Pukkalolo:




That's a really interesting question....


It's because in those first couple of weeks she was either PRETENDING or she was
just UNAVAILABLE


Let's start with UNAVAILABLE.

In those first initial couple of weeks when she's not showing interest in the guy,

The typical guy with low self-esteem might say, it's because the dude is not handsome enough or he didn't shower her with enough cash...

The typical pua/game junkie might say, it's because he did or say something that mess things up or he didn't game or seduce her enough.


But they are both incorrect....

In reality, she might be UNAVAILABLE in those first couple of weeks.... What I mean by unavailable is that there's an external "barrier" preventing her from showing her attraction/interest for you.

Some Examples of those external barriers might be,

#1. She has an amazing boyfriend she was dating,
or #2. She has a guy she was already fucking and already satisfying her,
or #3. She was preparing for serious exam/interview that will change the course of her life and she doesn't want distraction,
or #4, She was obsessed with some other guy or ex-boyfriend,
or #5. She was just busy with something important going on in her life at that period,
or #6. Any other fucking reason.

If a girl is attracted to you but unavailable due to any of those external barriers I just listed or any other reasons, then you might find it difficult to move things forward with her even if you apply all the seduction and game in the world.... Those external barriers are out of your control...

But the moment the external barrier disappear, she will suddenly start showing you interest. For example, if her boyfriend cheat or start misbehaving on her, she will feel romantically lonely and want to connect with someone new. So, she'll check the list of her current toasters for the guy she's more attracted to, then she start showing interest in him.


In some occasions, a woman will be interested/attracted in you but will still reject you due to any of those external barriers. Some ladies have rejected me because they were UNAVAILABLE at that time, but few weeks later surprisingly they reconnect with me again because they were intrigued by my ultra confident and I-don't-give-Bleep behavior.

No girl will be inspired to reconnect with you if you interact with her in a needy-pussy focused manner unless she wants to exploit you.


So, she was already interested/attracted to you initially, but didn't show it because she might actually be unavailable at that period due to maybe any of one of those examples of external barrierr.

Yes, this is true with women, But if that's not the case with her, then she was just "pretending" those initial first couple of weeks.

That's leads to the next one: PRETENDING.

One thing you should understand about women is that they are natural expert pretenders. They do it in two ways,

#1. She pretend to be interested, but she's actually uninterested in you, This is the manipulators who just wants your attention but doesn't want you.

#2. She pretend she's uninterested but she's really attracted to you. This is one is just playing hard to get.

Let's first talk about the manipulators who just wants your attention but doesn't actually have interest in you:...

Nice post boss. Sorry i had to cut the rest to conserve space.

I have met a lot of these manipulators. They will be all vibes on whatsapp and call but the moment you request for meet-up, they ghost or decline.

That's one way i use to weed them out.

Rizzputin:
It's generally a bad idea to tell or imply to a girl that you'll always make her happy and never want to see her cry

In fact, anytime I see a story on nairaland or twitter that starts off with "I always wanted to make her happy" I know before I finish reading that it ended badly for the guy

To some of you, what I'm about to reveal might serve as a quick reminder. To others it might be something new or a new/deeper perspective to something you've already known.

Here's the general idea: Don't be scared to make your girl angry or cry in a relationship

Doesn't matter if she is just a fling or a serious GF or a FWB, if you are getting women frustrated, that's a great sign.

That simply means that her attraction for you is still high, because frustration is an indicator that she cares.

Before I continue, let me clarify. The kind of anger you want is:

● "I want more time with you please pay attention to me"

Or

● "Damn he isn't acting like I was expecting. Fùck"

What you don't want is to be a source of depression for her.

So if that frustation is popping out sparingly and in small doses, you are doing it right.

But if she is constantly nagging about it, either you are overdoing it or she's a drama diva (you should run far away. I'll write a thread on this category of girls)

These days, I have zero issues getting girls annoyed. In fact, once I hear a girl say "you're so annoying" or "I hate you so much"....

