The less you invest in her, the better your relationship will be. 👌

Invest your time, energy & focus on your growth.

She wants a successful man, not a true lover.

❌ Weak frame: You will never find someone like her.

✅ Strong frame: You will find millions better than her.


❌ Weak frame: She was not special.

✅ Strong frame: You made her special.


You are the king who made her the queen.
It's your life. It's your kingdom. 💯

You can banish, retain or exile any of its inhabitants.

Avoid making assumptions about a girl before you talk to her...

...because that girl who looks nice may actually be a b!tch, while that chick who looks like a b!tch may actually be nice.

Avoid hanging around men who do nothing but talk about what they want to do.

Their inaction will derail you from your mission.


In summary: All talk & no action will make and/or leave you empty in the long run. 👌

You can fukk a girl one time & she will ghost.


••• ex is back
••• on a [fukking] break
••• has a BF but testing the waters
••• likes to sport fukk
••• trying out different categories of Men
••• etc...



All these has nothing to do with you. 💯
Don't second guess yourself for a flaky homosapien.

who else saw Reno Omokri's post on DNA test.. mehn, this will be the first time I will get disappointed by that man's post... totally out of line.. he was saying that even if you discover you're not the father, you should take care of the child and that being a father is biological while being a dad is psychological (I don't remember if that's how he puts it)... he was now using Moses as an example that was raised by Pharaoh, and I was like how was it the same scenario of paternity fraud... this man here was totally out of line and talking nonsense, no wonder he turned of his comment section for that particular post...

Pharaoh adopted Moses, he did not assumed Moses was his child or by his wife giving birth to Moses... and who later led to the end of Pharaoh? still Moses... if you're adopting a child and raising that child, it's different from believing from the onset that you're the father of that child and finding out later that it's all lies... what if you even found out that none of the kids you fathered are yours...? now that's total heartbreak...

Even Reno that is talking, if he later finds out that none of his kids is truly his (assuming), I'm not sure he would come out to write that nonsense... if you've never been shot, you would never understand how gun wounds feel... I would be glad to adopt a child and raise that child, than raise a child as the sole owner only for the true sower of that seed to show up later in the future... I don't even want to imagine the heartbreak and the effect of that psychologically... In summary, Reno didn't make sense...

The second you take her seriously, it's no longer a man-woman interaction.

You have now placed yourself as the guy who is like the “others”


To be the man that owns her...

You must treat her like a child.

Doesn’t matter if she has 8 degrees, several achievements, or she’s a hot young babe.


Biology will still prevail.

Karlifate:
The second you take her seriously, it's no longer a man-woman interaction.

You have now placed yourself as the guy who is like the “others”


To be the man that owns her...

You must treat her like a child.

Doesn’t matter if she has 8 degrees, several achievements, or she’s a hot young babe.


Biology will still prevail.

To be candid: "Women are kids with tits"

You don’t fukk a lot a woman by:

••• Having more muscle than her.

••• Being taller than her.

••• Making a lot of money than her.

••• Giving her more compliments to her.


You fukk a lot a girls by having masculine frame & being entitled.

Arrogance is her drug.


One of the more reasons they fall for the IDGAF dude.

NOTE: More times than not...

If for whatever reason she is texting you asking questions....

...it’s her way of signaling to you that she wants to see you.


Woman will never outright say “Hey I want to see you”

They communicate covertly.


Arrange the meetup ASAP.

Karlifate:
You don’t fukk a lot a woman by:

••• Having more muscle than her.

••• Being taller than her.

••• Making a lot of money than her.

••• Giving her more compliments to her.


You fukk a lot a girls by having masculine frame & being entitled.

Arrogance is her drug.


One of the more reasons they fall for the IDGAF dude.

In sequel:

Being bossy and authoritative is her biggest turn on.

Bossy men have this aura of arrogance.

They feel entitled.

This signals to her brain that she’s dealing w/ a pre-selected man.

Money, status, and muscles have nothing to do with it. 👌

Confidence wins everyday. 💯

Karlifate:
NOTE: More times than not...

If for whatever reason she is texting you asking questions....

...it’s her way of signaling to you that she wants to see you.


Woman will never outright say “Hey I want to see you”

They communicate covertly.


Arrange the meetup ASAP.

Never ask for permission to escalate with a girl.

If she’s at your place...

••• Relax.
••• Set the mood.
••• Have [a couple of] drinks.
••• Stir up suggestive conversation(s).
••• Etc.


...and when the time is right, you’ll know.

She wants to feel like you know what ur doing.


Keyword: feel

Dear [young] men,

Have high standards for potential girlfriends.

