Hello nairalanders.
In life there are some characters that people exhibit and probably we've not had such experience before thus it makes it difficult for us to analyze what is going on and why it's going on.

In this case, my girl friend whom I've been dating for years now accused me of hiding her school documents. She threatened to take her life if I don't provide the documents. I was super confused cos truly I did not take her documents. For a moment I accused my brother who lives with me but my brother is not known to tell lies so I just got confused.

This issue was very serious oooo but after a while, I just took my mind off it. Until this week when she came to apologize that she accused me wrongly even when she was apologizing I just said ok and I ignored her.

Just today she accused me that she brought one of her baking equipment to my house and now she can't find it. She accused me that one of my side chick must have taken it I just ignored her. She was beginning to start quarrel over it when I confronted her that she should stop it and I reminded her that she took that particular baking equipment along with her on a certain day.

Immediately she started laughing and said she was just acting drama.

This is the second time this year I have had this experience. I am just wondering, how long have I been wrongly accused that I may have foolishly apologised to or foolishly ignored and why is she behaving this way

NOTE: If I had not confronted her with evidence that she is lieing, she will make a heavy fight out of this. Why ? Why ? Why ?

She acts with hasty conclusions. It is very bad.

Order her to stop bringing her valuable things to your house. If you don't do this, you will one day go to jail and she will eventually say it is a drama.

immortalcrown:
She acts with hasty conclusions. It is very bad.

Accusing me of sth that you know is not with me is hasty conclusion ?? Is this not a heavy red flag ?

Update147:
Accusing me of sth that you know is not with me is hasty conclusion ?? Is this not a heavy red flag ?

Is "hasty conclusions" too big for you to understand? I don't know why you ask me the question.

Update147:
Hello nairalanders.
In life there are some characters that people exhibit and probably we've not had such experience before thus it makes it difficult for us to analyze what is going on and why it's going on.

In this case, my girl friend whom I've been dating for years now accused me of hiding her school documents. She threatened to take her life if I don't provide the documents. I was super confused cos truly I did not take her documents. For a moment I accused my brother who lives with me but my brother is not known to tell lies so I just got confused.

This issue was very serious oooo but after a while, I just took my mind off it. Until this week when she came to apologize that she accused me wrongly even when she was apologizing I just said ok and I ignored her.

Just today she accused me that she brought one of her baking equipment to my house and now she can't find it. She accused me that one of my side chick must have taken it I just ignored her. She was beginning to start quarrel over it when I confronted her that she should stop it and I reminded her that she took that particular baking equipment along with her on a certain day.

Immediately she started laughing and said she was just acting drama.

This is the second time this year I have had this experience. I am just wondering, how long have I been wrongly accused that I may have foolishly apologised to or foolishly ignored and why is she behaving this way

NOTE: If I had not confronted her with evidence that she is lieing, she will make a heavy fight out of this. Why ? Why ? Why ?

My mom always say; "If someone behaves outside the normal way of reasoning things, that's a mental problem"

Tell her to stop the drama. Try to communicate with your partner stop keeping malice in a relationship.Open your mind to your lover. After doing this and she repeats the same thing,break up with her right away

@Update147, that lady is toying with your brain and probably wants to test your patience.

Run away from her while you still have your sanity intact she will frustrate you if you take the relationship further.

Update147:
Hello nairalanders.
In life there are some characters that people exhibit and probably we've not had such experience before thus it makes it difficult for us to analyze what is going on and why it's going on.

In this case, my girl friend whom I've been dating for years now accused me of hiding her school documents. She threatened to take her life if I don't provide the documents. I was super confused cos truly I did not take her documents. For a moment I accused my brother who lives with me but my brother is not known to tell lies so I just got confused.

This issue was very serious oooo but after a while, I just took my mind off it. Until this week when she came to apologize that she accused me wrongly even when she was apologizing I just said ok and I ignored her.

Just today she accused me that she brought one of her baking equipment to my house and now she can't find it. She accused me that one of my side chick must have taken it I just ignored her. She was beginning to start quarrel over it when I confronted her that she should stop it and I reminded her that she took that particular baking equipment along with her on a certain day.

Immediately she started laughing and said she was just acting drama.

This is the second time this year I have had this experience. I am just wondering, how long have I been wrongly accused that I may have foolishly apologised to or foolishly ignored and why is she behaving this way

NOTE: If I had not confronted her with evidence that she is lieing, she will make a heavy fight out of this. Why ? Why ? Why ?

