naijapikin2:
Well spoken. Wise woman.

You shall enjoy your marriage.

Meanwhile I'm on the verge of divorce.

Wish me luck in my next marriage 😃😃

Yugoslavia247:
Okay

That is not my problem
My problem is the authority sharing
After a woman comes in how does she think that she wants equal rights.

If you want westerner treatment then never ask for traditional marriage or bride price payment.

Ready for equal sharing of bills even to the most tiny.

No inlaws bull crap. Your in-laws must fix themselves


If you want brideprice paid then be ready to be a woman as the tradition demands

Makes sure you understand that.

Case closed

Yugoslavia247:
Okay

That is not my problem
My problem is the authority sharing
After a woman comes in how does she think that she wants equal rights.

If you want westerner treatment then never ask for traditional marriage or bride price payment.

Ready for equal sharing of bills even to the most tiny.

No inlaws bull crap. Your in-laws must fix themselves


If you want brideprice paid then be ready to be a woman as the tradition demands

Makes sure you understand that.

Case closed

Dynamicboss:
The gospel truth hence why men should stop chasing broke ladies like one disgruntled, frustrated and extreme feminist disturbing threads that goes against men on Nairaland. She knows herself

Mayflowa:


Next marriage in another life or this life? That means you must be gaining from marriage

Yugoslavia247:
Okay

That is not my problem
My problem is the authority sharing
After a woman comes in how does she think that she wants equal rights.

If you want westerner treatment then never ask for traditional marriage or bride price payment.

Ready for equal sharing of bills even to the most tiny.

No inlaws bull crap. Your in-laws must fix themselves


If you want brideprice paid then be ready to be a woman as the tradition demands

Makes sure you understand that.

Case closed

Zooposki:


Hope the housework, cooking, cleaning, looking after the children etc will also be 50/50.

Being a trad wife is just unpaid labour. While the husband is out there building his career, you the wife just sits at home doing unpaid labour. I wonder what would happen to the trad wife when the husband leaves, na suffer cos no money.

Yugoslavia247:


No problem.
Just forget bride price simple

Zooposki:


And no head of household. All decisions na 50/50. If you no like am, you can go to hell.

ideatoprince18:
Yes that's the raw truth.... That's why I wonder why Men use to bend on one knee to ask a woman to marry ... Like WTF??

Naaaaah woman are the only species that come into marriage with nothing at all and goes out of it with lots of Benefits

mmadu5:
even a toddler knows this.

MEN learn to love your self . don't over do because of woman. weda she's your wife or girlfriend. remember she is not your family, you both came into the world differently . so be careful when you stressing your self to provide for woman.

officialwdhtv:
Marriage benefits women more than men — Lady says

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWmAcPGcyBY

fergieboy:
Well my friend case was different cox I’m not married yet

He married as poor man
When the wife carry belle born
Everywhere burst

He built a new house
Establish his wife

He is now a landlord and owns a business

In this case I will say his wife brought blessings to him

officialwdhtv:
Marriage benefits women more than men — Lady says

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWmAcPGcyBY
This is the truth, as a man if you like don't get sense, build everything and then go and marry a liability

Yankee101:
The biblical wife is an asset not a liability
Proverbs 31
10 A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still night;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her female servants.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

Zooposki:


Hope the housework, cooking, cleaning, looking after the children etc will also be 50/50.

Being a trad wife is just unpaid labour. While the husband is out there building his career, you the wife just sits at home doing unpaid labour. I wonder what would happen to the trad wife when the husband leaves, na suffer cos no money.

fergieboy:
Well my friend case was different cox I’m not married yet

He married as poor man
When the wife carry belle born
Everywhere burst

He built a new house
Establish his wife

He is now a landlord and owns a business

In this case I will say his wife brought blessings to him

DeGLORIOUS:
Even with the benefits, I still want to man. I can't afford feeling another human being thrusting into me as if he's pounding pounded yam in the name of sx

Kennitrust:
Men overwork to keep the home in check while women took advantage of having a home first before hooking out secretly with old lovers.

So many girls that I know always said, their dad is late


Hmmm

Zooposki:


Hope the housework, cooking, cleaning, looking after the children etc will also be 50/50.

Being a trad wife is just unpaid labour. While the husband is out there building his career, you the wife just sits at home doing unpaid labour. I wonder what would happen to the trad wife when the husband leaves, na suffer cos no money.