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To me that Ay's is ugly. She's just an overbleached bonga fish. I'm sure ni66a is tired of her since a long time, he just had to take the bull by the horn!

When you start feeding men and giving them monthly support then they will stop "cheating" according to you. Some of you will just sit and contribute zero to a man's life and success and expect to dictate to the man on how to spend his money as well as control his movements.


Only a woman who gives a man money has rights to question him, if you are amongst those liabilities who only collect from a man hold your peace and forever remain silent.

Omoawoke:
I blame western influence.
If not woman will open mouth and say man dey cheat.
When man dey hustle, build his world, where were the girls, you will never see a girl go for a guy that’s unachieved or has achievements below them. They will always date higher.
The man will foot the bills, build his life and empire, then marry woman.
When the man now play one away match, you go talk say he dey cheat. Cheating only applies to women. Men don’t cheat, they catch fun!
I don’t blame you, I blame the men behaving like idiots that will kneel down to propose and be promising a woman the world.
Why don’t you go and tell Ronaldo that’s he’s cheating, or tell Ned Nwoko that he is cheating

Don’t promise any woman “The world” rather promised her “A world” and you can have many worlds

Repent Cheater

REGINALD001:
LABAKE LABAKE!

What happened to you?

U expect any as rich as he is with many actress, model, video vixens,female musician both upcoming and ready made ones at his finger top,u expect him not to cheat,if ay no get money and fame the wife no go do small wuruwuru?

TheBillyonaire:
Does it occur to you that your present mindset as indicated in your post is the default programming of the mind of all masculine males by default?

Males are wired to mate and see mating as supremely ultimate and the funny thing is that we are ready to mate with every beautiful female whether married or unmarried, whether virgins or someone's girlfriend, whether someone's sister or auntie.

We are the reason that we accuse women of infidelity, because we are the ones fuccking them, so while you are gallivanting outwardly to fucck people's virgins, sisters, aunties, wives and daughters, etc; do not refuse to forget that other masculine males are also gallivanting inwardly to fuccks yours truly.

It is fair in war and in peace. I think the best thing to do is rise above the organic instinct of the programmers and focus on just two women. A wife and a side chic. And I do not think AY did anything wrong, I think he is a product of his God as that God wanted him to be. And I see no reason why he should cry. Now he can live the bachelor life and sow his wild oats as long as his waist can handle the wiggle.

Who gets in trouble with NAFDAC over fake products? The seller or the buyer.

The buyer may request to buy anything. It is the responsibility of the seller to either accept or decline.

Since a man always wants to have sex. It is the responsibility of women to decide who to give it to.

Blaming men for the promiscuity of women is not only the highest level of stupidity. It is imbecility in it's grand form.

advanceDNA:
.... U women cheat all over the place too but come here to pretend....u blame men for paternity fraud, u blame men when u cheat, u even blame men for prostîtution....U are just playing victim card and fallacy...

Let's stop stressing ourselves with all this he cheated, she cheated...he hurt me, he made me depressed...No one should stop anybody from cheating...

Every body should stay their lane...let's cancel marriage since no one wants to be discipline or mayb it's just that fvcking one partner for life is not feasible.... So no one should expect Faithfulness

..face u career and make ur own money.....do ur chores alone, pay ur bills alone, build ur own house

If u want fvck ..fvck whoever u like..
..if u want kids.....get pregnant...
.if u don't want kids, face u life and enjoy it .
..no husband or wife will harass u or limit u career ur growth....

I don't always want to quote NL female again because it seems that their IQ is in ten, and not in tens.

How can I pay your bride price, bring you into my house and at the end of the day you'll tell me we have equal rights?
The bride price I paid is to privatize your sexuality. So that no man may ever sleep with you again.

Women should also start privatizing their husbands' sexuality by paying his dowry, feeding him and the kids and single handedly running the affairs of the home.

Novelty.

labake1:
In as.

So, what do men want?

