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I had a heated argument with a girl I've been seeing for a few months the other day. She called me, saying she was hungry. Typically, I would respond to such a request, but that particular day, my Opay was having issues. She then started accusing me, saying I wasn't taking care of her, despite the fact that she owns a fashion design shop and is financially independent. I told her that I'm only obligated to take care of her if she were living under my roof, and that she lives alone and her family is close by. She got angry and accused me of not loving her, even though I do give her some stipends like 10-15k from time to time. I responded that she has parents and was taking care of herself before I met her. If she is my wife then that's different.

My question is "are you obligated to take care of a girlfriend?

There is no type of campaign promises that our men can not make to climb our women. After winning the election to the seat of power of our women's Bermuda Triangles, they will turn around to blame our women for demanding for the fulfillment of their campaign promises.

*Politeness*
Can only speak for myself. I don't expect any man to take care of me, and infact I prefer a man NOT take care of me. That way I don't feel like I owe them anything - I don't have to do anything out of gratitude or obligation

I'll be responsible for a girl's needs when she comes home to do my laundry, clean up my place, wash my plates, etc.

If she can't do any of these things, then it's witchcraft for her to expect me to meet her financial needs ...

I mean, I can't be playing husband roles when she doesn't play wifey roles ..

Since a man's ability to provide is a woman's way of measuring whether or not a man loves her, then she coming to my house to do the above is her proof that she loves me ...

natedroid:
I had a heated argument with a girl I've been seeing for a few months the other day. She called me, saying she was hungry. Typically, I would respond to such a request, but that particular day, my Opay was having issues. She then started accusing me, saying I wasn't taking care of her, despite the fact that she owns a fashion design shop and is financially independent. I told her that I'm only obligated to take care of her if she were living under my roof, and that she lives alone and her family is close by. She got angry and accused me of not loving her, even though I do give her some stipends like 10-15k from time to time. I responded that she has parents and was taking care of herself before I met her. If she is my wife then that's different.

My question is "are you obligated to take care of a girlfriend?

I don't understand the kind of relationship you people are getting into. Abi nah cap you dey cap?

If someone I am seeing asks me for something, one of these two things will happen: either I will say, 'Oh, okay, send your account details/come and take it,' or I will say, 'Wow, wrong timing, I don't have it,' and that's final.

Why should we argue about who should care for whom and all that nonsense? If she brings up that conversation, then it's over between us. I won't reply to her, and I'll soon leave.

In my relationships and friendships, whether casual or deep, I do my best not to be an unreliable friend or lover. The day someone questions my usefulness or value to them is the day I'll leave.

Don't stress me

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10-15k stipend from time to time

Relationship go hard for me be that o.

The issue with bannies is that,the one day u refused to give them something will make them forget the other 99 good times.
They tend to have short memories..

natedroid:
I had a heated argument with a girl I've been seeing for a few months the other day. She called me, saying she was hungry. Typically, I would respond to such a request, but that particular day, my Opay was having issues. She then started accusing me, saying I wasn't taking care of her, despite the fact that she owns a fashion design shop and is financially independent. I told her that I'm only obligated to take care of her if she were living under my roof, and that she lives alone and her family is close by. She got angry and accused me of not loving her, even though I do give her some stipends like 10-15k from time to time. I responded that she has parents and was taking care of herself before I met her. If she is my wife then that's different.

My question is "are you obligated to take care of a girlfriend?

I always tell them I'm not her father.

Nah u start han already..

No ,that's why most guys are broke. Taking care of gf with their small stipend.

natedroid:
I had a heated argument with a girl I've been seeing for a few months the other day. She called me, saying she was hungry. Typically, I would respond to such a request, but that particular day, my Opay was having issues. She then started accusing me, saying I wasn't taking care of her, despite the fact that she owns a fashion design shop and is financially independent. I told her that I'm only obligated to take care of her if she were living under my roof, and that she lives alone and her family is close by. She got angry and accused me of not loving her, even though I do give her some stipends like 10-15k from time to time. I responded that she has parents and was taking care of herself before I met her. If she is my wife then that's different.

My question is "are you obligated to take care of a girlfriend?

It depends on her

natedroid:
I had a heated argument with a girl I've been seeing for a few months the other day. She called me, saying she was hungry. Typically, I would respond to such a request, but that particular day, my Opay was having issues. She then started accusing me, saying I wasn't taking care of her, despite the fact that she owns a fashion design shop and is financially independent. I told her that I'm only obligated to take care of her if she were living under my roof, and that she lives alone and her family is close by. She got angry and accused me of not loving her, even though I do give her some stipends like 10-15k from time to time. I responded that she has parents and was taking care of herself before I met her. If she is my wife then that's different.

My question is "are you obligated to take care of a girlfriend?

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