If a girl doesn't meet all of your criteria, don't treat her like you'd treat a partner. 👌

It's not your job to turn a h03 into a housewife. 💯


Always remember this & apply accordingly.


NOTE: Since time immemorial, women's standards has never changed, but "men" keeps lowering theirs to accommodate the excess of the Eve's descendants.

Dear [young] men,


1:
If she makes planning meetups difficult ::: Next her


2:
If she thinks she can do better ::: Let her


3:
If she flakes ::: There are hotter, sexier & classier chics waiting


4:
If she ghosts you ::: Let the dead bury the dead



The less you care, the more she gets to wonder about you & the higher she perceives your value. 💯

It’s that simple. 🤷‍♂️

Dear [young] men,

If you're not afraid to lose her, when your respect of boundaries are in question...

...not only will she see you as a leader, but she will sense how quickly you can replace her. 👌

Karlifate:
NOTE: More times than not...

If for whatever reason she is texting you asking questions....

...it’s her way of signaling to you that she wants to see you.


Woman will never outright say “Hey I want to see you”

They communicate covertly.


Arrange the meetup ASAP.

Karlifate:



Never ask for permission to escalate with a girl.

If she’s at your place...

••• Relax.
••• Set the mood.
••• Have [a couple of] drinks.
••• Stir up suggestive conversation(s).
••• Etc.


...and when the time is right, you’ll know.

She wants to feel like you know what ur doing.


Keyword: feel

Man up, bro.

Don’t let her tell you she’ll be free in a week or she doesn’t have "free time in her schedule"

If she wants to see a high value man, like her celebrity crush or a rich Arab prince, she’ll drop everything

Speak up & tell her that you’ll need to arrange something soon because she could lose her spot.


In summary: Frame matters. 👌

Dear [young] men,

Nobody stole your girl from you...


She chose him over you...


She chose her future...


The universe saved you from future calamity...


You WON.

Woman by nature are insecure.👌


When she meets a man, she's looking for his arrogance / self assurance / confidence.

Timid, shy, and insecure men remind her of herself.

Arrogant, self-centered, and selfish man reflect traits she wish she had.

She must look up to you to respect you. 💯


In summary: A woman can't 'love' who she doesn't respect. 👌



NOTE: The meaning of the italicized, varies from individual to individual.

Women like men who have options, but they also want to feel special.

You could have others, but you chose her.


If you’re too much of a IDGAF dude, she doesn’t feel special...

...if you’re not enough of one, she thinks you’re thirsty.


It’s a delicate balance for sure.

Dear [young] men,

Men are driven by the thought of gaining more power, freedom, money & sex.

Women are driven by the thought of gaining the best man possible.


Use this dynamic in your marriage & it will prosper. 👌

Dear [young] men,

Nobody is coming to save you...

You are the hero of your life...

You have to train...

You have to learn...

You have to earn...

Every hero has a hard time...

You have too...

Accept the pain...

Accept the grind...

Accept that failure...

Accept that heartbreak...

Keep building the hero within you... 🔥🔥🔥

You will surely make it. 💯

Martinez39s:
Oga, no stress am. Fućk her well, drain all the succulent and juicy nectar from her youthful body as you both enjoy yourselves, and leave her in her mid to lates 20s (or 30s) for the simp or redpiller who will give any nonvirgin a chance as long as she feeds into his idea of a good woman.

Did you rape her? No! Then carry go. Not every man is here to start teaching every lady how not to be a hoé or the lead them right like a benign clergy or good samaritan. Let ladies sort themselves out and make their decisions.

Is like somebody has given up his monkhood. Mtcheww

Zabiboy:

I'll keep it real with you fam. Resorting to calling people names because of difference in opinion/principle (especially on a faceless forum) is just a public display of Low IQ.
Its not an insult, its a fact.
Opinions differ, principles differ and thats what makes everyone unique and its what the brain is made for.
If you see a post with contradicting opinions to yours, you can simply ignore or give your own opinion without having to call names.
I could easily have skipped this post the same way i skip many others, but i believe we learn everyday, so you can either see this as a man to man advice (learning) or as an insult, its up to you.

You be confirm sabiboy.

There's a condescending tone in his write-up that is hard to miss. If he thinks he knows it all then he might as well leave the thread and allow us who "knows-little" to learn in peace.


Rizzputin you can choose to be an assest to this thread by sharing your experience and knowledge respectfully or you can leave yourself out of it.

We are all men here so mutual respect should be our way of relating with each other.

Karlifate:

❌ Weak frame: You will never find someone like her.

✅ Strong frame: You will find millions better than her.


