labake1:



See person that can't feed himself, spits

I don chop o madam... I no go still train ur gender for school... Go and die

Agozskey
You retard, come on go lick anus and face front

Poor weakling. Have a nice day idiot

IkeIgboNiile:
Agozskey
You retard, come on go lick anus and face front

Poor weakling. Have a nice day idiot

Retard

Holluwhakemmy:
Try and close to her mother you may win her heart later, you can't stop your girlfriend not to post her mum picture she's her mother and want the best for her. May God prosper the work of your hand

The only way to win her is by giving her money and that's a bad precedent, no man should ever use money to buy love. I'm surprised the lady is not behaving like her gold digger mother, you can't satisfy this kind of women ever no need to try win her.

I like how the OP was bold to fend off her bullshit as to coercing him to sponsor her child when the mother and father are alive and ables bodied, when he finished sponsoring her they(parents) will still without shame to demand for bride price for a daughter already adopted by another man, crazy people everywhere.

Agozskey:
The only closeness is money... And as a young man I won't do that... I won't give her money

Don't try that, very grave move. Using money to buy love is foolishness, don't start what you can't finish.

G00dharddick:


Why can't she surprise him too once in a while? Is she crippled? Abi she dey handicap? What is wrong with you Nigerian girls?

I blame the foolish op for not dumping that poverty stricken low life family.

Let her and her family surprised the guy too for once! Entitlement mentality in the highest level

I'm not talking to you, you don't know more than insulting girls.

What I have to say is for your girlfriend. If I say it to you, you might feel offended. Wish she was here though so she can see this.

Leave that girl for a more suitable man to marry. Stop manipulating her. You want to set her against her Mom that carried her for 9 months with other sacrifices she made for her from birth and they said bring money for her education you refused.

That girl had better run away from you. She should know better than to struggle with a man. Many who tried it are now living like flats mates after years of struggling together while the men are busy frolicking around small dirty girls who can't stand their wives.


Struggle with a Nigerian man at your own peril.

All this stupid boys self. Must you have a girlfriend? apart from pussy, what other thing does that girl offer you?
Leave girlfriend for now and focus on your business.

ASAPFERG:
All this stupid boys self. Must you have a girlfriend?
apart from pussy, what other thing does that girl offer you?

Leave girlfriend for now and focus on your business.

Okay ma

Jewessgratitud3:
What I have to say is for your girlfriend. If I say it to you, you might feel offended. Wish she was here though so she can see this.

Leave that girl for a more suitable man to marry. Stop manipulating her. You want to set her against her Mom that carried her for 9 months with other sacrifices she made for her from birth and they said bring money for her education you refused.

That girl had better run away from you. She should know better than to struggle with a man. Many who tried it are now living like flats mates after years of struggling together while the men are busy frolicking around small dirty girls who can't stand their wives.


Struggle with a Nigerian man at your own peril.

Lol

Jewessgratitud3:
What I have to say is for your girlfriend. If I say it to you, you might feel offended. Wish she was here though so she can see this.

Leave that girl for a more suitable man to marry. Stop manipulating her. You want to set her against her Mom that carried her for 9 months with other sacrifices she made for her from birth and they said bring money for her education you refused.

That girl had better run away from you. She should know better than to struggle with a man. Many who tried it are now living like flats mates after years of struggling together while the men are busy frolicking around small dirty girls who can't stand their wives.


Struggle with a Nigerian man at your own peril.

Entitlement is now a must... Not longer the love we share, you guys get married for financial breakthrough... Okay I've heard...

From the picture you painted, this relationship has no favourable future. Like someone said, time will do the rest; before or after marriage regardless.

Jewessgratitud3:
What I have to say is for your girlfriend. If I say it to you, you might feel offended. Wish she was here though so she can see this.

Leave that girl for a more suitable man to marry. Stop manipulating her. You want to set her against her Mom that carried her for 9 months with other sacrifices she made for her from birth and they said bring money for her education you refused.

That girl had better run away from you. She should know better than to struggle with a man. Many who tried it are now living like flats mates after years of struggling together while the men are busy frolicking around small dirty girls who can't stand their wives.


Struggle with a Nigerian man at your own peril.

You don't want to struggle with a Nigerian man at 42 but you can come here to beg for crowdfunding when you had house issues.

We know you wella for this street

Holluwhakemmy:
I'm not talking to you, you don't know more than insulting girls.

Simple question you started misyarning dust.

Why can't she and that her poverty stricken family surprise the guy too? Or are they crippled? So the guy doesn't deserve to be surprised bah?

