Biglittlelois:



You and who is the "everybody"? we should as well embrace boko haram's mentality? We should shun western education?

If human existence is being threatened by the nonsense you spewed, why not start the campaign by destroying your phone, burning all your clothes and earthly posessions, denouncing the little education your little brain could absolve, then run into the bush stark naked and empty handed, to start a nomadic stone age civilisation that best suits you.

The sick mentality of lots of people here......

immortalcrown:
Do those women say they need husbands? If no, don't give yourself headache for their sake. Most of the married ones are even plotting to become single.

Their values have changed. They don't care about marriage. Some of them don't even care about having children. They have enough money and can make upfront payment to companies that will care for them in old age.

What I worry about is the continuation of humanity.

Quality20:
They shd settle for interracial marriage, wit oyibo n Indian men there

12inchess:


And the only thing Nigerian women know how to do is hoelosho

immortalcrown:
Do those women say they need husbands? If no, don't give yourself headache for their sake. Most of the married ones are even plotting to become single.

Their values have changed. They don't care about marriage. Some of them don't even care about having children. They have enough money and can make upfront payment to companies that will care for them in old age.

What I worry about is the continuation of humanity.

Biglittlelois:
How come it is usually Men that cry more than the bereaved? I don't understand.

immortalcrown:
Do those women say they need husbands? If no, don't give yourself headache for their sake. Most of the married ones are even plotting to become single.

Their values have changed. They don't care about marriage. Some of them don't even care about having children. They have enough money and can make upfront payment to companies that will care for them in old age.

What I worry about is the continuation of humanity.

Gerrard59:


But what you said is not entirely wrong. In fact, two days, I finished reading the entire comments on this article by the Financial Times about how gender views have changed across the developed world. From my observations, it is creeping into Africa, especially English-speaking countries with a high number of Western-versioned Christians. Most notably Southern Nigeria.

Women have gotten empowerment as a result of education and contraception, and to be honest, there is no going back. In return, many males feel dejected due to the competition for good jobs, and because of their impaired financial states, they cannot afford to be in a relationship because while women have gotten financial independence, they have refused to let go of hypergamy. This has led to a significant proportion of single women in their 30s pursuing a tiny population of men.

In developed countries, this has led to low birth rates amongst the native population because many young men are either not as educated as the women, have lower incomes, have high housing costs, etc. In South Korea, it got worse as the young men voted for a candidate who promised to curtail the gender equality policies of the then government. This candidate is now the leader of the country. In Korea, men are mandated to serve the country, thus putting them on the back foot in career progression. At the same time, women are kicking against male-dominated policies and favouritism in companies because as they got more educated, they sought greater independence. As e con be na, men no dey gree marry. Women sef no dey gree marry. Nobody wan gree for anybody. The men now are pushing for women to also serve in the military because they say "Why serve in the military yet come to compete with women in the workforce and at the same time, the women are fighting us in the name of gender equality". The birth rate in the country is the lowest in the world.

In Singapore, the situation is the same because there are growing calls for women to serve in the military since the birth rate is low. In other words, what is the point of having women excluded from compulsory military service when they are not giving birth? Japan is different because there is no compulsory military service, lower housing costs and one factor I say is the prevalence of earthquakes. You know, in times of danger, na men dey in charge of defence and rescue. So, my hypothesis is that, when earthquakes strike, everyone's brain changes because lives are at risk. The women know that the men have to protect the country. Challenge them, and your children will die. Countries like Singapore and South Korea don't experience this phenomenon. With the empowerment women have now, should there be a major military conflict in the West, most young men would opt-out from participation because they feel it is not worth it. Make I go defend country so that feminist go enjoy?

In the West, birth rates have declined as a result of high childcare costs, competition for limited jobs, high housing costs and what the article says: policies and movements that lampoon men. Birth rates in the Nordic countries have plummeted upon the generous childcare policies from the government, divorce rates have shot up, where most men tend to lose. Many men are growing into their 40s without having sex (lack of sex affects the male brain), and continuous bashing of men has led them to be on their own.

