[quote author=Goldenfinger5 post=128489115]There's this girl I feel in love with sometime ago last year 2023. She's hardworking, peaceful and fun to be with. I later discovered she was a virgin and in my life I've never deflowered a virgin before. As time went on, the romance between us got so intense to a point we both went out of control and I made one of the biggest mistakes of my life - I deflowered her. She bled for days and then after it stopped we continued to see each other. Now this is where it gets interesting, I later discovered we may not be able to be together because of family ties - not that we're related though so I had to end the relationship with her but till date I can't seem to get myself to stop thinking about her. I have tried everything possible but all to no avail. Me I'm thinking I've been bewitched. I need an advice cos I've tried to avoid her as much as possible cos she's in my area but the more I avoid her the more the feeling gets intense. Is there anyone that have same experience pls share. How did you come out of it. Pls I need advice. No insults pls

Answer this question and I give you positive idea.
How was your old relationship handled and is she your first relationship? Then I will give you advice from there ...
Waiting

Goldenfinger5:


What's the anger all about. Personally I love the girl a lot and she knows about it but the circumstances surrounding us is the problem. Pls get it
I really regret deflowering her. If I knew it was going to be like this I wouldn't have even tried it in the first place

Shatap! Na you I deh refer to. E deh hungry me to put you indoors forget the keys for stream after seven mountains.

AllenSpencer:
Use her for money rituals!

Stupid post!

Stupid comment spotted

Aleem26:
U no just get head for this you post on here…leave your area for her na Ozuo

Respect yourself. I said no insults

Just kys please

What family ties ? Op?What family ties ? Op?...

Goldenfinger5:


I dey haus. It is good advice that I need. Like I said no insults pls. Constructive criticism is allowed. Thank you

See as u keep serious face lol

All this small boys coming here with premature stories.

You didn't think of all the family ties before deflowering her. It's after you have gotten what you wanted you're coming up with this silly talks. You have not been bewitched, you may have been cursed and your soul will know no peace for taking that girls innocence and dumping her.

You have seen anything yet. Wait for it!

Omo leave story. Knack the girl comot for road make we see road pass go front go take our turn. No be you be first wey deflower girl

Goldenfinger5:


We're related by marriage. That's why I said it's complicated

What's wrong with you. Give details and rest

To nack you original oraimo cord for neck the hungry me.

What is the whole fuse about pussy. You guys are aware that you are related by marriage before engaging in this charade of relationship, and after the fornication, everything changed.


Well, I thought I can't move on when I am in love until they point gun on my head to leave Khadeejah. I didn't just leave, I ran. Since then I have mastered my emotions, I can easily let go and move on from any relationship that threatens my sanity.

You want advice but you ain't coming out clean.
Is she your cousin? Niece abi related by blood either from your paternal or maternal side

U just dey dey beat around the bush.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga to slap you dey hungry me

asin
D guy is really funny

Goldenfinger5:


Are you ok?

May sense be your portion

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She's not. I misjudged my former gf, thought she was cheating cos we were on a long distance relationship. I broke up with her but later discovered after 2years she wasn't cheating and unfortunately I couldn't get her back cos she blocked me on all social media platforms. That's a story for another day

annayawchee:
You want advice but you ain't coming out clean.
Is she your cousin? Niece abi related by blood either from your paternal or maternal side

U just dey dey beat around the bush.

She's not my blood like I said. We're only related by marriage. Two families getting married

Demigod22:
To nack you original oraimo cord for neck the hungry me.

What is the whole fuse about pussy. You guys are aware that you are related by marriage before engaging in this charade of relationship, and after the fornication, everything changed.


Well, I thought I can't move on when I am in love until they point gun on my head to leave Khadeejah. I didn't just leave, I ran. Since then I have mastered my emotions, I can easily let go and move on from any relationship that threatens my sanity.

I'm gathering all necessary insight to do same

PureFace1:



Then you will suffer for long though, only time can heal your stupidity.

Back to sender

Goldenfinger5:


She's not my blood like I said. We're only related by marriage. Two families getting married

You can marry her.
The rest na excuse...

I've seen where two brothers married from the same family

Suicideboy:
Just kys please

Meaning pls

annayawchee:
You want advice but you ain't coming out clean.
Is she your cousin? Niece abi related by blood either from your paternal or maternal side

U just dey dey beat around the bush.

Both families are tied by marriage

Goldenfinger5:



Both families are tied by marriage

elaborate

Is the entire family married to the other family??

Or your mom is from her family??

Or her mom is from your family

Which is it??

annayawchee:
You can marry her.
The rest na excuse...

I've seen where two brothers married from the same family

I honestly don't know how that's going to happen but anything is possible so i'm keeping an open mind. I've been trying to talk to her to see how things go, though the response has been positive

Goldenfinger5:
I honestly don't know how that's going to happen but anything is possible so i'm keeping an open mind. I've been trying to talk to her to see how things go, though the response has been positive

it's well

PureFace1:



Then you will suffer for long though, only time can heal your stupidity.

Back to sender

terrence12:


I swear...
To carry him coconut head knack for ceramic floor just dey hungry me.

Empty brain spotted.

Brr to see virgin dis days nor easy oo, so if na me i die there. Even though i broke i nor go live am, e get why o, so i go advise u go for her. Must especially as u love her so.

FUTURE4202:
Brr to see virgin dis days nor easy oo, so if na me i die there. Even though i broke i nor go live am, e get why o, so i go advise u go for her. Must especially as u love her so.

Lol. You're funny but thanks

Check this new thread for update on this issue
https://www.nairaland.com/8010593/re-virgin-girl-deflowered-accepted

how women stay virgin for a while and carry their pussy give any random guy dey amaze me

Goldenfinger5:


Empty brain spotted.

Says the idiot calling himself goldenfinger. Stick it in your yansh.

Hmm, you need to know who you are coming in contact with