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How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by MONEY247(op): 9:09am On Apr 02, 2024
So there's this girl in my environment, that's given me all the green light.... but I have so much on my mind....
As a free folk I just want to be friends and be friendly...I didn't even know she likes me....
I didn't notice....I am a shy person....
So today she came, and told me why did I not call her....I was like we are just friends aye....
She inputted her number in my phone
But she meant something serious.....
Normally I have never had a girlfriend.......and going through so much now....

How do I become romantic..... how can I reciprocate the love.... she's cool....
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by FRANCISTOWN: 10:21am On Apr 02, 2024
MONEY247:
So there's this girl in my environment, that's given me all the green light.... but I have so much on my mind....
As a free folk I just want to be friends and be friendly...I didn't even know she likes me....
I didn't notice....I am a shy person....
So today she came, and told me why did I not call her....I was like we are just friends aye....
She inputted her number in my phone
But she meant something serious.....
Normally I have never had a girlfriend.......and going through so much now....

How do I become romantic..... how can I reciprocate the love.... she's cool....
Love makes you look stupid and emotion is weakness.

If she wanted to give you free ride, who are you not to enjoy?

Emotionally investing into a Nigerian girl ranks high in 1000 ways to die terrible.
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Natbrowny: 10:25am On Apr 02, 2024
Start small.

👉 Compliment her hair, dressing
👉 Upgrade to complimenting her skin and any body features u r comfortable talking about
👉 Ask her of her dreams. Plans A and B incase A doesn't work out
👉 Avoid eateries,, invite her to ur crib straight up with boldness
👉 If u notice any attitude u dislike, feel free to tell her
👉 Make jokes in almost everything
👉 If she does any good thing. Appreciate her (optional)
👉 Look into her eyes always. Transfer ur shyness into her.
👉 U say she's cool right. So she'll blend in

👉 Lastly. U ASKED THATS Y I'M DROPPING CLUES. BUT LOVE IS BULLSHIT. E dey sweet oo. But it's BULLSHIT.. 😂 😂

I'M OUT.
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by LINSAR: 11:10am On Apr 02, 2024
Las las, she to still leave you go meet another boy when the infatuation dies down.
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Ibrahimlagosian(m): 12:09pm On Apr 02, 2024
Bro, it's me,as a forex trader like you,I would advise you to focus on your trading alone.
MONEY247:
So there's this girl in my environment, that's given me all the green light.... but I have so much on my mind....
As a free folk I just want to be friends and be friendly...I didn't even know she likes me....
I didn't notice....I am a shy person....
So today she came, and told me why did I not call her....I was like we are just friends aye....
She inputted her number in my phone
But she meant something serious.....
Normally I have never had a girlfriend.......and going through so much now....

How do I become romantic..... how can I reciprocate the love.... she's cool....
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Geovanni412(m): 12:21pm On Apr 02, 2024
Ibrahimlagosian:
Bro, it's me,as a forex trader like you,I would advise you to focus on your trading alone.
O wrong naa

Man shall not live by cash alone
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by MONEY247(op): 3:04pm On Apr 02, 2024
Ibrahimlagosian:
Bro, it's me,as a forex trader like you,I would advise you to focus on your trading alone.
I can't for now..... many things happened....I have to focus on one or two....

Thanks anyways
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Gadafii: 4:09pm On Apr 02, 2024
Collect solid 3 points from her first, leave love one side

Relate with her but don't invest too much emotion into it, her company will help you thru what ever you are facing, maybe

Hopefully she's not a leech or one of those never do well entitled lazy girls

But it's very important you grab that 3points asap
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by labake1(f): 4:12pm On Apr 02, 2024
OP, if you take the advice of NL small boys or redpill members, you might be forever lonely and single. Most of them dey cry follow woman offline.

Just follow your heart and don't take an action you will regret
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Savedday2: 5:06pm On Apr 02, 2024
Community breakfast is calling this one

Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by marlow1962(m): 8:19pm On Apr 02, 2024
Go with the flow and see how it plays out. Don't forget we all need love, but when you see the love is going one sided over unnecessary stupid things, save yourself the stress and ball off.
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Pussyisgud: 8:36pm On Apr 02, 2024
Should we tell him?
Nigerian girls na money dem love jare not man,
Give am 2k fork am jare, if e no gree u wozz am scatter am for your bed chop am.
No pay pass 2k o.
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Silentgroper(m): 8:45pm On Apr 02, 2024
Looks like my own is inbuilt .. whether going through alot or not, I'm not just psyched about it ... Just like op, I just wanna be friends and relate and get boyfriend treatment ... But don't be in my face for it .. if not, I go ghost you ... ..
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Silentgroper(m): 8:48pm On Apr 02, 2024
Gadafii:
Collect solid 3 points from her first, leave love one side

Relate with her but don't invest too much emotion into it, her company will help you thru what ever you are facing, maybe

Hopefully she's not a leech or one of those never do well entitled lazy girls

But it's very important you grab that 3points asap
whats the 3 point?? .. let me grab mine from this girl ...
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Gadafii: 10:00pm On Apr 02, 2024
Silentgroper:
whats the 3 point?? .. let me grab mine from this girl ...
na me go tell you that one??

Dey play my bro
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Peakdesign23(f): 11:04pm On Apr 02, 2024
Awww…
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by okoroemeka(m): 6:33am On Apr 03, 2024
MONEY247:
So there's this girl in my environment, that's given me all the green light.... but I have so much on my mind....
As a free folk I just want to be friends and be friendly...I didn't even know she likes me....
I didn't notice....I am a shy person....
So today she came, and told me why did I not call her....I was like we are just friends aye....
She inputted her number in my phone
But she meant something serious.....
Normally I have never had a girlfriend.......and going through so much now....

How do I become romantic..... how can I reciprocate the love.... she's cool....
start by having time and talking to her,holding her hands,stroking the pointed breasts,kissing her and knacking her if the opportunity is there,if you have small something give for her to buy data,if not kiss her again that is been romantic
Re: How Do You Guys Do This Love Thing by Silentgroper(m): 8:19am On Apr 03, 2024
Gadafii:
na me go tell you that one??

Dey play my bro
bruh .. na who go con tell me na .. No be you bring am up..
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