A married woman has sought the opinion of internet users over her actions toward her friend who visited her husband’s office with a bowl of Banga soup.

Sharing the details of what transpired anonymously, she revealed that her friend didn’t seek her permission before taking the soup to her husband at his office.

She wrote,

“Your last post is the situation I am handling presently. So we visited a friend of mine and she made us banga soup, that was my husband’s first time of having it. I have only had it once and I don’t know how to prepare it. We both praised her cooking and it was all fine. Hubby gave her 100k and we left. This Lady is a single mum who I have helped with different contracts. 3 weeks later, hubby called me that my friend brought food to his office, we spoke that day and she didn’t mention that she was taking food to my husband’s office. I then 3 weeks later, hubby called me that my friend brought food to his office, we spoke that day and she didn’t mention that she was taking food to my husband’s office. I then remembered she asked me where in Lekki my husband’s office was. I called her immediately and she said she was just passing by. I told her immediately that I was disappointed in her and I blocked her. Called off 2 contracts she was supposed to get and told every other contract she got through me that I can’t guarantee her anymore. Now our mutual friends said I went too far. Please do you think I went too far?”

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This is the new lie women are promoting. Every other day, a new trend.

She didn't overreact in anyway.


Some people really do not have any sense of boundary.

I can only see you are protecting your territory.

That your friend gets characteristics of a WITCH.

I will protect my territory. I love how the husband told his wife. If is some men now

You are calling a snake your friend, wait till she bites you hard. All she's doing is well calculated and she'll strike at the right time.

How is your husband so comfortable eating her food just meeting her once, you will truly know a man's behavior on way he reacts to food. I once rejected a man I liked because of his annoying behavior around anything food, those type of men easily slip away and not very careful or conscious of their surroundings.

Men that loves food too much and don't behave and respect themselves around food and can eat publicly no matter how crowded the place is plus those ones that dance publicly are mostly careless and irresponsible. They easily loose their homes to traps.

Your reaction is very good, your husband is a good man to have told you what your friend did so, learn how to cook panga soup for him.

EreluRoz:
You are calling a snake your friend, wait till she bites you hard. All she's doing is well calculated and she'll strike at the right time.

How is your husband so comfortable eating her food just meeting her once, you will truly know a man's behavior on way he reacts to food. I once rejected a man I liked because of his annoying behavior around anything food, those type of men easily slip away and not very careful or conscious of their surroundings.

Men that loves food too much and don't behave and respect themselves around food and can eat publicly no matter how crowded the place is plus those ones that dance publicly are mostly careless and irresponsible. They easily loose their homes to traps.

Maybe the friend invited them for lunch or dinner.

The only reason why the wife is acting this way is simply because of two reasons:

1. She can't cook the food that her husband seems to like ...

2. Her hubby loves the cooking of another woman & she can't stand it ...

The wife is just insecure ...
A strong warning who have sufficed and then a repeat can then trigger this radical action ...

The hubby on the other hand did right by telling his wife that her friend brought food to his office - seems like a transparent man who loves his wife ...

The said friend may not have had any ill intentions towards her friend ...

I mean, if you give me 100k after tasting my cooking, you best be sure that I'll use part of that money to fix you the same meal that you loved ...

It's no big deal, it's just my way of showing appreciation ...

It's giving insecure.

If its just regular food she brought like jellof that any tribe can make, she can see it as something.

But banga soup is like novelty. I guess the 100k baited the friend to do even more for her hubby. She probably wants to use him as a client.

I wouldn't take it personally.

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I have been on social media for a while and I noticed it is not usually strangers that 'snatch' boyfriends and husbands, it is often friends, besties and even sisters. In the end, prevention is better than cure.

1Sharon:
It's giving insecure.

If its just regular food she brought like jellof that any tribe can make, she can see it as something.

But banga soup is like novelty. I guess the 100k baited the friend to do even more for her hubby. She probably wants to use him as a client.

I wouldn't take it personally.

Yea people understands differently, but then only God knows the intentions. Ccanelling the contracts is going to far abeg , that's her means of survival .you can only apply wisdom by cautioning your husband and learning how to prepare the banga stew period . The husband could have helped by not eating the meal.or better still bring it home or even tell the woman to bring it to the house and then watch the woman's reaction . The wife in question has started acting insecure .she is protecting her interest but not in a wise way . She actually went to far .she had already started saying the things she has done for the friend when is not called for. There are ma ways to win a battle without fighting. Telling the friend jokingly to pass the food through her next time is a simple warning and message without causing much trouble.

Woman go and learn how to prepare your husband's weak point soup. Banga.

EreluRoz:
You are calling a snake your friend, wait till she bites you hard. All she's doing is well calculated and she'll strike at the right time.

How is your husband so comfortable eating her food just meeting her once, you will truly know a man's behavior on way he reacts to food. I once rejected a man I liked because of his annoying behavior around anything food, those type of men easily slip away and not very careful or conscious of their surroundings.

Men that loves food too much and don't behave and respect themselves around food and can eat publicly no matter how crowded the place is plus those ones that dance publicly are mostly careless and irresponsible. They easily loose their homes to traps.

I understand your point perfectly, especially the men that lose self control around food. However, the dancing is not bad. Allow people to enjoy their talent. I also dance, be it wedding, birthday, even wake keep of elderly ones, but I don't misbehave. It is a talent I can't hide.

One of my girlfriend broke up with me because of stand up comedy, she wanted me to stop.

The man enjoyed the soup and even gifted the said friend money, and he informed his wife when the friend brought the food to his office. Blaming the husband instead of the friend is just a dry joke.

That's crossing the line now.. what if she put love potion in the food for the friend's husband to eat and become hers?.
The fact that the lady spoke with the friend in question that same day and she didn't mention the food part shows she has an ulterior motive. Nothing anyone can tell me.

The husband sef no get sense, why drop 100k for single mum because of food she served?. Obviously she'll want to have the entire money box to herself.

The friend who took food to the husband's office has crossed her boundaries. Even though she wants to appreciate the man for the 100k, she should have inform the wife if she is okay with it before going ahead with such stunt. The emotionally over mature people up there are saying she mean no harm until the deed is done.

She did well by blocking her friend. Any perceived enemy should be destroy at all cost.

My blood sister, will go to that her useless friend and beat her up. Husband snatcher

I won’t even just block her
I will go to her house and give her a very dangerous and stern warning
I don’t want to see her close to my husband
Home wrecker
Husband snatcher
Witch disguising as friend

You wanna trend?

Cut her off, ke? This is the time to be closer to the intending-husband-snatcher so as to know her next move and prepare her wella for a lethal strike!

Strike her so hard that whenever she sees any of her friends' husband, she'll run far, far away.

Amongst all the men walking upon the face of the earth, na my husband you see, abi? My own friend? God forbids!
You can't even be my friend and be converteous sef. Kolewerk!