I know deep down we're going to fùck soon. Sometimes I present opportunities to deny them something so they act angry

One time I was vibing with a girl and she asked me to get something for her and I weasled out of it


She then hit me with "are you not my friend... I'll cry o" with cute puppy dog eyes. But such things would move my JSS 3 self NOT the hook up material man I am today. She was angry of course. But that didn't matter because later that night she was hungrily sucking my dìck

Simps and the average guy try desperately not to offend girls. It's tough concept for them to wrap their head around that you can get a girl angry or annoyed and still pound her

They fail to understand the concept of "any emotion is good emotion". And "no emotion is bad & anti seductive"

Now, some of you understand this. But maybe you're wondering why trying so hard to please a girl will make her dump you faster than a naija politician does to parties

If you're curious, let's find out why....

You see, a girl's life as she grows is filled with pain, drama and tears. From period pains, to heartbreaks to random tears and drama

All these "negative" emotions are engraved in her psyche.

That's why when things are moving too smoothly or things are seemingly too good or too happy... her first instinct is to cause some drama. Or tell the guy "you're too good for me" OR "you're to boring"

She wants to eject or feel a new thrill of emotions

Because all her life there's usually something bad, dramatic or negative happening.

So when a guy comes along trying to be perfect or promising to always make her happy.... he gets the opposite treatment of what he's expecting.

She sees him as weak. Like something isn't right. She won't even know why she causes the drama or loses respect of him but her subconscious mind keeps the score

Sooner or later... her attraction for him fades off slowly till a point of no return

Of course, this doesn't mean you should go about making girls angry.

But you're not perfect and you should accept that. Meaning, you'd do things she won't like but are great in the long for the both of you.

She'll be angry now but will respect you more in the long run

Men de philosophize.


Tying that negative emotional angle to their everyday life being one of pain makes so much sense.

Hmmm.

PhillipPHD:


You’re very correct.

It’s not a Queen that makes a man a King. It’s a Kingdom to make a man a King.

However, it takes a King to make a woman a Queen.

What made Elizabeth ll the Queen and what turned her husband, Philips, to Duke of Edinburg?

Fiscus105:



What made Elizabeth ll the Queen and what turned her husband, Philips, to Duke of Edinburg?

Her father’s kingdom made her a queen.

Her husband is called a ‘Duke’ not a ‘King’.

Thanks for coming to my TedTalk.

PhillipPHD:


Her father’s kingdom made her a queen.

Her husband is called a ‘Duke’ not a ‘King’.

Thanks for coming to my TedTalk.

Please answer his question and stop deflecting…

Karlifate:
You can fukk a girl one time & she will ghost.


••• ex is back
••• on a [fukking] break
••• has a BF but testing the waters
••• likes to sport Bleep
••• trying out different categories of Men
••• etc...



[b]All these has nothing to do with you,

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Sincerely, this warped mentality (my man cheats, I must cheat too. what a man can do, a woman can do better) is the reason why our society especially Southern Nigeria continues to deteriorate massively in the name of being 'educated', 'woke', 'not taking nonsense'. Whether you like it or not, both genders are wired differently. The success of any marriage depends a lot on the maturity of the man and the patience of the woman. I'm not excusing men but this mentality has one and only one outcome, DESTRUCTION of the marriage. The white folks who brought/facilitated this warped mentality have already run down their own societies. They raise feminine men, high rates of divorce, and many more men shying away from marrying altogether. Their women hoe around in their twenties and are left with regrets in their forties, with many taking solace in their cats, dogs and other pets. Their society cannot sustain its own population and their politicians are facilitating immigration at insane levels. Those who fail to learn from the mistakes of others would definitely taste the same cycle of failure. A divorced woman is a money spinning venture (you can research more into their spending habits and the effect of divorce on the black communities in Baltimore, Chicago, etc.) and the children suffer the most.

What more? You divorce your husband for 'cheating' and end up as a side piece to another man in a relationship, most times married. The joke remains on the woman! Those who praise a woman for leaving a loving man whose only downside is cheating (no diseases, no violence and takes great care of his wife and children) are the same people who would quickly fill up her space. These women wont tell you but the truth is that it is only after about four to five relationships after their marriage, that they realize the enormity of the bad decisions that they've made but it's too late. They would then keep posting pictures online, seeking validation from random people to make it seem as though they're happy. If you disagree, it's fine but Jeff Bezos's ex-wife divorced him, remarried one everyday guy (a music or french teacher or so) and guess what? She divorced him again after 2 years. Is she married again now? Oh, you don't need to be married to be happy? Lol.. keep deceiving yourselves. The joke is on you!