❌ Weak frame: She was not special.

✅ Strong frame: You made her special.


You are the king who made her the queen.
It's your life. It's your kingdom. 💯

You can banish, retain or exile any of its inhabitants.

You’re very correct.

It’s not a Queen that makes a man a King. It’s a Kingdom to make a man a King.

However, it takes a King to make a woman a Queen.

Rizzputin:


Entitlement to an opinion doesn't mean your opinion will be sensible.

You should take your own unsolicited "advice" and simply ignore. Rather than get butthurt and emotional cuz I didn't sugar coat the truth for you.

So go back and Re-read my post again.

Have a blessed day & week

The difference between Criticism and Hate is in the tone. Your tone was harsh and condescending. Kiss the truth.

Reminderz:
who else saw Reno Omokri's post on DNA test.. mehn, this will be the first time I will get disappointed by that man's post... totally out of line.. he was saying that even if you discover you're not the father, you should take care of the child and that being a father is biological while being a dad is psychological (I don't remember if that's how he puts it)... he was now using Moses as an example that was raised by Pharaoh, and I was like how was it the same scenario of paternity fraud... this man here was totally out of line and talking nonsense, no wonder he turned of his comment section for that particular post...

Pharaoh adopted Moses, he did not assumed Moses was his child or by his wife giving birth to Moses... and who later led to the end of Pharaoh? still Moses... if you're adopting a child and raising that child, it's different from believing from the onset that you're the father of that child and finding out later that it's all lies... what if you even found out that none of the kids you fathered are yours...? now that's total heartbreak...

Even Reno that is talking, if he later finds out that none of his kids is truly his (assuming), I'm not sure he would come out to write that nonsense... if you've never been shot, you would never understand how gun wounds feel... I would be glad to adopt a child and raise that child, than raise a child as the sole owner only for the true sower of that seed to show up later in the future... I don't even want to imagine the heartbreak and the effect of that psychologically... In summary, Reno didn't make sense...

It's because women are very good at defending themselves with their female solidarity.
Their beauty and so called weakness makes everyone listen to them.
Some men too join in the nonsense. Women are human beings who go to the toilet like anybody else so they need to be held responsible for their actions.
In fact I think women are more dangerous than men if care is not taken.

dontrulee:


Bills will always come, infact they are waiting for you in the front!

Ladies are born billers, they can bill anything, it's up to you to use your discretion!

1. Have a budget: while it's good to save enough money for survival, have some to enjoy yourself. Enjoying oneself is relative, if someone sees me enjoying myself to them it's waste of money but for me, I'm just spending part of my passive income.

2. Give but not at your own expense: give but don't be a mugu, don't be a Mr. Nice guy. Don't give money out like a fool. Don't give a girl money just because she's beautiful. Give her if she's contributing something impactful or meaningful into your Life

3. If you don't give a lady money, she'll find a way to get it: ladies are crazy hustlers, if they don't get money from you, they'll get it from another guy. Hardly will you see a lady that's broke, Dem get money just that they're very reluctant to spend their own money. All ladies like money, it's in their blood

4. Give, but give only what you are able to loose or give in such a way that you won't be affected at all. Not the one that you have only 30k in your account and you're giving a girl 20k, are you mad or something??

This is very reasonable. Kudos!

realone12:
okay let's assume this is really the case, that women attraction is predetermined.. how will you now explain a scenario where woman who initially don't show interest in you in the first couple of weeks and then later fall madly in love with you after some weeks?

That's a really interesting question....


It's because in those first couple of weeks she was either PRETENDING or she was
just UNAVAILABLE


Let's start with UNAVAILABLE.

In those first initial couple of weeks when she's not showing interest in the guy,

The typical guy with low self-esteem might say, it's because the dude is not handsome enough or he didn't shower her with enough cash...

The typical pua/game junkie might say, it's because he did or say something that mess things up or he didn't game or seduce her enough.


But they are both incorrect....

In reality, she might be UNAVAILABLE in those first couple of weeks.... What I mean by unavailable is that there's an external "barrier" preventing her from showing her attraction/interest for you.

Some Examples of those external barriers might be,

#1. She has an amazing boyfriend she was dating,
or #2. She has a guy she was already fucking and already satisfying her,
or #3. She was preparing for serious exam/interview that will change the course of her life and she doesn't want distraction,
or #4, She was obsessed with some other guy or ex-boyfriend,
or #5. She was just busy with something important going on in her life at that period,
or #6. Any other fucking reason.

If a girl is attracted to you but unavailable due to any of those external barriers I just listed or any other reasons, then you might find it difficult to move things forward with her even if you apply all the seduction and game in the world.... Those external barriers are out of your control...

