My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? - Family (4)

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by LibertyRep: 7:06pm On Mar 24, 2024

SIMPonPatrol:
According to African culture a child born under a man's roof is automatically his child, you guys need to stop disturbing yourselves with this DNA test nonsense

Which particular part of Africa? Yoruba? Igbo? Hausa? Zulu? Bantu? Fulani?
Which particular Africa culture?

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by yemmit90: 7:07pm On Mar 24, 2024

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

Don't tell him directly because you may never know if he is already aware or not. Some men are so stupid that they will tell their wives exactly what their informants told them and put them at risks.

Whenever you are together, bring up the topic and explain the reason a man in such situation much conduct a DNA test on their children. He will definitely grap if he is not under a spell.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by RonuThings(m): 7:07pm On Mar 24, 2024

😎

Just Negodu 🙄

See how Nairaland Ladies are shouting at the Op to mind his business, just because of Paternity Fraud🙄

What is really wrong with the Ladies of Nowadays 🤔

Ladies of nowadays have become something else 😪

Marry a Nigerian lady at your own Peril 😏.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Scholace: 7:07pm On Mar 24, 2024

Orlu13:
I pity some men dat will bash op...if I sense any of such thing in my best friend or brother, I'm telling him right away

we will never raise bastards in our family

op if u and ur friend are close and rapport well pls tell him to do it

our plan is not to condemn women but save innocent men

where is the evidence that you're the biological child of your father?

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by MrsAminaBello(f): 7:07pm On Mar 24, 2024

ogbe88:
U are not well.

Quote me and kpeme.

check his moniker

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by maxzzo1(m): 7:07pm On Mar 24, 2024

Amebo wetin concern u.....do u know if d child look like his people

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by id4sho(m): 7:08pm On Mar 24, 2024

Eriokanmi:
Mind your business

That's why Nigeria is in this State undecided

. Am glad my late dad's eyes opened shortly before his death. Leave matters abeg

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by MrsAminaBello(f): 7:08pm On Mar 24, 2024

Octopusssy:
Daleru. Home breaker

ishilove stay the fvck away from people's husbands.
Do you know that Gloriousgbola you're going out with is actually married?
I'm his wife
If you don't stay away from him I'll call you out and drag you on this forum

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by aguyph: 7:09pm On Mar 24, 2024

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

oga mind your business because ,a child will always look like the person close to the mother when she is pregnant 🤰. There is a possibility that your friend is those men that gossip in the bar after work like you .so the boy might look like the landlord or the gate these are men that are always at home.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Tochi360: 7:09pm On Mar 24, 2024

This one never see anything,no worry just dey pray make life no teach You how to mind your business the hard way oo cheesy

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Xxxylxxxx: 7:11pm On Mar 24, 2024

PerfectStranger:
People no longer mind their business anymore, it sucks.

May such a thing happen to you.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Scholace: 7:12pm On Mar 24, 2024

Omoapena:
I get it's not his business, but if you were to be that his friend, would you have preferred he mind his business or call your attention to it?

i prefer he mind his business. He shouldn't scatter my peaceful home. Any child born under your roof automatically belong to you.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by seanwilliam(m): 7:12pm On Mar 24, 2024

Na that kind pikin yoruba dey call
Asigbe omo woodu
Ko joya kojobaba adijale omo

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by boxypane: 7:13pm On Mar 24, 2024

Really!!! I think he's not blind, it's best you ignore.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by vickymooore: 7:14pm On Mar 24, 2024

RonuThings:
😎

Just Negodu 🙄

See how Nairaland Ladies are shouting at the Op to mind his business, just because of Paternity Fraud🙄

What is really wrong with the Ladies of Nowadays 🤔

Ladies of nowadays have become something else 😪

Marry a Nigerian lady at your own Peril 😏.

you've never seen anything yet

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Bigprik: 7:16pm On Mar 24, 2024

[useless man must d boy looks like them?]Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks[/quote]

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by ogbe88(m): 7:16pm On Mar 24, 2024

MrsAminaBello:
check his moniker

He is a clown.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by LadyRosa(f): 7:16pm On Mar 24, 2024

RonuThings:
😎

Just Negodu 🙄

See how Nairaland Ladies are shouting at the Op to mind his business, just because of Paternity Fraud🙄

What is really wrong with the Ladies of Nowadays 🤔

Ladies of nowadays have become something else 😪

Marry a Nigerian lady at your own Peril 😏.

Are you sure its just the women? Go through the thread again and cure your ignorance .

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Honestey: 7:17pm On Mar 24, 2024

Yes if you have enough money to conduct DNA Test or else let a sleeping dog lie

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Mar 24, 2024

Scholace:
i prefer he mind his business. He shouldn't scatter my peaceful home. Any child born under your roof automatically belong to you.

Even if you're not the biological father?

