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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by geoworldedu: 4:30am On May 11
Bliztzer:


The fool had said in his heart, there is no God. Don't be like those that think there is no God
The stupid writer has created a God to fill the gap and the multitude of fools have followed after the illogical story without thinking deep.
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by alphaNomega: 4:44am On May 11
Curious345:
Not new .

Driving uber will also make you fear Nigerian women . I advice men to avoid 9ja ladies when it comes to marriage . It's better you take in a Togo Cameroonian Ghana wife ..
because those ones don't cheat abi wetin?
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Bliztzer: 5:45am On May 11
geoworldedu:
The stupid writer has created a God to fill the gap and the multitude of fools have followed after the illogical story without thinking deep.

Just as they were able to brainwash you to think 'you re a coincident of nature. What a fallacy of unmitigated intelligence! If you have been deep into witchcraft before, you don't need to be told if there is or was a Being that made or created, a higher being. Every thing you see in nature are by design a creation of a creator. There is so much mystery in this world, that very few had been able to fathom.

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by yad2eidi: 5:50am On May 11
GeneralZodd:
Uber driving will make you also fear marriage.
when una carry people may una dey mind una business.
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by GeneralZodd(m): 6:09am On May 11
yad2eidi:
when una carry people may una dey mind una business.

We try to, but the distractions is just too much.
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by parags(m): 6:22am On May 11
Odebayo4010:
My Experience working in a Hotel as a receptionist Open my eye to unimaginable things. So Many things that will make you scared. Working in a hotel will turn you to something else. Avoid it if you can.

Things dey happen there, Especially married women what they're doing they maval, I done hear different sound track I swear, both from married woman and singles. You will see how dey slàughter people's serious girlfriends.

Working at a lodge will make you fear marriage self.

Chai omo I done day fear women like this, many things day happen ooh, imagine both married women ooh, omo if no be to get children I for no near woman say I won marry
Especially married women with small small boys. One of them like me and wanted me to be her boyfriend and I refuse, she was angry and stop coming to the hotel.. To marry go hard o.

I have once catch my neighbor wife but I forgot to snap her for evidence. Without an evidence, I decided to keep quiet . This man loves this lady dīe. Come see gift he will pack come back while coming for holiday from work

That's is why I always say cheating is not gender based to confirm, just go to any hotel or guest house to relax or watch ball, u will see many married women coming for short time, many even stay over night, have seen a Soo called men and women of God come to hotel to do short time.

Some times is good to go out especially to some places to see dat dere is nothing in this life and u will appreciate the fact that you need to love your self more than any other person.

For men dat carry dere wives for head, I love my wife I love my wife, you wife dey hotel to do short time with another man, make everyone get sense and trust nobody.
Continue later, I wanted to rest for now.

shortlet and airbnb na your mate? The rate people dey smash ehn. who dey use hotel or lodge to smash nowadays. You will see lovely estate, apartment wey dem dey use do slaughter where no one will hear any sound track yapa. besides if husband or friends see am in the estate , na to claim visiting friend.
The day i decided i will only work to trust only myself ehn, i stopped worrying about the decisions of any human being. I don't understand why anybody go carry another human being for any pedestal. Even wives and husbands. Just get mutual respect.

Sex is one of the cheapest things in this world . for anybody's wife to be bleeped is as easy as ABC. Know this and know peace

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by yad2eidi: 6:27am On May 11
GeneralZodd:


We try to, but the distractions is just too much.
una too dey like to bring up discussions. when I enter bolt I don't talk to the driver at all. the ones that actually stick to their jobs and mind their business always get a tip from me

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by PussyGalore(f): 6:42am On May 11
Bliztzer:


E no hard to spot a chronic unrepentant serial cheater like you. Ere wo ni aja ba ekun se?

How many kporun don lash you? Let me guess, you have lost count self.

You should know afterall you're my cheating partner
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by IamAsiri: 6:43am On May 11
Curious345:
Not new .

Driving uber will also make you fear Nigerian women . I advice men to avoid 9ja ladies when it comes to marriage . It's better you take in a Togo Cameroonian Ghana wife ..

Probably if you start driving Uber in Ghana too you will learn to fear women. You people denigrate women so much as if you were not given birth to by women. You praise your own mothers and wives offline while generalising the remaining women online.

Newsflash! It wasn't until when I registered on Nairaland that I started seeing "women this, women that" up and down. I have only seen a single case before, and it was with another married man. But if you want to talk about married men who cheated on their wives, my head will burst from such a list that people have even counted it as a normal thing quite unfortunately.

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by PussyGalore(f): 6:48am On May 11
GeneralPula:

See question wey normal human being dey ask for 2024..


