Anashe:


What are you saying? You're the one who is clearly delusional because you're not a woman but you think you can speak women. Your mom got married at 15, that is your problem. She was a child at 15 - she didn't have dreams of her own? Lol. And if you knew how to read, you'd have understood what I meant, instead of looking for who to transfer your frustration to. But I'll let you wallow in your bubble.

See a nitwit referring to someone far better than her as "frustrated". Nairaland is truly a leveler!

Jman06:
I've known that lady for quite a while here and she has always identified as a feminist. So, I didn't just start referring to her as a feminist based on her opinion on the topic of discuss.

Be careful

Except you show me receipts with screenshots as proof, i have never identified as a feminist , I don't do labels, I say my truth and move.

Jman06:
See a nitwit referring to someone far better than her as "frustrated". Nairaland is truly a leveler!

Thinking you're far better than me is hilarious, isn't it? You're on a faceless forum but you've concluded you're better than me based on what?

You're right. Nairaland is such a leveler is why I have quit engaging with airheads like you because when it was raining brains, you clearly had an umbrella.

Jeon:
Abeg r3st. Did they tell you they are looking for marriage ?
.Hardly to see a rich or successful woman crying for marriage because she has what it takes to get a way from *poverty *. Like what Men normal says *Marriage is an empowerment to Women*.
So why will she look for an uplift empowerment, when she had all and all.



Why enbe say nah Men dy cry over Marriage and Women pass?..... Crying over what you claimed to be a man's destructions.



*spit *


Modified: Hmm see mentions coming from those who benefits nothing from marriage. Their mouths are the loudest

Unah never see anything yet.

They cry secretly

Anashe:


Thinking you're far better than me is hilarious, isn't it? You're on a faceless forum but you've concluded you're better than me based on what?

You're right. Nairaland is such a leveler is why I have quit engaging with airheads like you because when it was raining brains, you clearly had an umbrella.

Mtchhhheeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwweweweeeewwwwwwwwww!
Dumb thing!

Anashe:


It's because we're wiser and we know that we cannot be fully dependent on the examples of husbands and fathers we see today (examples are on Nairaland). We want our own bag, not having to depend on people who will use it as a means of abuse. We know that society isn't as kind to us as it is to men; even a failed marriage or the inability to bear offspring is blamed on us women. Lastly, the idea of marriage in Africa have little to no benefits for women, except the man they married is progressive. Marriage has been known to truncate our dreams, so no. We're only doing it when we're ready to, and because we want to, not because the society insists that we must. We saw the way our mothers and grandmothers were treated, not being able to speak up, and the pretense of being happily married, so we decided otherwise.

Unfortunately you speak for great few minority. The reality of existence is the opposite. You may be wise, but still lesser in comparism to men. you will always be behind. It's not men, but nature. .if nature wish you to lead, you would have even before you wake up to this consciousness. So no you not wiser. Things still remain constant. If men gave you right somehow, trust they can take it back somehow.

That' said, the point I was making was we exist in relations to one another.. the definition is never complete with one half. It is not about you but "us". It is why I call you the selfish gender. It is not an insult but what you are. It also why men tend to lead. You lack sacrifice in your leadership.

Tell them to come back to Nigeria and get married, there are men here waiting for them,uk is not there father land, not everyone here wants to japa.

immortalcrown:
Do those women say they need husbands? If no, don't give yourself headache for their sake. Most of the married ones are even plotting to become single.

Their values have changed. They don't care about marriage. Some of them don't even care about having children. They have enough money and can make upfront payment to companies that will care for them in old age.

What I worry about is the continuation of humanity.

A male speaking for female
...smh useless men everywhere

Jeon:
Abeg r3st. Did they tell you they are looking for marriage ?
.Hardly to see a rich or successful woman crying for marriage because she has what it takes to get a way from *poverty *. Like what Men normal says *Marriage is an empowerment to Women*.
So why will she look for an uplift empowerment, when she had all and all.



Why enbe say nah Men dy cry over Marriage and Women pass?..... Crying over what you claimed to be a man's destructions.



*spit *


Modified: Hmm see mentions coming from those who benefits nothing from marriage. Their mouths are the loudest

Unah never see anything yet.

Atleast you confirmed the only reason you guys get married is because of poverty alleviation...lol. Once una get money then a dido will be best option....useless women.

advanceDNA:
I was expecting statistics of women drawn from survey(s), complaining of not having men to marry them....