Men, what do you want?
What can a wife do to stop her husband from cheating?

labake1:
Repent Cheater

Better just accept the fact, if you marry a successful and well to do guy, he go chop other girls. So better respect yourself and keep your title as the “Mrs”

Omoawoke:
I blame western influence.
If not woman will open mouth and say man dey cheat.
When man dey hustle, build his world, where were the girls, you will never see a girl go for a guy that’s unachieved or has achievements below them. They will always date higher.
The man will foot the bills, build his life and empire, then marry woman.
When the man now play one away match, you go talk say he dey cheat. Cheating only applies to women. Men don’t cheat, they catch fun!
Ian “The world” rather promised her “A world” and you can have many worlds

This is my major grouse I have with modern women - they enjoyed their prime with different men admiring them, offering them gifts and privileges etc. Modern women enjoyed so much attention and gifts while in their prime. After soaking up these enjoyments, they sought husbands who out-earn them. No one should mention that kini kon women also earn money. Yes, modern women earn money, but hypergamy is still there, and they seek for men who out-earn them. They never go lower. Always higher. Fine, no problem with that. That is how women are everywhere in the world.

When men want to enjoy their prime, modern day women revolt and accuse them of cheating?! Cheating?! But when you had admirers flocking around you and taking you in cars, did anyone complain? Why seek to restrict a man, especially well-to-do men, from exercising his options? You had yours and enjoyed it, allow him to enjoys his. Life na turn by turn. If he decides not to exercise his options, fine and good.

A man who has worked so hard, it is worse for black men as opportunities are fewer, should enjoy the fruits of his labour. Women who are pissed off with cheating have three options:

- Marry a woman
- Remain single for life
- Marry a much poorer man.

Modern day women cannot aim to marry a financially comfortable man, yet keep them all to themselves. There is love in sharing. Also, they
should understand the effects of testosterone and what it means for men who have money. Testosterone is a hormone, not a mo.ron. Let's not forget that married women institute sex timetable for their husbands. Na why I wan sponsor a research to find out if sexually active married men have more or equal sexual intercourse with their wives at the same rate as sexually active bachelors.

P.S. Where a man who has concubines goes wrong: his wife was a virgin before marriage, and he does not provide for the family.

Jman06:
What a daft to make! So being a entails philandering around with multiple women

Only jobless and irresponsible men keep multiple women...fact.
Dangote is the richest man in Africa yet he doesn't have a wife. It is only when a man doesn't have any itinerary lined up at his place of work or his business premises that he has time to start looking for the next thing in skirt to frolic with. Real men are busy with work and making money.

Go and tell to the African American woman who showed the world Dangote's yansh or the Maroon sisters who Otedola frolicked with. It is annoying reading tales from people who are not rich saying actual rich men don't have fun with plenty of women. Na poor men dey sponsor house parties for Lagos? Beach parties? Baddies in Dubai? Trips to Maldives, Barbados and Mauritius? Before you say na black men thing, go and see what Chinese men do everyday in Macau and the Philippines. Their South Korean counterparts do the same. In fact, I was discussing with two Japanese men for business and they said after business, I should recommend beautiful black women to them. These men are married and are top executives in a notable Japanese chemical company. However, they club every day with women. I am not sure you or I are richer than them.

Make I hear word yen yen yen real men don't frolick with women.

Acidosis:
n you, who will?

When men want faithfulness or a faithful woman for marriage, they don't tag video vixens, Nollywood actresses or Big Brother Naija women (call it stereotype, but that's the reality). You'll always find men on Nairaland, demanding virginity and all.

You all (women) should raise the moral standard too. It is not everyday steeze or money. If we have more women demanding virginity from men, things would be better. I mean, see how men are generally sitting up and calling for paternity test lately. What are you (women) doing in return? Telling a cheating man to stop cheating is already too late. An effort in futility.

When there are no known incentives for the male gender's morality, expect nothing but absolute unfaithfulness.

That would increase the divorce rates and in turn, marriage rates would plummet. It is seen in the developed world where women divorce their husbands simply because they cheated. People need to realise the effect testosterone has on men. The earlier, the better.

