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How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(m): 9:00pm On Mar 28
My very good friend who works as a security in a bank(though a graduate) and does other menial jobs just to keep head above the waters, has a fiancée whom he adores so much. He would always tell us how he can't wait to marry her, and how she won't allow anyone touch her (him inclusive) until her wedding night (the main reason why He's fallen head over heels for her). He proudly calls her his angel in public.

There is this pompous, dark complexioned married Hausa man. He's not just ugly but dirty, and has this disgusting habit of repeatedly scratching his itchy scrotum even in public places. The irony here is, despite all these disgusting and dirty stuffs; he is highly successful in his place of work.

This Hausa man is a chronic womaniser who is only interested in sleeping with young Christian ladies (mostly from the university or the polytechnic in the city). He's the "kiss and tell type" (most men are). He eats the "forbidden fruit" in his friend's room (the friend who is always not around due tight schedules) which is in the compound I stay.

One fateful evening he brought a lady from the state polytechnic for his usual sexcapade. She wore a black gown and veil that covered her face. I was going out to get myself some cold drinks (as Kano was very hot then), when we coincidentally bumped into each other (myself, Alhaji and the lady). Her veil accidentally fell off her face. I saw a pretty face and passed before she could pick the veil from the floor. The face rang a bell, but because I was in a haste, I couldn't place a finger. After he had fully fed his libido, he'd come out and tell us everything that happened in "za oza room" as if we asked.

He grew fond of this particular lady as though he'd customise her (into his personal LovePeddler). And every time he'd gist us everything that happened. I grew so irritated of him and the lady (though I've never seen her before that time).
On a certain Saturday I decided to visit my friend because he had been pestering me to come see his angelic fiancée. Lo and behold! It's Alhaji's intimacy gadget. I recognized her but she'd never seen me before. I was in shock but had to pretend to have never seen her before.

Dilemma. Should I tell him or not?
If yes then how do I go about it?
Do you think she'd change when she eventually gets married?
It will definitely hurt him, but will he believe me?
So many things running through my mind.
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Namaster: 9:04pm On Mar 28
If a dirty Alhaji was shoving his NASTY balls deep inside your "reserved" bride-to-be that's not like other women, wouldn't you like your friend to tell you?

Would you prefer to discover it yourself on your wedding night when you see her vagina that looks like something that's been in a car wreck?

Tell him ONCE. If he doesn't believe you, move on. If he believes you, support him through the betrayal. Be there for him.

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by EreluRoz: 9:04pm On Mar 28
Mind your business.

Did you catch him red-handed on top of her or did you see his organ going inside of her? So shush it

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by chatinent: 9:06pm On Mar 28
Don't leave a brother with regrets. Some will say you mind your business but I say you spill the milk in a way he catches them red-handed.

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by chatinent: 9:09pm On Mar 28
EreluRoz:
Mind your business.

Did you catch him red-handed on top of her or did you see his organ going inside of her? So shush it

So that he should leave his friend end up with a paternity fraudster?

Ezigbo nwanyi

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by EreluRoz: 9:12pm On Mar 28
chatinent:


So that he should leave his friend end up with a paternity fraudster?

Ezigbo nwanyi
He should mind his business afterall he's just a friend and not his brother or relative
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by garriAndsugar: 9:16pm On Mar 28
Invite your friend to your house let him see for himself

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:30pm On Mar 28
@Chenzee
if this was "your" babe and your friend knew that she was cheating, what would you want him to do?

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Dyfynezz12(m): 9:51pm On Mar 28
EreluRoz:
Mind your business.

Did you catch him red-handed on top of her or did you see his organ going inside of her? So shush it
There was a time u created a thread abt ur dad's driver having a kid that don't look like him,remember?

That young man will end up having one that is not his if his friend decides to "shush it"

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by EreluRoz: 9:52pm On Mar 28
Dyfynezz12:

There was a time u created a thread abt ur dad's driver having a kid that don't look like him,remember?

That young man will end up having one that is not his if his friend decides to "shush it"
You are a wizard 😆.
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Dyfynezz12(m): 10:07pm On Mar 28
EreluRoz:
You are a wizard 😆.

