labake1:




Why will my brother falls into your situation when he is not stûpid like you. I pity that girl, she should find a better option because you go make her suffer. Let her listen to her mom's advice Mr INEVERCHOP. Go and hustle

funshint:
You can't win the fight against her mum; first know that.
That family is full of red lights.
Thread carefully; I pray you find peace.

AngelicDamsel:
It seems to me that the 21 years old jambite girl is still naive. This complicated situation can be simplified thus-

Marry her quickly if you really love her and send her to school asap.

Or take a bow out.


Honestly, no inlaw likes a stingy man. Even if it's tips, do something.


At 21 years, she can not be relied on to handle the tension between you and her parents.



Conclusion: I sense you are a controlling type, probably in your late 20s or early 30s, controlling the girl.
No girl will choose her man over her mother, never! and no sane man should come between a girl and her mother. It's dumb!


Same way no wife should try to come between a man and his mother. I find it unreasonable. There are ways to go round it...... Wisdom is profitable to direct.



Modified: this guy has no good intentions for the girl.

AngelicDamsel:
It seems to me that the 21 years old jambite girl is still naive. This complicated situation can be simplified thus-

Marry her quickly if you really love her and send her to school asap.

Or take a bow out.


Honestly, no inlaw likes a stingy man. Even if it's tips, do something.


At 21 years, she can not be relied on to handle the tension between you and her parents.



Conclusion: I sense you are a controlling type, probably in your late 20s or early 30s, controlling the girl.
No girl will choose her man over her mother, never! and no sane man should come between a girl and her mother. It's dumb!


Same way no wife should try to come between a man and his mother. I find it unreasonable. There are ways to go round it...... Wisdom is profitable to direct.



Modified: this guy has no good intentions for the girl.

Agozskey:
if we end up together that I won't be in a good relationship with her family especially her mom,
Advice pls

Agozskey:
Part 2.... I see a lot of people saying i am controlling and I am a finished man, FYI I am 23years old and I already have a business I am running, I am okay with myself one foolish idiot said I am broke boy... Anyways, I bought a phone for my girlfriend, I buy her clothes, I give her money for feeding because they don't eat well in their house, I also give her money for upkeep, but her mom isn't satisfied with dat and yet some people are here blaming me for being stingy. She's my girlfriend and not my wife, I do my part as a boyfriend I can train her in school or give money to her family, when she has a Dad and a Mom both in their late 40s... I also have a life of my own, I also have my own family to cater for but some idiots here wants me to play the role of a husband...
I am not broke and I am also not stupid but I can't train my girlfriend in school and my girlfriend understands me and I cannot also take up her family responsibilities... Thank you

Karlifate:
The universe is telling you that you shouldn't marry into that family, but you're being stubborn.

If you eventually marry this girl, she'll taunt you for the rest of your for manipulating her into disobeying her parents, especially her sweet mom

The girl is only saying she loves you more than her mother, so as not to lose her financial benefits from you. Once a richer dude she & her mom likes show up, she'll branch swing & you gonna receive the rude shock of your life.


You're just 23, but already burdening yourself with fickle relationship wahala.

You still have a long way to go, dude!

IkeIgboNiile:
I don't blame you. You have the mind to call a follow man "weak" because he's poor. You don't want to better her life or marry her but you're mad she's using her mother picture as profile picture the same mother, who's trying to get her education.

I really hope she sees the light and break up with you because if you can't train in school, you definitely won't marry her.

You are either dumb or you refuse to read... You are a fool
I wish families could provide basic things for their kids so they won't have to suffer insults from children parading as men.

IkeIgboNiile:
I don't blame you. You have the mind to call a follow man "weak" because he's poor. You don't want to better her life or marry her but you're mad she's using her mother picture as profile picture the same mother, who's trying to get her education.

I really hope she sees the light and break up with you because if you can't train in school, you definitely won't marry her.

I wish families could provide basic things for their kids so they won't have to suffer insults from children parading as men.

IkeIgboNiile:
Agozskey

You are either dumb or you refuse to read and you are a fool... Idiot

You're a hungry fool who's want power without responsibility. Stupid goat i hope you're enjoying your 5 minutes of fame cos that's the only thing you'll have in life. Idiot!

Agozskey:
... Seriously, like I owe her anything

Holluwhakemmy:
I know she's after money she should have allowed you to grow in your business before asking for money now afterall you haven't marry her daughter yet. You can surprise her once in a while too

Agozskey:
you're still stupid... You and your hungry family... Idiot

Agozskey:

You are hungry, fine girl... I understand you and your family are poor I understand... But u don't have to showcase it.... Yen yen yen yen yen yen yen... I don't need hungry girls opinion here

Agozskey:
Part 2.... I see a lot of people saying i am controlling and I am a finished man, FYI I am 23years old and I already have a business I am running, I am okay with myself one foolish idiot said I am broke boy... Anyways, I bought a phone for my girlfriend, I buy her clothes, I give her money for feeding because they don't eat well in their house, I also give her money for upkeep, but her mom isn't satisfied with dat and yet some people are here blaming me for being stingy. She's my girlfriend and not my wife, I do my part as a boyfriend I can train her in school or give money to her family, when she has a Dad and a Mom both in their late 40s... I also have a life of my own, I also have my own family to cater for but some idiots here wants me to play the role of a husband...
I am not broke and I am also not stupid but I can't train my girlfriend in school and my girlfriend understands me and I cannot also take up her family responsibilities... Thank you

labake1:



See person that can't feed himself, spits

labake1:


Oponu

IkeIgboNiile:
Agozskey
I will never train any girl in school, if that is your anger go and jump inside a river and drown, I will never be a simp to a woman, I will never carry the responsibilities of another Man in the name of relationship, if I get married to her I will.
You are a simp and a fool, na people like you dey train woman for school, the woman no go still marry you, na people like you dey lick anus of their mother in law, Na people like dey train another man pikin, You are weakling, bastard


Is this stupid man child still talking? If you can't marry then break up with her and stop wasting her time. You've been with a girl for 2 years yet, you're reluctant to invest or marry her.