.

ok do u want him to end up a gay? if you dont want hime to play with girls

betshopagent:
I share your sentiments but I would also be worried if he spends most of his playing time with mostly females just like what the OP portrayed above. Everything should be balanced.

OK I get your drift...

But OP did not mention they are male kids in the neighborhood and he avoids them or chooses not play with them.

From my deductions seems they are more female kids around him in the neighborhood and so he has less of an alternative.

He could be balancing things up in school when OP isn't available to observe from a far.

If he hasn't shown any aversion to male company then I don't see any reason to split a hair.

But this is just my thoughts!

Cooolme:
Ah San Andreas Ke?
That game isn't for minors lol

he is trying to save a generation

We4all:
From my personal experience, two things may play out:

1. He will become a woman wrapper
2. He will become a sexual pervert.

Stop his interactions with the little girl or else he will start using her for sex practicals. Such stories abound and don't wait until it's too late.

You forgot option 3: he will grow up to be a well adjusted human being. Women exist in the world, as well as men. Nothing there to make a big deal about.

betshopagent:
most gay people lie just to justify their life. Everything about them is lies. They are few in numbers and would do anything to make numbers swell and make it seem normal

How do u know its lies? Are u gay or do u have any such experience
If u dont, then you shouldnt make comments about what u know nothing about. If people wearing the shoes tell u how it is, then what right do u have to say its a lie

Yestogood:
You forgot option 3: he will grow up to be a well adjusted human being. Women exist in the world, as well as men. Nothing there to make a big deal about.

I wonder what the big deal is...

All these SS1 boy topics.

Cooolme:
What brought this one now?
Did you see me mention something like this?
You're weird.

Dude you are the weird and confused guy here

If your little bro start playing with boys
You fear he might grow up and become gay , and he is playing with girls your fear is that he might grow up behaving like girls...
Cheers.....

Cooolme:
Greetings everyone. This festive season, I traveled to my family house and noticed something.

We rented out the 2 bedroom in our compound to this couple with a little girl around 4 year old I think.

Understand that my lil Bro (10) is the last born, so he stays with my Mom and 3 other of my sisters including the eldest. He is very close to our last sister (13), they do literally everything together.

So I noticed whenever our last sister plays with this our neighbour's kid, my lil Bro leaves whatever he's doing to join them. He grew up with the ladies in the house though cos My dad is late so I'm more like the father figure now. I don't live with them, the 2nd boy (17) lives with me and is in the university at my state of residence. This is a new estate we moved into and unlike our former estate where he goes out to play with his peers at the play ground, this one is very quiet and more like OYO (on your own).

Normally, there's a gaming console in the house and also a desktop computer, put them all in the house last year, he could make use of that whenever he's bored but he choose to play with the girls. My Mom doesn't have a problem with that but I don't want him to start behaving like a girl or something, so I'm considering putting him in a good boarding school cos he's too young to come stay with me at the moment.

Also looking out for the best way possible to handle this, need advice from mainly parents please.

Thanks.

He'll become gay if you dare that. Just leave him be.

finallybusy:
All these SS1 boy topics.

But you commented on it.
Grow up or gtf out here.

Cooolme:
Greetings everyone. This festive season, I traveled to my family house and noticed something.

We rented out the 2 bedroom in our compound to this couple with a little girl around 4 year old I think.

Understand that my lil Bro (10) is the last born, so he stays with my Mom and 3 other of my sisters including the eldest. He is very close to our last sister (13), they do literally everything together.

So I noticed whenever our last sister plays with this our neighbour's kid, my lil Bro leaves whatever he's doing to join them. He grew up with the ladies in the house though cos My dad is late so I'm more like the father figure now. I don't live with them, the 2nd boy (17) lives with me and is in the university at my state of residence. This is a new estate we moved into and unlike our former estate where he goes out to play with his peers at the play ground, this one is very quiet and more like OYO (on your own).

Normally, there's a gaming console in the house and also a desktop computer, put them all in the house last year, he could make use of that whenever he's bored but he choose to play with the girls. My Mom doesn't have a problem with that but I don't want him to start behaving like a girl or something, so I'm considering putting him in a good boarding school cos he's too young to come stay with me at the moment.

Also looking out for the best way possible to handle this, need advice from mainly parents please.

Thanks.

As long as he doesn't behave like a gurl then leave him alone.

It is hereditary am sure his dad still plays with girls, relax

allthingsgood:
70% of the boys in all boys school experience homosexuality at different stages.
Infact, the fastest way to make a child explore homosexual tendencies is to send him to all boys school. where do u think all their youthful virile sexual energy goes to? Prayer Lol

If he doesn't have it naturally he won't join them.

yomi007k:
Putting him in boarding school is a good idea.

It will help him mix with guys and be more independent. When he gets home he can mix with the girls so everything will be balanced.

DON'T PUT HIM IN BOARDING SCHOOL IF THE SCHOOL IN QUESTION IS FOR BOYS ONLY PLS FOR HIS SAKE AND URS.
If u still insist on putting him in boarding, pls put him in a boarding school that is for both male and female. Reasons being to avoid him being indoctrinated into gayship .

Henix:
And u think boys boarding school wouldn't do him more harm than good?

No it won't.

davinchecodes:
Don't listen to this, boarding is not good at all

Lol... have u attended one before?

Cooolme:
But you commented on it.
Grow up or gtf out here.

Responded like a true child yet to write JAMB.