Maybe she Dey ment

Update147:
Hello nairalanders.
In life there are some characters that people exhibit and probably we've not had such experience before thus it makes it difficult for us to analyze what is going on and why it's going on.

In this case, my girl friend whom I've been dating for years now accused me of hiding her school documents. She threatened to take her life if I don't provide the documents. I was super confused cos truly I did not take her documents. For a moment I accused my brother who lives with me but my brother is not known to tell lies so I just got confused.

This issue was very serious oooo but after a while, I just took my mind off it. Until this week when she came to apologize that she accused me wrongly even when she was apologizing I just said ok and I ignored her.

Just today she accused me that she brought one of her baking equipment to my house and now she can't find it. She accused me that one of my side chick must have taken it I just ignored her. She was beginning to start quarrel over it when I confronted her that she should stop it and I reminded her that she took that particular baking equipment along with her on a certain day.

Immediately she started laughing and said she was just acting drama.

This is the second time this year I have had this experience. I am just wondering, how long have I been wrongly accused that I may have foolishly apologised to or foolishly ignored and why is she behaving this way

NOTE: If I had not confronted her with evidence that she is lieing, she will make a heavy fight out of this. Why ? Why ? Why ?

*I thought the red flag is enough sign for you to run to ohhh*

Update147:
Hello nairalanders.
In life there are some characters that people exhibit and probably we've not had such experience before thus it makes it difficult for us to analyze what is going on and why it's going on.

In this case, my girl friend whom I've been dating for years now accused me of hiding her school documents. She threatened to take her life if I don't provide the documents. I was super confused cos truly I did not take her documents. For a moment I accused my brother who lives with me but my brother is not known to tell lies so I just got confused.

This issue was very serious oooo but after a while, I just took my mind off it. Until this week when she came to apologize that she accused me wrongly even when she was apologizing I just said ok and I ignored her.

Just today she accused me that she brought one of her baking equipment to my house and now she can't find it. She accused me that one of my side chick must have taken it I just ignored her. She was beginning to start quarrel over it when I confronted her that she should stop it and I reminded her that she took that particular baking equipment along with her on a certain day.

Immediately she started laughing and said she was just acting drama.

This is the second time this year I have had this experience. I am just wondering, how long have I been wrongly accused that I may have foolishly apologised to or foolishly ignored and why is she behaving this way

NOTE: If I had not confronted her with evidence that she is lieing, she will make a heavy fight out of this. Why ? Why ? Why ?

Two foolish teenagers dating each other. You need parenting attention.

Why don't you leave this relationship for your sanity?

Update147:


NOTE: If I had not confronted her with evidence that she is lieing, she will make a heavy fight out of this. Why ? Why ? Why ?

looks like she has an errorr upstairs. personally I don't think that's a kind if person I want to live my life with, that alone is enough for a break up.

you are an idiot,any girl that gravely accuses you that relationship should end immediately but you forgave her and let it slide why won't she come with more accusations.


it's one thing to be a simp is another thing to be one with no actual self worth

PlsBanMe:
Why don't you leave this relationship for your sanity?

leave the idiot,toxic relationships
is life draining that's why most men die young and they don't know

Wait until you have to explain to a police officer, that you didn’t do whatever she accused you of, before you realise that you are with a mad person. 🤭

One day she will accuse you of rape. By the time you come back from prison after spending 10 years your eyes will clear. Break up with her immediately or get ready for more heavy accusations that will land you in a serious trouble.

KIDS dating and Wahala.

Leave her now b4 she accuse u falsely an get police involve/they drag u with resounding slap and u go explain tire.

Warn her never to bring any of are thing to ur place again. Not to leave her pant or bra in ur place again.

Ashawo wey want kill 9ja girls no dey let them get sense.

This are the kind of useless girls that causes problems between 2brothers/family.

Me I no get time for rubbish ooh! Anyone leave pant in my huz, I call u back quick, quick, come carry ur dirty pant out of my huz.

I hope she doesn't accuse you of rape one day & call it drama, because you cannot come back from such. Get a lawyer to draft an agreement & have her sign it.

You are seeing signs and you are asking questions...


Until she accuse you of rape and you spend sometime in prison, your eyes go clear.


When you comot from prison she go tell you say she dey act drama

She will calm... Order her to stop bringing things around...

I sell herbs tho

Why do you people have so low self esteem? You're with a low quality woman and you still allow her give you problems? What does she mean by lying and calling it drama? You don't need such poor quality people in your life.

Men should learn to be with women who have self worth and brings peace. If you end up marrying her now and start having problems, you'd run round asking for advice when the signs were clear from the start.