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DonroxyII:
Is this not One hell of a Sense...

People would say Nairalander no get sense ... See Sense Everywhere !

DonroxyII:
Is this not One hell of a Sense...

People would say Nairalander no get sense ... See Sense Everywhere !

Coolmagy:
Guys are really going through a lot, it's rear to see guys coming out like this to speak out. But man no dey help man. Women usually stand a better chance of getting help from man than there fellow man. Very very sad.

franchasofficia:
This story is touching. Unfortunately one person alone who isn't a billionaire yet and not even a government official cannot make a visible change.

Seu.n please how can you pull willing Nairalanders together to assist some focused, willing, sincere and dedicated Nairalanders with a Nairaland skill acquisition and business training with some startup capital or tools at the end of the training? I am willing to be a part of it, unfortunately I am not a billionaire yet to embark on this journey alone, so we need a crowdfunding or joint committee of volunteers to do this, I am in.

Se.un Os.ewa lead this, open a thread for it and call for volunteers and put the thread on front page everyday for 30 days let's get this started because APC government have shattered hope for most Nigerian youths, it's sad. We need to play our own part as willing individuals and help the few we can and also encourage more volunteers to come on board to pull more youths out of this situation.

Sighs

Blessedpalms:
These fears are more than real the moment you hit 33. I looked in my mirror and saw my beards, becoming everything I feared.
I have never felt so lonely in a world filled with 7 billon humans. Too much worries

Maybe I should have took that risk, maybe I should have learnt something instead of just focusing on academics. I keep thinking about everything I could have done earlier. Maybe I should have started this 5 years ago at 28. Maybe I should have started that 7 years ago when I was 26.
But it's unfortunate those years are in the past now.

It's my fault, I was optimistic and thought things were going to be better. Government employment, good salary. I'll have a good career and my own family. Maybe a wife and 2 kids.
I just laughed at myself now,
This clown got No kids, no business
maybe that's even a blessing in disguise because how do I feed them?
I have always been afraid not being able to be there for people around me talk less of my kids. These fears are real because I can't even be there for myself.


I am not the type that blames anyone. I feel like life has a way of telling you optimism is weakness and a lie.
Don't get me wrong, Life is kind to many others
And this is where temptations comes, you start to see society and crime from a different perspective.
No one is free from this kinds of temptations

No one is free from this kinds of temptations.
This is why I find it hard to blame call girls and women in clubs acting a stripper. You don't know the kind of struggles that push people to where they are. I have grown and learnt not to make mockery of anyone. Some of them aren't even 33 yet. Alot of things tempt people to Fall. Many people with no real jobs.

Appprehsive about what to eat, appprehsive about health, Appprehsive about neighborhood asking for any fee, apprehensive about Rent, Appprehsive about aged parents. I don't know what tomorrow holds. You tell people to teach you things, they tell you, you're too old.

I am at a point where I am trying not fall. It's emotionally shattering. NO job, no real solid financial backing. It feels like only you in the world. you have to fight and figure it all out.
You think, Plan, write but see, it all feels like a meaningless scribble.

If you you are still 25 or 26 now is the time to do something. Just do something, forget about optimism. Optimism is deceptive.
Do everything not to stumble and fall in the future. Don't be bothered about what people think about what you do. You'll only be respected if you are able to care for yourself and people around you.

Gerrard59:
It is funny how miscreants who and/or whose parents campaigned and voted for Buhari in 2015 are stunned that things have worsened over time. What were you lots expecting?! Fast-growing economy? You people ganged up against a president whose tenure witnessed unprecedented GDP growth rates, a ruthless onslaught against Boko Haram (a political invention anyway) and a diversifying economy. No!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Una say you wanted to phight kwarruption, so you voted a feudalist who was grossly incompetent!

Buhari’s antecedents date to 1984 when some of you were either zygotes, babies or una mama and papa were chanting to themselves I love you, oya talk ya own. After witnessing the terrible policies the disgruntled cattle rearer implemented, you lots conspired to vote him again in 2015 because he would handle cecurity, while the reticent pastor would handle the heconomi. How the matter don go?

This is a man who had 150 cows year in, year out! Buhari’s cows defied the basic laws of economics and biology! None of you people bothered to ask why. A man who proclaimed that he would advance the implementation of Sharia across the entire country. Una say he was the best thing since sliced bread. In 2016/7, there were countless threads on Nairaland by Nigerians who ventured into agriculture as a result of the policies of GEJ and his Agric Minister. People were investing into large-scale poultry, cassava, corn, soybeans etc., plantations. This incompetent feudalist empowered his marauding brothers to wreak havoc across farmlands waylaying people, burning farms and destroying investments worth millions! You lots still voted for him 2019 (not like an erstwhile dictator would have lost an election anyway). Ever since then, una don see anybody comot millions talk say him or her wan invest in kini kon large agricultural farm land? Everybody don run go yukay to clean oyibo yansh! Even Rotimi Williams, the then second biggest rice farmer in the country, fled to Senegal: https://www.nairaland.com/7723312/nigerian-kidnap-gangs-drive-big-time

Even those currently farming, can you enter your farms at peace?

