My life is not going well, since december when I was robbed of the capital I usually use for my business.
I buy and sell okirika (fairly used clothes) since then feeding my family because a big problem they attacked me and others I lost 200k to them but am greatful am still alive.

But all my efforts to start my business again fails because family issues feeding one way or the other and my kid school fee won't let me save anymore I was still managing till the cost of living becomes very high and expensive for us.
Now am just overthinking suicidal and angry and in debt.
I normally sell okirika to feed and survive but I don't have any money to buy and sell anymore.
I really thank God for giving such an encouraging tolerating and enduring wife if not I would have run mad out of depression.

Now we ate our last food stuff yesterday morning Am left with nothing now, how am I going to feed my family from tomorrow morning?

Pls if there is anyone needing kidney please buy mine so that my family won't starve to death also so that I can start my business.


My wife doesn't deserve to suffer this much, she always fast and pray for me and she always encourage me that the future will be ok despite that I see pain sorry and starvation in her eyes.

I will do anything to keep my family ok but the condition now is out of these world, I do not have anything important to sell if not I wouldn't have come online to seek for assistance, I applied for day long machine but due to the high cost and demands i was not eligible to be given.
Because I also decided to ride okada.
How can I repay my wife for her endurance encouragement and support she always gives me?

In any situation you found yourself,just knife suicide is not an option,na all of us dey see this shege banza for this economy.

justcallbuki:
In any situation you found yourself,just knife suicide is not an option,na all of us dey see this shege banza for this economy.

I understand am just explaining my experience

You have a good wife, some women would have put you into depression by now, weeping may last for a night but joy comes in the morning, keep pushing, reach out to relatives

dopedan:
You have a good wife, some women would have put you into depression by now, weeping may last for a night but joy comes in the morning, keep pushing, reach out to relatives

honestly I value and cherish her, she's the only one who stood by me even now that am down to zero level

A woman sticking to a man in miserable situations, is the yardstick to measure wife material . But I don't see men doing that.

When will some ladies have sense?.

At least you would have dropped your location and things you can do for job qualifications, people are willing to help here.

Location?

Cassandraloius:
At least you would have dropped your location and things you can do for job qualifications, people are willing to help here.

Kogi state thank you qualification nce

boldx:
Location?

Kogi sir

I am very wary of all these: 'I want to sell my kidney' stories. Do you guys think it's that easy? Have you thought about how life will be like after losing one kidney? Your health may not even remain the same again.

It is desperation like this that is making people kill others for rituals. Life is hard, but if you're overly desperate to make money, you will surely stray.

As an okrika dealer, you had no business with marriage yet until after you must have established yourself. But no, you quickly got married and lost all your investment which isn't much.

My advise is for you to keep pushing, but forget about the idea of selling your kidney. It sucks!

I pray succor come to you very soon, so you ca appreciate your wife and give her all she deserves, it’s rare to see a woman like that anywhere now

Its a good thing you appreciate your wife and want the best for your family but that your wife too can go look for any teaching job and be doing because you're both in this together. You too speak and write so well and can equally look for a teaching job.

I know the economy is bad and all but Why do you have to wait until the last meal in the house runs out?
Even if you get help now, you'll still need something doing to sustain till things get better.


There's this woman that advertises teaching job here on Nairaland and she offers free accommodation too. How about you link up with her and see if she can employ you and your wife then you move in to the accommodation for now. But please do your findings before going there o. Let me get the link..

Two adults can not be in a house doing nothing and praising an able bodied woman for sitting down and enduring with you in suffering when you two can go out there and work to help each other.

Here's the link. Contact her and see if she can allow both of you work in her school.
https://www.nairaland.com/7981326/teachers-urgently-needed-accommodation-available#128624169

Renemali:
My life is not going well, since december when I was robbed of the capital I usually use for my business.
I buy and sell okirika (fairly used clothes) since then feeding my family because a big problem they attacked me and others I lost 200k to them but am greatful am still alive.