Is it only sex that people go to the hotel to have?

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by PussyGalore(f): 6:51am On May 11
IamAsiri:


Probably if you start driving Uber in Ghana too you will learn to fear women. You people denigrate women so much as if you were not given birth to by women. You praise your own mothers and wives offline while generalising the remaining women online.

Newsflash! It wasn't until when I registered on Nairaland that I started seeing "women this, women that" up and down. I have only seen a single case before, and it was with another married man. But if you want to talk about married men who cheated on their wives, my head will burst from such a list that people have even counted it as a normal thing quite unfortunately.

It's mostly broke boys that start these threads angry

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by omojeesu(m): 7:05am On May 11
DonroxyII:
This is not True !
Many Players are Responsible Depending on Personality!

Dem dey play ball ooo Normal Normal Steady but Dem wife & Children no dey lack anything!

The "irresponsible" I am referring to is in the area of sexual immorality not family care and support!

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by geoworldedu: 7:16am On May 11
Bliztzer:


Just as they were able to brainwash you to think 'you re a coincident of nature. What a fallacy of unmitigated intelligence! If you have been deep into witchcraft before, you don't need to be told if there is or was a Being that made or created, a higher being. Every thing you see in nature are by design a creation of a creator. There is so much mystery in this world, that very few had been able to fathom.
I have never one day told you that I'm a coincidence of nature. You can check my past posts and revert. But I am not fooled into believing that a God written in a book of any religion created me. People like you were brainwashed to think so. For example, you assumed that Jehovah who doesn't even know the location of his scrotal sac created you all because some cavemen wrote him so grin
Muslims assume that Allah who doesn't even have energy to lift a pin created them. I laugh in Chinese grin
But me, having not seen any sufficient reason to believe that those nincompoops created me, has not assumed anyone of the 4000+ Gods as my creator and that's where your painment sourced from. Now going by the things you said, if anything that exists must be created, then what created your God? He will tell me that his God just happen to be a coincidence of supernature o grin
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by BigYash: 8:02am On May 11
freeborn02:


Many married women cheat on their husbands with other women. Stop talking like a mentally limited person
Cheat stfu.. Same way many men cheats on their wives with their fellow men..
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Eminent4u(m): 8:15am On May 11
Reach me on zero eight zero six two nine four nine one four one. I have a place at a village, before Keffi. I am also farming around that axis.
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Eminent4u(m): 8:17am On May 11
fadilaMaikiriki:
Please, who has a piece of land in Abuja where one can farm?




Please, can I plant something on it? I'm a female, but I just want to experiment on my own. I have some experiences on agricultural products farming.

Reach me on zero eight zero six two nine four nine one four one. I have a place at a village, before Keffi. I am also farming around that axis.
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 9:08am On May 11
ivolt:
Illogical submission.

If even just 1% of married women patronise hotel for illicit affairs,
major hotel owners will be dominating Nigeria's Forbes list.

Yet, majority of hotels struggle to breakeven and maintain their structures
despite the imaginary regular influx of married women.

Are there married women who engage in prostitution, yes, but that is the reality of life.
But the idea that an average married woman out there is somewhere selling herself at a hotel is ludicrous.

This is just like asking people to visit Igbobi Orthopaedic so they can fear traveling.
Yes, you will see enough badly broken bones. But that doesn't mean the average person
out there is treating one broken bone or the other. We all know a tiny minority of the people
find themselve in Igbobi.

This post isn't about absolving ALL married women of cheating/prostituting but to
invalidate pointless alarmist arguments.

Married women cheating is as old as marriage itself. We could forgive a child for
not knowing this but an adult shouldn't be surprised or alarmed.

@OP assuming all married women in Nigeria are chaste except your wife,
Will such stats make you happy and your home peaceful?

As long as a particular person's wife has not been found cheating/prostituting
what a random hotel worker reports should be irrelevant to their home.

Have you ever lived in a compound with rented apartments?

What op saw in the hotel is merely a representative fraction of what goes on elsewhere.

From what I've experienced in life, the average married woman will cheat with a man she regularly shares an alone space with: with the houseboy if Oga regularly travels, with a neighbor who works from home, with the gateman if there are times it would be just the two of them in the compound, with Oga's jobless brother who is currently living in the house with them, with the driver if there's regular chit-chat whenever they commute etc.

As a man, never ever believe your wife cannot cheat.

Protect her from regular interactions with men who might one day be available in her vulnerable moments.

Never leave her alone with a man in the house.
Be her best friend, discover her wild side (every woman born with a cli**ris is a potential tigress in bed), satisfy her in the bedroom and maintain emotional contact whenever you're away from her.

