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Franzinni:
you know his colleague already told him what's up so what was the use... Besides she didn't hide the phone from him... And remember what her reaction was to him checking her phone.... Was she remorseful? NO in fact she was infuriated that he did that... What does that tell you about that guy?.. Simp.

Women are easy to handle as long as you keep them trying to figure you out but most men especially from the 90s and above still perceive women from the perspective of the media and fairytale movies... Women detest men that they can dominate... Where is the challenge ?

Franzinni:
you know his colleague already told him what's up so what was the use... Besides she didn't hide the phone from him... And remember what her reaction was to him checking her phone.... Was she remorseful? NO in fact she was infuriated that he did that... What does that tell you about that guy?.. Simp.

Women are easy to handle as long as you keep them trying to figure you out but most men especially from the 90s and above still perceive women from the perspective of the media and fairytale movies... Women detest men that they can dominate... Where is the challenge ?

BigYash:
You’re still repeating same thing over and over again.. Anty who is a simp? A simp is a “foolish person” who is afraid of accessing his partner’s phone whenever he wants to,in a love relationship. And a deceptive relationship is that in which partner’s hides secrets and phones from each other .. So you need understand the kind of relationship you are into,cux it’s either a love relationship or a deceptive relationship. Do you a nice day anty

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

STEWpid:
Chai..


You have just been saved from eternal hullabaloo.

You should goan share testimonies in church, give a FAt Tithe and elephantaneous offering.

...but, are you a correct guy too?

Women hardly leave or deceive the person they love!!

uzomakanaki:
Devil dey play kite for your head.

ROTFL

But seriously dude see as you just de vex!

That guy don use preek scatter your girlfriend t-0t0

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

uzomakanaki:
Hell no. He's wife will hear about this.

uzomakanaki:
Correct guy in what sense? Someone I've never cheated on. I'm very focused on my job. She's just a wh*'re that took me for granted

uzomakanaki:
You know how many guys I don help?

blackpanthar:
so sorry for this kind of experience but we need to change your SIMPlistic view on the matter... NOT ALL LADIES ARE LIKE HER, yes you need a break from relationships, go and LEARN the right way about relationships through books and counsellors who have a proven track record on such issues.

it may just have been the wake up call you need.

ONCE A MAN SLEEPS WITH A LADY, HE HAS CONQUERED HER WHILE SHE HAS BEEN CONQUERED.
YOU need to expose him to other colleagues before leaving that office. He is a shameless animal.


IN LIFE, NEVER MAKE YOUR WOMAN COME TO YOUR LEVEL OR ELSE YOU WILL LOOSE HER.

WHEN WOMEN HAVE MONEY, THEY BELIEVE THEY DO NOT NEED MEN, BUT WHEN MEN HAVE MONEY, THEY GO IN SEARCH OF WOMEN OR FAMILY.

WHEN A SNAKE BITES YOU, NEVER CHASE IT FOR EXPLANATION OR REVENGE UNTIL YOU HAVE FIRST TREATED YOURSELF FROM THE VENOM PROPERLY

THE BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS(meaning get richer, own your own business, find a better loyal lady who is 1000% better than your ex and marry her)

FORGIVE BUT NEVER FORGET

CONVERT THE PAIN TO DETERMINATION TO BE A GREAT SUCCESS..... CHANGE ENVIRONMENT.... EVEN IF YOU NEED TO FIND A BETTER JOB.

pansophist:
Bone my guy, you are still in rage mode. This is why you don't just date anybody, but take time to know them before jumping.

I dare say that the majority of humans are suffering from a lack of character, which forms the basis for traits such as being faithful, truthful, straightforward, honorable, etc.

No honor among thieves. Thieves don't even trust each other with their money, but they will go to the bank as normal people after their stealing operation to deposit their theft.

Because even thieves need trust, faithfulness, safety of their cash, guarantee of access, privacy, and all the nice qualities banks have. They are the losers, not you. Separate emotions from fact. With time, you feel fee good, but with a clear conscience.

Using the same analogy, your fiancee and your work colleague are like the two thieves. After they have satisfied their lust and vanity, they will realize that they need the above-stated traits (eg faithfulness) for a relationship.

What goes around comes around. If they both betray you for their lust, they will betray themselves, just a matter of time. Life is straightforward, and if you understand the rules, you won't bother yourself much.

You lost nothing, but she lost a man that loves her. You lost a woman that was not there in the first place. She is just a fake matter occupying space, like a bubble.

People are good not because they say they are, but because their actions prove so. And do not take revenge, it isn't worth it. Let them be and watch the show.

because in the end, after the adrenaline of attraction dies down, they will realize they can't offer themselves love in the form of duty, sacrifice, faithfulness, etc, and that's when you win.

Our actions like are seeds, only a matter of time, it will grow and then, we will know if the previous planting (behaviors) was worth it. Then regret sets in, and then you win. You will laugh last, but you will laugh best.

DevilsEqual:
I have seen u texted in English, Yoruba and Igbo and I must say for sure that your use of words is outta the world

Your comments are usually funny to me too

pansophist:
Bone my guy, you are still in rage mode. This is why you don't just date anybody, but take time to know them before jumping.

I dare say that the majority of humans are suffering from a lack of character, which forms the basis for traits such as being faithful, truthful, straightforward, honorable, etc.

No honor among thieves. Thieves don't even trust each other with their money, but they will go to the bank as normal people after their stealing operation to deposit their theft.