Plenty detectives dey nairaland

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by DiskJokeyManic: 11:16pm On Mar 28
Chenzee:
My very good friend who works as a security in a bank(though a graduate) and does other menial jobs just to keep head above the waters, has a fiancée whom he adores so much. He would always tell us how he can't wait to marry her, and how she won't allow anyone touch her (him inclusive) until her wedding night (the main reason why He's fallen head over heels for her). He proudly calls her his angel in public.

There is this pompous, dark complexioned married Hausa man. He's not just ugly but dirty, and has this disgusting habit of repeatedly scratching his itchy scrotum even in public places. The irony here is, despite all these disgusting and dirty stuffs; he is highly successful in his place of work.

This Hausa man is a chronic womaniser who is only interested in sleeping with young Christian ladies (mostly from the university or the polytechnic in the city). He's the "kiss and tell type" (most men are). He eats the "forbidden fruit" in his friend's room (the friend who is always not around due tight schedules) which is in the compound I stay.

One fateful evening he brought a lady from the state polytechnic for his usual sexcapade. She wore a black gown and veil that covered her face. I was going out to get myself some cold drinks (as Kano was very hot then), when we coincidentally bumped into each other (myself, Alhaji and the lady). Her veil accidentally fell off her face. I saw a pretty face and passed before she could pick the veil from the floor. The face rang a bell, but because I was in a haste, I couldn't place a finger. After he had fully fed his libido, he'd come out and tell us everything that happened in "za oza room" as if we asked.

He grew fond of this particular lady as though he'd customise her (into his personal LovePeddler). And every time he'd gist us everything that happened. I grew so irritated of him and the lady (though I've never seen her before that time).
On a certain Saturday I decided to visit my friend because he had been pestering me to come see his angelic fiancée. Lo and behold! It's Alhaji's intimacy gadget. I recognized her but she'd never seen me before. I was in shock but had to pretend to have never seen her before.

Dilemma. Should I tell him or not?
If yes then how do I go about it?
Do you think she'd change when she eventually gets married?
It will definitely hurt him, but will he believe me?
So many things running through my mind.

If dis is not a made-up story ND u didn't tell ur friend something like dis, den u re a very very very wicked person😑... I won't pray to have a friend like u😐....

Listen,,,,, a broken relationship is very much better Dan a broken marriage.... If he can take a day off from his work so he can catch her redhanded. Still better. But all in all, make sure u tell him

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by DiskJokeyManic: 11:18pm On Mar 28
EreluRoz:
Mind your business.

Did you catch him red-handed on top of her or did you see his organ going inside of her? So shush it

You're very very very very very Stvvpid with this comment😐😐... Pls how can I block from u frm seeing ur smelly irritating rotten Usxless posts?😐

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by okoroemeka(m): 11:53pm On Mar 28
Chenzee:
My very good friend who works as a security in a bank(though a graduate) and does other menial jobs just to keep head above the waters, has a fiancée whom he adores so much. He would always tell us how he can't wait to marry her, and how she won't allow anyone touch her (him inclusive) until her wedding night (the main reason why He's fallen head over heels for her). He proudly calls her his angel in public.

There is this pompous, dark complexioned married Hausa man. He's not just ugly but dirty, and has this disgusting habit of repeatedly scratching his itchy scrotum even in public places. The irony here is, despite all these disgusting and dirty stuffs; he is highly successful in his place of work.

This Hausa man is a chronic womaniser who is only interested in sleeping with young Christian ladies (mostly from the university or the polytechnic in the city). He's the "kiss and tell type" (most men are). He eats the "forbidden fruit" in his friend's room (the friend who is always not around due tight schedules) which is in the compound I stay.

One fateful evening he brought a lady from the state polytechnic for his usual sexcapade. She wore a black gown and veil that covered her face. I was going out to get myself some cold drinks (as Kano was very hot then), when we coincidentally bumped into each other (myself, Alhaji and the lady). Her veil accidentally fell off her face. I saw a pretty face and passed before she could pick the veil from the floor. The face rang a bell, but because I was in a haste, I couldn't place a finger. After he had fully fed his libido, he'd come out and tell us everything that happened in "za oza room" as if we asked.