In our Nigeria, shey we witnessed the feminazi cults up until when that young dude died as a result of false accusations. Then, there was a rise in male focused accounts which fought against the claims of Ndi feminazis up to the point where an erstwhile feminazi defender Dr Fumilayo was falsely accused. What holds Nigeria back are tradition, strong adherence to religion and the prevalence of conflicts. Remove those factors, and many women would not see the need to have men. In return, birth rates would skydive. There is already a divide between the north and the south. This is why there are fewer Northern feminists compared to their counterparts in the south. You wan do feminism when Fulani herdsmen are killing your children? The people who would come to their defence would be men. The summary of the matter be say, if the society keeps lambasting and cursing young men while also reducing economic opportunities for them, they will withdraw from their expected duties and become more solitary.

cc: LordAdam1, remember our conversation? The article by the FT and comments have revealed everything. Social media has really exacerbated the gender wars and a growing number of young men are opting out and going their ways. As it is, the future is conservative because the birth rates of liberals have plunged overtime.

Article by FT: https://www.ft.com/content/29fd9b5c-2f35-41bf-9d4c-994db4e12998?segmentid=807ed8dd-65a4-6d66-945e-65fdb0abd3f4
If it asks for a subscription: https://archive.md/wmLea the comments section was the most interesting part.

Anunakeeh:


Fvck continuation of hamanonsense.

Jeon:
Abeg r3st. Did they tell you they are looking for marriage ?
.Hardly to see a rich or successful woman crying for marriage because she has what it takes to get a way from *poverty *. Like what Men normal says *Marriage is an empowerment to Women*.
So why will she look for an uplift empowerment, when she had all and all.



Why enbe say nah Men dy cry over Marriage and Women pass?..... Crying over what you claimed to be a man's destructions.



*spit *


Modified: Hmm see mentions coming from those who benefits nothing from marriage. Their mouths are the loudest

Unah never see anything yet.

eazzzy1:
I think when women stop being eager to get married, men would start rushing to get married. When I was growing up there was an old man who had all sort of fruit trees in his farm, guava, mango, orange, apple, what we called fruit etc. We the neighborhood kids will pluck a lot to take home but you never saw him or his kids bother with plucking fruits.

The average guy with a decent life can get married with the wave of a hand or the push of a button so he isn’t exactly keen on it. It’s the same way women turn down sex offers, they could get it whenever they want. It’s the abundance mentality.

God cursed man with hardship, man doesn’t appreciate anything he does not get through hardship. If getting married becomes difficult for men, they will do the work to get married and keep the marriage. If you have an assignment due in four hours but the question is 1 + 1, there’s no motivation to start early, you can do it at the last minute, likewise a man with six women chasing him for something serious. Where’s the motivation to pick one?

hustla:



You won't understand Nigerian women until they show your brother shege... But till then, continue to defend rubbish


Lots of them are single here because they have refused to change that nonsense gutter mentality.

Adakintroy:
Downside to upside of women liberation.


To think you come to this world to work and build careers is one of the most sickening forms of orientation to impose on the human mind.

Men can easily break pass it. but once it set in for women it's hard for them to emerge out of it.

Jman06:
Well, like I previously stated, I don't expect you to understand my point because as a feminist (pseudo feminist), you have conditioned your mind to argue selfishly once the argument is about the two genders.

Gerrard59:


But what you said is not entirely wrong. In fact, two days, I finished reading the entire comments on this article by the Financial Times about how gender views have changed across the developed world. From my observations, it is creeping into Africa, especially English-speaking countries with a high number of Western-versioned Christians. Most notably Southern Nigeria.

Women have gotten empowerment as a result of education and contraception, and to be honest, there is no going back. In return, many males feel dejected due to the competition for good jobs, and because of their impaired financial states, they cannot afford to be in a relationship because while women have gotten financial independence, they have refused to let go of hypergamy. This has led to a significant proportion of single women in their 30s pursuing a tiny population of men.

In developed countries, this has led to low birth rates amongst the native population because many young men are either not as educated as the women, have lower incomes, have high housing costs, etc. In South Korea, it got worse as the young men voted for a candidate who promised to curtail the gender equality policies of the then government. This candidate is now the leader of the country. In Korea, men are mandated to serve the country, thus putting them on the back foot in career progression. At the same time, women are kicking against male-dominated policies and favouritism in companies because as they got more educated, they sought greater independence. As e con be na, men no dey gree marry. Women sef no dey gree marry. Nobody wan gree for anybody. The men now are pushing for women to also serve in the military because they say "Why serve in the military yet come to compete with women in the workforce and at the same time, the women are fighting us in the name of gender equality". The birth rate in the country is the lowest in the world.

