EreluRoz:
Why is it paining you, are you a gigolo

It's not paining him,he's politely telling you to continue your galivanting sprees with your ancestors in peace, so we can have strength to deal with tinubu's problems. Nobody disturbs Nobody...
.....Thank you!

Mansa6:


Deciding not to marry isn't the plan most times for women..or rather, doesn't even sit well in nature or with logic...and there is a difference between deciding not to get married and not being able to get married.

At the core of the biological fabric of a woman is that her body has been set to procreate...there is a reason the biological design/timeline of a woman's body is the way it is... that also leads to why,in extension of this discourse,the issue of polygamy comes a bit more natural with women than polyandry..

All Dem modern day/Gen Z women saying they have decided not to marry is just from a place of young ignorance,wrong orientation or just plain old being delusional..

It's like saying you don't want to eat at all for some flimsy, nonsensical excuse/reason..the question is what's the imperative of that action and even how logical is that?It's not about wanting not to eat..You NEED to eat or in the long run,you are dead...you were created to eat ..you were created to procreate and as a higher animal,it's done within the institution of marriage to give some form of order or systemic stability. To stand the test of time .

It is very rare to see a woman in her 40s or 50s that hasn't been married saying she decided not to marry..you only mostly see or hear that from "kids" that don't even understand their left from there right..show me a girl that says she's decided not to marry at say 23 or so..bring her back at 40 and I can bet 99.98% that she has changed her mind..you can't fight and win nature.

God made man..He made them both man and woman and said "Be FRUITFUL and multiply" if I might paraphrase..

Maybe you know better than God himself that created you .

😂😂In your head this is soooo logical. Lmao!

This isn't so logical coming from a "logical gender." I don't engage with people who reason this way unless I'm bored. 😭😭Like bruh you really think this is logical? 😭😭 Cis-het men won't seize to surprise me.

EreluRoz:
I'm sure as young as that boy was, he was already having dirty thoughts towards her else he would have gone to someone else and not his co flower girl.

Those that married their agemate try sha, it can never be me. If you are less than ten years my senior, I'll forever see you as a small boy 😆

Continue to dwell in delusions

Bishopwizzy:

Continue to dwell in delusions

Kid go and wash plates

TINTINABULATION:
Talking about fate & destiny, and some delusional entities will argue that there is no grand architect of the cosmic host.

You are the very delusional person here if you don't see this as a possible occurrence.

Come back and say that when an amputee regrow his arm.

drimzsmoke:




Go away!!!!
History has it that as a baby, after eating, I would lie in my cradle and laugh by myself all day until it's time for my next meal

This guy is mad mad😆, no offense.

EreluRoz:
I'm sure as young as that boy was, he was already having dirty thoughts towards her else he would have gone to someone else and not his co flower girl.

Those that married their agemate try sha, it can never be me. If you are less than ten years my senior, I'll forever see you as a small boy 😆

IconicR welcome back. I missed you.

professore:
IconicR welcome back. I missed you.

How are you doing

khreus:

This guy is mad mad😆, no offense.

None taken!!!

I typically try not to criticize others' perspectives, but respectfully, I find it essential to challenge the notion that equates being unmarried with being a failure in life. The prevailing narrative that considers marriage as the "greatest achievement" seems outdated and limiting.

It's crucial to broaden our understanding of success and fulfillment beyond traditional societal expectations. I believe people have diverse aspirations and life paths, and their choices should be respected.

I've encountered individuals who have consciously chosen not to pursue marriage, and they lead fulfilling lives, making significant contributions to society in unique ways. Their impact and fulfillment defies the stereotype that marriage is the sole measure of success. It's high time we shift these narratives and embrace the diversity of life choices that lead to personal happiness and meaningful societal contributions.

Some individuals, due to societal pressure, were desperate to get married and had to bail after a horrible experience. "No gree for anybody" to pressure you, "dey your dey."

G00dharddick:
Marriage is a woman's greatest achievement in life. Their lives literally depends on it, this determines the length of Cash out and billing they'll give the man till he dies.

A man literally gains nothing from marriage at all. However, girls who are not virgins must avoid getting married, if they do, their bride price shouldn't be paid.

All I know is dt 'beauty' fades.

15-29: "He must be tall, dark, handsome, have 6 packs, make at least 6 figures, his mother must be dead........."

30 - 40 "so long as he is a man and has a job, but not a divorcee and no children....."

40 and above "So long as he's a man and has a preek, no wahala

EreluRoz:
I'm sure as young as that boy was, he was already having dirty thoughts towards her else he would have gone to someone else and not his co flower girl.

Those that married their agemate try sha, it can never be me. If you are less than ten years my senior, I'll forever see you as a small boy 😆

Haba hanty!

Innocence is written all over both their faces yet you say you're sure he was having dirty thoughts. How can you be sure about something that happened years ago that you were not privy to?

EreluRoz:
I'm sure as young as that boy was, he was already having dirty thoughts towards her else he would have gone to someone else and not his co flower girl.

