I hate people who feel entitled. Such people always blame others for their failures.
They mostly unhappy with other people success. He needs to work on himself to be a better person

Hmm.. Is he your real sibling

Your brother is not matured enough to manage disappointment.
I remember some years ago when my brother promised to pay for my ICAN exams but 3 days to the form closure he changed his tone to why not wait for next diet or maybe you would have started working to pay by yourself. I went to my mum, and she gave me the money and wrote the exam and passed the diet. To cut the story he paid for the last diet

My elder brother did same thing sometimes ago, dude block everybody in the family including my mum because of the nonsense his wife told him, funny enough, I am now harbouring him in my own house due to my place is closer to his work place here in Lagos, life drama isn't it??

I just look the dude at times and shake my head, he have no idea of what I can do next to him.

But truth be told, all what I'm doing to help him is as a result of blood relation and my mum. I can just wake up one day and ask him to leave my house!

End.

Harddiskng:
You don’t know what God has done for you by removing a leech from your life.

Let the e-diot go. If he ever unblocks you in future, make sure you block him. That blocking must be permanent.

how una dey say all this things comfortably sef🥲.. all this no reach calling your bro a leach or removing your brother from ur life na, cos he needed u and u failed and he's angry and being immature about it..
why not just act the bigger and sensible person by calling your brother and explain things and of cause tell him how unhappy you're about his behavior and hear frm him as well,then figure out a solution together...life no hard, that bro might be person wey go change your life fr good tomorrow.

and if we check well ppl like this one ,na dem dey love their family to death but go com online dish harsh wrong advice to stupid ppl.

Family problems should stay private...

I suppose we are dealing with larger concerns..
Ebin pa wa!

Act you didn’t know he blocked you

Once the money come, send to him like you promised or add more like someone above suggested, the let him know he’s very immature and entitled to have acted in that way and as a consequence, you no longer see the reason why you should help him until he’s wise to understand money is not plucked from trees

You are brothers. He can't go far. The guy is just frustrated. I'm sure he had plans to get something out of training but money lying fallow is not safe in this country. Now that he has touched his own half of the money, it means he will need to start gathering the money again even if you give him yours. That is why he's frustrated. Time wasting

inoki247:
Lol this kids thinks is easy....


Until they also grow up nd become an uncle or brother to someone and see nobody's stingy is jus not easy been an adult.....

Broooo !

Testiebobo:
I promised my brother that i will assist him to get a laptop for his design business by contributing half of the money. Th HP system cost 120K, so i should pay 60k.

But it's over 2months now and the money i was expecting did'nt arrive. He called me yesterday to blame me for being the cause why he had already spent half of his contribution.

The last text he sent to me on whatsapp was"thanks for the delay!". And this morning i discovered he had already blocked me. I only saw my messages on his dm and none of his texts were there.

Is your brother not living with you nii

blackpanthar:


You are a good brother.... but be wise, avoid black tax.

YOU DIDNT HAVE TO PROMISE HIM ANYTHING.... without a TARGET.

I mean you should have told him "IF YOU HAVE THIS AND THAT, THEN I MAY GIVE YOU HALF"

emphasis on MAY.

I believe your cash will come this month.... SEND HIM 61K or 65K.

Then when he is so happy and unblocks you.

FINISH HIM..... CORRECT HIM AND TELL HIM THE EXTRA 1K or 5K was for him to buy wisdom, tell him you will NEVER HELP HIM AGAIN TILL HE IS NO LONGER FEELING ENTITLED and then BLOCK HIM.


Move on... and what how his mind will crumble.

being his ELDER BROTHER should be proven by having ability to correct him in a way that will shake his mind

kudos bro

You are a very bad boy

Nobody is above blocking i don't give a F* who you are because the falling of a dried leaf is a warning to the fresh ones 😞

Your little bro is not mature enough

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Family matter.


You guys should sort yourself out.


Next!

Testiebobo:
I promised my brother that i will assist him to get a laptop for his design business by contributing half of the money. Th HP system cost 120K, so i should pay 60k.