But the moment the external barrier disappear, she will suddenly start showing you interest. For example, if her boyfriend cheat or start misbehaving on her, she will feel romantically lonely and want to connect with someone new. So, she'll check the list of her current toasters for the guy she's more attracted to, then she start showing interest in him.


In some occasions, a woman will be interested/attracted in you but will still reject you due to any of those external barriers. Some ladies have rejected me because they were UNAVAILABLE at that time, but few weeks later surprisingly they reconnect with me again because they were intrigued by my ultra confident and I-don't-give-Bleep behavior.

No girl will be inspired to reconnect with you if you interact with her in a needy-pussy focused manner unless she wants to exploit you.


So, she was already interested/attracted to you initially, but didn't show it because she might actually be unavailable at that period due to maybe any of one of those examples of external barrierr.

Yes, this is true with women, But if that's not the case with her, then she was just "pretending" those initial first couple of weeks.

That's leads to the next one: PRETENDING.

One thing you should understand about women is that they are natural expert pretenders. They do it in two ways,

#1. She pretend to be interested, but she's actually uninterested in you, This is the manipulators who just wants your attention but doesn't want you.

#2. She pretend she's uninterested but she's really attracted to you. This is one is just playing hard to get.

Let's first talk about the manipulators who just wants your attention but doesn't actually have interest in you:

Some while back, I used have this sexy ass girl I was messing around with. But I noticed she has many male (platonic) friends but she was very unattracted/uninterested in most of them. Just like the JASON character I talk about in that previous post, these guys are hovering around her, hoping that one day they will Bleep/date her.

Infact, some of these guys were already attached and obsessed with her. To be honest, I felt sympathy for these guys, so I told her to stop giving these guys false hope, and I told her to just honestly tell them to stop wasting their time on her that you have no interest in them.

I may be paraphrasing her words, but her response was,

"Never. If I do that, they will stop giving me attention and they'll stop giving me money."

I told her, "well, that's highly manipulative of you."

she said, "No, I'm just being smart."

It's funny, anytime I accuse girls of manipulating and misleading men. They often disagree with me. They'll say they are just being smart or friendly... worse some will say they are just networking or being social with men.

When you are pussy focused, you become easy targets for manipulation by women because you are treating the woman's sexual/romantic companionship like it's some trophy to be won. So women take advantage of that to toy with you.

Ok, moving on..

Let's talk about when, She pretend she's uninterested but she's really attracted to you.


Realistically though, the typical girl feel that if she quickly straightforwardly admit her attraction/interest for you, you will think she's cheap and consequently you might not value her again. This why she do what naija people call "shakara"... She does that because she don't want to appear easy or cheap. She's trying to protect her self-image.


Since, women are expert pretenders, then logically you shouldn't be trying seduce a pretender. Instead, the strategy is to EXPOSE a pretender And/OR make her feel sexually comfortable with you so she can safely show her attraction for you without feeling cheap. Accomplishing that is quite simple...but I won't go into that here because I've already talked about it in great length in my book....

But in general, when dealing with a manipulator or pretender(which is most girls by the way), you wanna make sure you avoid nice guy behavior, at least, initially. You should only start being nice and romantic to her AFTER she has shown you that she's sexually into you.

This is because if you start being all nice, sweet and romantic towards a "pretender" from the very beginning, then she might totally hide her sexual attraction for you and start trying to exploit you instead.

So in summary....

In a scenario where woman who initially don't show interest in you in the first couple of weeks and then later show high interest after some weeks...

Then it's either because She was already attracted to you from the beginning, but

#1. She was not really AVAILABLE those first couple of weeks for any reason (for example because she might have a great dude who was satisfying sexually...that guy might be pukka).

Or

#2. She was just pretending those first couple of weeks because she doesn't want to appear cheap or easy.


Anyways, I hope you get the point.

martinez39s luminouz karlifate I have your gists.

Guys stay tunned.

This break will be lit

I'm occupied now but I shall be back

Pukkalolo:




That's a really interesting question....


It's because in those first couple of weeks she was either PRETENDING or she was
just UNAVAILABLE


Let's start with UNAVAILABLE.

In those first initial couple of weeks when she's not showing interest in the guy,

The typical guy with low self-esteem might say, it's because the dude is not handsome enough or he didn't shower her with enough cash...

The typical pua/game junkie might say, it's because he did or say something that mess things up or he didn't game or seduce her enough.


But they are both incorrect....

In reality, she might be UNAVAILABLE in those first couple of weeks.... What I mean by unavailable is that there's an external "barrier" preventing her from showing her attraction/interest for you.