TheBillyonaire:
@ labake1

s.

The instruction code, from my research is totally serious and it takes mentally strong personae to resist the instruct set that alerts men to mate at the sight of a mature female. And it has been programmed so dangerously precise that if you resist the instruction to mate for decades, then men develop a form of cancer in their sex organs which is a direct consequence of not ejaculating the sperm when the instruction packet was sent.

What I am stating in essence, from my findings, is that the designers of humans, actually programmed men to mate or die. This is not about morality, so I can not question the designers of humans, but I can only tell them that this is a great curse to men cos sex is getting expensive and too regulated.

My assumption is that a man needs 4 wives or a wife and 3 concubines to really thrive but it is too tough on us men. I personally do not have the desire for such things, but I know these are facts. Sometimes women think sex is fun, hell no, most times we are fulfilling pressure instructions to mate.

The Biology of Cheating.

No wonder Islam is waxing strong. Muslim men have little to worry about, especially as the religion prohibits their women from marrying out and restricts those who wish to renounce the religion.

Gerrard59:
This is my major grouse I have with modern women - they enjoyed their prime with different men admiring them, offering them gifts and privileges etc. Modern women enjoyed so much attention and gifts while in their prime. After soaking up these enjoyments, they sought husbands who out-earn them. No one should mention that kini kon women also earn money. Yes, modern women earn money, but hypergamy is still there, and they seek for men who out-earn them. They never go lower. Always higher. Fine, no problem with that. That is how women are everywhere in the world.

When men want to enjoy their prime, modern day women revolt and accuse them of cheating?! Cheating?! But when you had admirers flocking around you and taking you in cars, did anyone complain? Why seek to restrict a man, especially well-to-do men, from exercising his options? You had yours and enjoyed it, allow him to enjoys his. Life na turn by turn. If he decides not to exercise his options, fine and good.

A man who has worked so hard, it is worse for black men as opportunities are fewer, should enjoy the fruits of his labour. Women who are pissed off with cheating have three options:

- Marry a woman
- Remain single for life
- Marry a much poorer man.

Modern day women cannot aim to marry a financially comfortable man, yet keep them all to themselves. There is love in sharing. Also, they
should understand the effects of testosterone and what it means for men who have money. Testosterone is a hormone, not a mo.ron. Let's not forget that married women institute sex timetable for their husbands. Na why I wan sponsor a research to find out if sexually active married men have more or equal sexual intercourse with their wives at the same rate as sexually active bachelors.

P.S. Where a man who has concubines goes wrong: his wife was a virgin before marriage, and he does not provide for the family.

Really?

FRANCISTOWN:
I don't always want to quote NL female again because it seems that their IQ is in ten, and not in tens.

How can I pay your bride price, bring you into my house and at the end of the day you'll tell me we have equal rights?
The bride price I paid is to privatize your sexuality. So that no man may ever sleep with you again.

Women should also start privatizing their husbands' sexuality by paying his dowry, feeding him and the kids and single handedly running the affairs of the home.

Really?

FRANCISTOWN:
I don't always want to quote NL female again because it seems that their IQ is in ten, and not in tens.

How can I pay your bride price, bring you into my house and at the end of the day you'll tell me we have equal rights?
The bride price I paid is to privatize your sexuality. So that no man may ever sleep with you again.

Women should also start privatizing their husbands' sexuality by paying his dowry, feeding him and the kids and single handedly running the affairs of the home.

The mistake some women make is that they over estimate their worth in a mans life..many do not realize they do not have the bargaining chips to demand for a man's submission and total faithfulness (only few can truly ask that question "what else does a man want" )

...many just believe by agreeing to date or marry you...they are doing a huge favour, and have automatically given u all u need, and so u must return the favour with all they want including faithfulness to them....

And its always funny because they don't believe they are doing anything wrong in a relationship....they always believe they have done more than enough .....

Lol.....even the so called sex they claim to be "giving u their all"... Just in a month...
Their body is in ghostmode for 1 week period
They are just not in the mood for no reason
Not in the mood just becos they want to tell u sex is not food....
Not in the mood because they are truly tired from stress...

