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Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by immortalcrown(m): 8:06pm On Mar 30
lomprico:
Another man besides my Dad will not pay school fees for my sister. If the guy buys her a phone and seizes it, I won't have any issues with it.
You have not answered my question.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by immortalcrown(m): 8:09pm On Mar 30
realoscar84:
For this hardship facing Nigerians,
na you still get rest of mind to dey write epistle for matter wey no go put kobo for ur pocket? Na wa o
Is this the only problem you have with my comment?
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by Okhuadams(m): 8:20pm On Mar 30
YoungDaNaval:
How will you handle this kind of situation if you're her brother?
don't even bring in peace he return it ASAP no wasting time
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by Godsonkemz(m): 8:25pm On Mar 30
Since the boyfriend has not paid for rites, he must have to provide the phone or he risk being detained for stealing.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by naija4life247: 8:26pm On Mar 30
helinues:


As long as she is not asking me to buy her another phone, everything should be fine

You me man, woman or transgender?
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by YourGFsnatcher: 9:17pm On Mar 30
immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will not speak with the guy unless he himself invites me to interfere in the matter. And if he invites me, I will not be violent when talking to him.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

The only good reason for a sane man to seize his girlfriend's phone is if the phone contains the evidence of a serious offense that the girl is trying to deny. And in this case, the man should release the phone once he proves her guilty. And no upright brother of a girl will fight her boyfriend in a case like this.

Will you sound this way if he buys her a phone or pays her school fees? You are very selfish and hypothetical.
Simps are everywhere. We no longer have men. We have social men. Me who want to appear as social. I got nauseated reading all the crap u wrote.
Gimme your sister contact.. I want to tell her something
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by immortalcrown(m): 9:18pm On Mar 30
YourGFsnatcher:

Simps are everywhere. We no longer have men. We have social men. Me who want to appear as social. I got nauseated reading all the crap u wrote.
Gimme your sister contact.. I want to tell her something
From a toxic one.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by YourGFsnatcher: 9:23pm On Mar 30
immortalcrown:
From a toxic one.
I'd rather be toxic than be a simp
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by 99thEnemy(m): 9:23pm On Mar 30
Coolestguy2023:
Abi the BF want to be unfortunate in life?
As in baa!
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by nams77: 9:25pm On Mar 30
immortalcrown:
So, she is no longer your sister when her husband seizes her phone?
I think you have comprehension problem. It's a pity. Have a nice day bro and that will be all for now
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by 99thEnemy(m): 9:25pm On Mar 30
STEWpid:
Chai..




My brother will first ask, what happened!?

...and irrespective of the answer, will order the phone back.

Don't near my big brother when he's angry__as gentle as he looks and behave - he can be very demonic too.



Nevertheless, only quack ngbeke girls that has been subdued by either fear or their buy-me-this-buy-me-that mentality will be in such unfortunate mess.


Sh!t happens!!


That’s the point
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by immortalcrown(m): 9:32pm On Mar 30
nams77:

I think you have compression problem. It's a pity. Have a nice day bro and that will be all for now
You are the one with a serious comprehension problem.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by immortalcrown(m): 9:34pm On Mar 30
YourGFsnatcher:

I'd rather be toxic than be a simp
So, unjust fights are what makes you not to be whatever you mean by "simp"?
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by YourGFsnatcher: 9:36pm On Mar 30
immortalcrown:
So, unjust fights are what makes you not to be whatever you mean by "simp"?
Unjust fights ke? Which one is just fight? Someone will disrespect you and your sister join and u forming good guy. You have failed your sister. Let me see the mad dog, let me see the animal that will disprect my sister like that and see what it feels like to have a man in the house.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by immortalcrown(m): 9:38pm On Mar 30
YourGFsnatcher:

Unjust fights ke? Which one is just fight? Someone will disrespect you and your sister join and u forming good guy. You have failed your sister. Let me see the mad dog, let me see the animal that will disprect my sister like that and see what it feels like to have a man in the house.
Also, fight your sister who disrespect you by dating "the mad dog".
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by maasoap(m): 9:56pm On Mar 30
immortalcrown:
You just described yourself here. I explained everything. Physical violence is not an option for any wise man in this scenario.

