Dasherz:
bluntboy .. u know i need ya smart head for this one

Doojie89:
My long distance relationship boyfriend of three years seldom call me or chat with me, always with the excuse of work. When he does chat, it's just the normal hi and how are you. He doesn't talk about his day, doesn't ask about mine. He doesn't talk about missing me and doesn't clamour to see me, except when he wishes I'm around to cook for him or keep him company. Yet he says he loves me so much. When I asked him one day how he's sure he loves me, the reply he gave was that, when he's at work, he longs to chat or call me. That reply seems shallow to me.
Does he love me because he says so? Why would he tell me he loves me so much yet he's not showing it?

BluntBoy:


On the surface, it appears like he doesn't love you or is taking you for granted but that may not be the case in reality. We express love in different ways. Some people are aggressive in their display while some are very laid back or robotic. We don't really know this guy and some comments may cause you to lose a man who is either sincere or insincere.

I can't answer your question about whether he loves you or not. You are the one who can answer that question yourself. We don't know him. But based on what you have narrated here, it doesn't appear like he is committed to the relationship. Next time you get the chance, have a honest talk with him. Be direct and observant. Ask him if he wants the relationship or not. Let him know that commitment is key and that he is not showing it. If he promises to change, give him another chance. Let us see just how willing he would be ready to make sacrifices. If he continues to show a lack of commitment, then, he doesn't love you as much as he claims.

I hope you are telling us the whole truth? I hope you are not the one demanding excessive and irrational attention? Sometimes, we may feel like the other person is not doing enough when in reality, we are the ones just being selfish.

Dasherz:


damn you're smart!!!

BluntBoy:


I am humbled by your generosity, Dash

Dasherz:

lol you should be in bed

BluntBoy:


About to. You should be in bed too.

So, let us sleep. Let me tuck you in and kiss you goodnight.

Dasherz:


aww that will be sweet but I will be sleeping late

BoleynDynaSTY:
Bluntboy and dasherz you 2 need a room.....

Dasherz:
I sight you windflower .. how you doing?

BoleynDynaSTY:
Bluntboy and dasherz you 2 need a room.....

BluntBoy:

Dasherz:

Good mOrning
hope you had a good night's rest

BluntBoy:

Yes, sweet. Hope you had too? Good morning and a happy Sunday to you.

Dasherz:
My night was short but the sleep was worth it

LizzyAnn:
iamj your attention is needed here

iamJ:
set up

iamJ:
set up