He grew fond of this particular lady as though he'd customise her (into his personal LovePeddler). And every time he'd gist us everything that happened. I grew so irritated of him and the lady (though I've never seen her before that time).
On a certain Saturday I decided to visit my friend because he had been pestering me to come see his angelic fiancée. Lo and behold! It's Alhaji's intimacy gadget. I recognized her but she'd never seen me before. I was in shock but had to pretend to have never seen her before.

Dilemma. Should I tell him or not?
If yes then how do I go about it?
Do you think she'd change when she eventually gets married?
It will definitely hurt him, but will he believe me?
So many things running through my mind.
Haaahaaaa!!! Joy killer,why not mind your business,don't you know that whatever you give a monkey without giving it banana it will not be happy
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Kobicove(m): 2:37am On Mar 29
I think you should let your friend find out for himself but you should drop hints for him if you can
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by franugo(m): 5:27am On Mar 29
EreluRoz:
He should mind his business afterall he's just a friend and not his brother or relative

So it's okay for the siblings to tell the man? Then how about op tells a sibling who in turn tells the man, would that then be okay by you?
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by imagrg(m): 5:42am On Mar 29
To most of you forming redpiller here: Your serious girlfriends/wives were fvcked anyhow too by many dirty big preeks before you privatised their totos.

So, sharap and allow the guy carry on with his planned privatisation of her already plundered toto.

These days na leftover totos we dey patronize now grin

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by pretydiva(f): 6:42am On Mar 29
Your friend won’t believe you if you tell him his “Angel” fiancée is cheating on him since you said he’s madly in love with her

Would suggest you gather enough evidence before spilling the bitter pill for him to swallow

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by tochez24(m): 7:03am On Mar 29
Chenzee:
My very good friend who works as a security in a bank(though a graduate) and does other menial jobs just to keep head above the waters, has a fiancée whom he adores so much. He would always tell us how he can't wait to marry her, and how she won't allow anyone touch her (him inclusive) until her wedding night (the main reason why He's fallen head over heels for her). He proudly calls her his angel in public.

There is this pompous, dark complexioned married Hausa man. He's not just ugly but dirty, and has this disgusting habit of repeatedly scratching his itchy scrotum even in public places. The irony here is, despite all these disgusting and dirty stuffs; he is highly successful in his place of work.

This Hausa man is a chronic womaniser who is only interested in sleeping with young Christian ladies (mostly from the university or the polytechnic in the city). He's the "kiss and tell type" (most men are). He eats the "forbidden fruit" in his friend's room (the friend who is always not around due tight schedules) which is in the compound I stay.

One fateful evening he brought a lady from the state polytechnic for his usual sexcapade. She wore a black gown and veil that covered her face. I was going out to get myself some cold drinks (as Kano was very hot then), when we coincidentally bumped into each other (myself, Alhaji and the lady). Her veil accidentally fell off her face. I saw a pretty face and passed before she could pick the veil from the floor. The face rang a bell, but because I was in a haste, I couldn't place a finger. After he had fully fed his libido, he'd come out and tell us everything that happened in "za oza room" as if we asked.

He grew fond of this particular lady as though he'd customise her (into his personal LovePeddler). And every time he'd gist us everything that happened. I grew so irritated of him and the lady (though I've never seen her before that time).
On a certain Saturday I decided to visit my friend because he had been pestering me to come see his angelic fiancée. Lo and behold! It's Alhaji's intimacy gadget. I recognized her but she'd never seen me before. I was in shock but had to pretend to have never seen her before.

Dilemma. Should I tell him or not?
If yes then how do I go about it?
Do you think she'd change when she eventually gets married?
It will definitely hurt him, but will he believe me?
So many things running through my mind.


Don't tell him any SINGLE thing⚠️

Simps are irrational extremely emotional beings that are even worse than women themselves, he might even add you to his drama if you tell him because they lack masculinity in dealing with issues like real men do!!!