In Singapore, the situation is the same because there are growing calls for women to serve in the military since the birth rate is low. In other words, what is the point of having women excluded from compulsory military service when they are not giving birth? Japan is different because there is no compulsory military service, lower housing costs and one factor I say is the prevalence of earthquakes. You know, in times of danger, na men dey in charge of defence and rescue. So, my hypothesis is that, when earthquakes strike, everyone's brain changes because lives are at risk. The women know that the men have to protect the country. Challenge them, and your children will die. Countries like Singapore and South Korea don't experience this phenomenon. With the empowerment women have now, should there be a major military conflict in the West, most young men would opt-out from participation because they feel it is not worth it. Make I go defend country so that feminist go enjoy?

In the West, birth rates have declined as a result of high childcare costs, competition for limited jobs, high housing costs and what the article says: policies and movements that lampoon men. Birth rates in the Nordic countries have plummeted upon the generous childcare policies from the government, divorce rates have shot up, where most men tend to lose. Many men are growing into their 40s without having sex (lack of sex affects the male brain), and continuous bashing of men has led them to be on their own.

In our Nigeria, shey we witnessed the feminazi cults up until when that young dude died as a result of false accusations. Then, there was a rise in male focused accounts which fought against the claims of Ndi feminazis up to the point where an erstwhile feminazi defender Dr Fumilayo was falsely accused. What holds Nigeria back are tradition, strong adherence to religion and the prevalence of conflicts. Remove those factors, and many women would not see the need to have men. In return, birth rates would skydive. There is already a divide between the north and the south. This is why there are fewer Northern feminists compared to their counterparts in the south. You wan do feminism when Fulani herdsmen are killing your children? The people who would come to their defence would be men. The summary of the matter be say, if the society keeps lambasting and cursing young men while also reducing economic opportunities for them, they will withdraw from their expected duties and become more solitary.

cc: LordAdam1, remember our conversation? The article by the FT and comments have revealed everything. Social media has really exacerbated the gender wars and a growing number of young men are opting out and going their ways. As it is, the future is conservative because the birth rates of liberals have plunged overtime.

Article by FT: https://www.ft.com/content/29fd9b5c-2f35-41bf-9d4c-994db4e12998?segmentid=807ed8dd-65a4-6d66-945e-65fdb0abd3f4
If it asks for a subscription: https://archive.md/wmLea the comments section was the most interesting part.

1Sharon:


Pls answer my question. Are you saying women shouldn't be concerned about men using them for papers?

Why are you acting like this doesn't happen?

hustla:



And why are you acting like 90% of the time, men dont do papers for women without crying about it..

E reach una turn, they'll nearly plaster passport on their foreheads while carrying shoulder

All your gender knows how to do is look for ready made men and then cry about not getting any or competing for the few available

Passport una

Biglittlelois:



You and who is the "everybody"? we should as well embrace boko haram's mentality? We should shun western education?

If human existence is being threatened by the nonsense you spewed, why not start the campaign by destroying your phone, burning all your clothes and earthly posessions, denouncing the little education your little brain could absolve, then run into the bush stark naked and empty handed, to start a nomadic stone age civilisation that best suits you.

The sick mentality of lots of people here......

BareFacedLies:


Why are you spitting? Are you pregnant?

Gerrard59:


But what you said is not entirely wrong. In fact, two days later, I finished reading the entire comments on this article by the Financial Times about how gender views have changed across the developed world. From my observations, it is creeping into Africa, especially English-speaking countries with a high number of Western-versioned Christians. Most notably Southern Nigeria.

Women have gotten empowerment as a result of education and contraception, and to be honest, there is no going back. In return, many males feel dejected due to the competition for good jobs, and because of their impaired financial states, they cannot afford to be in a relationship because while women have gotten financial independence, they have refused to let go of hypergamy. This has led to a significant proportion of single women in their 30s pursuing a tiny population of men.

