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Good Morning Famz, good to see this place is still bubbling, also nice to see that some of the Guys before I left are still here dropping snippets for generations unborn and I hope everyone here is fine and good??

Ubunja,Skepticus,Heartofcity12, CAPSLOCKED how are you guys?? Luminouz and BalIzproblem I can see you both are still here. Those wey I no remember to call abeg make una no vex for me....

Remain blessed y'all....

Pukkalolo:
When you said,

"Some people will tell you not to "think with your díck" OR not to "Focus on her pùssy"


I know you're indirectly referring to me, because we know already I often say, "stop being pussy focused, instead be attention focused"



I'm not surprised that some guys will disagree with me on this, because back in the days, I would also disagree with myself.


But when I got to a level of confidence, sexual experience and maturity, I understood that---

A true powerful guy doesn't think with his dick.

A true confident guy is not pussy focused.

A true dominant guy doesn't have a goal of fucking her, he has a different goal entirely.

You'll find out what that goal is in a moment....Read on.



When I tell some guys to stop being pussy focused and to stop thinking with their dicks, their emotions get triggered and they try to disagree with me just like you are doing now.


Well, it's not your fault, it's the society fault. The media and society have brain washed men to believe that a woman's pussy is a highly valuable commodity that must be chased and acquired. This is why most men think with their dicks.




Thinking with your díck" OR being "Focus on her pùssy happens to be the biggest roadblock preventing most guys from even getting the pussy.


Here's how....


If you've read Stephen R. Covey's The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. He talked about something which really resonate with this issue.


Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors out of your control, the more your degree of "influence" is going to decrease. And Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors that are within your direct control, the greater your degree of influence increases.


As man, having access to a woman's pussy is totally out your control because it's the woman that "decide" if you'll get the sex or not. Anything that a woman has to "agree to" or has some degree of decision-making power is NOT in your direct control.


When you focus on something(pussy) which is out of your control, that thing(pussy) controls you.


So if you're thinking with your díck OR you're focus on her pùssy, then she controls you.


If you've read the "THE POWER OF PUSSY" by Kathy.


In that book, she literally said "most guys are pussy focused, so if you want exploit, manipulate and control men, you have to leverage the power of your pussy. The tactics in that book is so devilish. The idea in the book is to get the man to think with his dick and focus on the pussy, because that's the only way the woman can manipulate and control him.


Isn't it funny how these generation of men is the weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because these generation of men think with their dicks and they value the pussy more than their time and self-respect.


One thing I discovered is that most times, the guy who is struggling to get the girl is struggling because he has the desperate goal of fùcking her. Because, to him fucking her is the prize to win, so he view getting the pussy as winning and he view NOT getting the pussy as losing.


To define winning by getting the pussy is putting your power and self-worth in the hands of the woman.


If a woman has the POWER to make you a winner or loser by simply giving you the pussy or NOT giving you, then she will use that power against you to toy with your emotions and manipulate you.



If you want to be truly POWERFUL with women and get them follow your lead as the leader, then you need to eradicate low value mindset.


Thinking with your dick or focusing on the pussy is a low value mindset.


You are not supposed be worried about getting the pussy. The woman should be the one worrying if she should give you the pussy or not.


Your job is to be at your most powerful behavior. Her job is to seduce and mate with the powerful guy.


As a guy, if you have to be the one to seduce her, then you're doing something fundamentally wrong.


A powerful guy doesn't seduce the woman because he's the GREAT CATCH to be won over. Instead he gives the woman the opportunity and chance to seduce him. It's the woman's job to seduce you.


Women are the ultimate seducers. But Women are not seducing because men are pussy focused, trying to seduce the women.


Look, the true Power lies with the one who is being seduced not the one seducing. In that case, True game is the ability to get the woman to be the seducer and chaser. She has to be the one craving for your attention; NOT you craving for her pussy.



Just yesterday, this dark cute lady literally told me, "if you make me your girlfriend, you are gonna enjoy me..." (I guess I have talked about how I met her somewhere on this thread where I was asked about the topic relating to "engaging in small talks vs having deep conversations with a good girl"


The other day another girl was telling me, "you this big head, I gave you my phone number but you never cared to even call me."


Again, Last week another lady was telling me, "you don't want me to come to your house, right?... A fine girl like me wants to visit you, you are doing shakara."



Now, the reason why these ladies are craving for my attention is because I'm not focus on their pussy. I treat their pussies like it worthless to me. This literally drives them crazy and get them confused because they rarely see a guy who's not thinking with his dick and doesn't give a fuvk flying about getting their pussies.





To wrap it up,


To win with women, the pussy has to naturally come to you; NOT you being focused on it or trying to calculatedly seduce your way to get it.