But it's over 2months now and the money i was expecting did'nt arrive. He called me yesterday to blame me for being the cause why he had already spent half of his contribution.

The last text he sent to me on whatsapp was"thanks for the delay!". And this morning i discovered he had already blocked me. I only saw my messages on his dm and none of his texts were there.

Dealing with a kid sister that just did something similar today. Siblings have this sense of entitlement that can be really annoying but blood will always be blood. You should overlook his misbehaviour and still help me.

Testiebobo:
I promised my brother that i will assist him to get a laptop for his design business by contributing half of the money. Th HP system cost 120K, so i should pay 60k.

But it's over 2months now and the money i was expecting did'nt arrive. He called me yesterday to blame me for being the cause why he had already spent half of his contribution.

The last text he sent to me on whatsapp was"thanks for the delay!". And this morning i discovered he had already blocked me. I only saw my messages on his dm and none of his texts were there.

Chief your brother is your brother! That's your ride and die, forget am. Delayed expectations dey burst heart sometimes. Just reach out to him and discuss with him. Many people dey unhappy. That's your blood!

Testiebobo:
I promised my brother that i will assist him to get a laptop for his design business by contributing half of the money. Th HP system cost 120K, so i should pay 60k.

But it's over 2months now and the money i was expecting did'nt arrive. He called me yesterday to blame me for being the cause why he had already spent half of his contribution.

The last text he sent to me on whatsapp was"thanks for the delay!". And this morning i discovered he had already blocked me. I only saw my messages on his dm and none of his texts were there.

This is not an entitlement issue...rather a promise and fail.... did u communicate to him...abt the unforseen circumstances or u ignore him...pending when it will be available....i once experience this issue and today i dont depend on pple....i must get it my self

Namaster:
When your money comes in, hire a hookup girl with big yansh and bang to your heart's content.

I hate ENTITLED idiots.

You don't owe him YOUR money. Goes to show that the idiot only sees you as an ATM.

In case it's not clear, you did NOT do anything wrong. Circumstances beyond your control caused the delay. It's not like the money is available and you failed to give him.

Your brother is acting like an entitled bitch. Treat him like one.

U talk lavishly!

U dont even knw dis siblings nor d relationship dey share. U dont even knw if d one needing money for laptop had done much more of such favour for his brother in d past... Or mayb its actualy a debt.

I sincerely pity ur siblings,

Bro it's still your brother no matter what.... what you expected didn't come on time.... but the way he behave doesn't make sense by blocking you.......

MrBrownJay1:
- why didnt you contact him all this time, and explain the situation to him?
- if you cant fulfill your promise to somebody then be honest to them
- who else should he blame then, since you promised him something that you didnt deliver?
- dont you understand why he is upset?

this is the thing. the nigerian economy is very very difficult in nigeria right now. i for instance had a payment that i have been waiting for since november. and i had alot of commitments riding on it. after a while it will sound like you are a story teller . even worse, by the time the money camein, its value had been severly eroded by inflation. i am sure th OP must have told his brother severally, hang on , the money is coming.

i personally think its a rubbish clickbait story though - because everyone knows whats up right now with regards to cash flow

I believe he is your younger brother. The fact he blocked you. If it's me. Even when I have the money I will never give him. He should keep blocking me.

Testiebobo:
I promised my brother that i will assist him to get a laptop for his design business by contributing half of the money. Th HP system cost 120K, so i should pay 60k.

But it's over 2months now and the money i was expecting did'nt arrive. He called me yesterday to blame me for being the cause why he had already spent half of his contribution.

The last text he sent to me on whatsapp was"thanks for the delay!". And this morning i discovered he had already blocked me. I only saw my messages on his dm and none of his texts were there.

Only a 14yr old would do that

He probably used his money to play bet9ja, thinking he go jammer, buy the laptop by himself and come to mock you .

It's nice that this hard times has shown how immature, self-centred and myopic he is..