A man will not get enough sex
He will get nagging...he will get billings
He will be expected to pay all the bills
Pay for her clothes, still buy her motor because davido bought chioma motor...
Settle in laws...and sponsor inlaws that will come and live with you.........And still demand u to not look for peace of mind and relaxation elsewhere.... They will now ask ...what do men want as if they are giving u all u need in life...

SyrusdeHansome:
They will `blamed`? Nko uto ami

Mkpo Aba ooo eyeneka mmi…

Mme sak imam tutu ke iko mbakara amo

labake1:
Repent Cheater

Labake, to be honest, sometimes the man's cheating may party be the wife's fault even though the women may never see it that way.

Jman06:
What a daft to make! So being a entails philandering around with multiple women

Only jobless and irresponsible men keep multiple women...fact.
Dangote is the richest man in Africa yet he doesn't have a wife. It is only when a man doesn't have any itinerary lined up at his place of work or his business premises that he has time to start looking for the next thing in skirt to frolic with. Real men are busy with work and making money.

lol , that means you don’t know what happens behind the scenes.

I guess you haven’t seen the Black American woman that was frolicking with DANGOTE , the Indian sisters that threatened to blackmail otedola..

If you like no enjoy yourself… all the money you Dey make , na your next of kin go chop am.

Dey play !

labake1:
In as much as I tried not to concerned myself on this matter. I made a post about Hakim's, Banky W and Davido cheating saga and I was trolled by NL redpillers and NL small boys. I can't help but to say my mind because I will always stand against men that cheat on their wife.

So, what do men want?

If men cheats, they will always blamed the wife.
If there are cases of domestic violence, they will blamed the wife.
If she did not get pregnant on time, they will blamed his wife.
If her child possesses bad attitude, they will blamed the wife.
If after marriage things fell apart, they will blamed the wife.
If she becomes more successful than her husband after marriage, they will always blamed the wife.

After going through his ex-wife page and reading the comments, I can only deduce that the African society doesn't respect women enough. So my fellow gender, never accepts less. If it won't work, walk away. Your man can't be fooling himself around and you will be at home taking the blames. Please, your mental health is important. Mind you, I don't support divorce but if it doesn't worth it, walka


Looking at these women, I don't see a flaw abi na beauty or good physique they no get.

Men, what do you want?
What can a wife do to stop her husband from cheating?

Nothing ...

Every man with resources has the inclination to cheat

If you want undying loyalty, you'll be better off marrying a poor man

And even then, there is a chance he may still cheat

Las las, buy a dog and marry him- that's your best chance of getting someone who won't cheat on you.

Gerrard59:
This is my major grouse I have with modern women - they enjoyed their prime with different men admiring them, offering them gifts and privileges etc. Modern women enjoyed so much attention and gifts while in their prime. After soaking up these enjoyments, they sought husbands who out-earn them. No one should mention that kini kon women also earn money. Yes, modern women earn money, but hypergamy is still there, and they seek for men who out-earn them. They never go lower. Always higher. Fine, no problem with that. That is how women are everywhere in the world.

When men want to enjoy their prime, modern day women revolt and accuse them of cheating?! Cheating?! But when you had admirers flocking around you and taking you in cars, did anyone complain? Why seek to restrict a man, especially well-to-do men, from exercising his options? You had yours and enjoyed it, allow him to enjoys his. Life na turn by turn. If he decides not to exercise his options, fine and good.

A man who has worked so hard, it is worse for black men as opportunities are fewer, should enjoy the fruits of his labour. Women who are pissed off with cheating have three options:

- Marry a woman
- Remain single for life
- Marry a much poorer man.

Modern day women cannot aim to marry a financially comfortable man, yet keep them all to themselves. There is love in sharing. Also, they
should understand the effects of testosterone and what it means for men who have money. Testosterone is a hormone, not a mo.ron. Let's not forget that married women institute sex timetable for their husbands. Na why I wan sponsor a research to find out if sexually active married men have more or equal sexual intercourse with their wives at the same rate as sexually active bachelors.