This is very important.


Treat women like humans, and not like some "pussy prize" or trophy to be won.


The GOAL is NOT to Bleep her. That's a childish goal. That kind of goal will make you feel WEAK and insecure because fucking her is not in your direct control.


Rather THE GOAL is to simply find out if she's truly interested you and if she's even worth your attention. That kind of goal will make you come across as mature, assertive and confident. Because you are treating your attention as the prize to be won, not her pussy.




Now, most guys won't quickly or easily grab all this concept have just written because they are not socially conditioned to think this way; instead they've been socially programmed to be focused on the pussy and to think with their dicks.


This is way deeper, and It will take some experience and paradigm shift before a guy can truly apply this mindset.


But just bookmark or save this page because I believe I have planted a seed in your mind; one day the seed with germinate and you'll experience a mindset shift and you will look back for this post and say, "Wow! Pukka was right all this while, a guy shouldn't be pussy focused."


Stay blessed.

Simply put, To get a Loan from a bank, you'll need to show that you don't really need the loan ,but if you continuously go the bank everyday and demand for the Loan,the Bank will notice you're Desperate and will not give you the Loan,or they might give you the Loan but on their very own terms because you're desperate for it...

As a Man, When dealing with Women,you have to think Exactly like them by doing the exact opposite of what they say to you. They gonna hate you for it momentarily because they'll know you know the game you're playing but with time you'll become indispensable to them.

A girl I met at work late last month told me to take her out for lunch and I said just like that?? . I jokingly asked her that if her brother comes home and tells her that she took a girl he just met and bought things for her,how would she feel and what's she gonna say her brother. She became mute.

Same girl have been calling me stingy because I refused doing things her Papa no fit do her and telling me to show more care because I normally don't talk to her for quite long, because she's tried everything to make sure I give up my value which is my attention and commitments first but nah, she called me Saturday last week asking for my home address. She came on Monday and things happened Sha,but she's not gonna get what she's looking for at least for now, am still gonna keep her in suspense though....

In this Game Between Man and Woman, whoever gives up his/her Values first loses, And it'd better be them than us...

Good morning all and do have a lovely day ahead....

Dannnn:
Anytime I hear 'vet your woman', I keep asking myself; have these people forgotten that All Women Are Like That(AWALT)?

Or are my missing something?

Women go always nack you akpako if you no stand fit, dem no dey fol
low you play o

..

Sharp man🤝..
I wonder why they vet someone that's not different from the h*e on the street..

I swrr all women are the same

BetaMegatron:
As a Man, When dealing with Women,you have to think Exactly like them by doing the exact opposite of what they say to you. They gonna hate you for it momentarily because they'll know you know the game you're playing but with time you'll become indispensable to them.

A girl I met at work late last month told me to take her out for lunch and I said just like that?? . I jokingly asked her that if her brother comes home and tells her that she took a girl he just met and bought things for her,how would she feel and what's she gonna say her brother. She became mute.

Same girl have been calling me stingy because I refused doing things her Papa no fit do her and telling me to show more care because I normally don't talk to her for quite long, because she's tried everything to make sure I give up my value which is my attention and commitments first but nah, she called me Saturday last week asking for my home address. She came on Monday and things happened Sha,but she's not gonna get what she's looking for at least for now, am still gonna keep her in suspense though....

In this Game Between Man and Woman, whoever gives up his/her Values first loses, And it'd better be them than us...

Good morning all and do have a lovely day ahead....

.


Word🔥

Pukkalolo:
When you said,

"Some people will tell you not to "think with your díck" OR not to "Focus on her pùssy"


I know you're indirectly referring to me, because we know already I often say, "stop being pussy focused, instead be attention focused"



I'm not surprised that some guys will disagree with me on this, because back in the days, I would also disagree with myself.


But when I got to a level of confidence, sexual experience and maturity, I understood that---

A true powerful guy doesn't think with his dick.

A true confident guy is not pussy focused.

A true dominant guy doesn't have a goal of fucking her, he has a different goal entirely.

You'll find out what that goal is in a moment....Read on.



When I tell some guys to stop being pussy focused and to stop thinking with their dicks, their emotions get triggered and they try to disagree with me just like you are doing now.


Well, it's not your fault, it's the society fault. The media and society have brain washed men to believe that a woman's pussy is a highly valuable commodity that must be chased and acquired. This is why most men think with their dicks.




Thinking with your díck" OR being "Focus on her pùssy happens to be the biggest roadblock preventing most guys from even getting the pussy.


Here's how....


If you've read Stephen R. Covey's The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. He talked about something which really resonate with this issue.


Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors out of your control, the more your degree of "influence" is going to decrease. And Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors that are within your direct control, the greater your degree of influence increases.


As man, having access to a woman's pussy is totally out your control because it's the woman that "decide" if you'll get the sex or not. Anything that a woman has to "agree to" or has some degree of decision-making power is NOT in your direct control.


When you focus on something(pussy) which is out of your control, that thing(pussy) controls you.


So if you're thinking with your díck OR you're focus on her pùssy, then she controls you.


If you've read the "THE POWER OF PUSSY" by Kathy.


In that book, she literally said "most guys are pussy focused, so if you want exploit, manipulate and control men, you have to leverage the power of your pussy. The tactics in that book is so devilish. The idea in the book is to get the man to think with his dick and focus on the pussy, because that's the only way the woman can manipulate and control him.


Isn't it funny how these generation of men is the weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because these generation of men think with their dicks and they value the pussy more than their time and self-respect.


One thing I discovered is that most times, the guy who is struggling to get the girl is struggling because he has the desperate goal of fùcking her. Because, to him fucking her is the prize to win, so he view getting the pussy as winning and he view NOT getting the pussy as losing.


To define winning by getting the pussy is putting your power and self-worth in the hands of the woman.


If a woman has the POWER to make you a winner or loser by simply giving you the pussy or NOT giving you, then she will use that power against you to toy with your emotions and manipulate you.



If you want to be truly POWERFUL with women and get them follow your lead as the leader, then you need to eradicate low value mindset.


Thinking with your dick or focusing on the pussy is a low value mindset.


You are not supposed be worried about getting the pussy. The woman should be the one worrying if she should give you the pussy or not.


Your job is to be at your most powerful behavior. Her job is to seduce and mate with the powerful guy.


As a guy, if you have to be the one to seduce her, then you're doing something fundamentally wrong.


A powerful guy doesn't seduce the woman because he's the GREAT CATCH to be won over. Instead he gives the woman the opportunity and chance to seduce him. It's the woman's job to seduce you.


Women are the ultimate seducers. But Women are not seducing because men are pussy focused, trying to seduce the women.


Look, the true Power lies with the one who is being seduced not the one seducing. In that case, True game is the ability to get the woman to be the seducer and chaser. She has to be the one craving for your attention; NOT you craving for her pussy.



Just yesterday, this dark cute lady literally told me, "if you make me your girlfriend, you are gonna enjoy me..." (I guess I have talked about how I met her somewhere on this thread where I was asked about the topic relating to "engaging in small talks vs having deep conversations with a good girl"


The other day another girl was telling me, "you this big head, I gave you my phone number but you never cared to even call me."


Again, Last week another lady was telling me, "you don't want me to come to your house, right?... A fine girl like me wants to visit you, you are doing shakara."



Now, the reason why these ladies are craving for my attention is because I'm not focus on their pussy. I treat their pussies like it worthless to me. This literally drives them crazy and get them confused because they rarely see a guy who's not thinking with his dick and doesn't give a fuvk flying about getting their pussies.





To wrap it up,


To win with women, the pussy has to naturally come to you; NOT you being focused on it or trying to calculatedly seduce your way to get it.


This is very important.


Treat women like humans, and not like some "pussy prize" or trophy to be won.


The GOAL is NOT to Bleep her. That's a childish goal. That kind of goal will make you feel WEAK and insecure because fucking her is not in your direct control.


Rather THE GOAL is to simply find out if she's truly interested you and if she's even worth your attention. That kind of goal will make you come across as mature, assertive and confident. Because you are treating your attention as the prize to be won, not her pussy.




Now, most guys won't quickly or easily grab all this concept have just written because they are not socially conditioned to think this way; instead they've been socially programmed to be focused on the pussy and to think with their dicks.


This is way deeper, and It will take some experience and paradigm shift before a guy can truly apply this mindset.


But just bookmark or save this page because I believe I have planted a seed in your mind; one day the seed with germinate and you'll experience a mindset shift and you will look back for this post and say, "Wow! Pukka was right all this while, a guy shouldn't be pussy focused."


Stay blessed.

I'm not an expert but I think most simps have a few bad principles.

