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Double0h7:
Life is really working on eroding my ego and forcing humility down my throat. It’s a painful lesson, and an isolating process. I look forward to the person I become after I pass this class 😒

We're currently in the same class.

Chingyyy878:
Let’s have it so others can learn 🎤

1. Nobody owes u anything
2. Your life is 100% ur responsibility
3. You gats hustle make ur children no pass through the same struggle
4.. woman matter, dem no dey die put. Where u stop another man will continue

GreatVocalist:
We're currently in the same class.

Are you as stubborn as I am? My course is taking double the time because my ego is big. I just imagined 2+2=4. Now I’m forced to accept that 2+2 could = -4!

You could do, say, be all the right things but still get nothing for your efforts! I wonder what have they been teaching us all these years under one teacher or another if once we are out in the world nothing adds up. Living is not for the weak.

I don’t know if any of this even makes sense.

DonroxyII:
Never-Ever Be Emotional to Wicked People .... Make Life a Better Place by Not Falling into Stockholm Syndrome...

Bully The Bully, Kill The Killer, Manipulate The Manipulator, Destroy The Destroyer, Assassinate The Assassin, Abuse The Abusers,
Show Much Wickedness to Wicked People Until They Beg for Mercy then End Them ....

Respect to All Good People, They make the world of Humanities a better place to Behold

You are very right.one guy wickedly chop my 3k,i m going to steal his phone and sell it upto 8k.

Be patient with yourself..
Accept every stage you are in life with a positive mindset.
Pray and fast.
Know it's a bad time and not a bad life.

[quote author=IamtheTruth1 post=129635901]1. Nobody owes u anything
2. Your life is 100% ur responsibility
3. You gats hustle make ur children no pass through the same struggle
4.. woman matter, dem no dey die put. Where u stop another man will continue.
This number 4 hit me badly...

pansophist:
How deep Newton's third law goes, which says that ''for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction''. But it also didn't add that you also pay interest as well.

So for example, if you fear losing someone, you will end up losing yourself. If you lack the discipline to do what you have to do, you will end up paying the price of regret. If you refuse to change a bad habit, it will disgrace you and create a negative image of you in the eyes of people, etc.

So the above paragraph is the reaction of an action, but how does interest come into play? Well, you pay interest when you waste time doing the wrong thing.

So just as you lose yourself because you fear losing someone, the interest you paid in addition to the loss is a disgrace and ''had I known''. All the nonsense you did, the insult you took, and the money you wasted, when you could have just accepted from day one that this shit won't work.

Just as one lacks discipline, when you waste more time being undisciplined, life will pass you by, and you will go far on the road to hell, than on the road to grace. The reaction of indiscipline is that you are in hell, the paid interest is that it will take you a longer time to exit since you have built a habit around it.

And so on. So yes, just as there is an equal reaction to all our actions and habits, it also accrues interest, and the amount of interest you pay is proportional to the time you waste doing the wrong thing.

Oshey son of newton. Nice analysis.

Make physics teacher update the newtons law of motion so that students can learn.

DonroxyII:
Never-Ever Be Emotional to Wicked People .... Make Life a Better Place by Not Falling into Stockholm Syndrome...

Bully The Bully, Kill The Killer, Manipulate The Manipulator, Destroy The Destroyer, Assassinate The Assassin, Abuse The Abusers,
Show Much Wickedness to Wicked People Until They Beg for Mercy then End Them ....

Respect to All Good People, They make the world of Humanities a better place to Behold

Word🎯

Loyalty has an expiry date!!!!

..... treat people worse than they treat you and show no mercy.

IAmHim1:
Art of Manipulation by RB Sparkman
Beautiful insight into human psychology

Damn! Nairaland truly have smart peeps observing amidst all the cruise going on.

Bro you are well-read i must say. I've read the book in the past and there's a chapter where the author is being educated on borrowing friends money by a con man.

I think he said something along the line of my post.

I didn't even recalled what was said there. But what i posted was a result of series of bitter business dealings with my fellow nigerians. I think i need to go read that book again.

Thanks for reminding me.

Life has thought me that las las "Nothing dey this Life".

That many people we think are actually doing better than us are actually living in their worst state.

That You can't wait until life isn't hard anymore before. you decide to be happy.”(Nightbirde)"

That there 3 things you can do with your life... you can Waste it, Enjoy it or Invest it.

That truth is actually difficult to embrace...but it will shape us for the best.

That you are the only one that can love yourself unconditionally.

Your circles,relationship or environment most times can make or mar you

IAmHim1:
Lolzzz
Thank you

I not only observe but I try to teach people to see things differently in a positive way too

But all I'm met with is the strongest of criticism and resistance...like it's easy to fool someone THAN convince such a person that he/she has been fooled

From Religion/Spirituality to Finance/World Economy to Health

I wrote about the people that have impacted positively in my life in my post titled 'Immortality Through Alphabets'

Here's the link:https://www.nairaland.com/7930232/shortcut-life-immortality-through-alphabets

I was even planning to ask you for some recommendations but you beat me to it. Thanks for sharing.

As for other people,let the fools remain foolish. They shall pay the price of their foolishness.

1)

Time can be your enemy or your friend.

I dont want to sound nihilistic but life is generally random and meaningless.

the only thing wey sure pass for this life na death..

Dubetex96:
life has happened to me never to depend on anyone , I have learned to take charge of my life without minding the consequences. people will use you at their own will even your relatives doesn't give a Bleep about you.

infact as an adult you are alone in this world,

This is very true.

If you cannot rule yourself very well, others will rule you automatically.

> Be calculative, strategic -- sensitive. At your work place, know the past, present and future. This will help you dictate your moves.

> Be selective with picking friends. Talk to all, but have a lone wolf personality. This will help you have someone who has values higher than yours observe you, and get closer to you.

> Talk less. Be respectful. A man of few words attracts high caliber of men/women.

> Do not discriminate. Everyone is useful. The street urchins, whenever them salute you, drop small change. Dem be nice and loyal folks.

> No let people dey know your movements. If you have someone getting closer to you, you both could talk extensively for a week then go off for 2 to 3 weeks, then come back and do the talking just few days a week. Rinse and repeat. Respect is earned. The aura of closeness is still intact but boundaries is stamped.

> Know how to work/get along with humans who have ego/pride. Trust me when you know how to involve them without tempering their egos, they gonna love you, then you gonna see the humility part of them. We know Egositic humans are saucy, just smile when they first attack you on a first meet.
Smile and smile and smile whenever they attack you, in the end they just gonna fall in love with you. They will respect you more and even require your opinions on some private matters disturbing them.

> Do not compromise how you wanna live your life.

> In the end, we all die.

Humans thought they have control over their own lives but they're wrong.
We are pawns in the game of the almighty..
The freewill humans thought they have end up leading them to what the almighty originally have in stock for them..
Not all man will be rich.
Happiness and sadness are two sides of one coin that we keep shuffling between.

As a man, it's your duty to always tell your story. Cos If you don't, other people would tell it and it would be in a way that's bitter, brutal and lack any atom of your true reality.

You will be called lazy, crazy, incompetent and stupid, a man who's incapable of doing anything worthy.

To tell your story, you have to show the world your skills, abilities and values because people tend to believe only what they can see and if you don't show them the stuff you are made of, you will be treated like a nobody.