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Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by fightingdemons: 1:14pm On May 03 |
Saw this story on Facebook and I thought I would share it here Meet “Stephen Jackson”, The NBA Star Who Dumped His Fiancée At The Altar And Went To Party After She Refused To Sign Prenuptial Agreement 'In Case Of Divorce' Retired NBA star Stephen Jackson didn't go ahead with his marriage to his fiancée, Imani Showalter, after she refused to sign a pre-nuptial agreement. A prenuptial agreement, often abbreviated as "prenup," is a legal document that two people sign before getting married. Its purpose is to specify the division of assets and debts in the event of a divorce or separation. It can also address other issues such as spousal support and the rights of each partner during the marriage. The terms of a prenuptial agreement are agreed upon by both parties and can provide clarity and security for both individuals in the event of a potential divorce. Sharing his story sometime ago, Jackson said that while he was in love with Showalter and was looking forward to marrying her, he was never going to walk down the aisle without the contract. The basketball player revealed that the two had previously agreed that they would have a prenup and even understood what the terms of the contract are. However, when they received the document, she mischievously delayed signing it. “We get the prenup back at least 3-4 months before the wedding. This is all true y’all. I give it to her. When I give it to her, she shouldn’t be surprised by it because me and her sat down and agreed upon the prenup,” Jackson says. “A month passed, two months before the wedding, I’m like we need to get that prenup signed, so when we get down there to Houston, we ain’t gotta worry about it. I tell her that like two or three times.” Later Jackson says that Showalter had another issue. She was adamant about a particular pastor to officiate the ceremony. He explained later that when he told the clergy that he would not marry her if she didn’t sign the agreement, the pastor tried to manipulate him by telling him ‘let God handle it.” Jackson said that the pastor made it clear that he didn’t believe in prenuptial agreements. “God is telling me to put the pen in her hand and make her sign this godd*mn prenup,” Jackson said,” That’s what God tellin’ me. So God tellin’ you and me two different things.” Jackson and Showalter eventually never married. Instead, Jackson who dumped her at the altar says his friend, Stephon Marbury, DJ’ed an impromptu party where the first song he played was Kanye West’s “Gold Digger.” 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Cizarr(m): 3:41pm On May 03 |
Nice one |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Exceed15: 3:53pm On May 03 |
Smart man. Women thinks some men are fools. Even the pastor couldn't brainwash him. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by softRay(m): 4:00pm On May 03 |
Ok |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by advanceDNA: 5:43pm On May 03 |
never lose guard.... No let anyone manipulate you with love... . No gree for anybody Awon werey..... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by EreluRoz: 7:35pm On May 03 |
advanceDNA:It's your type that falls in love deeply |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Nonexisting1: 7:41pm On May 03 |
The gentleman made us all proud. He iced the cake by the going from alter to a party listening to the song "good digger". What a nigga. I'm impressed. 13 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by advanceDNA: 7:42pm On May 03 |
EreluRoz: Werey..!!!.What has falling deeply in love got to do with being stvpîd.....?? People that are stvpîd are just stvpîd or often have insecurity issues that make them want over-do for their partners because fear of not losing them .....it has nothing to do with love..... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by EreluRoz: 7:52pm On May 03 |
advanceDNA:love makes some people stupid 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Proserpina: 7:57pm On May 03 |
Yet he is the one shouting up and down telling the world what happened years ago. While the woman has moved on. Una no wise at all |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by ednut1(m): 8:17pm On May 03 |
https://www.hotnewhiphop.com/720765-stephen-jackson-prenup-wife-statement Married another woman without a pre nup. Hmmmm |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by advanceDNA: 8:19pm On May 03 |
EreluRoz: They were just stupid all along with insecurity issues.... |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Proserpina: 8:23pm On May 03 |
ednut1:See life I just know he no too get sense |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by FRANCISTOWN: 8:24pm On May 03 |