1. Their self esteem depends on how much female attention and romance they get l. If women reject them they get depressed and feel bad instead of taking it as just a randomnevent. They need women to feel good. Women notice this neediness and take advantage.
2. They do not understand that the women themselves have to live up to some standards. They are trying to impress. They don't ask. What does a girl have to do to make me like her. It is always about what they have to do. I mean in ancient times a lady has to be a virgin to get married that is get male attention resources and validation and so she has to live up to some standards. Simps do everything to please women while the women don't have to do anything. I mean some simps will tolerate skimpy and revealing clothes from a girl as long as she dates them.
3. They believe women do not enjoy sex at all and see sex or pussy as a privilege.
4. They have scarcity mentality. This is why cold approach is good. By the time you have the phone number of 15 girls you won't feel bad if a lady rejects you. You will just call 3 other ladies. If a lady ignores a simp he will start sending money to her and begging her instead of talking to another girl
5. All these desperate and low self esteem attitudes are easily noticed by women and they exploit them.
6. If u are confident have cold approach with an abundance mind set u will get ladies without even reading any book

Before I head out, I scanned through the thread and noted two flawed assumptions about vetting women.

So let me share a few thoughts. In the evening, I'll drop two posts on Why you shouldn't be scared to make your girl cry AND Drama Divas. Both VERY important issues.

Now let's dive in....

The issue of vetting women has split men into different camps:

The first camp believes that women are the same. What's the point of vetting when, at the end, women will show you shege. Their belief is rooted in the idea that women are manipulative and will run you street given the chance.


The second camp believes gfs are vetted to become wives. To add to it, Gfs are not wives. And men should vet their gfs before marrying them.


Both camps are wrong. Though, the second one is a better ideology than the first.

Unless you have the bold ambition of being a monk or a reverend father. Or maybe you hate the idea of marriage or raising a family...

Then you absolutely MUST vet women. It's non-negotiable. In my post tonight on Drama Divas you'll see glaringly why vetting is important. Because even if she isn't a romantic partner... the wrong woman can send you into a downward spiral of hell and despair.


Contrary to the second camp beliefs, vetting doesn't start when a girl becomes your gf.

It starts from the moment you meet her with the intention of romance or sexual interest.

This is why I advocate tapping into your hook up material vibe. Meaning allowing yourself to feel that raw serial desire to knack a girl.

Even if you don't end up doing it, having this in mind let's you screen early and fast.

Now, the question you might be wondering is: What exactly am I vetting for?

● The most important thing you vet for in a gf and/or wife is long term potential, loyalty, devotion and respect.

Each of them is important. And are linked to each other. In my post "Your Premier League Guide to finding a loyal, devoted Gf" I broke down each of the steps from start to finish.

But in summary you want to promote and demote girls depending on how they meet your standards.


● You ask guys today if they vet their friends, business partners, associates and even roommates... and they'll tell you yes. Yet when it comes to vetting a woman they'll spend their time, energy and money on... they turn away.

This is foolish.

The idea that women are all the same is a paradox. This is why having extreme views similar to some in red pill doesn't make you Alpha. It blinds you to nuances. Making you prone to the same manipulations you're trying to avoid

Female nature, and humans too is filled with paradoxes. We trust a woman's actions but yet sometimes her words can reveal things about her. You have to spend time with woman and give her some attention to seduce her... yet giving attention can set you behind and make you look desperate.

All of the above are paradoxes. So is the the concept of women are all the same.

Yes they are the same. But at the same time, they're different.

To believe all women act all the same way in all situations to the same degree is a fantastic way to build a castle of delusions.

Women are different just as they are the same.


● In vetting women, you want to have a higher odds approach.

Some of my vetting tests include: she has a history of cheating - if she has cheated on any of her bfs in the past, absolute no. Her level of loyalty to her parents, father, friends. She speaks bad about her dad, absolutely not. She has a promiscuous past - anything more than 5 is a no go area. And this includes blow jóbs, fingering and anal.

She has no female friends and complains how men are so much better than woman to the point that women are bad people. Another red flag.

Her past relationships are also a way to vet what she's like

These are some of mine vetting process.

● In addition to vetting, I give her tests and ask specific questions and listen to her answers. Then I match her actions with her answers.

If there's a consistent occurrence of her words not matching her actions, she cannot be trusted. I will not tell her obviously but she'll be relegated as a fúck buddy for as long as she has access to my díck.

Another test I do is how she carries herself in public both when I'm around and when she's not.



If you notice in all of these, I did not mention a virgin. Because it is meaningless.

Social responsibility, stigma and pressure suppress women's sexual desires and behaviours way more than men.

That's why so many women, get with Virgins only to unlock sides of hers both him and her never thought she had.

Of course there are ways to find out these things from Virgins but it requires more skill and time. Something majority of guys are not equipped with. And frankly don't bother with because they think they've hit the virginity jack pot

Enjoy your day

@Rizzputin

How is your submission on vetting different from mine?

luminouz:
@Rizzputin

How is your submission on vetting different from mine?