Abeg leave these pple ....only a lazy woman needs a man....and everyone works in the UK.... expect a few exploiting the system

A woman only needs a man when she needs poverty alleviation....useless set of species.

Jman06:
Everybody can now understand why the likes of Boko Haram are against western education.
It destroys the traditional family values and keep the two genders at loggerheads as both men and women appear to be in contest of who is smarter than the other. No gender wants to 'gree' for the other.

Continuity of human existence is clearly threatened by the above scenario.

Oga remove boko haram for this topic abeg

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kkins25:


How can it be "not entirely wrong," when what you've said throughout corroborates what I've said?

I meant in response to Wizarab blocking you. It was needless since you are correct. I am not a fan of blocking people as long as they are honest. Even if I don't like the person for any reason, I will want to read/her what the person has to contribute.

It's not a matter of Earthquakes, but the matter of strong hold of traditions. Men and Women know their roles. If this roles get interwinned, then both parties should be flexible, and willing to take on the role of the other when necessary. Women take the roles of providers without second thought. Ask a man to enter kitchen, you start to hear stupid statements like "head of the house." Poor, incapable, head of the house.

East Asian countries have strong traditions which tend to interlap - respect for authority, deference to elders, not looking directly into the eyes of a senior/superior when talking, bowing etc. However, the degree of gender equality laws and policies in South Korea and Singapore supersedes Japan and China. Apart from China, the rest are largely Westernised, but only Japan bucks the trend in applying certain Western attitudes in certain aspects of their lives. The way Korean women go against the male dominated system differs entirely from Japanese women. Which is why I posit the prevalence of earthquakes as the reason.

In Japan, women still want to marry men and later become housewives. This is not applicable to South Korean and Singaporean women. Japanese women are entering the workforce enmass because of labour shortages, not because they want to. They like being housewives where they control how their husbands' salaries are spent and budgeted. The aspect of military service helps as everyone competes on a level playing field. The annoyance of Korean men and the growing discomfort by their Singaporean counterparts is because their birth rates are very low. You cannot ask for gender equal policies yet you no wan born children. In other words, as you no wan born children, then follow us do compulsory military service. China's case is an anomaly due to the One Child Policy. Now, governments are opening up to immigrants. Something they would not have done. Lastly, of all East Asian societies, Japan has the highest birth rate. South Korean own is just too low. Sometimes, I pity them.

On twitter just yesterday, one so called mumu man, was saying how he won't buy washing machine for his wife because he doesn't want her to be lazy.

Is the above type of man you expect a woman who also has a job to marry? Of course not. Why aren't men willing to take on "motherly" roles like women take on Fatherly roles? WhY?

Our own matter na poverty cause am. But with the growing education of women and wealth creation plus social media penetration, things go change. I don't know how it is in Southern Africa, but that is how I see Southern Nigeria becoming, especially for ethnic groups which are heavily exposed to Western values.

You forget to mention that women in the North are traded and treated, like property, compared to their counterparts in the south.

I meant Northern Christians, not Northern Muslims. Northern Christian women don't express the same feminism as those in the South. No one there begins to think of 50:50 splitting of bills or who would wash clothes when Fulani herdsmen are razing your houses. These ideologies na for people wey don chop food belly full and have security. Islam is an entirely different ideology from Westernisation.

Anashe:

Okay

Will you shût it?

Cho Cho Cho....

Bighead

luminouz:

Will you shût it?

Cho Cho Cho....

Bighead

You? Lol. I won't give you the attention you desperately seek. You woke up at 5.18am Nigerian time to type this shows you're either jobless or unstable. I mean with over 26,000 comments on Nairaland and I'm the one to shut up? I dare you to respond and I'll dig up your shit in emails, lol. I've been on this platform for a long long time but deactivated circa 2017. Don't push me.

Anashe:


You? Lol. I won't give you the attention you desperately seek. You woke up at 5.18am Nigerian time to type this shows you're either jobless or unstable. I mean with over 26,000 comments on Nairaland and I'm the one to shut up? I dare you to respond and I'll dig up your shit in emails, lol. I've been on this platform for a long long time but deactivated circa 2017. Don't push me.

I dare you. Pull out my shiit and let's see.

luminouz:


I dare you. Pull out my shiit and let's see.

"I learned long ago never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it."

Anashe:


"I learned long ago never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it."

Mtchewwww!!!

You think I'd wither and cower but I didn't and since you don't have any other cards to play, you now took the moral high ground? Shioor!!!