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by PROPEACE: 7:20pm On Mar 24, 2024

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

Oga, may thunder fire the mouths of those people telling you to mind your business and if they are men, may their wives sleep around and give birth to bastards for them to raise. Having said that, go and meet your friend immediately. Arrange for an outing between the two of you, tell him "my dear friend, I am sorry for meddling, but as a good friend, I will not see something that may harm you and keep quiet. You see that your first son, unlike your other kids, he doesn't look like you, sorry for questioning the fidelity of your dear wife but run a DNA test". If you observe that your friend is one of those coconut head simps, then give it to him the hard way. Get someone's phone whose contact he doesn't have and send him a WhatsApp message that reads thus: "OGA YOU BE MUMU? SHEBI YOU NO SEE SAY YOUR FIRST PIKIN NO RESEMBU YOU? IF YOU LIKE, NO GO DO DNA TEST, WHEN THE ORIGINAL PAPA COME CLAIM HIM PIKIN 15 YEARS FROM NOW, NA IM YOUR EYE GO CLEAR. OLODOOOO!!!!!" You see as I write "olodo" with 4 Os and 5 exclamation marks? na so you go take write am. Your friend needs you now more than ever, don't fail him.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by GloriousGbola: 7:21pm On Mar 24, 2024

MrsAminaBello:
ishilove stay the fvck away from people's husbands.
Do you know that Gloriousgbola you're going out with is actually married?
I'm his wife
If you don't stay away from him I'll call you out and drag you on this forum

https://www.nairaland.com/mrsaminabello/posts/3

Look at this riffraff - stealer of profile pictures and a living shit stain. Do not mistake me for the lower human beings you roll with. Better find your way back to beggars den - she-male.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by hansomb: 7:22pm On Mar 24, 2024

SIMPonPatrol:
According to African culture a child born under a man's roof is automatically his child, you guys need to stop disturbing yourselves with this DNA test nonsense

Which st#$pid culture is that, from where ?

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by THEGALADIMA(m): 7:28pm On Mar 24, 2024

What if twas a case of switched at birth

Wawelexy:
Oga ignore all these ones blabbing up there, if your friend is truly someone you care about and really close to, tell him... How will someone keep taking care of bills for a child that doesn't belongs to him? That's the highest level of wickedness a woman can do to a man.... Tell him to run the test bro, if it comes out positive, he will understands you only care about him, and if it's the other way round, he will be glad you saved him from wasted effort and future heart break. It's better to remain single as a baby dada, than to be married to a harlot and at the same time fending for another man's child.

A wh*re deserves no pity. Men supporting men

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Awillologo: 7:28pm On Mar 24, 2024

RonuThings:
😎

Just Negodu 🙄

See how Nairaland Ladies are shouting at the Op to mind his business, just because of Paternity Fraud🙄

What is really wrong with the Ladies of Nowadays 🤔

Ladies of nowadays have become something else 😪

Marry a Nigerian lady at your own Peril 😏.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by FLYFIRE(m): 7:28pm On Mar 24, 2024

Dont worry, he will come round.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Scholace: 7:31pm On Mar 24, 2024

Omoapena:
Even if you're not the biological father?

absolutely. Even in court of law, you own the child

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Scholace: 7:32pm On Mar 24, 2024

PROPEACE:
Oga, may thunder fire the mouths of those people telling you to mind your business and if they are men, may their wives sleep around and give birth to bastards for them to raise. Having said that, go and meet your friend immediately. Arrange for an outing between the two of you, tell him "my dear friend, I am sorry for meddling, but as a good friend, I will not see something that may harm you and keep quiet. You see that your first son, unlike your other kids, he doesn't look like you, sorry for questioning the fidelity of your dear wife but run a DNA test". If you observe that your friend is one of those coconut head simps, then give it to him the hard way. Get someone's phone whose contact he doesn't have and send him a WhatsApp message that reads thus: "OGA YOU BE MUMU? SHEBI YOU NO SEE SAY YOUR FIRST PIKIN NO RESEMBU YOU? IF YOU LIKE, NO GO DO DNA TEST, WHEN THE ORIGINAL PAPA COME CLAIM HIM PIKIN 15 YEARS FROM NOW, NA IM YOUR EYE GO CLEAR. OLODOOOO!!!!!" You see as I write "olodo" with 4 Os and 5 exclamation marks? na so you go take write am. Your friend needs you now more than ever, don't fail him.

show us evidence that you're the biological child of your father.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Scarletjr(m): 7:39pm On Mar 24, 2024

If the guy na ur hommie u fit run ham soft

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Chaolin: 7:42pm On Mar 24, 2024

Must a child resemble his parents, there is what we call mutation in biology

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Draslo(m): 7:43pm On Mar 24, 2024

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

Let him figure it out himself bro.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by PROPEACE: 7:44pm On Mar 24, 2024

Scholace:
show us evidence that you're the biological child of your father.

Lol they are my carbon copy! I was looking at my picture in jss2 the other day and I smiled, it was like I was looking at my son!

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