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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by gigabyte13: 6:45pm On Mar 24

SIMPonPatrol:
According to African culture a child born under a man's roof is automatically his child, you guys need to stop disturbing yourselves with this DNA test nonsense

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Lamasta(m): 6:45pm On Mar 24

Geremi Njitap comes to mind....

@OP no let your friend suffer by training a bastard in the future try and codedly pass him the message and move on....

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by okoroemeka(m): 6:45pm On Mar 24

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

mind your business joy killer , don't you know that the kid may resemble his grandfather ,great grand father or even the father inlaw

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Latakia(f): 6:45pm On Mar 24

This one no get reasonable work like Peter Obi grin

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Wawelexy(m): 6:47pm On Mar 24

NairaMaster1:

Is anyone dragging the innocent child with him? Answer in your mind.

Innocent potential bastard.... Let the test be done please

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by lekbel09(m): 6:47pm On Mar 24

Depends on your closeness to the said friend, if you guys are real close you can tell him

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by CharleyBright(m): 6:47pm On Mar 24

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

Uncle, who does his son look like?
You

Amebo.
Face your front and mind your business.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by toprealman: 6:49pm On Mar 24

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

Focus on your personal issues. Your friend is not a kid!.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by IamANigerianMan: 6:50pm On Mar 24

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

Is your friend blind?

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Orlu13: 6:51pm On Mar 24

I pity some men dat will bash op...if I sense any of such thing in my best friend or brother, I'm telling him right away

we will never raise bastards in our family

op if u and ur friend are close and rapport well pls tell him to do it

our plan is not to condemn women but save innocent men

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Atlantis585: 6:51pm On Mar 24

Busy body everywhere.
So na you get better eyes?
Always looking to destroy marriages.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Davehasmadeit(m): 6:51pm On Mar 24

For you to have brought the issue here, it shows you are caring, and you mean well for your friend. My advice is relate this issue to someone else closer to him maybe his siblings or pastor, let them investigate more. If you tell him yourself, he may take it the other way round.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Akinomoakin021: 6:51pm On Mar 24

In my under 18s someone told me I don’t look like my Mum and Dad. 10 years after people started telling me I look exactly like my Dad.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Scholace: 6:52pm On Mar 24

Wawelexy:
Oga ignore all these ones blabbing up there, if your friend is truly someone you care about and really close to, tell him... How will someone keep taking care of bills for a child that doesn't belongs to him? That's the highest level of wickedness a woman can do to a man.... Tell him to run the test bro, if it comes out positive, he will understands you only care about him, and if it's the other way round, he will be glad you saved him from wasted effort and future heart break. It's better to remain single as a baby dada, than to be married to a harlot and at the same time fending for another man's child.

A wh*re deserves no pity. Men supporting men

a child born under a man's roof automatically belong to the child. If the child is grown,no one can lay claim on such child in the law court.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Coolgent(m): 6:52pm On Mar 24

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

Let's see you family pictures first before we advice u.
Is not most you resemble your Mum/Dad.
My immediate sister is white in complexion from black parents even though she looks 99% like her father.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by kosiebe(m): 6:53pm On Mar 24

Mr man mind your business

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by psalmsjob: 6:53pm On Mar 24

SIMPonPatrol:
According to African culture a child born under a man's roof is automatically his child, you guys need to stop disturbing yourselves with this DNA test nonsense

Kare omo yoruba to ginadeoko.... grin

However, I guess they practice that in yoruba culture back then because they need more hands at the farm anyways so any child born under his roof is his but again omo ale lo ko ti ile danu....

To the op....your busy body no go kill you say amen....First male child mostly look like the mother while female first child mostly look like the father.....and these semblance become more obvious as the children grow older

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by zedegit: 6:53pm On Mar 24

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

You must be joking if you think he doesn't know. I'll suggest you mind your business as this will only anger him.

He's simply allowing sleeping dogs lie. Such men don't live long.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by grandstar(m): 6:54pm On Mar 24

Dikegodspower:
Wetin concern you, is it your business?
Why you dey drink Para for another man headache.
Why your mouth dey scratch you.
Do.you have cancer of the mouth?
Go to church or mosque any one you choose and tell God to purge you of hate,bite bitting,and love for People's wife because these your action is driven by lust.
Nawa for people o.

I hate paternity fraud, but at times, looking the other way may be best.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by 43Ronin: 6:55pm On Mar 24

Op if you are doubting that his your son, do a DNA test, don't train another man's kid

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by lexy2014: 6:56pm On Mar 24

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

show us their pictures first

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by afadi2410: 6:58pm On Mar 24

SIMPonPatrol:
According to African culture a child born under a man's roof is automatically his child, you guys need to stop disturbing yourselves with this DNA test nonsense

What nonsense culture?

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by grandstar(m): 7:00pm On Mar 24

MadeINchenzen2

Whether to tell or not depends on many factors.

If there's s need, do it through a secret intermediary. Use a *Private number* to call him. Use someone to make the call. All he needs to say is "Why doesn't your first son bear a resemblance to you at all?" and then drop.

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by bluestone2015: 7:00pm On Mar 24

I see that you are suggesting that the friend is sooooo dumb that he doesn't know what his child looks like.
Hahahahahaha hahahaha.
Wahala for who get dumb friend. He should better mind his business.

Wawelexy:
Oga ignore all these ones blabbing up there, if your friend is truly someone you care about and really close to, tell him... How will someone keep taking care of bills for a child that doesn't belongs to him? That's the highest level of wickedness a woman can do to a man.... Tell him to run the test bro, if it comes out positive, he will understands you only care about him, and if it's the other way round, he will be glad you saved him from wasted effort and future heart break. It's better to remain single as a baby dada, than to be married to a harlot and at the same time fending for another man's child.

A wh*re deserves no pity. Men supporting men

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Scholace: 7:01pm On Mar 24

CuriousX:

Which Africa are you talking about? Definitely not the one I am currently living in

he's right. Any child born under your roof belong to you. No one can claim it.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by PointZerom: 7:02pm On Mar 24

Rajahbite:
I'd like you to answer 2 questions before I offer my advice which you seek.
1. Do you have any child of your own?
2. If yes,is that child a replica of you?

What they don't know is that a child can resemble anybody in their lineage. It can be from his mother side etc.

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by Joy2dworldxyz: 7:02pm On Mar 24

You will receive the lashes for not wanting to mind your business. Lazy youth

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by 7upnigeria: 7:04pm On Mar 24

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?

What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

How E take consign you, solo Makinde?

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by erospecial: 7:04pm On Mar 24

It's very common among first child because most of they are usually products of ex boyfriends!

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Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by sulakishop(m): 7:05pm On Mar 24

My great grandma was 123years before her death... Her secret recipe is by minding her business

Re: My Friends First Son Doesn't Look Like Him Or His Wife, Should I Tell Him? by RonuThings(m): 7:06pm On Mar 24

😎

Just Negodu 🙄

See how Nairaland Ladies are shouting at the Op to mind his business 🙄

What is really wrong with the Ladies of Nowadays 🤔

Ladies of nowadays have become something else 😪

Marry a Nigerian lady at your own Peril 😏

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