Because even thieves need trust, faithfulness, safety of their cash, guarantee of access, privacy, and all the nice qualities banks have. They are the losers, not you. Separate emotions from fact. With time, you feel fee good, but with a clear conscience.

Using the same analogy, your fiancee and your work colleague are like the two thieves. After they have satisfied their lust and vanity, they will realize that they need the above-stated traits (eg faithfulness) for a relationship.

What goes around comes around. If they both betray you for their lust, they will betray themselves, just a matter of time. Life is straightforward, and if you understand the rules, you won't bother yourself much.

You lost nothing, but she lost a man that loves her. You lost a woman that was not there in the first place. She is just a fake matter occupying space, like a bubble.

People are good not because they say they are, but because their actions prove so. And do not take revenge, it isn't worth it. Let them be and watch the show.

because in the end, after the adrenaline of attraction dies down, they will realize they can't offer themselves love in the form of duty, sacrifice, faithfulness, etc, and that's when you win.

Our actions like are seeds, only a matter of time, it will grow and then, we will know if the previous planting (behaviors) was worth it. Then regret sets in, and then you win. You will laugh last, but you will laugh best.

blackpanthar:
so sorry for this kind of experience but we need to change your SIMPlistic view on the matter... NOT ALL LADIES ARE LIKE HER, yes you need a break from relationships, go and LEARN the right way about relationships through books and counsellors who have a proven track record on such issues.

it may just have been the wake up call you need.

ONCE A MAN SLEEPS WITH A LADY, HE HAS CONQUERED HER WHILE SHE HAS BEEN CONQUERED.
YOU need to expose him to other colleagues before leaving that office. He is a shameless animal.


IN LIFE, NEVER MAKE YOUR WOMAN COME TO YOUR LEVEL OR ELSE YOU WILL LOOSE HER.

WHEN WOMEN HAVE MONEY, THEY BELIEVE THEY DO NOT NEED MEN, BUT WHEN MEN HAVE MONEY, THEY GO IN SEARCH OF WOMEN OR FAMILY.

WHEN A SNAKE BITES YOU, NEVER CHASE IT FOR EXPLANATION OR REVENGE UNTIL YOU HAVE FIRST TREATED YOURSELF FROM THE VENOM PROPERLY

THE BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS(meaning get richer, own your own business, find a better loyal lady who is 1000% better than your ex and marry her)

FORGIVE BUT NEVER FORGET

CONVERT THE PAIN TO DETERMINATION TO BE A GREAT SUCCESS..... CHANGE ENVIRONMENT.... EVEN IF YOU NEED TO FIND A BETTER JOB.

Franzinni:
You had NO business checking her phone.... A man should never do that.

If you don't feel you can trust her... Just leave her for the streets.

Women are always hypergamous... They will always look for someone better, that is why they say a woman never marries what she wants, she instead marries what she can. But if what she wants comes along.... Sope otilo

MisterBanny:
Is it about getting Richer after a breakup? Even if you're Dangote, these girls will still cheat on you.

MisterBanny:
Stop this trash pls. I hate it when people say u have no right to check your partner's phone. Do u know what it means to be in a serious relationship that is about leading to Marriage? Or u think marriage is child's play? If you can Bleep her and have seen her unclothedness several times, then why can't u check her phone if u want? If there's nothing incriminating in her phone, then why should she not want it checked? A man or woman that wants to get married always carry out a background check on their partner, even the parents of the duo help in carrying out these checks particularly when they are from same place, as it helps to know exactly who you're getting married to. A lot is hidden in relationships, it is after marriage that their true character begins to manifest.

Some Ladies can't even leave their phones with their boyfriends for a minute. It's a redflag. Note, it's not like u deliberately collect her phone and say u want to check. No. Most times it is accidental

blackpanthar:
WHEN YOUR WHOLE MIND IS INVESTED IN MAKING MONEY AND BEING A BETTER PERSON............ you will have no HEART BREAK with ladies because YOU WILL NEVER TAKE THEM SUPER SERIOUS...

HEART BREAK is most painful when SHE IS ALL YOU GOT........... MONEY GIVES OPTIONS....

You will LOOSE MONEY chasing women, but never REALLY loose women if you FOCUS ON MAKING MONEY FIRST

Franzinni:
but the guy in the story deliberately checked... And sorry how do you accidentally check because I have not been able to imagine how that can be possible... Do you accidentally go to here what app or Instagram? Or how...

MisterBanny:
Accidental in this regard means that , one of the partner may decide to get the other's phone maybe to get some videos, music or do some internet stuffs at a particular time. In the process, a message could pop up from another guy or babe they are cheating with. At the point, curiosity sets in.
Another instance is, ur girlfriend visits u and decided to put her phoyon silence every time she comes around, then u begin to get suspicious.
Again, while she is with you, she may decide against picking a call from a particular number. She does it all the time when she's with you.
Ask her to give u her password when she's in the restroom and u needed to do something urgently with her phone, she wouldn't. She would rather ask her guy to wait until she's done from the restroom.

All these and more are some of the reasons that people check their partners phones. Nobody just sits down and tell the partner to bring their phones to be checked

Franzinni:
I get your point but that is why I said if she is for the streets she will show you red flags by her actions

MisterBanny:
Oga, forget it. No matter how rich you are, there's one lady out of many that u have that you will always Love and be Emotionally attached to. So what if it is such lady that breaks your heart?
Remember, money can never take the place of woman in your life.

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.