I went through again so I'm not sure which one you're referring to. BUT this is the one I took note of:
"I'm referring to a gf situation. A properly vetted woman is who you call your wife"


The thing is, a properly vetted woman is who you call your gf and/or wife

You don't want to be entering a relationship with a woman that is not properly vetted whether as a girlfriend or a wife.

In fact, a significant portion of vetting occurs BEFORE she becomes your girl.

Because while she's your gf... you'll spend time, money, energy and resources. And anything that requires such level of commitment should be a to a woman that's properly vetted.

One of the differences between a gf and wife is the level of commitment you're willing to give. Meaning she can't be treated as a wife when she's a gf. This is something I'll talk about later.

But vetting (a significant part) starts long before she becomes your gf.

It is assumed that before you made a woman your gf, you should have properly vetted her.

As a gf, she'll under go a few more vetting plus more investments, tests and commitment on her part

Rizzputin:
I went through again so I'm not sure which one you're referring to. BUT this is the one I took note of:
"I'm referring to a gf situation. A properly vetted woman is who you call your wife"


The thing is, a properly vetted woman is who you call your gf and/or wife

You don't want to be entering a relationship with a woman that is not properly vetted whether as a girlfriend or a wife.

In fact, a significant portion of vetting occurs BEFORE she becomes your girl.

Because while she's your gf... you'll spend time, money, energy and resources. And anything that requires such level of commitment should be a to a woman that's properly vetted.

One of the differences between a gf and wife is the level of commitment you're willing to give. Meaning she can't be treated as a wife when she's a gf. This is something I'll talk about later.

But vetting (a significant part) starts long before she becomes your gf.

It is assumed that before you made a woman your gf, you should have properly vetted her.

As a gf, she'll under go a few more vetting plus more investments, tests and commitment on her part

I added another reply after the gf part.

You vet always as a redpiller....everyone in your circle. What I talk of is making sure the woman you marry has been thoroughly vetted and even that alone isn't enough but helps reduce the chances of shiit occuring. And never relax after marrying her and lose your frame.

Dannnn:
To women, men exist to be used. When a woman is with a man, she's always thinking of ways to exploit him.

She's with you for your Money, Energy(sex), Attention, Time, and/or Control.

The moment she smiles at you, immediately ask yourself; what does she want?

There's always a sinister motive.

It works both ways brother.

When a man is with a woman, who isn't his relative, he wants companionship friendship, sex, physical contact etc.

It works both ways.

luminouz:
To simps it's called Love, Allowance, Bone Straight

To redpillers: Entitlement mentality, No shi-shi for anybody, Stingy boy association, You no be her Papa

Can you be with someone you like and not want to spend a few thousands on drinks, food, checking out a place etc?

Nyascobar1414:
..

Sharp man🤝..
I wonder why they vet someone that's not different from the h*e on the street..

I swrr all women are the same

So your mother is not different from a Hoe on the street abi?

Rizzputin:
Before I head out, I scanned through the thread and noted two flawed assumptions about vetting women.

So let me share a few thoughts. In the evening, I'll drop two posts on Why you shouldn't be scared to make your girl cry AND Drama Divas. Both VERY important issues.

Now let's dive in....

The issue of vetting women has split men into different camps:

The first camp believes that women are the same. What's the point of vetting when, at the end, women will show you shege. Their belief is rooted in the idea that women are manipulative and will run you street given the chance.


The second camp believes gfs are vetted to become wives. To add to it, Gfs are not wives. And men should vet their gfs before marrying them.


Both camps are wrong. Though, the second one is a better ideology than the first.

Unless you have the bold ambition of being a monk or a reverend father. Or maybe you hate the idea of marriage or raising a family...

Then you absolutely MUST vet women. It's non-negotiable. In my post tonight on Drama Divas you'll see glaringly why vetting is important. Because even if she isn't a romantic partner... the wrong woman can send you into a downward spiral of hell and despair.


Contrary to the second camp beliefs, vetting doesn't start when a girl becomes your gf.

It starts from the moment you meet her with the intention of romance or sexual interest.

This is why I advocate tapping into your hook up material vibe. Meaning allowing yourself to feel that raw serial desire to knack a girl.

Even if you don't end up doing it, having this in mind let's you screen early and fast.

Now, the question you might be wondering is: What exactly am I vetting for?

● The most important thing you vet for in a gf and/or wife is long term potential, loyalty, devotion and respect.

Each of them is important. And are linked to each other. In my post "Your Premier League Guide to finding a loyal, devoted Gf" I broke down each of the steps from start to finish.

But in summary you want to promote and demote girls depending on how they meet your standards.


● You ask guys today if they vet their friends, business partners, associates and even roommates... and they'll tell you yes. Yet when it comes to vetting a woman they'll spend their time, energy and money on... they turn away.