P.S. Where a man who has concubines goes wrong: his wife was a virgin before marriage, and he does not provide for the family.

Even where a woman marries a woman, cheating is possible

Her best bet is to buy a dog and leave humans alone.

advanceDNA:
The mistake some women make is that they over estimate their worth in a mans life..many do not realize they do not have the bargaining chips to demand for a man's submission and total faithfulness (only few can truly ask that question "what else does a man want" )

...many just believe by agreeing to date or marry you...they are doing a huge favour, and have automatically given u all u need, and so u must return the favour with all they want including faithfulness to them....

And its always funny because they don't believe they are doing anything wrong in a relationship....they always believe they have done more than enough .....

Lol.....even the so called sex they claim to be "giving u their all"... Just in a month...
Their body is in ghostmode for 1 week period
They are just not in the mood for no reason
Not in the mood just becos they want to tell u sex is not food....
Not in the mood because they are truly tired from stress...

A man will not get enough sex
He will get nagging...he will get billings
He will be expected to pay all the bills
Pay for her clothes, still buy her motor because davido bought chioma motor...
Settle in laws...and sponsor inlaws that will come and live with you.........And still demand u to not look for peace of mind and relaxation elsewhere.... They will now ask ...what do men want as if they are giving u all u need in life...

Infact you are really on point.
I had a GF one time like that. We were in the living room chilling out when a call came in thru her phone. It was her younger sister.
The sister was trying to get some funds from her but she replied that she was broke.
Next thing I heard was "Ask from uncle Francis now."
Na me be that uncle Francis o.

In my head I was like. Uncle Francis wey dey run charity NGO now.
I kuku like the girl. She know the kind person wey I be.
I'm a very kind person wey dey lavish. But I hate begging and feeling entitled.

Now imagine if I wifed that kinna lady. I'll take care of her, take care of her parents, her siblings will always flock around because them know say rabas full ground.

Idiot wey no know how I take struggle before I made my money go begin vex because say I send my parents money and I no send her own parents money.

At the end of the day, she'll turn your kids against you.

You see, any man wey go marry. Anything wey him eyes see. Make him dey manage am like that.

The men that good and reasonable women would end up with.

We want divorce
Hope u don hear 😂😂😂

Chazzyboy:
abeg count me out don't generalize things

I hope so

ObalendeCMS:
To me that Ay's is ugly. She's just an overbleached bonga fish. I'm sure ni66a is tired of her since a long time, he just had to take the bull by the horn!

Shaking my head

labake1:
I hope so

I don't cheat

labake1:
I hope so

I don't cheat

labake1:
In as much as I tried not to concerned myself on this matter. I made a post about Hakim's, Banky W and Davido cheating saga and I was trolled by NL redpillers and NL small boys. I can't help but to say my mind because I will always stand against men that cheat on their wife.

So, what do men want?

If men cheats, they will always blamed the wife.
If there are cases of domestic violence, they will blamed the wife.
If she did not get pregnant on time, they will blamed his wife.
If her child possesses bad attitude, they will blamed the wife.
If after marriage things fell apart, they will blamed the wife.
If she becomes more successful than her husband after marriage, they will always blamed the wife.

After going through his ex-wife page and reading the comments, I can only deduce that the African society doesn't respect women enough. So my fellow gender, never accepts less. If it won't work, walk away. Your man can't be fooling himself around and you will be at home taking the blames. Please, your mental health is important. Mind you, I don't support divorce but if it doesn't worth it, walka


Looking at these women, I don't see a flaw abi na beauty or good physique they no get.

Men, what do you want?
What can a wife do to stop her husband from cheating?

LABAKE with all capital letters You don't have sense

na alexuusual Bleep am

badboyTee:
LABAKE with all capital letters You don't have sense

Na you get sense abi? Oponu omo ode

labake1:
Na you get sense abi? Oponu omo ode

BABA EE ONI BRAIN