JESHAL007:
Sincerely, this warped mentality (my man cheats, I must cheat too. what a man can do, a woman can do better) is the reason why our society especially Southern Nigeria continues to deteriorate massively in the name of being 'educated', 'woke', 'not taking nonsense'. Whether you like it or not, both genders are wired differently. The success of any marriage depends a lot on the maturity of the man and the patience of the woman. I'm not excusing men but this mentality has one and only one outcome, DESTRUCTION of the marriage. The white folks who brought/facilitated this warped mentality have already run down their own societies. They raise feminine men, high rates of divorce, and many more men shying away from marrying altogether. Their women hoe around in their twenties and are left with regrets in their forties, with many taking solace in their cats, dogs and other pets. Their society cannot sustain its own population and their politicians are facilitating immigration at insane levels. Those who fail to learn from the mistakes of others would definitely taste the same cycle of failure. A divorced woman is a money spinning venture (you can research more into their spending habits and the effect of divorce on the black communities in Baltimore, Chicago, etc.) and the children suffer the most.

What more? You divorce your husband for 'cheating' and end up as a side piece to another man in a relationship, most times married. The joke remains on the woman! Those who praise a woman for leaving a loving man whose only downside is cheating (no diseases, no violence and takes great care of his wife and children) are the same people who would quickly fill up her space. These women wont tell you but the truth is that it is only after about four to five relationships after their marriage, that they realize the enormity of the bad decisions that they've made but it's too late. They would then keep posting pictures online, seeking validation from random people to make it seem as though they're happy. If you disagree, it's fine but Jeff Bezos's ex-wife divorced him, remarried one everyday guy (a music or french teacher or so) and guess what? She divorced him again after 2 years. Is she married again now? Oh, you don't need to be married to be happy? Lol.. keep deceiving yourselves. The joke is on you!

Another thing is the prompting of women to sideline their husbands for bosses and families for careers. But the main issue here is hypergamy, how many women can respect their househusbands? And on top of that, because of hypergamy a woman's options reduces as her wealth increases e.g. Scott Mackenzie, Bezos' ex-wife, how can she respect and follow that teacher when he's setting rules and whatnot? Her chaotic & rebellious nature and childlike mind prevalent of women will be asking her "Why should I listen to somebody that I can just buy if I feel like it" . How will she attempt to satiate her hypergamy? By dating Elon or Zuckerberg?

Just as the strong and independent don't need to shout it, if women didn't need men they'd show it in their actions instead.
A child will always need an adult, and far more than the other way around.

@Caveadullam @heartofcity12 I haven't seen y'all in a while. How's everything on your ends?

PinkNature:


Go and hustle.

Like you were hustling on a widow's mite thread for 6500 abi?

That you are this shameless to even crawl back here to talk deserves an award.

Dizzyyish:
@Caveadullam @heartofcity12 I haven't seen y'all in a while. How's everything on your ends?

Simple answer: ask Martinez39s

"Small thing I say make I smoke for he backyard don make me dey craze".

CaveAdullam:


Simple answer: ask Martinez39s

"Small thing I say make I smoke for he backyard don make me dey craze".

Tougher and more technical "substances" await you.

Martinez39s:


Tougher and more technical "substances" await you.

Dizzyyish, hope you've heard it.

"Lemme gan download Kolomental by Faze".

At least people will misconstrue my craziness for dance of king David.

Oh, my lawd.

PhillipPHD:
Can someone kindly give a holistic approach of how a financially comfortable redpill guy should handle billing from ladies?

As a guy who’s evidently neither broke nor stingy, how can one handle billing?

1. Don't ask.

2. Give.

I know this will cause an uproar.

Ok. Wait.

When you give, it sends a signal that you're not selfish.

After some time, she will come back to ask again. Then, you tell her you don't have. If she complains, tell her how you've helped her in the past and not for once thought of ways she can also assist you.
She'll feel guilty and shameless after that.

Giving can be in the form of a date or a small hangout in your house. The cycle depends on you. But don't go and overdo it. Male pride and ego are very easy for women to stimulate.

Try and remove shame from your eyes when dealing with them. Women are shameless. They will go to any extent to get what they want. Assume that same behavior.

You can't shame the shameless.

You can give both flesh + gift that day. Winks.