😂😂😂 . At that point where she refused to sign that papers. The guy was going to be like, "what's the heck is your usefulness that you think you are worth half my shit?" Once every rich dude out there can ask themselves what the usefulness of their patner is. They'd realize that 21st century women that are not relatives are completely useless to men. They are nothing useful 3 Likes |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by FRANCISTOWN: 8:33pm On May 03 |
ednut1: I guess you didn't read this part. She continued. "Would I have signed one? Yes, Therefore he knew a pre-nup wasn’t necessary with me. I made it TO, THROUGH and PASS the altar with him, strictly on LOVE so I could care less about anything from his past... , Stephen and I are happily married with no pre-nup, no child support obligations no strings attached, nothing just pure genuine LOVE ❤️... " Have you checked how much the woman, Tamara Jackson is worth? 1 Like |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by ednut1(m): 8:42pm On May 03 |
FRANCISTOWN:he has two children with the woman he didn’t do prenup with and 3 other children with other woman. As experienced as he is he is believing a woman’s assurance that has no legal backing when taken to court in event of a divorce. The joke is on you 🤣 1 Like |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by FRANCISTOWN: 8:53pm On May 03 |
ednut1: The killer move was that he was able to dump the useless thing at the altar. Na that one sweet me pass. 1 Like |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by ednut1(m): 8:56pm On May 03 |
FRANCISTOWN:useless but has 2 children with her And paying child support. Naso |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by FRANCISTOWN: 9:07pm On May 03 |
ednut1:Did he marry the useless thing? |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Gerrard59(m): 4:07am On May 04 |
ednut1: But why do a lot of men, especially black men, in North America engage in such anomalies? It is an irresponsible way to live unless one is stupendously wealthy. Having many children can lead to poverty. Having many children from different women one is NOT married leads to dysfunction and multidimensional privation. 1 Like |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by ednut1(m): 4:12am On May 04 |
Gerrard59:less than 30% of black men are responsible for the over 70% baby mama situation in the community. Men usually just want to nack but these women have an incentive to do it. Getting child support from 3 men is usually higher than getting child support from one man for 3 kids. Do the maths . The western cultures also don't care about irresponsibilities as long as it not a crime 😅. DMX had 17 children and was broke at the time of his death. The thing dey confuse me too. 2 Likes |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Gerrard59(m): 6:11am On May 04 |
ednut1: Tomorrow, they would get mad at Asian-Americans who excel in their various endeavours without addressing the root causes. 1 Like |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by AcadaWriter: 6:21am On May 04 |
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Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Gadafii: 7:29am On May 04 |
Brother wey wise, na only broke girls and gold diggers would be worried about prenup, well that culture is not popular here in Nigeria But we have these type of girls in excess here, broke entitled lazy girls who thinks man must be responsible for her as an adult because you two are dating, very sick mentality Two broke people are in a relationship but the girl is an understanding one... Una mind ni go touch ground ooo 😂😂😂😂 |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by ednut1(m): 3:48pm On May 04 |
Gerrard59:the baby mama rates in the Asian American communities ehn( Indian, Chinese, Japanese ) needs to be studied. So low |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by ObalendeCMS: 12:17am On May 05 |
Interesting! |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Gerrard59(m): 11:50am On May 05 |
ednut1: It is cultural. All cultures are not equal. Some cultures are more equal than others. Even in Nigeria, the same concept holds. A culture that condones wedlock would perform poorly than a culture that insists on children being raised by both parents. |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by killsmith(f): 2:57pm On May 05 |
Drizzle drizzle. |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by MrCork: 7:00pm On May 05 |
fightingdemons: |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by Obierika(m): 4:50pm On May 20 |
ednut1: DMX had 17 kids? |
Re: Gold Digger Alert:men Be Wise Before Dem Use Your Sense by LagosSuperStar: 8:38pm On May 20 |
advanceDNA: Anybody at all |
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