He is your brother, do not cut him out of your life ..buy have it at the back if your mind that he only needs you for financial favors

Ah!
U are at fault o.
U promised him n u couldn't meet up with the promised.
U kept mute all along.
U should have let him know why there's delay.
Now he has blocked U, this one na has turn to family matter.
The family head will need to get involved.
Your brother won't forget what u did to him, u make him spent from the ones he saved n u couldn't drop any as promised.
U should meet him one on one n settle it.

Testiebobo:
I promised my brother that i will assist him to get a laptop for his design business by contributing half of the money. Th HP system cost 120K, so i should pay 60k.

But it's over 2months now and the money i was expecting did'nt arrive. He called me yesterday to blame me for being the cause why he had already spent half of his contribution.

The last text he sent to me on whatsapp was"thanks for the delay!". And this morning i discovered he had already blocked me. I only saw my messages on his dm and none of his texts were there.

Did you let him know before the message that you were experiencing financial bumps on the road?

Testiebobo:
I promised my brother that i will assist him to get a laptop for his design business by contributing half of the money. Th HP system cost 120K, so i should pay 60k.

But it's over 2months now and the money i was expecting did'nt arrive. He called me yesterday to blame me for being the cause why he had already spent half of his contribution.

The last text he sent to me on whatsapp was"thanks for the delay!". And this morning i discovered he had already blocked me. I only saw my messages on his dm and none of his texts were there.

is too harsh of him try to see him and sought out things as long as you no bang him wife or babe no wahala

CHIOMAEZEH:
He probably used his money to play bet9ja, thinking he go jammer, buy the laptop by himself and come to mock you .

It's nice that this hard times has shown how immature, self-centred and myopic he is..

He is your brother, do not cut him out of your life ..buy have it at the back if your mind that he only needs you for financial favors

u be werey lol....i can so understand the plot...now na transfer of aggression

Abeg, this na your family probs. You don't have to bring it here.
Youve made the promise then you need to fulfil it. Cause they say promise is a debt. Perhaps you were unable to get it when due (the promise date), perhaps you were harsh on him too when you were unable to do it. you've committed yourself to it, na you go sabi how you go persuade him. Everybody sabi say the country hard.

Siblings can manipulate you sometimes, they're something else.

Namaster:
When your money comes in, hire a hookup girl with big yansh and bang to your heart's content.

I hate ENTITLED idiots.

You don't owe him YOUR money. Goes to show that the idiot only sees you as an ATM.

In case it's not clear, you did NOT do anything wrong. Circumstances beyond your control caused the delay. It's not like the money is available and you failed to give him.

Your brother is acting like an entitled bitch. Treat him like one.

YOU DID NOT HEAR FROM HIS BROTHERS SIDE. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT HIS BROTHER SACRIFICED FOR HIM WHEN HE WAS AT HIS LOWEST. MAKE WE DE TRY ACT LIKE CHRISTIANS, SOMETHING HIS BROTHER DID FOR HIM THAT HE TOOK FOR GRANTED MIGHT BE EVERYTHING HE ACTUALLY NEEDED

Testiebobo:
I promised my brother that i will assist him to get a laptop for his design business by contributing half of the money. Th HP system cost 120K, so i should pay 60k.

But it's over 2months now and the money i was expecting did'nt arrive. He called me yesterday to blame me for being the cause why he had already spent half of his contribution.

The last text he sent to me on whatsapp was"thanks for the delay!". And this morning i discovered he had already blocked me. I only saw my messages on his dm and none of his texts were there.

change the scenerio u would have done the same...him blockin you with a thank you for the delay text shows he was tryin to show you how disappointed he his....and we all know he is gonna unblock you back... na you be the cause of the problem... u were not logical with him...now he too is not logical only emotional with you....u want to justify yourself i didnt recieve what i expected...and u expected his own 60k to be chhiling and waiting for your own 60k....shay you dey whyn.... oga the only solution to redeem yourself totally is by paying for the whole laptop...even the 120k laptop fit be 200k now lol..then after buying it...u can den trash talk him and tell him your disappointments and bla bla....he will forever respect you because action speack louder than words..my 2 cent