3. Wait let them ask.

After considering their demands, tell them that had it been you have half of their demands you would have been the happiest man on earth.

That's when they try to go low, go lower.

4. Their complaints normally come with billing. After listening to their complaints, make yours too.

Complaints + complaints = 2(complaints)^infinity

Everyone will find their way after that.

5. Complain before they complain.

You can't ask me for help when I'm looking for help. Before they say, Jack, say Jackie Chan and begin to narrate his history.

NB: I don't like saying no because one day you might need their help. The universe is a crazy place. The lists above keep your options with them open.

Another thing: Don't lend a woman money. Only charity. Else, your eyes will see "shege".

Karlifate:
A friendly reminder on the female nature...

1:
Woman will complain about the same guy they fukk.

2:
Woman will hate the same guy they gave a blowj*b.

3:
Woman will flake on you for a guy that cheated on them.

4:
Woman will despise the [nice] guy who buys her gifts & love the IDGAF man.

5:
Etc...


You can add yours.

6. Woman will bite a finger that fed her provided it makes her feels good.

CaveAdullam:


Dizzyyish, hope you've heard it.

"Lemme gan download Kolomental by Faze".

At least people will misconstrue my craziness for dance of king David.

Oh, my lawd.

God abeg oh. Make people no talk "redpill don finally make this one mad o." Martinez39s, you don dey lace our colos with cobra venom?

Madness and this economy na double trouble, so before you kolo fully just keep my easter rice and juice first.

CaveAdullam:


Try and remove shame from your eyes when dealing with them. Women are shameless. They will go to any extent to get what they want. Assume that same behavior.

You can't shame the shameless.

💯

Men of nobility suffer a lot.

Chivalry is dead in this century.

JESHAL007:
Sincerely, this warped mentality (my man cheats, I must cheat too. what a man can do, a woman can do better) is the reason why our society especially Southern Nigeria continues to deteriorate massively in the name of being 'educated', 'woke', 'not taking nonsense'. Whether you like it or not, both genders are wired differently.

U are still stuck in 2008... Weda u cheat or not ...women will cheat in 2024.......
women don't cheat because their husband or boyfriends cheat..that's what they want you to believe..so they can get to always use the victim card Everytime and even when they are caught doing wrong....

Make no mistake brother....both genders are wired the same when it comes to sex.... Our mother's generation was not a freedom generation, like ours, where hoe-ness of women is promoted....that's why the liberty of our mothers to express their wild side was caged...women have always been like men when it comes to sex...they like to fvck fvck fvck.....they enjoy sex more than us so why would u think they dont want it more...why would u think one penis is enough for them??
Why would u think they don't want to fvck as many guys as possible??

JESHAL007:

The white folks who brought/facilitated this warped mentality have already run down their own societies. They raise feminine men, high rates of divorce, and many more men shying away from marrying altogether.

It was a bait ...and women fell for it....women know they are living in a man's world, where men make most ofbthe rules...they are just trying to tip the scales in their favour..so they are just dancing to all our rules at the end of the day............. guys want to fvck without responsibilities of marriage, and women fell for it with feminism and sexual wokeness...so they hoe themselves and men get them hoes..its a win win situation for guys..weda they hoe themselves or choose to be decent..

JESHAL007:

What more? You divorce your husband for 'cheating' and end up as a side piece to another man in a relationship, most times married. The joke remains on the woman!

U sound like u pity them....what da hell for?? .what we are heading for is a society of no marriage...i.e., fvck who u want and be responsible for urself....women are the more broke ones looking for men to help them with their bills and raise kids together....they will always be on the loosing end of wateva level of degradation the society falls into

JESHAL007:

Those who praise a woman for leaving a loving man whose only downside is cheating (no diseases, no violence and takes great care of his wife and children) are the same people who would quickly fill up her space

I ddnt want to comment on this, but I like being fair....Let's be realistic...no one takes cheating lightly.....we are all humans, its our nature to process betrayal or disloyalty negatively and even with violence and vindictiveness

.I wont take it..I can cancel ur tomorrow for cheating on me...so I expect u to do the same.....

....as a matter of fact...I would be scared as fvck and walking on egg shells around a woman that forgives me for fvcking another woman when nothing is wrong with her pvssy....