This is foolish.

The idea that women are all the same is a paradox. This is why having extreme views similar to some in red pill doesn't make you Alpha. It blinds you to nuances. Making you prone to the same manipulations you're trying to avoid

Female nature, and humans too is filled with paradoxes. We trust a woman's actions but yet sometimes her words can reveal things about her. You have to spend time with woman and give her some attention to seduce her... yet giving attention can set you behind and make you look desperate.

All of the above are paradoxes. So is the the concept of women are all the same.

Yes they are the same. But at the same time, they're different.

To believe all women act all the same way in all situations to the same degree is a fantastic way to build a castle of delusions.

Women are different just as they are the same.


● In vetting women, you want to have a higher odds approach.

Some of my vetting tests include: she has a history of cheating - if she has cheated on any of her bfs in the past, absolute no. Her level of loyalty to her parents, father, friends. She speaks bad about her dad, absolutely not. She has a promiscuous past - anything more than 5 is a no go area. And this includes blow jóbs, fingering and anal.

She has no female friends and complains how men are so much better than woman to the point that women are bad people. Another red flag.

Her past relationships are also a way to vet what she's like

These are some of mine vetting process.

● In addition to vetting, I give her tests and ask specific questions and listen to her answers. Then I match her actions with her answers.

If there's a consistent occurrence of her words not matching her actions, she cannot be trusted. I will not tell her obviously but she'll be relegated as a fúck buddy for as long as she has access to my díck.

Another test I do is how she carries herself in public both when I'm around and when she's not.



If you notice in all of these, I did not mention a virgin. Because it is meaningless.

Social responsibility, stigma and pressure suppress women's sexual desires and behaviours way more than men.

That's why so many women, get with Virgins only to unlock sides of hers both him and her never thought she had.

Of course there are ways to find out these things from Virgins but it requires more skill and time. Something majority of guys are not equipped with. And frankly don't bother with because they think they've hit the virginity jack pot

Enjoy your day

Please who get time to read this epistle? Una go dey talk vet vet. Like say una be saints. If women say make dem sef dey vet una, una go dey vex. Nobody holy. You are bad. Woman is bad. Una go link up and take anything wey una see for road. Finish!

But if you be saint, then continue to dey vet to find the chosen one. God help you!

Rizzputin:
If you notice in all of these, I did not mention a virgin. Because it is meaningless.

Social responsibility, stigma and pressure suppress women's sexual desires and behaviours way more than men.

Enjoy your day

I don't know why u lots try to whitewash virginity... virginity is meaningless and you want women to be accountable for their promiscuity.

PinkNature:
Can you be with someone you like and not want to spend a few thousands on drinks, food, checking out a place etc?

Something is definitely wrong with you if all you can think of in same sentence is 'like' and 'not want' followed by money.

Dem use this thing curse una?

Yes.... I can be with someone I like and NOT WANT to do anything. What's making me or pushing me to want? Y'all are so conditioned to spend money by force as show of love to vaginarians that it sickens me.

Oshokhai69:
Please who get time to read this epistle? Una go dey talk vet vet. Like say una be saints. If women say make dem sef dey vet una, una go dey vex. Nobody holy. You are bad. Woman is bad. Una go link up and take anything wey una see for road. Finish!

But if you be saint, then continue to dey vet to find the chosen one. God help you!

You bald headed mudafucker!!!

Just shut dafuq up and go scratch your craw-craw nutsack somewhere else.

luminouz:
Something is definitely wrong with you if all you can think of in same sentence is 'like' and 'not want' followed by money.

Dem use this thing curse una?

Yes.... I can be with someone I like and NOT WANT to do anything. What's making me or pushing me to want? Y'all are so conditioned to spend money by force as show of love to vaginarians that it sickens me.

So you spend on yourself? If yes, and then you're compelled not to spend on your woman.. because you're a red plier and alpha, then something is definitely wrong.

luminouz:
You bald headed mudafucker!!!

Just shut dafuq up and go scratch your craw-craw nutsack somewhere else.

Lack of toto and chronic masturbation don dey touch this one brain. Abeg o no be my fault say Baba God make you broke and ugly. E go better..in your soapy dreams

Oshokhai69:
So your mother is not different from a Hoe on the street abi?

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They all have the same intention of fvcking your dads because he can provide or will provide in the nearest future

BetaMegatron:
Simply put, To get a Loan from a bank, you'll need to show that you don't really need the loan ,but if you continuously go the bank everyday and demand for the Loan,the Bank will notice you're Desperate and will not give you the Loan,or they might give you the Loan but on their very own terms because you're desperate for it...

Bro, that's a great analogy....

