I shared a previous thread about my babe I deflowered and later broke up with cos of complicated family ties.
Well I just want to bring it to the notice of the house that I spoke with her yesterday since I couldn't successfully avoid her anymore cos I was still deeply in love with her but ended everything cos of the complications and for the fact that she also has been madly in love with me ever since I ended things with her but was hoping that we come back together.
Yesterday, I spoke with her and made her understand a few things about our situation and the hope that's staring at us in the face.
I formally asked her out again, although she was hesitant at first owing to the complexity of our family ties but she was ready to give us a chance and see where love leads us.
I have not said a thing to any of my family person cos we want to keep things private at least for now.
All I can say is I'm very positive about this one.
I promised to never stop loving her or leaving her again and she was very happy. Wish us well guys

What do you think our next step should be.?
Matured minds pls

This was the previous thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8002925/slept-virgin-now-happening-me

Truly it’s complicated personally I would date anybody I have “family blood ties” with

Still I wish you guys luck and don’t break her heart treat her well and she’ll treat you well❤️❤️

Goldenfinger5:
I shared a previous thread about my babe I deflowered and later broke up with cos of complicated family ties.
Well I just want to bring it to the notice of the house that I spoke with her yesterday since I couldn't successfully avoid her anymore cos I was still deeply in love with her but ended everything cos of the complications and for the fact that she also has been madly in love with me ever since I ended things with her but was hoping that we come back together.
Yesterday, I spoke with her and made her understand a few things about our situation and the hope that's staring at us in the face.
I formally asked her out again, although she was hesitant at first owing to the complexity of our family ties but she was ready to give us a chance and see where love would leads us.
I have not said a thing to any of my family person cos we want to keep things private at least for now.
All I can say is I'm very positive about this one.
I promised to never stop loving her or leaving her again and she was very happy. Wish us well guys

What do you think our next step should be.?
Matured minds pls

This was the previous thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8002925/slept-virgin-now-happening-me

I wish you both all the best...

I hope the virginity is not the only thing attracting you to her

You mean the girl you raped.

VeryWickedMan:
You mean the girl you raped.

A lunatic spotted. Get a life mate

thesicilian:
I hope the virginity is not the only thing attracting you to her

Not at all. There were other major qualities that attracted her to me. Virginity was just an addon for me.

dawnomike:
I wish you both all the best...

Thank you I appreciate

Boondocxs:
Truly it’s complicated personally I would date anybody I have “family blood ties” with

Still I wish you guys luck and don’t break her heart treat her well and she’ll treat you well❤️❤️

Thank you so much. I won't break her heart by God's grace. It's a promise I've made to her

Brr u get luck oo, abeg do giveaway, he get why.

Before u get her pregnant... Make sure u strol to the market & check the current prizes of pampers & baby stufs.

Private for how long? It would have been better to end things now before you will come here n post about family members being against you marrying her due to you guys being related. Abi the virginity do catch u,?

Love is a cute thing. But bro are you working, are you stable and independent yet, i know this questions are abstract but im talking from experince. If the answer is no then i advice you to enjoy yourselfs but do not... Never make the promise of never leaving her, life is still long mystery you cant fully control. Sit her down as the man and explain to her the possibility of you guys breaking up in the future is not far fetched, she might even be the one to break up with you, dont believe youll be the only guy she would have sex with. Instead of making unessecary and emotional promises, simply enjoy your relationship. Never sacrifice your future for each other it can make you feel insecure and cheated, instead help build each others future, a Relationship with a person that wants you to move forward is heaven. Bro finding love is very important but i promise you that it is not the most important thing in a mans life(keep that in mind always). Remember shes a friend not your wife, and remember safe sex.