I was expecting my nudes to fill everywhere na ..abi no be my nudes you wan show before?

Oniranu!!!

franchasofficia:
Op leave them alone



All I can tell any Nigerian lady planning to migrate abroad is this; my dear sister, before you Japa, make sure you have a cool headed guy tied down in Nigeria waiting to marry and join you abroad oh as soon as you settle in your destination country because there is no husband abroad oh.


Husbands no de for Europe, UK, US, Canada, etc. Na for Nigeria you go find husband easily if you calm down and leave all those Instagram inspired fantasy life alone. Be real and you will find correct husband in Nigeria.


If you migrate abi Japa abroad as a Nigerian single lady without a serious boyfriend in Nigeria waiting to wife you, my sister, you will become the intimacy gadget of many men abroad oh and at the end they wont even commit to you to talk of talking about marrying you.


Get a serious boyfriend in Nigeria before you Japa oh


And to those Nigerian single ladies abroad, humble yourself and go back to Nigeria, you will definitely find husband, stop listening to your wild and lost friends telling you that if you marry and bring a guy from Nigeria to abroad that he will dump you when he arrives na lie cos Naija guys no wicked like Nigerian ladies.


Worst he can do is to cheat on you once in a while with side chicks, but to leave you completely is not possible unless you are a control freak and an extremely difficult woman

This advice hard oh...come back to Naija

aribisala0:

God did not write any book
Men did
You were born one day and some men told you God wrote the bible
That is just something you were told based on where you were born
If you were born in another place they would have told you a different story.

So how did the men get the inspiration to write it?

BennyDGreat:


So how did the men get the inspiration to write it?

What is inspiration
If God wrote it now did God get inspiration to write it?

LordAdam16:


Mainstream commentary always lags.
FT is pointing out patterns others had uncovered years ago.
I'm past caring about the divergence.
History is cyclical, and every high-flying civilization hits this point.

Where we go from here depends on the elite.
But they're a huge disappointment, so que sera sera.

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-Lord

Solid point

aribisala0:

What is inspiration
If God wrote it now did God get inspiration to write it?

Inspiration is divine influence upon a man to carry out a specific assignment.

Is God man?

Can God receive the divine when he's divine and the source of all divinity?

BennyDGreat:


Inspiration is divine influence upon a man to carry out a specific assignment.

Is God man?

Can God receive the divine when he's divine and the source of all divinity?

I don't know who or what God is
For many it is a daddy in the sky that they try to make very selfish deals with

you are just making up.a bullshit story
What is divine and divinity what does that mean
Those are just words without substance
The point is Men wrote a book and claimed God wrote it.
Everything else is just make believe. It was written by men

aribisala0:

I don't know who or what God is
For many it is a daddy in the sky that they try to make very selfish deals with

you are just making up.a bullshit story
What is divine and divinity what does that mean
Those are just words without substance
The point is Men wrote a book and claimed God wrote it.
Everything else is just make believe. It was written by men

How did men get the idea to write things that had historical evidences and solid proof of a force beyond human?

God isn't a skydaddy. Neither is he one to make selfish deals with. Your perception of these truths on divinity is wrong.

To have a balanced knowledge on this, you need to consume a lot of materials....

BennyDGreat:


How did men get the idea to write things that had historical evidences and solid proof of a force beyond human?

God isn't a skydaddy. Neither is he one to make selfish deals with. Your perception of these truths on divinity is wrong.

To have a balanced knowledge on this, you need to consume a lot of materials....

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Matrix137:
Good morning sir.
Please can you assist me with any amount to buy foodstuffs please 🥺
The hunger is terrible 😔
Have a great day.

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BennyDGreat:


How did men get the idea to write things that had historical evidences and solid proof of a force beyond human?

God isn't a skydaddy. Neither is he one to make selfish deals with. Your perception of these truths on divinity is wrong.

To have a balanced knowledge on this, you need to consume a lot of materials....

How did God get the idea?

aribisala0:

How did God get the idea?

You must know who God is before you can answer this.

Who is God?

Tranquility2345:


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BennyDGreat:


You must know who God is before you can answer this.

Who is God?

Tell me ?Did I introduce God to you?
Who brought God to the conversation

aribisala0:

Tell me ?Did I introduce God to you?
Who brought God to the conversation

Your last question: "How did God get the idea?"

Going by this question, you have an idea of who 'God' is...if not you wouldn't have asked