PerfectStranger:

Your brothers keeper? In another person's matrimonial life? God! What sort of daft humans are you sending down to earth.

Brothers keeper but if I tell you my problems now and request for financial help from u, u go Japa. You and sense are far from each other ode

Seriously, you're the daft foòI
So if your mother start doing olosho now and brings home bastarɗs to your father and you know, you won't tell him, right?
Some friendship between strangers are even stronger than blood relations.
Foòls like you could see someone stealing or destroying public properties and will look away in the name of minding your business.
What kind of senseless minding your business will anyone with brains do when they see their friends in potential danger or hurting and look away?
You're nothing but a doIt.

MuslimIgbo:

Seriously, you're the daft foòI
So if your mother start doing olosho now and brings home bastarɗs to your father and you know, you won't tell him, right?
Some friendship between strangers are even stronger than blood relations.
Foòls like you could see someone stealing or destroying public properties and will look away in the name of minding your business.
What kind of senseless minding your business will anyone with brains do when they see their friends in potential danger or hurting and look away?
You're nothing but a doIt.

is that what your mother did? Was she an olosho before your miserable dad married her? And then gave birth to a miserable son like you?

Dullards like you are the reason most happy homes break coz of gossips, is it a must for all the children to have a striking resemblance with parent? Were you not taught biology in sch?
Since your mom is/was an olosho, u think every woman will be like your mom? You're so pathetic, you buttscratcher. Spittts

PROPEACE:

Lol they are my carbon copy! I was looking at my picture in jss2 the other day and I smiled, it was like I was looking at my son!

hahahaha ignorance kill more than HIV/AIDS. Who told you resemblance is the determinant or yardstick to know the paternity of a child? I'm pretty sure you must be an adult. So sad!

Orlu13:




see if u don't get out of my mention ee...seems something is wrong with u

may ur wife give u a child dat is not urs

stop being emotional guy. No one can claim a child born right under your roof. That child belong to you. It is the law

Scholace:
hahahaha ignorance kill more than HIV/AIDS. Who told you resemblance is the determinant or yardstick to know the paternity of a child? I'm pretty sure you must be an adult. So sad!

Lol. I will not waste my time on you, you think you are dealing with a baby, see how desperately you are trying to make me feel bad🤣. If OP's friend likes, let him not go for a DNA test, that one na him business. A child that looks neither like the father nor mother is a red flag!

Kobojunkie:
Let's assume for argument's sake that the only reason why a man would present DNA proof in customary court would be to claim custody of a child of his. There are traditions where the custody of the child belongs to the mother so long as the man has not paid a bride price on her head. In such a case, would this DNA proof in customary court overrule such traditional law? Would the child be handed over to the man against the mother?

Mention the people with that tradition and prove to me how one traditional law is greater than a constitutional law


I'm waiting

Him no get eye, abi na your pikin?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

Wawelexy:



Let DNA decides the 'What If'

Scholace:
stop being emotional guy. No one can claim a child born right under your roof. That child belong to you. It is the law

that's wat I'm saying na...no long talk

I pray u raise a child dat is not urs...say a big amen to it

PerfectStranger:

is that what your mother did? Was she an olosho before your miserable dad married her? And then gave birth to a miserable son like you?

Dullards like you are the reason most happy homes break coz of gossips, is it a must for all the children to have a striking resemblance with parent? Were you not taught biology in sch?
Since your mom is/was an olosho, u think every woman will be like your mom? You're so pathetic, you buttscratcher. Spittts

Lol
Oloriburuku pikin of a thousand fathers.
E nor go better for your oloshó mama and useless drunkard old foōl faggòt father.
You're completely morally bankrupt.
If not for your misery and foolishness, do you think a home and marriage where there's no loyalty and that paternity fraud exist deserve to be saved and kept?
Oloriburuku like is definitely a bastarɗ and you'll definitely have bastarɗs among your children.

SIMPonPatrol:
According to African culture a child born under a man's roof is automatically his child, you guys need to stop disturbing yourselves with this DNA test nonsense

According to your village people's culture please

MuslimIgbo:

Lol
Oloriburuku pikin of a thousand fathers.
E nor go better for your oloshó mama and useless drunkard old foōl faggòt father.
You're completely morally bankrupt.
If not for your misery and foolishness, do you think a home and marriage where there's no loyalty and that paternity fraud exist deserve to be saved and kept?
Oloriburuku like is definitely a bastarɗ and you'll definitely have bastarɗs among your children.

Go sm0ke a joint then you'll realize how miserable your life is. The world has advanced, people have advanced too in case you still think youre a kid. Keep joking with your miserable future

PerfectStranger:

Go sm0ke a joint then you'll realize how miserable your life is. The world has advanced, people have advanced too in case you still think youre a kid. Keep joking with your miserable future

Look at your life, you'll realise how miserable you are. Useless child of a thousand fathers

Nonexisting1:
Just say to him, it's like your father's gene is too strong because your son must have taken after his looks since he doesn't look like you. You've quietly passed the message brother and only a simp will ignore the clues.