That said....how anyone choose to deal with cheating is left to them...expecting anyone, weda men or women to deal with cheating by forgiving all the time is not realistic ......weda their divorce leads to them becoming another married man's side chic, that's their kettle of fish.....

Hi redpillers👋👋👋

It's kinda long I took some redpills so I need some quality advice please.

There's this new girl at my workplace. She likes me and my manager was even hinting at the both of us being in a relationship but I've kinda been off relationship for a while just focusing on my dreams. This girl has been showing me some subtle greenlight and then we started conversing.

We even became paddy but I wanted to take it really slow but later, I sent her a WhatsApp message telling her how I wanted us to be in a relationship but she didn't reply so I let it slide and we kept talking about everything even sex but I didn't ask her out again then she started telling me about a guy she met online that's in Dubai and wants to marry her but she ain't sure the guy really likes her. She said she likes the guy but she ain't sure because she hasn't seen him.

My problem is that she's always talking about this guy. I don't know if she's trying to test if I'll be jealous or what.
But it seems I'm starting to like this girl and I want date her. Now the other guy is discouraging me... Please I need some good advice 🙏

SonOfHercules:
Hi redpillers👋👋👋

It's kinda long I took some redpills so I need some quality advice please.

There's this new girl at my workplace. She likes me and my manager was even hinting at the both of us being in a relationship but I've kinda been off relationship for a while just focusing on my dreams. This girl has been showing me some subtle greenlight and then we started conversing.

We even became paddy but I wanted to take it really slow but later, I sent her a WhatsApp message telling her how I wanted us to be in a relationship but she didn't reply so I let it slide and we kept talking about everything even sex but I didn't ask her out again then she started telling me about a guy she met online that's in Dubai and wants to marry her but she ain't sure the guy really likes her. She said she likes the guy but she ain't sure because she hasn't seen him.

My problem is that she's always talking about this guy. I don't know if she's trying to test if I'll be jealous or what.
But it seems I'm starting to like this girl and I want date her. Now the other guy is discouraging me... Please I need some good advice 🙏

She is telling you the truth and she will only see you as an option. Be wise. You guys can have sex and all but be wise.

monerozi5590:




She is telling you the truth and she will only see you as an option. Be wise. You guys can have sex and all but be wise.

I think so too.... She sees me as a backup but she's testing the guy tho 🥱

advanceDNA:

U are still stuck in 2008... Weda u cheat or not ...women will cheat in 2024.......
women don't cheat because their husband or boyfriends cheat..that's what they want you to believe..so they can get to always use the victim card Everytime and even when they are caught doing wrong....

Make no mistake brother....both genders are wired the same when it comes to sex.... Our mother's generation was not a freedom generation, like ours, where hoe-ness of women is promoted....that's why the liberty of our mothers to express their wild side was caged...women have always been like men when it comes to sex...they like to fvck fvck fvck.....they enjoy sex more than us so why would u think they dont want it more...why would u think one penis is enough for them??
Why would u think they don't want to fvck as many guys as possible??


It was a bait ...and women fell for it....women know they are living in a man's world, where men make most ofbthe rules...they are just trying to tip the scales in their favour..so they are just dancing to all our rules at the end of the day............. guys want to fvck without responsibilities of marriage, and women fell for it with feminism and sexual wokeness...so they hoe themselves and men get them hoes..its a win win situation for guys..weda they hoe themselves or choose to be decent..



U sound like u pity them....what da hell for?? .what we are heading for is a society of no marriage...i.e., fvck who u want and be responsible for urself....women are the more broke ones looking for men to help them with their bills and raise kids together....they will always be on the loosing end of wateva level of degradation the society falls into



I ddnt want to comment on this, but I like being fair....Let's be realistic...no one takes cheating lightly.....we are all humans, its our nature to process betrayal or disloyalty negatively and even with violence and vindictiveness

.I wont take it..I can cancel ur tomorrow for cheating on me...so I expect u to do the same.....

....as a matter of fact...I would be scared as fvck and walking on egg shells around a woman that forgives me for fvcking another woman when nothing is wrong with her pvssy....

That said....how anyone choose to deal with cheating is left to them...expecting anyone, weda men or women to deal with cheating by forgiving all the time is not realistic ......weda their divorce leads to them becoming another married man's side chic, that's their kettle of fish.....