Sadly, the foolishness of an average Nigerian girl is mixed with stewwpidity

Holluwhakemmy:
Try and close to her mother you may win her heart later, you can't stop your girlfriend not to post her mum picture she's her mother and want the best for her. May God prosper the work of your hand

OP, in all you do, avoid the above advice. Life no be nollywood.

Flew from that family and never look back.

If her mother wants the best for her, then she should tell her daughter to hustle and make money, not going around looking for a rich man she and her entire family can leech on.

Dear men, avoid broke Women, esp those ones from poverty stricken broken homes

CarlosTheJackal:
You don't want to struggle with a Nigerian man at 42 but you can come here to beg for crowdfunding when you had house issues.

We know you wella for this street

You will beg for crowdfunding from now onwards.

I'm not the one that said you should still be struggling at your age that whenever they mention struggle you'll answer your .name.

Agozskey:
Me and my bae have been dating for 2years and we have quite a normal happy relationship, we fight, we argue but we also love each other but my problem is her family, especially her parents they don't like me because I am not rich but I am a graduate into Iron rods and building materials business and I am quite okay for myself...
My Girlfriend's mom hates me so much, because I don't give her money or I don't spend foolishly on her daughter.
Now, here are the reasons, She begged me for money one time and I gave her but before giving her I told my girlfriend to tell her mom not to call me and ask for money again, Now, according to her she didn't have any problem with that but, my babe never enter school and her family isn't financially capable... While in our relationship a pastor from their church came for my babe's hand in marriage surprisingly her parents agreed mind you my girlfriend is 21years of age, but my girlfriend refused.
Her mom called me again talking to me about her daughters school, if I can sponsor my girlfriend in school, I declined I can't take such risk she tried all possible best to convince me but I refused I told her I had other plans for myself to grow financially and before I can consider such I'll have to marry my babe first before training her in school... And that was the last time I saw this woman o.
Fast forward to this year, a Yahoo boy have been disturbing my babe, my babe refused and this guy threatened to rape my babe, she told me about the threats and I told her to consult her parents before we take any action and I suggest we report it to the police... This woman blamed her daughter for the threat saying she was being too harsh to the Yahoo boy, I couldn't believe it mehn... Now, she is furious her daughter is still with me to the fact that she even swore for me and said I won't prosper, She said all sorts, now her Dad on the other hand is a weak man that can't stand his ground in anything, he was also indirectly cutting through corners trying to convince my girlfriend that I am not good for her...
Now, I discussed this with my girlfriend and she's trying to convince me dat she loves me and she won't listen to her parents, but I am not convinced I told her if we end up together that I won't be in a good relationship with her family especially her mom, I told her I will be strict I asked her if she is okay with it, she said Yes... But, just yesterday my girlfriend changed her WhatsApp profile picture to her mom's picture, I am not against hating her own mom but for the fact we are having a matter about her mom and she did dat really made me sad.

Advice pls

Let her go. She comes from a family that worships money over morals. The girl would eventually yield to her mom's advice. Ladies use emotions to make decisions. On another note, try to find out first if her mom is celebrating something. Maybe that's why her picture is up there. My brother, you did well by not agreeing to sponsor their daughter to school. They want to use you and dump you. Don't be surprised when you see your babe following the yahoo boy in secret. Leave their daughter for them. You would definitely meet a good girl from a good family. I can suggest an app to you where you'd meet working class ladies around you.

Jewessgratitud3:


You will beg for crowdfunding from now onwards.

I'm not the one that said you should still be struggling at your age that whenever they mention struggle you'll answer your .name.

I am the Lion that can never eat grass, you will get to 60 still asking God when

CarlosTheJackal:
I am the Lion that can never eat grass, you will get to 60 still asking God when

Back to your daughters in Jesus name. Even you will not escape it as long as the sun continues to shine.

You're biting more than you can chew.
Don't say you were not warned.

Jewessgratitud3:


Back to your daughters in Jesus name. Even you will not escape it as long as the sun continues to shine.

You're biting more than you can chew.
Don't say you were not warned.

Hmmmm why are you always insulting people on Nairaland? Every time na so so fight fight. What’s wrong with you? You sure say you dey okay upstairs? This ain’t normal for someone that is over 40…

id4sho:

Your mind dey there

Why will you as a young chap decide to burden himself with unnecessary weight at this point in his life when he's supposed to be moving with speed & precision


Dear [young] men,

Your responsibility should be to yourself. 👌


The world is cruel to a man, especially a poor / broke / struggling man. 💯

Tranquility2345:


Hmmmm why are you always insulting people on Nairaland? Every time na so so fight fight. What’s wrong with you? You sure say you dey okay upstairs? This ain’t normal for someone that is over 40…

I'm sure you're 🦯 🦯 and didn't see his own insulting comments to me.