Prior to Buhari’s ascendancy, hookup were not rife nor was yahoo yahoo. But today? The rate of hookup has ballooned while that of yahoo yahoo has swelled. Una no go ask questions to know why certain practices became so common. Why won’t they since children became orphans as a result of incessant killings across the country or parents wrecked financially as a result of continuous kidnapping of their children. Parents of kidnapped children in Kaduna in a year and few months paid ransoms of over 500 million naira. Nigerians across the North Central were butchered like suya! Una keep quiet.

Today, e don red and you bastards are lamenting of failed heconomi and lost years! Foolish people! Una never see anything! This is just the preamble!



Total nonsense! Why should you, an Igbo man, proffer solutions to miscreants who voted for a man who called your region a dot and promised to repeat the lessons your ancestors learnt over 50 years ago? When you folks were flogged like babies in Lagos during the 2023 elections, did any of the miscreants lamenting offer to assist you and heal your wounds? So, why cry more than the bereaved?

This Christianity of a religion don make Igbos not to understand that there are certain people you don’t forgive or forget what they did to you. A Buharist would always harbour hatred towards you as an Igbo man even if you offer your assets to him or her. These people loathe you so dearly and were actually shining their rotten teeth when young Igbo men were forced to drink mud water. Have you helped those men before these miscreants who campaigned and voted for Buhari in 2015?!

Gerrard59:
It is funny how miscreants who and/or whose parents campaigned and voted for Buhari in 2015 are stunned that things have worsened over time. What were you lots expecting?! Fast-growing economy? You people ganged up against a president whose tenure witnessed unprecedented GDP growth rates, a ruthless onslaught against Boko Haram (a political invention anyway) and a diversifying economy. No!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Una say you wanted to phight kwarruption, so you voted a feudalist who was grossly incompetent!

Buhari’s antecedents date to 1984 when some of you were either zygotes, babies or una mama and papa were chanting to themselves I love you, oya talk ya own. After witnessing the terrible policies the disgruntled cattle rearer implemented, you lots conspired to vote him again in 2015 because he would handle cecurity, while the reticent pastor would handle the heconomi. How the matter don go?

This is a man who had 150 cows year in, year out! Buhari’s cows defied the basic laws of economics and biology! None of you people bothered to ask why. A man who proclaimed that he would advance the implementation of Sharia across the entire country. Una say he was the best thing since sliced bread. In 2016/7, there were countless threads on Nairaland by Nigerians who ventured into agriculture as a result of the policies of GEJ and his Agric Minister. People were investing into large-scale poultry, cassava, corn, soybeans etc., plantations. This incompetent feudalist empowered his marauding brothers to wreak havoc across farmlands waylaying people, burning farms and destroying investments worth millions! You lots still voted for him 2019 (not like an erstwhile dictator would have lost an election anyway). Ever since then, una don see anybody comot millions talk say him or her wan invest in kini kon large agricultural farm land? Everybody don run go yukay to clean oyibo yansh! Even Rotimi Williams, the then second biggest rice farmer in the country, fled to Senegal: https://www.nairaland.com/7723312/nigerian-kidnap-gangs-drive-big-time

Even those currently farming, can you enter your farms at peace?

Prior to Buhari’s ascendancy, hookup were not rife nor was yahoo yahoo. But today? The rate of hookup has ballooned while that of yahoo yahoo has swelled. Una no go ask questions to know why certain practices became so common. Why won’t they since children became orphans as a result of incessant killings across the country or parents wrecked financially as a result of continuous kidnapping of their children. Parents of kidnapped children in Kaduna in a year and few months paid ransoms of over 500 million naira. Nigerians across the North Central were butchered like suya! Una keep quiet.

Today, e don red and you bastards are lamenting of failed heconomi and lost years! Foolish people! Una never see anything! This is just the preamble!



Total nonsense! Why should you, an Igbo man, proffer solutions to miscreants who voted for a man who called your region a dot and promised to repeat the lessons your ancestors learnt over 50 years ago? When you folks were flogged like babies in Lagos during the 2023 elections, did any of the miscreants lamenting offer to assist you and heal your wounds? So, why cry more than the bereaved?

This Christianity of a religion don make Igbos not to understand that there are certain people you don’t forgive or forget what they did to you. A Buharist would always harbour hatred towards you as an Igbo man even if you offer your assets to him or her. These people loathe you so dearly and were actually shining their rotten teeth when young Igbo men were forced to drink mud water. Have you helped those men before these miscreants who campaigned and voted for Buhari in 2015?!