Some Examples of those external barriers might be,

#1. She has an amazing boyfriend she was dating,
or #2. She has a guy she was already fucking and already satisfying her,
or #3. She was preparing for serious exam/interview that will change the course of her life and she doesn't want distraction,
or #4, She was obsessed with some other guy or ex-boyfriend,
or #5. She was just busy with something important going on in her life at that period,
or #6. Any other fucking reason.

If a girl is attracted to you but unavailable due to any of those external barriers I just listed or any other reasons, then you might find it difficult to move things forward with her even if you apply all the seduction and game in the world.... Those external barriers are out of your control...

But the moment the external barrier disappear, she will suddenly start showing you interest. For example, if her boyfriend cheat or start misbehaving on her, she will feel romantically lonely and want to connect with someone new. So, she'll check the list of her current toasters for the guy she's more attracted to, then she start showing interest in him.


In some occasions, a woman will be interested/attracted in you but will still reject you due to any of those external barriers. Some ladies have rejected me because they were UNAVAILABLE at that time, but few weeks later surprisingly they reconnect with me again because they were intrigued by my ultra confident and I-don't-give-Bleep behavior.

No girl will be inspired to reconnect with you if you interact with her in a needy-pussy focused manner unless she wants to exploit you.


So, she was already interested/attracted to you initially, but didn't show it because she might actually be unavailable at that period due to maybe any of one of those examples of external barrierr.

Yes, this is true with women, But if that's not the case with her, then she was just "pretending" those initial first couple of weeks.

That's leads to the next one: PRETENDING.

One thing you should understand about women is that they are natural expert pretenders. They do it in two ways,

#1. She pretend to be interested, but she's actually uninterested in you, This is the manipulators who just wants your attention but doesn't want you.

#2. She pretend she's uninterested but she's really attracted to you. This is one is just playing hard to get.

Let's first talk about the manipulators who just wants your attention but doesn't actually have interest in you:

Some while back, I used have this sexy ass girl I was messing around with. But I noticed she has many male (platonic) friends but she was very unattracted/uninterested in most of them. Just like the JASON character I talk about in that previous post, these guys are hovering around her, hoping that one day they will Bleep/date her.

Infact, some of these guys were already attached and obsessed with her. To be honest, I felt sympathy for these guys, so I told her to stop giving these guys false hope, and I told her to just honestly tell them to stop wasting their time on her that you have no interest in them.

I may be paraphrasing her words, but her response was,

"Never. If I do that, they will stop giving me attention and they'll stop giving me money."

I told her, "well, that's highly manipulative of you."

she said, "No, I'm just being smart."

It's funny, anytime I accuse girls of manipulating and misleading men. They often disagree with me. They'll say they are just being smart or friendly... worse some will say they are just networking or being social with men.

When you are pussy focused, you become easy targets for manipulation by women because you are treating the woman's sexual/romantic companionship like it's some trophy to be won. So women take advantage of that to toy with you.

Ok, moving on..

Let's talk about when, She pretend she's uninterested but she's really attracted to you.


Realistically though, the typical girl feel that if she quickly straightforwardly admit her attraction/interest for you, you will think she's cheap and consequently you might not value her again. This why she do what naija people call "shakara"... She does that because she don't want to appear easy or cheap. She's trying to protect her self-image.


Since, women are expert pretenders, then logically you shouldn't be trying seduce a pretender. Instead, the strategy is to EXPOSE a pretender And/OR make her feel sexually comfortable with you so she can safely show her attraction for you without feeling cheap. Accomplishing that is quite simple...but I won't go into that here because I've already talked about it in great length in my book....

But in general, when dealing with a manipulator or pretender(which is most girls by the way), you wanna make sure you avoid nice guy behavior, at least, initially. You should only start being nice and romantic to her AFTER she has shown you that she's sexually into you.

This is because if you start being all nice, sweet and romantic towards a "pretender" from the very beginning, then she might totally hide her sexual attraction for you and start trying to exploit you instead.

So in summary....

In a scenario where woman who initially don't show interest in you in the first couple of weeks and then later show high interest after some weeks...

Then it's either because She was already attracted to you from the beginning, but

#1. She was not really AVAILABLE those first couple of weeks for any reason (for example because she might have a great dude who was satisfying sexually...that guy might be pukka).

Or

#2. She was just pretending those first couple of weeks because she doesn't want to appear cheap or easy.


Anyways, I hope you get the point.

I’d really like to know the jobless people that have the time to be reading these epistles you write. Clearly, you are a very idle guy.