All these are on the assumption that the woman chose you and you married her a virgin.

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by onyioyeezah(f): 9:41am On May 11
So in the course of gathering your experience, you did not see promiscuous married men or people's serious boyfriends who patronized your facility? How convenient!

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by poweredcom(m): 10:04am On May 11
Rubyjade:
wink

stop being attaking nigerian men are much better den nigerian girls......
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by poweredcom(m): 10:04am On May 11
CheapHomes1:
what of nigerian men?


stop being attaking nigerian men are much better den nigerian girls......
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by SafePromotions: 10:09am On May 11
DonroxyII:
Bro, Do Your Best, Close Ya Eyes, Pray to God & Leave the Rest .... Na Only God You fit Trust No be "Human" ... Human can happen to Anbody Anytime Anywhere....

Trust is simply a Simping thing since Year 0 ...

Trust are Broken Easily even by factors that can be beyond the broker of Trust ...

Lol.

True


You're on point
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(m): 10:41am On May 11
Juoflife1:
The women went to the hotels with single guys abi? Your head is paining you sad

Why frown at me 🙄,was it what you are practicing?
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by CheapHomes1: 10:42am On May 11
poweredcom:



[b]stop being attaking [/b]nigerian men are much better den nigerian girls......

pls whats the meaning of the highlighted?

how are nigerian men much better than nigerian girls?
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by NEUDUDE: 11:36am On May 11
That year growing up i worked at one fancy hotel in Bode thomas i marveled the day when a very young looking beautiful married woman came to our hotel to knack her middle aged driver. I know cos i was the receptionist that attended to them those very long years ago.

That day i learnt that there was nothing like my wife or na only 5 percent of guys dey lucky to get my wife for this life grin

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Caleb15(m): 11:39am On May 11
fadilaMaikiriki:
Please, who has a piece of land in Abuja where one can farm?




Please, can I plant something on it? I'm a female, but I just want to experiment on my own. I have some experiences on agricultural products farming.


Thick Akamu Farm
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by ezebunafo(m): 11:44am On May 11
maasoap:

His neighbour is here on Nairaland? How will his neighbour know that he's referring to his own wife when he has numerous neighbours who are married?
see the statement below,that's how the neighbor who works far away from home but only comes back once in a while will know "
I have once catch my neighbor wife but I forgot to snap her for evidence. Without an evidence, I decided to keep quiet . This man loves this lady dīe. Come see gift he will pack come back while coming for holiday from work"
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Bliztzer: 12:08pm On May 11
geoworldedu:

I have never one day told you that I'm a coincidence of nature. You can check my past posts and revert. But I am not fooled into believing that a God written in a book of any religion created me. People like you were brainwashed to think so. For example, you assumed that Jehovah who doesn't even know the location of his scrotal sac created you all because some cavemen wrote him so grin
Muslims assume that Allah who doesn't even have energy to lift a pin created them. I laugh in Chinese grin
But me, having not seen any sufficient reason to believe that those nincompoops created me, has not assumed anyone of the 4000+ Gods as my creator and that's where your painment sourced from. Now going by the things you said, if anything that exists must be created, then what created your God? He will tell me that his God just happen to be a coincidence of supernature o grin

We are in a time and era when scoffers will get bolder and bolder thinking they are right. You will one dat wake up to this rude reality of a supreme being whose power and sovereignty no one can resist. At this point and time, I bid you farewell. We shall meet again on this same issue.
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Bliztzer: 12:10pm On May 11
cool
PussyGalore:


You should know afterall you're my cheating partner

shocked cry
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Airlord2030: 12:14pm On May 11
Curious345:
Na lie
na true
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by drmuchin: 12:26pm On May 11
PussyGalore:
So what if you saw your neighbour's wife at the hotel.

Did you catch her with another man on top of her?

See dem
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by fadilaMaikiriki: 12:32pm On May 11
Eminent4u:


Reach me on zero eight zero six two nine four nine one four one. I have a place at a village, before Keffi. I am also farming around that axis.
Thanks. I would have preferred somewhere within or around Abuja though. Because of distance from my place to the farm.
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by ThunderFireAgba: 1:16pm On May 11
humberjade:
Well, I hope that isn't your photo, because if it is, you might actually lose your job sooner or later. You didn't have to expose yourself this way after the exposè, be guided, except you are tired of the job and your safety. Left to me, you do not deserve that job, people make use of hotel and guest houses to be discreet, not an ameebo poking nose into their business. Do your job, get paid, and go home, but if you want to go the moral way, find a job in the church. Leave adulterers and fornicators to their conscience.
That's black man and their life of hypocrisy.

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