NowYouKnow:
🤣😂

I see what you did there. Why did you choose that gif of a couple arguing to describe married men?
Anyway to honestly answer your question, yes I sometimes envy single men.

But I will still advice you get married and join our club. Misery loves company.

Baba werey ni bobo yi... Lolzzz

Odidigboigbo:
What's the difference between marrying and dating a right partner? Apart from raising Children, there is nothing special in marriage

Marriage and children, two different things. Op hasn't spoken against raising children outside of marriage because one can still raise children without marrying.
Marriage is more than raising children. Marry the right person and you already got yourself a life partner. Even these children will leave you one day to go and start their own families. That tells you that marriage shouldn't be about popping and raising kids. It should primarily be about securing yourself a life partner

BigBashiru:


Your "wife" doesnt have your back. As soon as conditions no longer favor her she will leave

You don't know shit about me or my wife. Stick to what you know. Stick to your fucking world view without quoting me. Thank you.

okunwaye:

They are here

He never collect

Ameduedwin:
Before been a corper you must be a graduate, so before been married you must have passed through bachelor hold, so while envy what you have passed through?

My perspective too, exactly. But some married too early while some missed this flexing (due to shyness or holy holy) period. Those are the ones who can regret

Nezan:
Single men think they are balling until they discover that the girls they were balling with were community sluts. Nothing compares like sex with your partner, plus those beautiful bundles of joy that are your kids. Watching them grow and been responsible for shaping their lives makes you feel a complete alpha male.

N.B., Am not referring to these gen Z girls that don't believe in the sanctity of marriage

You are naïve. If only you knew your partners sexual history prior to getting married to you lol.

The so called "bundle of joy" are sinful human beings in need of redemption of Christ; so they are not a "beautiful bundle of joy" prior to acceptance of Jesus Christ as Lord and savior

God forbid, i don't

Marriage is not for everybody nau, so if you are matured to live a couple life, that is when you can go into it

VinnyBaba:


Lol,
Just find a Good Girl when Understand you and Accept you for Who you are.

And do what exactly? Be together and just Bleep? Have kids for him and discard her? Stay together for how long? Till they both reach 50? 60? Or 70 years? You guys are simply funny

VinnyBaba:


Truth is MANY married men do.

Especially when a Single Guy who is their Neighbour, Friend or Colleague is Having lots of Sexy Girlfriends and Babes as Girlfriend or Fucckmate.

They will now feel like 'So this my PREEK na for Only my Yeye Wife?'.

It all depends on the angle you want to look at it from, when it comes to freedom and time maybe married men can envy bachelors BUT when it comes to ladies & sexcapades Bachelors don't have the scores of casanova Married men

when it comes to societal views and respect bachelors gat nothing on married men.

freedom & time is what bachelors have

greypencils:
You don't know shit about me or my wife. Stick to what you know. Stick to your fucking world view without quoting me. Thank you.

I was not talking about you personally. Quoting you was a mistake.

Housing:
Those whose marriage is not more than 5years may envy because at that stage marriage do go through survival test but those with over a decade can never envy you but only pity your uninformed opinion.

As marriage shouldn't be rushed please reconsider your decision not to marry nor get child because you will not be fit forever.

Good marriage will change you for better, you will understands selflessness, sacrifice, compromise, self-respect, discipline, self restraint, empathy and leadership.

There are things that are now done by my children now that I which I had more of them.

Loneliness and depression do catch up with age.

But in all you do pray for God's guidance and favour.

Leave him, loneliness in old age is waiting for him in the future. Kids are not even the ones who will keep our company in old age because they too will have scattered in different directions pursuing their life goals and setting up their own families. Your wife, your husband is the only person that will be left with you if long life permits

The truth is if I had married any other woman apart from my best friend, I would have called it quits!!!

But with her there's no difference between me being married and being single coz we're still friends and she makes being her husband and father to her kids so so so easy and smooth!!

Bae, I will do this with you over and over and over again and again and again!!!

Lexusgs430:


Yes.......

25 years in a happily married union.........

Na lie.
You probably just got married recently...

DoWhatThouWilt:
Do they?

I love and enjoy my current state of bachelorhood and honestly I do not have the desire to get married now or in future because personally I have come to the realisation that men are living in a world today where there are too many impossible expectations to meet.

Recently, I have been noticing subtle hints of envy from my colleagues at work who are married just from the statements they make.

For example, they usually try to belittle me with statements like You're still a small boy, you don put woman for house? whenever we are having non heated argument over a topic that doesn't even concern marriage in anyway.

When it is their turn to work for some few hours on weekends they make statements like Men like us no suppose they do duty, na una (single men) suppose do am as if I don't have other affairs to attend to during the weekend.

So married men in the House, Do you people envy single men?

I am married. I don't envy them at all.

VinnyBaba:


Truth is MANY married men do.

Especially when a Single Guy who is their Neighbour, Friend or Colleague is Having lots of Sexy Girlfriends and Babes as Girlfriend or Fucckmate.

They will now feel like 'So this my PREEK na for Only my Yeye Wife?'.

u must be very young.theres no bachelor in Nigeria that enjoys more than a married man.except is a poor married man.women didn’t rush into my life as much as they did after I got married.go and do ur research,girls prefer married men,them no born any single guy well to follow me drag babe.

Ok

DoWhatThouWilt:
Do they?

I love and enjoy my current state of bachelorhood and honestly I do not have the desire to get married now or in future because personally I have come to the realisation that men are living in a world today where there are too many impossible expectations to meet.