But all my efforts to start my business again fails because family issues feeding one way or the other and my kid school fee won't let me save anymore I was still managing till the cost of living becomes very high and expensive for us.
Now am just overthinking suicidal and angry and in debt.
I normally sell okirika to feed and survive but I don't have any money to buy and sell anymore.
I really thank God for giving such an encouraging tolerating and enduring wife if not I would have run mad out of depression.

Now we ate our last food stuff yesterday morning Am left with nothing now, how am I going to feed my family from tomorrow morning?

Pls if there is anyone needing kidney please buy mine so that my family won't starve to death also so that I can start my business.


My wife doesn't deserve to suffer this much, she always fast and pray for me and she always encourage me that the future will be ok despite that I see pain sorry and starvation in her eyes.

I will do anything to keep my family ok but the condition now is out of these world, I do not have anything important to sell if not I wouldn't have come online to seek for assistance, I applied for day long machine but due to the high cost and demands i was not eligible to be given.
Because I also decided to ride okada.
How can I repay my wife for her endurance encouragement and support she always gives me?

After reading all this.
My only advice for you, is to be very careful with that woman you call wife.

She might be the one to betray you.
Don't kill yourself for any woman or any child.
Work on getting yourself back, not because of a woman or kids.

He that has ears, let him hear.

fati2001:
A woman sticking to a man in miserable situations, is the yardstick to measure wife material . But I don't see men doing that.

When will some ladies have sense?.

Are you on this planet ?

The woman you are talking about is even lower in financial standing than the man that is complaining he isn't in his best financial state. Men from history have shown to stick with miserable broke women time after time.

Between the two genders who have shown to stick with a broke partner? Men or women? You all won't complain of pay disparity if women are the ones making better pay than men.

A man is facing financial problems and the wife might also be facing worse financial issues than him but you don't see her brokenness as something to talk about but that of the man because to you men have eaten up your frontal lobe so the remaining part is now dormant . If the wife is rich do you think he will be here seeking for help? Broke women shaming broke men

You will be fine soon, just visit your doctor for help.

am already in my worst feeling kid crying and no food or any hope hmmm things are to hard

Emmanuel909090:


After reading all this.
My only advice for you, is to be very careful with that woman you call wife.

She might be the one to betray you.
Don't kill yourself for any woman or any child.
Work on getting yourself back, not because of a woman or kids.

He that has ears, let him hear.

Oh my goodness!!!

Women can't endure what men endure to take care of them throughout their lifetime so encourage yourself. Selling your organ is unthinkable and suicide is not a sensible option, it's cowardy

Emmanuel909090:

After reading all this. My only advice for you, is to be very careful with that woman you call wife.
She might be the one to betray you. Don't kill yourself for any woman or any child. Work on getting yourself back, not because of a woman or kids.
He that has ears, let him hear.

God forbid

sulakishop:
Women can't endure what men endure to take care of them throughout their lifetime so encourage yourself. Selling your organ is unthinkable and suicide is not a sensible option, it's cowardy

am just useless and helpless now but I won't give up

Well, what is your wife doing?

Better off yourself before you regret it


After voting for bubu , you come here to rant about hunger



I hope you forking kys boot livker

@OP

Firstly, remove your children and put them in public schools where education is free. Secondly, try and get accommodation that you can afford. if staying in 3 bedroom apartment, try and take up accommodation lower than that.

Lastly, reach across to family and friends to know if they can loan you some money to re-establish your business and bounce back. Give them time frame of when you will pay back.

Those are practical advice I can give you.