Those that married their agemate try sha, it can never be me. If you are less than ten years my senior, I'll forever see you as a small boy 😆

Some good side of not relocating from childhood to adulthood! Else where would they have made this happened 🤔

That is the best, that kind marriage no feet scatter

bring your assignment

Mansa6:


You are obviously a girl child coming from a distraught and dysfunctional continuous orientation..coupled with subliminal inferiority complex..

Is it that your generation just love to stick to their baseless guns with no cognitive stance?

You just replied me and said NOTHING of value..

Go back to your mother and have a good matured discussion..well,your mum might be illiterate in these things..maybe she is the one even messing your head up by not knocking you back into track..

I have seen your pseudo kind of type before...even when I lived abroad..

They always...almost always come back to change their minds when their biological clock starts to tire out..My 1st cousin just turned 49...when we were in the UK,she kept saying she isn't going to marry,that it's just a waste of her time..men are scum,this and that..

Only for me to hear she was being arranged to marry a widower but it finally didn't work..Nature MUST win finally..

So get off that your childish, inexperienced nonsensical thoughts of mirage that will eventually make you more miserable in life..

Unless you become a nun...

Omg! He said all this to me how will I live. 😭😭

😂😂 You're so emotional and illogical; dragging my mother into this also proves my point. You expect me to reply to that valueless epistle you wrote with something of value, I won't do that unless I'm bored. But you have a lot to learn "old man". And next time you're quoting me try as much as possible not to dodge that "logic" you claim to have.

EreluRoz:
How are you doing

I am fine thank you. I asked about you. I was sad not to see posts from you, because I missed you.

professore:
I am fine thank you. I asked about you. I was sad not to see posts from you, because I missed you.

Awnn thanks for missing me 😆

EreluRoz:
Awnn thanks for missing me 😆

I would like to request your WhatsApp number, then delete it here when I add you, if you don't mind.

professore:
I would like to request your WhatsApp number, then delete it here when I add you, if you don't mind.

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professore:
I would like to request your WhatsApp number, then delete it here when I add you, if you don't mind.

I mind sir

EreluRoz:
I mind sir

I got a good job now.

EreluRoz:
I'm sure as young as that boy was, he was already having dirty thoughts towards her else he would have gone to someone else and not his co flower girl.

Those that married their agemate try sha, it can never be me. If you are less than ten years my senior, I'll forever see you as a small boy 😆

wow!!
I knew you liked 'older' men but I never thought.... hmmm, it's wells.

EreluRoz:
I'm sure as young as that boy was, he was already having dirty thoughts towards her else he would have gone to someone else and not his co flower girl.

Those that married their agemate try sha, it can never be me. If you are less than ten years my senior, I'll forever see you as a small boy 😆

If you have a steady father figure, you won't ever dream of marrying someone as old as your father.

Get yourself a good and responsible father figure.

Acidosis:


If you have a steady father figure, you won't ever dream of marrying someone as old as your father.

Get yourself a good and responsible father figure.

If you had a good mother figure she would have thought you about boundaries and respect.

Get yourself a good and decent mother figure to teach you home training.

EreluRoz:
I mind sir

I don't have access to my mail. Can I drop my number and you add me on WhatsApp?

I love this
Happy married life

ceetowl:

"We started out as flower boy and girl” – Man weds childhood crush


Love wins as a man weds the lady who served as a flower girl and him the flower boy during their childhood days.

The man unidentified man shared that he and his wife had been long time friends, their friendship dating back to their childhood days.

They had both served as the flower boy and girl respectively in a wedding during their childhood.

A photo he shared showed a throwback from that preteen year when they served and looked every bit of an adorable little couple.

Fortune had the best plans for them as they tied the knot as husband and wife years later.

A more recent photo shows them all grown up, hand in hand walking down the aisle, this time as husband and wife in their own wedding.

A Facebook user, David Oyase who shared the photo captioned …

“We started as Flower Girl and Boy, now we have become Husband and Wife after many years”🎉🎉😍😍😍
Congratulations!

#DavidOyase”

Reactions have followed …

Best Christy wrote: “Abeg who needs a flower girl oo…I’m available oo😂… congratulations dear 🎉 your new home is blessed 🙏”

Nwa-afor Mezie said: “Oya once flower boys, abeg check on your flower girl. If she’s not married yet, please do the needful.”

Acidosis:


If you have a steady father figure, you won't ever dream of marrying someone as old as your father.

Get yourself a good and responsible father figure.

Someone 10 years older than her is as old as her father? It would interest you to know that many women from well-to-do and sane homes tow this path and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Just as some people abhor relationships with a wide gap margin, others prefer the wide gap margin. Individual differences.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Someone 10 years older than her is as old as her father? It would interest you to know that many women from well-to-do and sane homes tow this path and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Just as some people abhor relationships with a wide gap margin, others prefer the wide gap margin. Individual differences.

I never said anything is wrong with it.

EreluRoz:
If you had a good mother figure she would have thought you about boundaries and respect.

Get yourself a good and decent mother figure to teach you home training.

It is okay to marry someone 20 years older, dear. I never said anything is wrong with it. But facts don't lie. You need a man that old to fill a missing link. And that's okay. Make peace with your reality 😊👍