Abeg shift!

Karlifate:




Why will you as a young chap decide to burden himself with unnecessary weight at this point in his life when he's supposed to be moving with speed & precision


Dear [young] men,

Your responsibility should be to yourself. 👌


The world is cruel to a man, especially a poor / broke / struggling man. 💯

That's how my ex wants me to put her mum on monthly allowance. Me that is still crawling, wahala for who gree

id4sho:

That's how my ex wants me to put her mum on monthly allowance. Me that is still crawling, wahala for who gree

LMAO! 🤣

Good thing you quickly 🏃🏽 for your dear life.

I saw one f moniker up there saying: "the guy should be close to her mother & win her heart"

Classic female manipulation strategy!


If you start a financial payment with a woman, you'll never finish paying till you die OR a better option shows up & you'll be discarded like a disposable utility they see you as.


Side note: Women don't like each other / one another cos they can see through their manipulative antics.

One of the more reasons why lotsa Daughter-in-laws don't like their MIL, and vice versa.


Taking & implementing relationship advice(s) from women is one of the worst move man can make 💯

You should rather hear their 'advice' & use it against them.


Manipulate the manipulator.

You get mine sha, some guys sef. Free that babe and face your iron rods business to better your life and get better woman that makes brain 🧠

Jewessgratitud3:


Back to your daughters in Jesus name. Even you will not escape it as long as the sun continues to shine.

You're biting more than you can chew.
Don't say you were not warned.

Do your worst. There is no gloves again.

60 will be your 18

Somethings i would never be involved in , mama dey craze u come expect daughter to normal

CarlosTheJackal:
I am the Lion that can never eat grass, you will get to 60 still asking God when

Agozskey:
Me and my bae have been dating for 2years and we have quite a normal happy relationship, we fight, we argue but we also love each other but my problem is her family, especially her parents they don't like me because I am not rich but I am a graduate into Iron rods and building materials business and I am quite okay for myself...
My Girlfriend's mom hates me so much, because I don't give her money or I don't spend foolishly on her daughter.
Now, here are the reasons, She begged me for money one time and I gave her but before giving her I told my girlfriend to tell her mom not to call me and ask for money again, Now, according to her she didn't have any problem with that but, my babe never enter school and her family isn't financially capable... While in our relationship a pastor from their church came for my babe's hand in marriage surprisingly her parents agreed mind you my girlfriend is 21years of age, but my girlfriend refused.
Her mom called me again talking to me about her daughters school, if I can sponsor my girlfriend in school, I declined I can't take such risk she tried all possible best to convince me but I refused I told her I had other plans for myself to grow financially and before I can consider such I'll have to marry my babe first before training her in school... And that was the last time I saw this woman o.
Fast forward to this year, a Yahoo boy have been disturbing my babe, my babe refused and this guy threatened to rape my babe, she told me about the threats and I told her to consult her parents before we take any action and I suggest we report it to the police... This woman blamed her daughter for the threat saying she was being too harsh to the Yahoo boy, I couldn't believe it mehn... Now, she is furious her daughter is still with me to the fact that she even swore for me and said I won't prosper, She said all sorts, now her Dad on the other hand is a weak man that can't stand his ground in anything, he was also indirectly cutting through corners trying to convince my girlfriend that I am not good for her...
Now, I discussed this with my girlfriend and she's trying to convince me dat she loves me and she won't listen to her parents, but I am not convinced I told her if we end up together that I won't be in a good relationship with her family especially her mom, I told her I will be strict I asked her if she is okay with it, she said Yes... But, just yesterday my girlfriend changed her WhatsApp profile picture to her mom's picture, I am not against hating her own mom but for the fact we are having a matter about her mom and she did dat really made me sad.

Advice pls

WhatsApp dp speaks volumes, she may have done that to please her mum and to show her, that she remains loyal

Now back to your real matter
You already have a trade that can feed you and also feed your girlfriend, but I don't know how you will be able to feed a baby, incase she becomes pregnant for you

Her mum doesn't like you, that's number one red flag

They can't afford to train her in school, so they want you to train her but don't marry her.

Her mother needs you to be giving her money, you may not be able to do so because it may affect your business

That's another red flag

Left to me, find a way to end the relationship with out making a drama out of it

Dont wish to stay where you will not be welcomed