I can tell you for a fact that those men are unhappy in their marriages.

They secretly envy you but they are living in denial.

How many of them can boldly bring their wives for Company end-of-the-year parties? None!!!

They don't want to be seen hand-in-hand with their wives.

When I use to do office work, the married man in my office was a coded Flirt and Sex Addict.

All he talks about is how to sleep with women outside his marriage with that his black ugly face.

Why would they envy bachelors❓


The side chicks married men regularly
enjoy are girlfriends to bachelors❗️❗️😁😁😁

Any married man that envy’s single guys is probably living in a loveless and hectic marriage. I’m a married man with a baby and I know the joy I get when my baby girl smiles at me. Marriage is a blessing if you marry the right person.

I have friends that now envy me because I’m married and a father while they are not. The truth is single guys hide under their insecurities to say they like being single. No one likes being single. It’s just that they can’t afford being married or have what it takes to be married. As a married man, I can drink alcohol, watch football, have sex as much as I want with my wife, and do the things I like. Tell me why I will envy a single guy? Taking responsibility over others, including your wife and kids, is what actually makes a man a man. A single guy is still a boy.

NB: If you don’t have money or you don’t have self control, you’re not yet ripe for marriage. Lack of money and infidelity are the main cause of quarrel in marriage.

Every married man has once been a bachelor and every bachelor has once been a boy, every boy has once been a child and every child has once been a boy . Every boy has once been a baby!
Unfortunately we live forward and not backwards!

So it's no envy ! You won't be the first or last bachelor neither are u going to remain bachelor for life!

Enjoy it while it last

DoWhatThouWilt:
Do they?

I love and enjoy my current state of bachelorhood and honestly I do not have the desire to get married now or in future because personally I have come to the realisation that men are living in a world today where there are too many impossible expectations to meet.

Recently, I have been noticing subtle hints of envy from my colleagues at work who are married just from the statements they make.

For example, they usually try to belittle me with statements like You're still a small boy, you don put woman for house? whenever we are having non heated argument over a topic that doesn't even concern marriage in anyway.

When it is their turn to work for some few hours on weekends they make statements like Men like us no suppose they do duty, na una (single men) suppose do am as if I don't have other affairs to attend to during the weekend.

So married men in the House, Do you people envy single men?

Am married but I didn't jealous any bachelor because you can't born my pikin and I can't born your pikin too.I was once a bachelor and flex lady's no be small it's high time I reproduce and I got married time wait for no one.




Marriage is sweet when you marry your best friend.

DoWhatThouWilt:
Do they?

I love and enjoy my current state of bachelorhood and honestly I do not have the desire to get married now or in future because personally I have come to the realisation that men are living in a world today where there are too many impossible expectations to meet.

Recently, I have been noticing subtle hints of envy from my colleagues at work who are married just from the statements they make.

For example, they usually try to belittle me with statements like You're still a small boy, you don put woman for house? whenever we are having non heated argument over a topic that doesn't even concern marriage in anyway.

When it is their turn to work for some few hours on weekends they make statements like Men like us no suppose they do duty, na una (single men) suppose do am as if I don't have other affairs to attend to during the weekend.

So married men in the House, Do you people envy single men?

Yes, unsuccessful married men do. Cos I don't know what to envy in singleness if you have money.

chatinent:
For what kwanu.

jus tire o, me wey dey down abit financially na wifey dey carry my asss o. no regret getting married my burden is evenly shared, she be my best pally we go clubbing, holidays, flexing together jus as we argue occasionally as friends do, i did not marry a wife i married a friend and a small mother

sacajawea:

Na lie.
You probably just got married recently...

Your reason for not believing me, is it because my marriage, is much older than the amount of years you spent in this world.......🤣😂🤔

I also asked you a question, you dodged it ....... I would ask you again....... Are you married??😂

When I'm actually the one that envies my friends that got married earlier.

Honestly, I don't used to envy them, but now that Tinubu economy came into power, I always envy them, because their responsibility is only for them only...

UNNGRADUATEEE:
you are more apt to be deceived by women. It's a pity that you are already married. Can't you divorce?

Well, ......

Princewill1:
Did you say 'few months back? It's too early to do a review of the marriage.

Come back to this post of yours in 7-10yrs time. You will be surprised that you posted this.

No human on earth is perfect, we all got our shortcomings. Even me sef my own dey my body.

If you're looking for that perfect partner before getting married you'll wait till thy kingdom come...... Marriage is all about tolerance, on a scale of 10 if she scores 7 you're good to go.

Some do and others don't.

Happy to be here ,am a new member

Well I don't know about others but here's what I have done this morning. My son woke me up around 5am as usual and I helped him with his potty training. After that,we went to the parlor to play until 6:30 and I fed him. We played a little more and then the mother breastfeed him and then he went back to sleep.

I'm at work now and the mother called me on video call and me and my son did our little thing on the call. Those few moments are the most peaceful part of my day. I don't get to worry about Tinubu or the economy or anything else. It's just pure happiness and joy.

So enjoy your bachelor time while I enjoy my marriage

VinnyBaba:


Lol,
Just find a Good Girl when Understand you and Accept you for Who you are.

I found her and married her but she changed and left me for the UK. Say something else.

Lexusgs430:

I also asked you a question, you dodged it ....... I would ask you again....... Are you married??😂

No I am not. Not looking to it.