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kestolove95:
Mumu just like all nairaland men, if na Dia fellow man beg dem now na story dem go give am

GreatOchuks:
No too blame us , plenty Scammers don use many format tire for this platform, we no know who be real again....

kestolove95:
Mumu just like all nairaland men, if na Dia fellow man beg dem now na story dem go give am

Double0h7:
I had a lot of respect for you until I noticed your bias. You never could call out male destruction and discrimination because you want to be king of the boys. Why did op choose iPhone nonexistent?

Why didn’t op just say he couldn’t do it?

He wanted to make some point and the girl didn’t bite because she could do better!

She was/is hot cakes and her mates are offered the latest version of iPhones but he wanted to feel special and to bring her down a few notches; that’s why he is frustrated: otherwise he should be happy since he didn’t spend much; yet he’s frustrated!

And since she refused; he is vex .

Princeton92:
Not all, not me!!!

advanceDNA:
Demand?? I don't get .....why do y'all pretend like u don't have hormones and never want to fvck in the first place?? U women pretend too much and it's quite irritating...

If u want to remain a virgin stay ur house and stay out of relationships.... no one is making anyone do what they dont want to do...

Double0h7:
Maybe she’s blessed with innumerable potential partners and she has the luxury to shit test those who are below her standards.

That sounds like something you have no idea of so carry on being kind and understanding and we’ll see where that gets you because you seem to misunderstand your components.

These men judge you by your waste, *****, and your lips but you think judging them by their pockets is wrong! Continue pickmesha!

lilyheaven:
Yeah,we all have hormones.
But men are outspoken, they ask for it direct, they don’t pretend.

Double0h7:
I had a lot of respect for you until I noticed your bias. You never could call out male destruction and discrimination because you want to be king of the boys. Why did op choose iPhone nonexistent?

Why didn’t op just say he couldn’t do it?

He wanted to make some point and the girl didn’t bite because she could do better!

She was/is hot cakes and her mates are offered the latest version of iPhones but he wanted to feel special and to bring her down a few notches; that’s why he is frustrated: otherwise he should be happy since he didn’t spend much; yet he’s frustrated!

And since she refused; he is vex .

babtoundey:
Some women and their entitlement mentality. One here.. we were still at talking stage. We've been talking and interest was building at both ends. Then, God revealed her true colour to me in a miraculous way. Her on the day of her birthday, i sent her an early morning birthday wishes and she responded with her account number and I'm expecting my birthday gift right now.

I ghosted her straight. No be you go tell me wetin i go do.

Tchinaidi:
But on a serious note a vast majority of Naija men are just simps..you let a girl online and na phone straight..wtf

Gerrard59:
I understand you both were in talking stage, but I am very wary of sending birthday felicitations to girls back home. In fact, I don't comment or like any post. I just view and pass.

Karleb:
This is funny.

NairaOcean:
A Nigerian man has taken to social media to vent his frustration after a woman he met online rejected an iPhone SE he bought for her, demanding the latest iPhone model instead.

The man, who met the woman on a popular dating app. Their connection seemed promising, and within a few days of chatting, the woman mentioned that her phone was faulty. Eager to show his affection and commitment, the man decided to buy her a new phone.
Which one did her father bought for her? This gender and entitlement mentality.

Spending approximately $400, he purchased an iPhone SE, believing it to be a thoughtful and generous gift. However, when he presented the phone to her, the reaction was far from what he expected. The woman rejected the gift, questioning why he didn't buy her the latest iPhone model instead.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3qC31mJ5Fg

sisisioge:


E fo just buy Samsung instead of that nau

pansophist:
Nigerian girls, especially the southern ones that generally bill for a living. They have also built a philosophy around it, and have biblical verses, cultural norms, traditional examples to back it up.

But they also forgot that in that case, a girl should be virgin before getting married. That men being a provider also means to provide proportionately, based on his financial power, not based on her greed and dictations.

Most blue-collar workers can take care of a woman if she is not greedy. Any man that can provide a woman is shelter, food, security, and hope, is a good man.

But how modern women understand being a provider man is a man that can accomodate her greed and vanity. In other non-southern states, lots of men get married and with their wives, make something out of life.

Naija passport really forked you guys up lol, lots of wonderful countries out there to meet normal women who havent been corrupted by greed, materialism, and actually see men as humans to builw with, not an ATM machine.

The only way to win with such mindset is not to play. Let the women turn to lesbo and marry themselves. Nonsense.

pansophist:
If you look at this objectively, then you'll find many faults in her behavior. But if you step into her reality and look at it relatively, you can understand why she acted like that.

The root cause of ungratefulness and entitlement are the same, and it's when one is used to getting something they didn't work for. They just get it just for existing.

And that's female reality at their prime. To the man, he did well for her, but to her, other men has beaten his record. He probably didn't know that he is competing with other simps in her rotational list of embezzlement.

EponObi:
High grade simp. You wan attract lady's attention, you dey spend on iphone. The dude self no get shame coming to the internet to say this.

He's one of those guys with zero game, that bank on money and gifts to attract ladies. All he has is the money and what happens when it fails him, he resort to anger, frustration and disappointment. Na people like this their wife show shege in marriage.

Guys making money is your top most priority, but NEVER condition yourself to use gifts and money to attract women. That's a game for losers. You can be rich and still have game.

Guys will enable all kinds of nasty and childish behaviors and thinking processes our women have today and still complain about it. Mtchew

If na one of his guys ask for $400 loan to advance his career or business, people like this decline. What men don't understand is that uplifting men like themselves is for the betterment of the society. Men are natural providers. If men get money, some before even thinking of themselves think about their parents children, wife/gf. But women will tell you "my money is my own and my husband money is our own." The more men are uplifted in a society, the more wealth is redistributed. Our celebrities who would rather wire a lady on stage than a guy are enablers too.

Men, abeg try to dey reason your guys too.

Harrynight:
Thank you


Everybody be calling out the guy for buying a lady phone
No one is even questioning him for buying a Lady iPhone that was invoked 8yrs ago in 2024.

To even say he bought it $400 shocked me the most.

NEW iPhone SE in 2024?

Samsung or other Android phone would've been more better

Gerrard59:
But they keep denying it and blaming the girls for everything. When one says men are the cause of these imbalances, they complain.

https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women

Double0h7:
These men judge you by your waste, *****, and your lips but you think judging them by their pockets is wrong! Continue pickmesha!

kestolove95:
cause if I ask u for ordinary 5k now u will not give but make na Jessica.. Shap Shap u go double am..