And who encourages violence here? You saw the post of the other guy I quoted? Was that a physical violence too? His approach was different from yours and makes sense too. Yours was like being indifference because you've put all the blames on your sister.

1.
No wise man will seize his girlfriend's phone

And now, he has seized it. We're beyond the opinion.

unless the phone contains an evidence of what the girl wants to deny.

So what? Your girl did something and denied it doesn't give you any right to seize her phone. What a nonsensical justification.

And if the seizure is to get or provide an evidence of a serious offense

And how would you know that when you didn't even show interest in helping her?

no wise brother of the the girl will fight the boyfriend.

Still at the being the "evidence of a serious offense", is the bf a police officer or investigating officer for holding on to the property of another person? You're making me laugh.

2.
No wise and upright girl will date a guy that will seize her phone. I don't support my sisters to be foolish or selfish in dating men. Quote me anywhere.

And she would just know that this guy looks like someone who will seize my phone during quarrel or misunderstanding, right? You can only blame your sister if such thing keeps repeating itself, not when it happens for the first time.

3.
Any man that fights because his sister's phone was seized by his fellow man will likely seize his own girlfriend's phone.
This is a twist. Someone who thinks a guy doesn't have business seizing his gf phone is the one who believes that it is wrong. People like you who prefer not to get involve at all are the ones likely to have the same mentality.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by immortalcrown(m): 9:58pm On Mar 30
maasoap:

And who encourages violence here? You saw the post of the other guy I quoted? Was that a physical violence too? His approach was different from yours and makes sense too. Yours was like being indifference because you've put all the blames on your sister.


And now, he has seized it. We're beyond the opinion

unless the phone contains an evidence of what the girl wants to deny.
So what? Your girl did something and denied it doesn't give you any right to seize her phone. What a nonsensical justification.

And if the seizure is to get or provide an evidence of a serious offense
And how would you know that when you didn't even show interest in helping her?

no wise brother of the the girl will fight the boyfriend.
Still at the being the "evidence of a serious offense", is the bf a police officer or investigating officer for holding on to the property of another person? You're making me laugh.

2.
No wise and upright girl will date a guy that will seize her phone. I don't support my sisters to be foolish or selfish in dating men. Quote me anywhere.
And she would just assume that this guy looks someone who will seize my phone during quarrel or misunderstanding, right? You can only blame your sister if such thing keeps repeating itself, not when it happens for the first time.

3.
Any man that fights because his sister's phone was seized by his fellow man will likely seize his own girlfriend's phone.
This is a twist. Someone who thinks a guy doesn't have business seizing his gf phone is the one who believes that it is wrong. People like you who prefer not to get involve at all are the ones likely to have the same mentality.
Must you meet the guy before she can tell you why he seized her phone? Suit yourself. Handle your case as want. I will handle mine as I want.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by maasoap(m): 10:02pm On Mar 30
immortalcrown:
Must you meet the guy before she can tell you why he seized her phone? Suit yourself. Handle your case as want. I will handle mine as I want.

And if she tells me herself, I will just say that the bf deserves to become the new owner of the phone? grin grin grin
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by YourGFsnatcher: 10:06pm On Mar 30
immortalcrown:
Also, fight your sister who disrespect you by dating "the mad dog".
Peace can go and F itself. I don't care what happened, even us are not allowed to rough handle her, you think I'll let one useless being rough handle her? Dem never born am
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by tollyboy5(m): 10:08pm On Mar 30
Chicentt:
Coward spotted shocked
If Dem dey fight 4 person, no b wetin I see 4 ur profile Dem dey fight for grin
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by aswani(m): 10:54pm On Mar 30
YourGFsnatcher:

Unjust fights ke? Which one is just fight? Someone will disrespect you and your sister join and u forming good guy. You have failed your sister. Let me see the mad dog, let me see the animal that will disprect my sister like that and see what it feels like to have a man in the house.

You think it's some thin weak boy that will always be your sisters boyfriend. Assuming he is an army man or police AIG nko or one of those body builder types that hang around each other?

Dem go seize ya own fone too and you no go do shishi.

Everybody na big boy until you see di wan wey big pas you, you go bow.

