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Nonexisting1:
You think that Home Office would just wake up one day and terminate his dependency without the wife's consent. She must have informed them she was no longer interested in having him as dependent which was why they sent him that letter. She has moved on behind the nigga's back so no need telling him about divorce unless the man has slow brain to understand the handwriting on the wall. The children are still in here and she has dumped the man over there, what does it tell you? Next thing now is to arrange to steal her kids from here and that's if she is interested in them. The new man probably has been in that UK before them and was working with her all through the visa process while her mugu husband made the money available. I don't fear your gender, I simply avoid getting entangled with you people. I'll rather get married to a tree than marry a Nigerian girl.

Anunakeeh:
You tried but let me school you more.

POC, Women use to date downwards until men shot themselves in the legs. Initially men with little resources use to marry finest of the finest of women and everything was fine afterall because the women were kept in check. Not until top men loosened the womens chain and keep feeding and fueling their hypergamous nature!

Men were the ones who killed themselves in the dating world and put a final nail to their own coffin thinking they are spiting their fellow men

Make una keep on buying buildings, luxury cars, bone straight and crediting their bank accounts with N100 Million and more just because of kpekus and for just being a woman. While on the other hand you guys keep using majority of your fellow men as Slaves in factories and all sectors. Make una continue una hear. Your gender will soon go extinct

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

gabbytabby:
Oftentimes the part that is left out is where he can’t hold down a job because of lack of work ethics or they are beneath him so she is carrying the load and he wants her to hand over her salary to him.

On top he is down and depressed and camping elsewhere.

I come in peace oh.

bukatyne:
If you were curious enough, you would have realized that I neither do gender wars nor join victimhood FC.

By the way, if you avoid conversations with women, who do you converse with? Ghosts?

Starzo:
■ I know out of the 3000 posts, you'll pick the only one related to Christianity to react too You're mentally tortured and demented You need serious help

W0t0w0toman:
Another smelly simp has spoken

Kobojunkie:
This from one who is himself mentally tortured by my break to respond to comments as I see fit ....😂😂😂😂😂😂

kushme:
The result of; I love my wife and I can do anything for her placed him in this condition. Reason I quoted your words on "diluting common sense with wokeness". That's the issue.

Even sending your biological kids to school in order to depend on them some day is risky,too. I believe, we send our kids to school so that they can depend on and be useful
to themselves as individuals in the future.

Starzo:
■ This is not even funny....you need serious help

idahme:
Men should know that women are hypergamous aka gold diggers if you put yourself in a position where a woman's status is higher than yours your relationship is practically over. They look up to another person whose social stats is more than theirs, this is the way majority of women think. Don't be the fool to be scammed this way, always develop yourself to an extent where the woman always sees you as her hypergamous entity that will come and rescue her out of her misery else she will leave you alone.

Don't you ever sponsor a lady to be the dependent, go your journey and establish yourself before thinking of how to bring family over if you can stand the risk ...

Jeon:
She did well, she didn't want to be harm like those women that passed away in their abusive relationships Just because they were the breadwinners and earning high than the men.


And I advise her to move far away from you or your friend .

W0t0w0toman:
Another one bites the dust...

The man na useless simp.

Death to all SIMPS..

Invest in a woman who is not loyal to you at your own risk....

Yamayama scatter the useless simp's smelly bald head

Kingson28:
It was his own mother’s property that was sold to fund her travel and or Master’s program.
And the best way to repay him is for her to dump him and move far away from him?
The version of the devil living in you is strange and scarce.

Ogbuu101:
It is not nature.
It's the hunger in Africa

franchasofficia:
Western countries are no longer an ideal human habitat. They have distorted natural orders in their quest to make everything equal and to grant absolute freedom to all, which was not how nature built the world.


You can see this in how the West have endorsed men changing their gender to female or female changing their gender to male. You can also see how they have started the process or erasing gender identity so that humans will become genderless. These are artificial distortion introduced by extreme civilisation being practiced by the west and championed by the United State of America. They are not the ideal situations of life as built by nature.


The increased rate of divorce in the west and the gradual dislike for marriage and preference for gay practice and single motherhood known as babymama are all artificially induced by the West in a desperate effort to make things equal and flat which encourages more women to divorce their rich husbands in order to get more benefits and enjoy a single life away from any man's control. If the west didn't enact such bias divorce law in a bid to protect women, women wouldn't have ended up abusing it and in the process discourage younger male generation from getting married

Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and M.O of insults na? You people say you are logical, is it not logical to communicate with clarity, so you don't leave people scratching their heads or wondering what you are going on about, like the original post?

If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense. I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity thrives as against excellence.

Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and M.O of insults na? You people say you are logical, is it not logical to communicate with clarity, so you don't leave people scratching their heads or wondering what you are going on about, like the original post?

If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense. I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity thrives as against excellence.

Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and M.O of insults na? You people say you are logical, is it not logical to communicate with clarity, so you don't leave people scratching their heads or wondering what you are going on about, like the original post?

If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense. I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity thrives as against excellence.

superlanny:
Una go dey use una wahala dey disturb us, when the good was going was I there, when una dey nack with raw passion was I there, when the love was the sweetest thing in the world was I there. Now e don cast you dey cry come disturb my peace, will you getaway and face your wahala.

So many stupid people out there

Jeon:
She did well, she didn't want to be harm like those women that passed away in their abusive relationships Just because they were the breadwinners and earning high than the men.


And I advise her to move far away from you or your friend .

Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and M.O of insults na? You people say you are logical, is it not logical to communicate with clarity, so you don't leave people scratching their heads or wondering what you are going on about, like the original post?

If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense. I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity thrives as against excellence.

Ogbuu101:
It is not nature.
It's the hunger in Africa

Biglittlelois:
Same old story, quick to post the part that shows he's a victim, but deliberately refuse to tell us what led to it.

Mom007:
How is that a sign of good treatment? That is what 70% of folks that travelled using study route did. The wife schools and works just 20hr a week but the husband, who is dependent is open to work as many hours as possible. The same thing that worked for others, why is his own different? Stupid and incomplete story. As if you Nigerian men don't know how wicked and toxic you are. You also don't know when and where to stop. Carry your bad behaviour to UK where to divorce is easier than to cook a pot of soup. And all you birds of his feather are here bashing the woman without hearing her side. Like say Osinachi did not die now, the world would not have known that she was in an abusive marriage with a beast that eventually beat her to death.

HajiaNotu:
Let them " feast" on the incomplete story to massage their ego...They need it sometimes..

I want to believe that No sane lady will do that to the hubby considering the sacrifice (s) he made...Are Nigerian ladies that bad OR It's the Media painting us bad?