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Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by FRANCISTOWN: 6:22am On Feb 10 |
advanceDNA:Swrs. You are right! She gotta be kidding because what the F kinna reasoning was that? |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by Badmashiii: 6:23am On Feb 10 |
madscientist88: Bro i disgree with most of what you said up there. So you believe one has to remain in his parent house before he can build his own house? As long as you plan to grow you must constantly step out of your comfort zone. There's no two ways about that. Although,i know folks who are millionaires but still live with their parents and also other rich peeps that live in their own mansion. But we still can't ignore the fact that leaving your parent house is a major change in comfort zone and serve as a strong motivation to take your life serious. - Badmashii - |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by infogenius(m): 6:41am On Feb 10 |
Op U have made a big mistake by renting an apartment just to cohabitate. I am not sure u have started saving for next rent because u already had a full year notice . As far as I am concerned u got urself into this from the sweet talk of a fair lady. U have had ur full from ur lusts and ur eyes are now open to see clearly that u can’t take over her responsibilities. Well it’s time to man up. Here’s my advice. I understand u both love each other and hoping to get married someday. But, As the situation is at the moment, u will have to take steps. 1. She will have to leave and go back to her brother’s place. She is not yet ur wife, I don’t see a reason why u both will live as man and wife when u are not married to each other. The moment she leaves 80% of ur problems are solved. 2. U will need to step up ur money making game. Look for other streams income and venture because u can’t keep urself together, maintain a relationship talkless of getting married and paying expedient bills like rent just depending on what you are doing now. U will choke 3. From now on, never make any relationship one sided, both of u are in it. U contribute more as a man but ur girl must also contribute too of course asides her body. u must tell her from the onset, for eg ” hey I stock the home with food, u buy the gas” In marriage it’s like this too or else u go quick die. U are under no obligation to take responsibility of a lady u ain’t married to when u are not her father. That’s her father’s job until u marry her. That is y u made a big mistake by cohabiting. In conclusion, Let her leave ur house immediately but continue to maintain a decent relationship with her until u get married. Get another hustle to improve your financial security. Or else u won’t go far in life. All the best. |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by Lisa290: 7:20am On Feb 10 |
Intoboy: I repeat do not marry her!!! That lady doesn't love you one bit |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by madscientist88(m): 9:01pm On Feb 10 |
Badmashiii:how old are you? you probably didn't understand anything i wrote, stepping out of your home doesn't guarantee you would succeed, you also skipped the parts i mentioned until he is ready, that means financial stability,if you like disagree after all its my opinion and experience im talking about, if you dont have the privilege to have parents who built their own homes you would not understand were im coming from, if you like agree or disagree,it doesn't change what is real ,in the end if you dont make it no one cares what decision you take to help yourself, there is no so called evidence that stepping outside your comfort zone would make you successful,you are talking to one of the most skilled and experienced person in life,i am 35,im a middle aged man, ive gone out i have served peoples parents,help them run businesses but i am not were i want to be financially despite having numerous connections, what i know is patience and perseverance would help you succeed, and everything requires the right timing. i cant even mention the list of things i have done to succeed,you have no idea,i have never failed but i have not breakthrough yet, everything is slow but i am patient. |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by luminouz(m): 1:22am On Feb 11 |
Eunoiaa: URGH!!!! SMH!! |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by luminouz(m): 1:25am On Feb 11 |
Eunoiaa:Jesus fuqin Christ!!! See classic reverse psychology. Superman lo ma pa e danu! Masculinity kee u dia!!! Oleeee! How can you talk like a goddamn parrot? One look at your diary showed you are a whole mess. Cho Cho Cho...Aje oshi!!! Na why you no get body 1 Like |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by Eunoiaa(f): 12:52pm On Feb 11 |