The only way they learn is through the HARD way⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️

Leave him alone let him raise another man's children 🙄

Avoid simps like you avoid loose women if you want to live long oga.
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Highestpromoton(m): 7:26am On Mar 29
pretydiva:
Your friend won’t believe you if you tell him his “Angel” fiancée is cheating on him since you said he’s madly in love with her

Would suggest you gather enough evidence before spilling the bitter pill for him to swallow

Listen to this if you really want to help your friend.
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by BareFacedLies(m): 8:35am On Mar 29
Why do you want to go and rock the boat?

Can you swear that your friend does not have a sidechick?
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by SIMPonPatrol(m): 8:46am On Mar 29
Does your friend have the capacity to meet the girl's financial demands?

The reason why your friend's relationship has some balance and stability is because of the money the sugardaddy is giving to his girlfriend.

I also have girlfriends I'm sponsoring who are in committed relationships but as soon as they get married the relationship ends so I'm talking from experience
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by SouthSouth1914: 10:46am On Mar 29
Better tell him immediately! The day you want to go and spill the beans, if you don’t have transport fare, quite me and I will send you. You need to send that girl to hell! It will hurt your friend, but he will be happy in the long run..

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by SouthSouth1914: 10:48am On Mar 29
SIMPonPatrol:
Does your friend have the capacity to meet the girl's financial demands?

The reason why your friend's relationship has some balance and stability is because of the money the sugardaddy is giving to his girlfriend.

I also have girlfriends I'm sponsoring who are in committed relationships but as soon as they get married the relationship ends so I'm talking from experience

This is laughable, you mean when you get married and unable to meet your wife’s financial demands, she should go out and cheat? Argh…, common! This is too low reasoning!

Anyone who cheats because of money, will cheat because of anything!

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by GreatVocalist: 11:10am On Mar 29
EreluRoz:
He should mind his business afterall he's just a friend and not his brother or relative
You'd see your friend in a situation that doesn't favour her and do nothing but mind your business? Really?

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Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by SIMPonPatrol(m): 11:43am On Mar 29
SouthSouth1914:


This is laughable, you mean when you get married and unable to meet your wife’s financial demands, she should go out and cheat? Argh…, common! This is too low reasoning!

Anyone who cheats because of money, will cheat because of anything!

Let's put sentiments aside.

Can that guy actually take care of that girl in school and meet 80% of her financial demands from his salary as a security guard in a bank?
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(m): 12:53pm On Mar 29
EreluRoz:
Mind your business.

Did you catch him red-handed on top of her or did you see his organ going inside of her? So shush it

So until I catch him red-handed abi.
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(m): 12:57pm On Mar 29
chatinent:
Don't leave a brother with regrets. Some will say you mind your business but I say you spill the milk in a way he catches them red-handed.

Don't you think it will devastate him?
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by MuMuOnBail: 1:01pm On Mar 29
Na wa ooo

My brother don't tell your friend, make sure you mind your business. A man in love don't listen.

When his so called fiancee infect him with gonorrhea or that infection that normally make a woman clitoris look like a tongue doing someone Ntoorr (I can't remember the name of the infection)

He will discover for himself that his fiancee is cheating.

By then it will be too late because the infection would have made his Penis cap, look like a dog vomit.
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(m): 1:01pm On Mar 29
EreluRoz:
He should mind his business afterall he's just a friend and not his brother or relative

That will be very wicked of me. My conscience will never allow me rest.
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(m): 1:07pm On Mar 29
MrBrownJay1:
@Chenzee
if this was "your" babe and your friend knew that she was cheating, what would you want him to do?

He adores this babe. And remember she's his fiancée.
Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(m): 1:10pm On Mar 29
DiskJokeyManic:


If dis is not a made-up story ND u didn't tell ur friend something like dis, den u re a very very very wicked person😑... I won't pray to have a friend like u😐....

Listen,,,,, a broken relationship is very much better Dan a broken marriage.... If he can take a day off from his work so he can catch her redhanded. Still better. But all in all, make sure u tell him

Me wicked? That's very harsh.
It won't be easy to tell him. What if it causes a rift between us?

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