I don't agree with that aspect of a man CHEAT and will never. Why all these whites have brained washed you all that men cheat with monogamous bullshit.

All the strong men- from prophets, to kings, to warriors can imagine the number of concubines and wives. Weak men of this generation- that's why the women too can boldly say a man cheats---wonder what our mothers of then would have the audaciousness of saying so. You see them shouting 'my boyfriend cheated', like what the fck. Like he owes you an explanation to roll with another woman. And then the next thing, 'I'll cheat back too'. You all weak men are the reasons for this.

You guyz should stop being a weakling! And embrace your nature with full chest. I don't hide the fact from any lady that I have other ladies as well. I won't rub it on her face tho. But they know there are other ladies, not one, not two, not three. And that doesn't mean I won't treat her right as a serious relationship or side piece. I give respect to them female folks as well. Never had an issue with this. They never did as well as long as you don't flaunt it on their faces.

The fact that I roll with other ladies you too as a lady you want to do like me -i'll show you the exit door or keep you as another side piece. Nonsense! Weak men everywhere.

SonOfHercules:
Hi redpillers👋👋👋

It's kinda long I took some redpills so I need some quality advice please.

There's this new girl at my workplace. She likes me and my manager was even hinting at the both of us being in a relationship but I've kinda been off relationship for a while just focusing on my dreams. This girl has been showing me some subtle greenlight and then we started conversing.

We even became paddy but I wanted to take it really slow but later, I sent her a WhatsApp message telling her how I wanted us to be in a relationship but she didn't reply so I let it slide and we kept talking about everything even sex but I didn't ask her out again then she started telling me about a guy she met online that's in Dubai and wants to marry her but she ain't sure the guy really likes her. She said she likes the guy but she ain't sure because she hasn't seen him.

My problem is that she's always talking about this guy. I don't know if she's trying to test if I'll be jealous or what.
But it seems I'm starting to like this girl and I want date her. Now the other guy is discouraging me... Please I need some good advice 🙏

Damn! Now pick up that damn phone and invite that lady to your crib. Weak men everywhere!

Had a conversation with some people about guys don't cheat. I'm a strong believer of men don't cheat, you cheat only when you afraid of your partner when you just want to fulfill for biological desire. I'm broke now but I know it's for a little while but my point is I've tried this thing with 2 different girls(not intentionally though but it works). Before being in a relationship with them when we are just being friends and tell them I can never be with only one woman and that just somehow increases their desire or just lemme say didn't diminish it for me. The second one outrightly told me she can't share her man. I told being with only one woman is too much trouble you have to have like 2 or 3 to have peace of mind as a man(this sounds paradoxical but it can't more true) and I just noticed when we started dating she was the one suggesting to me the girls she wouldn't mind being her rival. Then I just see these foolish men with cars and big houses still afraid of their wife not catching them with another woman.

Fattprince23:
Had a conversation with some people about guys don't cheat. I'm a strong believer of men don't cheat, you cheat only when you afraid of your partner when you just want to fulfill for biological desire. I'm broke now but I know it's for a little while but my point is I've tried this thing with 2 different girls(not intentionally though but it works). Before being in a relationship with them when we are just being friends and tell them I can never be with only one woman and that just somehow increases their desire or just lemme say didn't diminish it for me. The second one outrightly told me she can't share her man. I told being with only one woman is too much trouble you have to have like 2 or 3 to have peace of mind as a man(this sounds paradoxical but it can't more true) and I just noticed when we started dating she was the one suggesting to me the girls she wouldn't mind being her rival. Then I just see these foolish men with cars and big houses still afraid of their wife not catching them with another woman.

Women have very deep nature that even them don't know its capacitation. The thing is, you don't even need to tell them you have other ladies. If you tell them it's like disrespect or you don't value her. You got to make them all feel special in their own way and they would usually know if you are guy with other women even when they ask you and you try not to answer them or divert the topic. Women are very smart, they know.

On the other hand a woman can kill a man for hanging out with other women and the same woman will be ok with another man doing the same thing--- given the same situation of the relationship.

So the question for men, do you want to be a man that your wive would kill you for hanging out with other women or be a very dominant man that she will be ok with that?

Mind you, the same woman is able to exhibit the same characteristics.