luminouz: What you're looking for Luminous, you will get it. Because I don't know what market I bought from your hand that you're always denigrating me at every turn. Now you're bodyshaming me on it as well. What is your issue with me? What's my offense? Do I look for your trouble? Do you see me in your mentions constituting a nuisance all the time? The times I have ever responded to you in the past was because of YOU, barging into my mentions unprovoked to insult me. Now you've started again on this account. How is my talkativeness affecting your life? Is it your hand? Is it your account? "Your diaries are a mess." As opposed to what? Okay, and so? Who says I owe you, of all people, any organisation as to how I chose to express myself on something as personal? Did I put a gun to your head that you should always go through my diaries/my profiles? If you want a clinical account, make yours? How hard can it be for you to mind your business and keep shit moving when you know you don't have anything nice to say? So as you've ranted to your heart's fill now, what will happen? I should change and stop updating my diary or deactivate my account because it doesn't please you as an NL member? Abi what exactly is your problem with me? It's not enough that you disagree with what I say, but no, you will go out of your way to be mean to me and make sure I know it. I hope it makes you feel better about yourself in some way sha. I hope being vile helps you live better with yourself. I hope so. |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by luminouz(m): 1:01pm On Feb 11 |
Eunoiaa:K |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by luminouz(m): 1:02pm On Feb 11 |
*sighs* Still as emotionally unintelligent as ever!!! 🙂🙂🙂 |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by Eunoiaa(f): 1:12pm On Feb 11 |
luminouz: It must only be a spirit of evil. A deeply wicked evil spirit that'll make you take the time to go through someone's diary only to look for something bad to comment about it. I did not ask for your opinions on my diary. I did not invite you inside to have a look. Please, jump and pass. I beg you. You hate me, you dislike me, ignore me! Leave my comments alone, it is none of your business what the fuçk I chose to do with my profile. Can you do that? I'm really begging you. After today, can you leave me alone on this account and stay on your lane and me on mine? I beg you with the name of the God you serve. Leave me alone. Seeing you in my mentions really makes me irritable and uncomfortable. It is the only reason why I have not gone out of my way to quote any of the people I used to fight with. I want quietude and sanity on this account. Please. Don't bring that negative energy again. I want you to ignore me forever and this is an ernest request from me. I'll really appreciate it if you'll stick to doing so. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by luminouz(m): 1:18pm On Feb 11 |
Eunoiaa:K |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by Eunoiaa(f): 1:35pm On Feb 11 |
luminouz: I know. I am not denying it. You can rub it in for as long as you want. Have your fill of it today. And I am begging you for that reason to leave me be. I cannot deal with your constant bickering and picking on me, especially when I have not warranted it from you. You preach the redpill, I fuçk with feminism. My comments are not the most stupid comments comments this NL if we're being honest. There's a guy who goes about saying all Nigerian girls are useless. There are female users who says all men are rapists. There are all manners of people pushing agendas here. Whether you even see my comments as sarcasm or not, the point is my comments are not the most despicable, hateful things you will read on Nairaland. There are guys who say worse things than I do but you will ignore that to single me out and make me out to be most unhinged person? And because I talk a lot? How many women on here make you the target of their trolling because they do not like the comments you make? The only person I know that regularly goes to that your redpill thread is Erelu Roz. And you honestly cannot say what she does is bullying or prevents y'all from preaching your redpill the way you want. You're always the one going into women's mentions and Please just accord me mutual irrelevancy as I do you. You're right in everything you say about me, and I hope that will quicken you to the realisation that you're just beating a dead horse when it comes to me. You can count on me holding up my end of the bargain if I promise never to quote you again. I wish you'll do same. I implore you to. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by Double0h7(f): 1:49pm On Feb 11 |
luminouz: Be a man and stop using primary school tactics to get her attention. You know you like her so do the needful! Replying K like you’re smooth when you’ve been stalking her on every account she creates. 😂😂😂 1 Like |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by Double0h7(f): 1:52pm On Feb 11 |
Eunoiaa: He fancies you! LOL! It’s so cute to watch. I hope you guys can overcome your feminism and redpill ideologies because love is a beautiful thing ❤️ |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by Double0h7(f): 1:57pm On Feb 11 |
@op so with all your redpill stuff and calling women bishes, one small bush girl is using you to flex! You just can’t make this shi up🤣🤣🤣🤣. |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by luminouz(m): 6:00pm On Feb 11 |
Double0h7:K |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by Eagba(m): 6:45pm On Feb 11 |
NevetsIbot:Woman that loves you act like a mother. Deep |
Re: Please Mature Minds Should Help Me Out With This by KillingJoke: 8:59am On Feb 12 |
luminouz: Just kus you forking cake Stop disrespecting my girl , you forking laser |
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