I've even said something similar to that on this thread before. I guess so.

But actually, it doesn't really matter if you continuously go the bank everyday and demand for the Loan; Because as long as you keep demonstrating to the bank that you don't need loan, they'll keep giving it to you.

Most of the these wealthy fellas like Dangote and co go back to take loans from the banks all the freaking time to buy more assets, and the bank excitedly give it to them continuously. This is because they keep showing the banks proof in form of their networth, assets and collateral that they don't really give shit about getting the loan(Money). As a result, the banks are steadily dropping their pants for them; Oh! I mean, the banks are steadily giving the loan to them.

Relating this with women, if you want to inspire a woman to easily drop her panties and give you the pussy, you have to somehow demonstrate to her that you don't really give a shit about getting her pussy...

But also,

I prefer to look at it the other way round: if a woman want to have more acces to my time, effort, money, validation, approval, in summary, my full attention...she has to somehow demonstrate to me that she's really interested in me and she has some value to offer me.


This go back to my grounded principle of NOT being pussy focused and instead being attention focused.

Giving her the impression that you want to Bleep her doesn't really help increase your chances of fucking her; if nothing else, it tends to even reduce your chance of fucking her.


Instead of giving her the impression that you want to Bleep her, here are the 3 things you want to be doing instead:

Read these three points carefully because it will drastically improve your game.

POINT #1. Instead of giving her the impression that you want to Bleep her, Give her the impression that other girls want to Bleep you.

If a woman thinks other girls want to Bleep, she gets curious about you. She wonders, "is there more to this guy.... is there something special about this dude I don't know of yet".

The more curious she is about you, the more her panties tends to be gradually dropping down.

Ofcourse, it will be stupid to just verbally tell her that, "hey, other girls want to Bleep me." That's gonna sound unbelievable and silly.

But there are subtle and naturally ways to demonstrate that to her with your attitude while you're conversing with her; but that's a big topic for another day.



POINT #2. Instead of giving her the impression that you want to Bleep her, Give her the impression that she's the one that wants to Bleep you.

This seem subtle but it's very powerful.

Many guys interact with an attractive woman with the underlying mindset of -- I hope I have the chance to date her or Bleep her one day...

That's not cool.

The way most guys act detached and confident AFTER they have finally Bleep the girl is the exact way I act BEFORE I even Bleep her: I'm totally laid-back and act like she's the one who wants to Bleep me.

I converse with a woman as if I've ALREADY bleeped even though I haven't yet.

Again,

Many guys interact with an attractive woman with the underlying attitude of -- I so much want this girl, I really want to Bleep that pussy.

But that sort of attitude doesn't make her intrigued and curios about you: instead her interest and curiosity will drastically reduce..

Instead you want to interact with her with the underlying attitude of -- I know she love good dick and I know she'll want ride on mine soonest...

That's a different mindset...

I want go hard on this on this particular topic, but let's leave that for another day.




POINT #3. Instead of giving her the impression that you want to Bleep her, Give the impression that you're not easily impressed by her attractiveness and her sexuality.

Other guys are focused on the woman's pussy as if it's some valuable trophy to be achieved; I'm totally different. I treat it like it's almost worthless to me until she has to proof to me that it's worth it. She has to proof herself to me, and she's has to continuously keep proving to me that's she's worth it or else I'll withdraw my attention from her.

When I say stop being pussy focused, that's what I'm mainly talking about: The goal is to not to be so concerned about getting the pussy, the idea is to more concern about giving her the opportunity to impress you.

And also,

When I say be attention focused, that's what I'm mainly talking about: the idea is to be very selfish with your time, efforts, money compliments and validation...and only give to the girl as long as she is proving herself to you that's she's worth it.


If I'm yet to Bleep an attractive girl, I often behave as if I'm unimpressed with her attractiveness and sexuality. This is the opposite way most guys behave when they are yet to Bleep a beautiful girl. They act all excited and impressed as if she has done something special.

While other guys are salivating over her sexiness, telling her, "wow, you are so beautiful and sexy"; I act unimpressed and indifferent towards her sexiness, and instead in an half serious manner I'm telling her, "I can tell you are wearing a fake ass."

That's way more powerful than praising and validating her, because I'm are giving her the opportunity to proof herself to me.


If you're yet to Bleep her, then you want to give her the impression that you are not easily impressed by her. More importantly, you want to be selfish with your approval, compliment and validation.

It's funny, just literally yesterday, this cute lady I was talking to asked me, "please be honest with me, am I really that beautiful?"

I smiled because she's beautiful and she knows that. She was only looking for cheap compliments, praise and validation. In that moment most guys will shower her with loads of compliments immediately, but remember I'll NEVER DO THAT because #1. I haven't bleeped her yet, and/or #2. she has not done anything special to prove to me that she's worth it.