Blessedpalms:
These fears are more than real the moment you hit 33. I looked in my mirror and saw my beards, becoming everything I feared.
I have never felt so lonely in a world filled with 7 billon humans. Too much worries

Maybe I should have took that risk, maybe I should have learnt something instead of just focusing on academics. I keep thinking about everything I could have done earlier. Maybe I should have started this 5 years ago at 28. Maybe I should have started that 7 years ago when I was 26.
But it's unfortunate those years are in the past now.

It's my fault, I was optimistic and thought things were going to be better. Government employment, good salary. I'll have a good career and my own family. Maybe a wife and 2 kids.
I just laughed at myself now,
This clown got No kids, no business
maybe that's even a blessing in disguise because how do I feed them?
I have always been afraid not being able to be there for people around me talk less of my kids. These fears are real because I can't even be there for myself.


I am not the type that blames anyone. I feel like life has a way of telling you optimism is weakness and a lie.
Don't get me wrong, Life is kind to many others
And this is where temptations comes, you start to see society and crime from a different perspective.
No one is free from this kinds of temptations

No one is free from this kinds of temptations.
This is why I find it hard to blame call girls and women in clubs acting a stripper. You don't know the kind of struggles that push people to where they are. I have grown and learnt not to make mockery of anyone. Some of them aren't even 33 yet. Alot of things tempt people to Fall. Many people with no real jobs.

Appprehsive about what to eat, appprehsive about health, Appprehsive about neighborhood asking for any fee, apprehensive about Rent, Appprehsive about aged parents. I don't know what tomorrow holds. You tell people to teach you things, they tell you, you're too old.

I am at a point where I am trying not fall. It's emotionally shattering. NO job, no real solid financial backing. It feels like only you in the world. you have to fight and figure it all out.
You think, Plan, write but see, it all feels like a meaningless scribble.

If you you are still 25 or 26 now is the time to do something. Just do something, forget about optimism. Optimism is deceptive.
Do everything not to stumble and fall in the future. Don't be bothered about what people think about what you do. You'll only be respected if you are able to care for yourself and people around you.

okoroemeka:
say about your own woman the greatest motivator that is pushing me beyond targets and what I even thought is impossible is my wife

Blessedpalms:
These fears are more than real the moment you hit 33. I looked in my mirror and saw my beards, becoming everything I feared.
I have never felt so lonely in a world filled with 7 billon humans. Too much worries

Maybe I should have took that risk, maybe I should have learnt something instead of just focusing on academics. I keep thinking about everything I could have done earlier. Maybe I should have started this 5 years ago at 28. Maybe I should have started that 7 years ago when I was 26.
But it's unfortunate those years are in the past now.

It's my fault, I was optimistic and thought things were going to be better. Government employment, good salary. I'll have a good career and my own family. Maybe a wife and 2 kids.
I just laughed at myself now,
This clown got No kids, no business
maybe that's even a blessing in disguise because how do I feed them?
I have always been afraid not being able to be there for people around me talk less of my kids. These fears are real because I can't even be there for myself.


I am not the type that blames anyone. I feel like life has a way of telling you optimism is weakness and a lie.
Don't get me wrong, Life is kind to many others
And this is where temptations comes, you start to see society and crime from a different perspective.
No one is free from this kinds of temptations

No one is free from this kinds of temptations.
This is why I find it hard to blame call girls and women in clubs acting a stripper. You don't know the kind of struggles that push people to where they are. I have grown and learnt not to make mockery of anyone. Some of them aren't even 33 yet. Alot of things tempt people to Fall. Many people with no real jobs.

Appprehsive about what to eat, appprehsive about health, Appprehsive about neighborhood asking for any fee, apprehensive about Rent, Appprehsive about aged parents. I don't know what tomorrow holds. You tell people to teach you things, they tell you, you're too old.

I am at a point where I am trying not fall. It's emotionally shattering. NO job, no real solid financial backing. It feels like only you in the world. you have to fight and figure it all out.
You think, Plan, write but see, it all feels like a meaningless scribble.

If you you are still 25 or 26 now is the time to do something. Just do something, forget about optimism. Optimism is deceptive.
Do everything not to stumble and fall in the future. Don't be bothered about what people think about what you do. You'll only be respected if you are able to care for yourself and people around you.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

folake4u:
Jesus!!!!!!!!!!!!

Omgggggg Acid. I'm so sorry to hear that.

I will call you later.

GloriousGbola:
I'm sorry for your loss.

emmaodet:
Acidiosis, sorry bro.
I am really sorry for hearing this.
Sorry for your loss
Chaii...2 kids with you now to cater for.
May God guide you on how to proceed from here on...Amen

qtguru:
Damn sorry sir this hurts deeply.

Eunoiaa:
I'm so so sorry Acid. My condolences.

Acidosis:
My dear, thank you so much. That meant a lot.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

Acidosis:
Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.