Goldenfinger5:


Thank you so much. I won't break her heart by God's grace. It's a promise I've made to her

dont make such promise bro, you can tell her that "you will never joke or play with her heart". Even many relationships you see today have gone through MULTIPLE heartbreaks on both sides and came out better. Majority of heart breaks are never intentional a womans heart is a complicated device you can try your best but just like life "nothing is guaranteed even tommorow." just do your own commot body, she do her own commot body. Dont force anything, thats how to have a matured and respectful relationship. MUCH SAID ENJOY YOURSELF BRO

100% happy home awaits you.

How old is this virgin girl?

thesicilian:
I hope the virginity is not the only thing attracting you to her

Sharap! And stop talking like a chicken.

Just remember, when things get rough, there's always the option of offing yourself and starting over fresh.

reXurrectionZA:
Love is a cute thing. But bro are you working, are you stable and independent yet, i know this questions are abstract but im talking from experince. If the answer is no then i advice you to enjoy yourselfs but do not... Never make the promise of never leaving her, life is still long mystery you cant fully control. Sit her down as the man and explain to her the possibility of you guys breaking up in the future is not far fetched, she might even be the one to break up with you, dont believe youll be the only guy she would have sex with. Instead of making unessecary and emotional promises, simply enjoy your relationship. Never sacrifice your future for each other it can make you feel insecure and cheated, instead help build each others future, a Relationship with a person that wants you to move forward is heaven. Bro finding love is very important but i promise you that it is not the most important thing in a mans life(keep that in mind always). Remember shes a friend not your wife, and remember safe sex.

Thanks for the candid advice. I run my own business and to some extent I'm ok financially. I can't control everything but the things I can control are the ones I promised her.
I just want to make her happy to the best of my ability cos I've made her shed a lot of tears in the past.
Of cos life have it's twists and turns but I'm positive with an open mind and mind you we're not sacrificing any future. I just want to bring sweet memories to her life and then see what happens from there

SIXFEETUNDER:
Just remember, when things get rough, there's always the option of offing yourself and starting over fresh.

Thunder fire you there, including ya papa wey refuse to use #20 condom stop this nonsense

jeromestarks:
100% happy home awaits you.

How old is this virgin girl?

Thank you so much. You can guess

jeromestarks:

Sharap! And stop talking like a chicken.

Good one

reXurrectionZA:
dont make such promise bro, you can tell her that "you will never joke or play with her heart". Even many relationships you see today have gone through MULTIPLE heartbreaks on both sides and came out better. Majority of heart breaks are never intentional a womans heart is a complicated device you can try your best but just like life "nothing is guaranteed even tommorow." just do your own commot body, she do her own commot body. Dont force anything, thats how to have a matured and respectful relationship. MUCH SAID ENJOY YOURSELF BRO

Great advice here. Thanks

Caramia2020:
Private for how long? It would have been better to end things now before you will come here n post about family members being against you marrying her due to you guys being related. Abi the virginity do catch u,?

We're not related by blood, only by marriage so that's why we're keeping everything private until such a time we'll deem it fit to open up. The journey is going to be a bit long but I'm positive

James4358:
Before u get her pregnant... Make sure u strol to the market & check the current prizes of pampers & baby stufs.

Pregnant ke.! I dey crase?

FUTURE4202:
Brr u get luck oo, abeg do giveaway, he get why.

Wit......?

Goldenfinger5:


Thanks for the candid advice. I run my own business and to some extent I'm ok financially. I can't control everything but the things I can control are the ones I promised her.
I just want to make her happy to the best of my ability cos I've made her shed a lot of tears in the past.
Of cos life have it's twists and turns but I'm positive with an open mind and mind you we're not sacrificing any future. I just want to bring sweet memories to her life and then see what happens from there

well said. i pray God helps you, carry on bro.

jeromestarks:

Sharap! And stop talking like a chicken.

You don start again
You that cannot afford chicken

Where Una dey see this love?

thesicilian:

You don start again
You that cannot afford chicken

I will slap you.

Congratulations in advance.

Cassandraloius:
Congratulations in advance.

Thank you so much.

TheFinesseKid:
Where Una dey see this love?

It is all around you, in front of you. Open your eyes wide