You are the man

PROPEACE:

Lol. I will not waste my time on you, you think you are dealing with a baby, see how desperately you are trying to make me feel bad🤣. If OP's friend likes, let him not go for a DNA test, that one na him business. A child that looks neither like the father nor mother is a red flag!

have you done a DNA test to know your paternity?

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?


What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

You must be having an affair with your friend’s wife and think the child looks like you. Continue

you mean your friend has no eyes to observe this?you must be the biological father of the child!

wifeesnatcher:
∆ Mention the people with that tradition and prove to me how one traditional law is greater than a constitutional law. I 'm waiting

Greater than? The Constitution of Nigeria recognizes and uphold customary law where it concerns marriage and paternity of a child so this your "greater than" debate no enter at all. As for the traditional laws, the customary courts already make provisions for several of them including Igbo-related. Please go back and provide answer to the question in the case that customary law is invoked.

Scholace:
a child born under a man's roof automatically belong to the child. If the child is grown,no one can lay claim on such child in the law court.

Yes but the child can denounce the father and adopt another father but he or she will need acceptance in another place which may not be forthcoming

80% of first born in Nigeria are not usually look like his or her so claim father, because most of them are from ex who pay last respect to the pokus few days to the wedding, my advice for you is to tell him to run DNA test of that child, but say it when two of you are joking, we know true talk inside play, as for me when I marry I will run DNA test for my first child, Nigeria ladies are d*g.

Scholace:
have you done a DNA test to know your paternity?

Yes I have. He should do so too.

lawani:
∆ Yes but the child can denounce the father and adopt another father but he or she will need acceptance in another place which may not be forthcoming

How many children do that?

psalmsjob:


Kare omo yoruba to ginadeoko....
However, I guess they practice that in yoruba culture back then because they need more hands at the farm anyways so any child born under his roof is his but again omo ale lo ko ti ile danu....

Please please please. Don't ridicule or demonize the Yoruba culture. That culture belongs to some part in the east.

Raising a bastard is a taboo in Yoruba land.

RonuThings:
😎

Just Negodu 🙄

See how Nairaland Ladies are shouting at the Op to mind his business 🙄

What is really wrong with the Ladies of Nowadays 🤔

Ladies of nowadays have become something else 😪

Marry a Nigerian lady at your own Peril 😏

It's not even just the ladies. Even some men as well have turned themselves to protectors of women.
Have you noticed that whenever women gain acceptance, the society fills with immoralities?
How can you as man, be complacent about raising a bastards. Haa! Forget it.
This is a high way journey to the end of mannishness.

PROPEACE:

Yes I have. He should do so too.

Show us the evidence here!

Sleekfingers:




Which African useless culture? As a full-fledged Yoruba man....we have a popular saying... Ile ti o n ba toro, Omo ale ibe oti d'agba. My people strong frown against paternity fraud.

It is evident you were raised by great men. Thumbs up

Scholace:
Show us the evidence here!

This one get work so? Ok

FRANCISTOWN:

Please please please. Don't ridicule or demonize the Yoruba culture. That culture belongs to some part in the east.

Raising a bastard is a taboo in Yoruba land.

Yes that is what I told someone who misinterpreted what I meant not that yoruba culture accept bustard not at all but rather abhor it and any married who engages in such will be found out eventually.....I equally agree that its only a bustard who will wake his father with flying kick

Kobojunkie:
Greater than? The Constitution of Nigeria recognizes and uphold customary law where it concerns marriage and paternity of a child so this your "greater than" debate no enter at all. As for the traditional laws, the customary courts already make provisions for several of them including Igbo-related. Please go back and provide answer to the question in the case that customary law is invoked.

You don't know what you're saying, a man can claimed his child with all means, the court can only compel him to compensate the woman after the court verdict

wifeesnatcher:
∆ You don't know what you're saying, a man can claimed his child with all means, the court can only compel him to compensate the woman after the court verdict

I don't follow at all. Can you please cite a case so I can better understand your argument.

Kobojunkie:
None of what you claim here makes any sense given Customary Marriage Laws in Nigeria are set on the fact that all children born within a marriage belong to the man, irrespective of their actual paternity. Anyone who does not accept such terms simply needs to divorce the customary Laws of the land. Under customary Law, paternity fraud is a hoax!

https://www./yoke-paternity-child-born-valid-marriage-eunice-tolulope
https://ogboduogbeandassociates.medium.com/marriage-paternity-issues-presumptions-of-law-678a717fbaea

We talked about this on another thread which I've already enlightened you on the issue.

I went thru the links you shared and it shows you do not even understand what is written on them pages.

The way you go quoting everyone on the thread with a different opinion shows that you are either a product of such case or your are a perpetuator.

Stop misleading people with misinformation. Your understanding of things is anticlockwise. Please stick to your religious section where they are familiar with your anticlockwise reasoning.

It's becoming annoying. Law isn't like your bible. The first thing is , you should ask for interpretation of law instead of a copy and paste from some quack charge and bail lawyer.