Kogi State again? Is it that you people have an association of e-beggars there or it's just one person spinning these stories? How come you were robbed of ALL your capital? Did you completely go out of stock before going to restock?Don't you have trusted sellers that can give you goods on Goodwill after which you can repay in bits as you make sales? So you got robbed of ALL your money, next step is to try to sell your kidney in an attempt to move people to ask for your account details. Kolewerk! This your begging format no follow at all. I'm sure this is the same person that posted photos of a burnt shop claiming to be his. Also the "woman" who claimed her husband's Okada got stolen and they've been hungry. Same Kogi State, similar writing patterns.

dominique:
Kogi State again? Is it that you people have an association of e-beggars there or it's just one person spinning these stories? How come you were robbed of ALL your capital? Did you completely go out of stock before going to restock?Don't know you have trusted customers that can give you goods on Goodwill after which you can repay in bits as you make sales? So you got robbed of ALL your money, next step is to try to sell your kidney in an attempt to move people to ask for your account details. Kolewerk! This your begging format no follow at all. I'm sure this is the same person that posted photos of a burnt shop claiming to be his. Also the "woman" who claimed her husband's Okada got stolen and they've been hungry. Same Kogi State, similar writing patterns.

too bad you can say such things easily but you are very wrong

I have a skill, my skill is to kill... If you wants to kill, I have that skill or that is my skill... I can kill monkey, donkey, I can kills monkey, donkeys and Emily Heskey, etc; if they refuses to gives me key&whiskey... I would kill them when/where they are doing hankypanky... Did you need my skill(s)? If you needs my skill, I can helps you kill... You don't see anything to kill to settle or pay your bills? Get a kill skill, kill to pay your bills, nepa bills and waybill... Be still till you kills or till you get/obtain a kill skill... Don't let it be nil, let it be nil nil... Did you wants to kneel or takes to your heels?

Scammer. Use your main moniker ole

Renemali:
My life is not going well, since december when I was robbed of the capital I usually use for my business.
I buy and sell okirika (fairly used clothes) since then feeding my family because a big problem they attacked me and others I lost 200k to them but am greatful am still alive.

But all my efforts to start my business again fails because family issues feeding one way or the other and my kid school fee won't let me save anymore I was still managing till the cost of living becomes very high and expensive for us.
Now am just overthinking suicidal and angry and in debt.
I normally sell okirika to feed and survive but I don't have any money to buy and sell anymore.
I really thank God for giving such an encouraging tolerating and enduring wife if not I would have run mad out of depression.

Now we ate our last food stuff yesterday morning Am left with nothing now, how am I going to feed my family from tomorrow morning?

Pls if there is anyone needing kidney please buy mine so that my family won't starve to death also so that I can start my business.


My wife doesn't deserve to suffer this much, she always fast and pray for me and she always encourage me that the future will be ok despite that I see pain sorry and starvation in her eyes.

I will do anything to keep my family ok but the condition now is out of these world, I do not have anything important to sell if not I wouldn't have come online to seek for assistance, I applied for day long machine but due to the high cost and demands i was not eligible to be given.
Because I also decided to ride okada.
How can I repay my wife for her endurance encouragement and support she always gives me?

The title of your thread is at variance with what you wrote inside about your wife, the title make is seem as if she is giving you a hard time

The way and manner you guys come online to beg is unbecoming. Make una dey calm down nau. Did you even exhaust all your options before resorting to this Al-majiri lifestyle?

Firstly, if you have a supplier whom you've been patronizing overtime, such a supplier can give you goods on credit when the need arises. Did you explore that option?

Secondly, most business people are into one cooperative thrift or another. These cooperative thrift usually loan them money with low interest rate. Did you?

Thirdly, if you got robbed and it affected your business. Should you still leave your children in a private school where you have to pay money? My neighbour once homeschooled his 3 children when he lost his job and couldn't find a government school around to enroll them. His wife even worked as a lesson teacher for many months. Today, they are back on their feet. They recently just moved to their own house.

In summary, this new habit of running online to beg for any little thing is becoming nauseating. Some of the people you're begging are even going through worse, but they are just trying to push on. This is nairaland not beggarsland! Make una take am easy with all these Al-majiri pattern lifestyle abeg.

Renemali:
too bad you can say such things easily but you are very wrong

Oga go and sit down abeg. You created this account to emotionally manipulate people into sending you money. Serial beggar oshi

dominique:


Oga go and sit down abeg. You created this account to emotionally manipulate people into sending you money. Serial beggar oshi

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