So I'm gonna be selfish with my validation.

My response was, "the only girls who are beautiful in my eyes are the girls I have already bleeped."

Although she found my response a bit hilarious, but it seemed to hit her emotionally in a powerful way.

Anyways,

In summary,

Girls are always told to be selfish with their pussy, and not just give it out easily to guys.

Same with you as a man, you should be selfish with your efforts, money, time, validation, compliments... and not just give it out easily to girls. They have to earn it.

Girls are told to play hard to get.

Same with you as a man, you should play hard to impressed and play hard to manipulate.

Oshokhai69:
Lack of toto and chronic masturbation don dey touch this one brain. Abeg o no be my fault say Baba God make you broke and ugly. E go better..in your soapy dreams

K

PinkNature:
So you spend on yourself? If yes, and then you're compelled not to spend on your woman.. because you're a red plier and alpha, then something is definitely wrong.

K

Philosopher1979:
I'm not an expert but I think most simps have a few bad principles.

1. Their self esteem depends on how much female attention and romance they get l. If women reject them they get depressed and feel bad instead of taking it as just a randomnevent. They need women to feel good. Women notice this neediness and take advantage.
2. They do not understand that the women themselves have to live up to some standards. They are trying to impress. They don't ask. What does a girl have to do to make me like her. It is always about what they have to do. I mean in ancient times a lady has to be a virgin to get married that is get male attention resources and validation and so she has to live up to some standards. Simps do everything to please women while the women don't have to do anything. I mean some simps will tolerate skimpy and revealing clothes from a girl as long as she dates them.
3. They believe women do not enjoy sex at all and see sex or pussy as a privilege.
4. They have scarcity mentality. This is why cold approach is good. By the time you have the phone number of 15 girls you won't feel bad if a lady rejects you. You will just call 3 other ladies. If a lady ignores a simp he will start sending money to her and begging her instead of talking to another girl
5. All these desperate and low self esteem attitudes are easily noticed by women and they exploit them.
6. If u are confident have cold approach with an abundance mind set u will get ladies without even reading any book

That's some powerful words shit you spitting right now... I totally cosign with you, especially Number 1, 2, 3 and 5.

Nyascobar1414:
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They all have the same intention of fvcking your dads because he can provide or will provide in the nearest future

If your mama na harlot, e no mean say na everybody mama be harlot. All these children of useless prostitute women from poor homes. It now makes sense why you are here vexing for women 247. Agro don finish your broke womanless life.

Btw, you don finally pass JAMB? You dey lucky say that kidnapper no handle you wey dey talk say you dey interested in that him format wey he say he get older married women wey dey find young boys. Shameless boy like you. You must be short, broke and ugly.

Pukkalolo:
That's some powerful words shit you spitting right now... I totally consign with you, especially Number 1, 2, 3 and 5.

This one say na consign

Oshokhai69:
This one say na consign

Oh! Thanks for the correction bro. I really appreciate that.

See the kind useless boys wey dey here. Dey talk MGTOW because young girls dey show them shege but go dey look for person wife to fukk. Tomorrow he go say he dey find virgin. Very useless boys.

Oshokhai69:
If your mama na harlot, e no mean say na everybody mama be harlot. All these children of useless prostitute women from poor homes. It now makes sense why you are here vexing for women 247. Agro don finish your broke womanless life.

Btw, you don finally pass JAMB? You dey lucky say that kidnapper no handle you wey dey talk say you dey interested in that him format wey he say he get older married women wey dey find young boys. Shameless boy like you. You must be short, broke and ugly.

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K

TrustNone:
no blame am.
Na low self esteem dey cause that mentality

See Uncle Victor Omerigwe with over 40monikers dey talk about low self esteem. Buhahahahahaha! Which low self esteem pass having multiple monikers on a faceless forum?! LNGKM! What sort of validation you dey seek inside a faceless forum wey go make you open so many monikers?! Self esteem in the mud!

Victor Omerigwe also known as HellVictorinho6 aka TrustNone aka EbenezerTriumph aka keet13 aka MrsAminaBello. aka abba190 and 40 other monikers , YOUR SELF ESTEEM IS LOWER THAN DEEPEST PART OF THE EARTHCRUST and you sef know this....

Nyascobar1414:
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K

I like this!!!

You nack am potassium. The boy needs it

Oshokhai69:
See the kind useless boys wey dey here. Dey talk MGTOW because young girls dey show them shege but go dey look for person wife to fukk. Tomorrow he go say he dey find virgin. Very useless boys.

K!!!