Do you know the reason also why successful men at the top of their careers were faced with accusations of rape etc? Because this men make the mistake of flaunting their ability to discard and pick another lady on the women faces. If you're a successful guy, you have to have the wisdom to deal with the female folks during a fallout amicably, making her not to feel worthless or like another side piece, if not they don't mind coming back to bite you hard and also bite themselves in the process to pour out their emotions.

Streak47:


Women have very deep nature that even them don't know its capacitation. The thing is, you don't even need to tell them you have other ladies. If you tell them it's like disrespect or you don't value her. You got to make them all feel special in their own way and they would usually know if you are guy with other women even when they ask you and you try not to answer them or divert the topic. Women are very smart, they know.

On the other hand a woman can kill a man for hanging out with other women and the same woman will be ok with another man doing the same thing--- given the same situation of the relationship.

So the question for men, do you want to be a man that your wive would kill you for hanging out with other women or be a very dominant man that she will be ok with that?

Mind you, the same woman is able to exhibit the same characteristics.

I get. I don't flaunt it to their face. In fact I'm always single when I tell them this. I just tell them (even though it's before we start to date) that I can't be with one lady. And they understand because I treat them right by showing them love and they respect me in return. I just let them know I'm a real African man. And they get it. I posted sometime ago about when i was having a conversation with the second girl and it somehow crept into the first girl talk(I and the first girl wasn't together due to distance but we still talk on phone and didn't officially break up) then she asked if I still love her, I didn't know what to say I just looked into her eyes and an idea just popped in my head and I kissed her and continue to kiss her each time she asked. She asked up to like 15 times and I kissed her every fucking time with a smirk on my face. She first thought I will answer that's her reason for the continuously asking till she realized after the more than 15th kiss that I'm not answering the damn question.(Surprising thing is each time she ask and I lean in for the kiss she still kiss me back the whole fucking time she didn't realize early enough that the kiss was a way of me diverting the question)

Streak47:



The fact that I roll with other ladies you too as a lady you want to do like me -i'll show you the exit door or keep you as another side piece. Nonsense! Weak men everywhere.

U don't agree that men can cheat?? Who cares what you think...what u agree with Is totally up to you.....una dey carry una self go do wedding on saturday....Dey sign certificate with woman, dey recite wedding vows subjecting urself to monagamy institution...Yet u think u are not a weak man ....u just dey yarn okpata....

If u no fit carry women enter house wey u and ur wife dey leave come fvck....then u are still a weak man playing away match...

Fattprince23:

I get. I don't flaunt it to their face. In fact I'm always single when I tell them this. I just tell them (even though it's before we start to date) that I can't be with one lady. And they understand because I treat them right by showing them love and they respect me in return. I just let them know I'm a real African man. And they get it. I posted sometime ago about when i was having a conversation with the second girl and it somehow crept into the first girl talk(I and the first girl wasn't together due to distance but we still talk on phone and didn't officially break up) then she asked if I still love her, I didn't know what to say I just looked into her eyes and an idea just popped in my head and I kissed her and continue to kiss her each time she asked. She asked up to like 15 times and I kissed her every fucking time with a smirk on my face. She first thought I will answer that's her reason for the continuously asking till she realized after the more than 15th kiss that I'm not answering the damn question.(Surprising thing is each time she ask and I lean in for the kiss she still kiss me back the whole fucking time she didn't realize early enough that the kiss was a way of me diverting the question)

I very much agree with your point, way to go. I just wan add more Maggi.

advanceDNA:


U don't agree that men can cheat?? Who cares what you think...what u agree with Islam totally up to you.....una dey carry una self go do wedding on saturday....Dey sign certificate with woman, dey recite wedding vows subjecting urself to monagamy institution...Yet u think u are not a weak man ....u just dey yarn okpata....

If u no fit carry women enter house wey u and ur wife dey leave come fvck....then u are still a weak man playing away match..

Bros no vex, seems I sparked a nerve. If u wan banter me, banter me directly, let's leave religion out, cause religion is still one of the problems in this country.

I still stand with my on point of views firmly.

Adiós.

Streak47:


Bros no vex, seems I sparked a nerve. If u wan banter me, banter me directly, let's leave religion out, cause religion is still one of the problems in this country.

I still stand with my on point of views firmly.

Adiós.

Religion?? How did we get to religion??
Many pple nor normal for this nairaland ooo