In developed countries, this has led to low birth rates amongst the native population because many young men are either not as educated as the women, have lower incomes, have high housing costs, etc. In South Korea, it got worse as the young men voted for a candidate who promised to curtail the gender equality policies of the then government.

This candidate is now the leader of the country. In Korea, men are mandated to serve the country, thus putting them on the back foot in career progression. At the same time, women are kicking against male-dominated policies and favouritism in companies because as they got more educated, they sought greater independence. As e con be na, men no dey gree marry. Women sef no dey gree marry. Nobody wan gree for anybody. The men now are pushing for women to also serve in the military because they say "Why serve in the military yet come to compete with women in the workforce and at the same time, the women are fighting us in the name of gender equality". The birth rate in the country is the lowest in the world.

In Singapore, the situation is the same because there are growing calls for women to serve in the military since the birth rate is low. In other words, what is the point of having women excluded from compulsory military service when they are not giving birth? Japan is different because there is no compulsory military service, lower housing costs and one factor I say is the prevalence of earthquakes. You know, in times of danger, na men dey in charge of defence and rescue. So, my hypothesis is that, when earthquakes strike, everyone's brain changes because lives are at risk. The women know that the men have to protect the country. Challenge them, and your children will die. Countries like Singapore and South Korea don't experience this phenomenon. With the empowerment women have now, should there be a major military conflict in the West, most young men would opt-out from participation because they feel it is not worth it. Make I go defend country so that feminists go enjoy?

In the West, birth rates have declined as a result of high childcare costs, competition for limited jobs, high housing costs, and what the article says: policies and movements that lampoon men. Birth rates in the Nordic countries have plummeted upon the generous childcare policies from the government, divorce rates have shot up, where most men tend to lose. Many men are growing into their 40s without having sex (lack of sex affects the male brain), and continuous bashing of men has led them to be on their own.

In our Nigeria, shey we witnessed the feminazi cults up until when that young dude died as a result of false accusations. Then, there was a rise in male focused accounts which fought against the claims of Ndi feminazis up to the point where an erstwhile feminazi defender Dr Fumilayo was falsely accused. What holds Nigeria back are tradition, strong adherence to religion and the prevalence of conflicts. Remove those factors, and many women would not see the need to have men. In return, birth rates would skydive. There is already a divide between the north and the south. This is why there are fewer Northern feminists compared to their counterparts in the south. You wan do feminism when Fulani herdsmen are killing your children? The people who would come to their defence would be men. The summary of the matter be say, if the society keeps lambasting and cursing young men while also reducing economic opportunities for them, they will withdraw from their expected duties and become more solitary.

Anashe:


Yeah. Color me surprised. A woman argues or speaks up for herself and others and she's automatically tagged a feminist. Lol

Anashe:


It's because we're wiser and we know that we cannot be fully dependent on the examples of husbands and fathers we see today (examples are on Nairaland). We want our own bag, not having to depend on people who will use it as a means of abuse. We know that society isn't as kind to us as it is to men; even a failed marriage or the inability to bear offspring is blamed on us women. Lastly, the idea of marriage in Africa have little to no benefits for women, except the man they married is progressive. Marriage has been known to truncate our dreams, so no. We're only doing it when we're ready to, and because we want to, not because the society insists that we must. We saw the way our mothers and grandmothers were treated, not being able to speak up, and the pretense of being happily married, so we decided otherwise.

Anashe:


Yeah. Color me surprised. A woman argues or speaks up for herself and others and she's automatically tagged a feminist. Lol

Jman06:
Speak for yourself and stop dragging all African women into your delusion.
Many of those our mothers you write about are/were happily married and couldn't wish for any other thing from the peaceful homes and lovely children they were able to raise. My mom for instance got married at 15, had all of us and my dad was able to train all of us up to the university level. Just about the time they were to start enjoying the fruit of their labor, my dad died leaving only mom to enjoy. Today, she goes from one location to another and enjoy the fruits of her labor. I'm very sure she doesn't regret marrying at the time she did.

Jman06:
I've known that lady for quite a while here and she has always identified as a feminist. So, I didn't just start referring to her as a feminist based on her opinion on the topic of discuss.