₦airaland Forum

Mindlog:
They are exploring and that is typical at their stage of development, na the responsibility of their carers to have their eyes on them.

MrPOTUS:
The problem with Nigerians (since we're here) is lacking of strategic spacing of their kids. Dey give birth like pigs.

Like d ones I saw yesterday, a mother and her children, 4 or 5 kids or so and the highest age isn't up to 10 years. You go think say na 7 days dem take senior themselves. All of them just small.
4 years spacing? Having 4 kids would take 13 years!!


Birth spacing should be at least 4 to 5 yrs between siblings, so when you're having your third or last child, d older siblings will be a bit mature and less stress to you.

Mindlog:
That is why looking after those small humans involves 100% focus, if you don't have enough time....make adequate arrangement to get someone responsible to cover for you!

Caaz:
I have 2 .... whenever I m not around them my heart keeps pounding.

Having and caring for kids is a big flex.

MrPOTUS:
The problem with Nigerians (since we're here) is lacking of strategic spacing of their kids. Dey give birth like pigs.

Like d ones I saw yesterday, a mother and her children, 4 or 5 kids or so and the highest age isn't up to 10 years. You go think say na 7 days dem take senior themselves. All of them just small.


Birth spacing should be at least 4 to 5 yrs between siblings, so when you're having your third or last child, d older siblings will be a bit mature and less stress to you.

Akalia:
My heavy wife often gets frustrated with the energetic behavior of our son, I always talk her into understanding that our son is acting his age.
That frustrating mischief of your toddlers that you frown at is what other expectant couples are praying for. I always tell my wife that, she should be thankful that she is a proud mother of kids; energetic and curious ones at that .lol.

jaszplus12:
Talk to her well and prepare her for the teen years of the children, now they're cute and cuddly, then in their teens, its a different game! They're crazy, filled with foolhardiness and apparent disobedience to almost everything you say or do....you just have to understand them...care for them and not get vexed...it will pass and then you'll enjoy them!
Life's like that!

franchasofficia:
Adorable creatures

Sonnobax15:

Which kind agric fowl mentality be this?

Only one kid can cause more than enough havoc in the home....It doesn't mean it'll have to be plenty kids.....Tho I'm not and will never be in support of having plenty kids.....

meedoLock:
Happy weekend frnd
So, you are to holistically consider your mental state and imagine all the physical and mental stress having kids would make you go through. Most especially, women of this world.

I'm also expecting a first child, and I do feel for our mothers/women, they in most cases go through this children rough play torture alone, while men goes to the street of course to fend for their families.