Like I said, even if di guy is someone I can easily beat up, I would focus on my sisters bad choice
than anything or anybody else.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by Melagros(m): 11:15pm On Mar 30
yomi007k:


Bro.

Gangsta pass gangsta o.
The phone don't belong to him. He should give it back or live with the consequences.
Simple
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by Amudeneogu: 1:27am On Mar 31
I will go to the guy, either he give me the phone or he will tell me when his madness started.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by Joennamdi: 5:04am On Mar 31
No, you are foolish instead
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by Hotice085: 5:51am On Mar 31
Namaster:
It's NONE of my business.



Chicken be like d BF don beat you b4
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by Hotice085: 5:59am On Mar 31
aswani:


You think it's some thin weak boy that will always be your sisters boyfriend. Assuming he is an army man or police AIG nko or one of those body builder types that hang around each other?

Dem go seize ya own fone too and you no go do shishi.

Everybody na big boy until you see di wan wey big pas you, you go bow.

Like I said, even if di guy is someone I can easily beat up, I would focus on my sisters bad choice
than anything or anybody else.


You de talk trash
So boyfriend is now husband, if you bought a car land or property for her and the boyfriend took over it you go siddon de look

What i buy for my sisters be it sewing machine or any gaddam thing I buy for her whatever issue or problem her boyfriend have with her he dare not tresspass into another territory
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by Mavinsoladele(m): 6:27am On Mar 31
immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will not speak with the guy unless he himself invites me to interfere in the matter. And if he invites me, I will not be violent when talking to him.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

The only good reason for a sane man to seize his girlfriend's phone is if the phone contains the evidence of a serious offense that the girl is trying to deny. And in this case, the man should release the phone once he proves her guilty. And no upright brother of a girl will fight her boyfriend in a case like this.

Will you sound this way if he buys her a phone or pays her school fees? You are very selfish and hypothetical.

@immortalcrown

You have sense. I will give you that.

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Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by YourGFsnatcher: 6:36am On Mar 31
aswani:


You think it's some thin weak boy that will always be your sisters boyfriend. Assuming he is an army man or police AIG nko or one of those body builder types that hang around each other?

Dem go seize ya own fone too and you no go do shishi.

Everybody na big boy until you see di wan wey big pas you, you go bow.

Like I said, even if di guy is someone I can easily beat up, I would focus on my sisters bad choice
than anything or anybody else.
Guy be quiet! Not everyone is a weakling like you. Calling army and shii. You think is every weakling that doesn't know how to deal with people u calling? Imagine how weal u are saying things like "what if he's jn the army"? Like how weak can u be to have this mentality? So if ur sis is dating a cultist you have surrendered her to him? He can do what he likes becuae she has a chicken for a brother. Carry your fear go somewhere.. this talk no make sense.. we are not In same line. Carry your chicken mind to your kind
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by aswani(m): 6:47am On Mar 31
YourGFsnatcher:

Guy be quiet! Not everyone is a weakling like you. Calling army and shii. You think is every weakling that doesn't know how to deal with people u calling? Imagine how weal u are saying things like "what if he's jn the army"? Like how weak can u be to have this mentality? So if ur sis is dating a cultist you have surrendered her to him? He can do what he likes becuae she has a chicken for a brother. Carry your fear go somewhere.. this talk no make sense.. we are not In same line. Carry your chicken mind to your kind

OK o Mighty Igor, go do your thing
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by aswani(m): 6:49am On Mar 31
Hotice085:


You de talk trash
So boyfriend is now husband, if you bought a car land or property for her and the boyfriend took over it you go siddon de look

What i buy for my sisters be it sewing machine or any gaddam thing I buy for her whatever issue or problem her boyfriend have with her he dare not tresspass into another territory

Like I said to the other powerful guy, mighty igor, go do your thing.
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by YourGFsnatcher: 6:50am On Mar 31
aswani:


OK o Mighty Igor, go do your thing

Definitely!
Re: What Will Be Your Reaction If You're Her Brother? by Hotice085: 8:46am On Mar 31
aswani:


Like I said to the other powerful guy, mighty igor, go do your thing.



So if the sister of the BF that took your sister's phone this same thing happens to his own sister you think himself go siddon and fold hands?
Small boys don slap you well well back in the days and collect your 10kobo and 50kobos

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