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If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 9:18am On Apr 19
If you're an highly intellectual person, then this post is for you.

Avoid TOXIC relationships!

Using myself as a case study,

Just one 'hard' word against me can make me restless or scatter my day.

Once I am mentally and emotionally stressed, it shows without my consent.

During my interview stage, the HR asked what tunes down my productivity and I said TOXIC environments.

Can you define that?

She asked.

I said, a place where nothing I do seem good enough and even doing the extra doesn't make any difference.

My wrongs are more capitalized than my rights and never forgotten...

I said, when I don't get appreciative comments or encouraging words when I don't seem to understand what next to do.....

Now, I used to think that nobody can make me uncomfortable if true then something is wrong with me.... it means my heart has gotten used to hurts and don't know Love.

It means, I have settled toxicity into my system.

Yesterday I had a situation, and I didn't know the energy followed me to work and affected my day...

I was fighting a war in my head and so I looked drained.... persons around noticed even after affirming myself.

You owe yourself as a high value person to avoid and walk away from relationships, environments that makes you second guess your abilities and loose confidence in yourself because it's just a matter of time, you'll loose yourself.

P.S Do you agree with me? Kindly share your thoughts in the comments section.

Fun fact: My Priority Love language is Words of Affirmation 🤭 Don't play!
#tgif

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by colossus91(m): 9:29am On Apr 19
Hmm

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Namaster: 9:47am On Apr 19
This entire post is NONSENSE!

The title says Highly Intellectual people. But body of your post describes a NEUROTIC and EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE person that is ULTRA NEEDY.

Plus if a single word of criticism can ruin your WHOLE day, you may be dealing with a case of EXTREMELY low self-esteem.

Work on that.

Plus you don't even need to be an intellectual juggernaut to AVOID toxic people. You just need common sense.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by oglalasioux(m): 10:06am On Apr 19
A highly intellectual person is supposed to do the opposite of your ideas. A highly intellectual person should rein in his or her emotions.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Peakdesign23(m): 10:19am On Apr 19
As an intellectual person this doesn’t make sense, I feel like you need to build your emotional capacity.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Elegantspiker(m): 11:15am On Apr 19
One of the symptoms of an approaching nervous breakdown is the belief that one's work is terribly important - Bertrand Russell (1870 - 1916)

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Rexymania(m): 1:18pm On Apr 19
You're correct
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by KingNom(m): 2:16pm On Apr 19
Hmmm
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by silverlinen(m): 2:23pm On Apr 19
Damnnn

People dey para for here o

Most of those people up there, wey dey claim say them Sabi "rein their emotions in", are actually the ones with low self esteem.

Ehmm OP, if that's how you're, continue to do what works for you, and ignore those that affects your well-being and state of mind.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Nnaemiemax: 2:54pm On Apr 19
This post lacks the vital elements to be classified as one written by an intellectual person.

NB: I skipped 'highly' because that's a whole different level of intellect! undecided

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by toujurs: 2:59pm On Apr 19
Most of you women, who recite all these words of affirmation, Are emotionally traumatized and lack self confidence.

Instead of you all, to learn from your mistakes and take corrections to be a better person, you will rather decieve yourselves with words of affirmations.

What are you affirming, your bad behavior, or your selfish attitude. undecided

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Zonefree(m): 3:41pm On Apr 19
toujurs:
Most of you women, who recite all these words of affirmation, Are emotionally traumatized and lack self confidence.

Instead of you all, to learn from your mistakes and take corrections to be a better person, you will rather decieve yourselves with words of affirmations.

What are you affirming, your bad behavior, or your selfish attitude. undecided
The person that introduced this nonsense "words of affirmation" to Nigerian girls will find it difficult to make Heaven.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Charliepecca(m): 5:19pm On Apr 19
A toxic environment will always drain you. I resigned from my job in an Airline because the environment was too toxic. From the top to the least, everyone gossips. I was a threat to them all because I was different.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Raddiesy47: 5:35pm On Apr 19
[quote author=lavylilly post=129518878][/quote]

Seriously trash na u b the toxic person ur write just proved it all
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 4:53pm On Apr 20
undecided
Raddiesy47:


Seriously trash na u b the toxic person ur write just proved it all
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 4:54pm On Apr 20
kiss
Rexymania:
You're correct
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by EreluRoz: 4:54pm On Apr 20
Zonefree:

The person that introduced this nonsense "words of affirmation" to Nigerian girls will find it difficult to make Heaven.

Zonefree alaboshi

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 10:16pm On Apr 22
angry
Namaster:
This entire post is NONSENSE!

The title says Highly Intellectual people. But body of your post describes a NEUROTIC and EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE person that is ULTRA NEEDY.

Plus if a single word of criticism can ruin your WHOLE day, you may be dealing with a case of EXTREMELY low self-esteem.

Work on that.

Plus you don't even need to be an intellectual juggernaut to AVOID toxic people. You just need common sense.

Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by BafanaBafana: 3:05pm On May 21
Work on your self esteem. Your problems have nothing to do with intellect.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 3:26pm On May 21
undecided
BafanaBafana:

Work on your self esteem. Your problems have nothing to do with intellect.
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by HellVictorinho6(m): 3:37pm On May 21
I need 30k now.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 3:53pm On May 21
Ask your friends, colleagues & church members
HellVictorinho6:
I need 30k now.


Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Sapasenator: 3:56pm On May 21
Namaster:
This entire post is NONSENSE!

The title says Highly Intellectual people. But body of your post describes a NEUROTIC and EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE person that is ULTRA NEEDY.

Plus if a single word of criticism can ruin your WHOLE day, you may be dealing with a case of EXTREMELY low self-esteem.

Work on that.

Plus you don't even need to be an intellectual juggernaut to AVOID toxic people. You just need common sense.


Only you can start 3rd world war. You get nukes for mouth.
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Proserpina: 4:45pm On May 21
Zonefree:

The person that introduced this nonsense "words of affirmation" to Nigerian girls will find it difficult to make Heaven.

That thing dey annoy me I won't lie undecided undecided

Say it to yourself in your quiet time and move on, you see these ladies posting it everywhere.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 4:58pm On May 21
undecided
Proserpina:
That thing dey annoy me I won't lie undecided undecided

Say it to yourself in your quiet time and move on, you see these ladies posting it everywhere.
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Proserpina: 4:59pm On May 21
lavylilly:
undecided
Sorry biko grin cheesy grin

I don't just like reading those stuff grin
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Zonefree(m): 5:06pm On May 21
Proserpina:
Sorry biko grin cheesy grin

I don't just like reading those stuff grin
Why are you telling her sorry?

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by HellVictorinho6(m): 5:29pm On May 21
lavylilly:
Ask your friends, colleagues & church members

None of them can afford it

Help me with it pls

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 9:57am On May 23
shocked
HellVictorinho6:


None of them can afford it

Help me with it pls
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by HellVictorinho6(m): 9:58am On May 23
lavylilly:
shocked





can u?

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 6:50am
Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by HellVictorinho6(m): 6:54am
lavylilly:
lipsrsealed

meaning?

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