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Exceed15:
If you are planning to marry one I beg you now to leave her. Her mother's venom is inside her. U go hear am Later.. I don warn u

essentialone:
What is your experience with ladies who were raised up by single mother?

Toxic
Time Bomb
Highly Irritant and Irritable

essentialone:
What is your experience with ladies who were raised up by single mother?

Toxic
Time Bomb
Highly Irritant and Irritable

rockyh:
A large percent of them are prostitute even in marriage

signature2012:
It's 2023 for Godsake.
You guys should stop this stereotype.
Many of us any had a single parents in our life and we become the best of best in the society while those with both parents upbringing can't stand where we stand.

Fyi, it's still the same men that made these mothers single.

I was on IG few weeks ago, a video on Reels pop up on my page.This lady was crying bitterly and cursing the kidnappers that kidnapped her husband, got ransom money and still killed him.
She just gave birth to Twins.
I can bet the kidnappers are male like the Op.
From the video, this lady make not get married again and focus on the kids.

Though, I won't lie. Fathers play a significant role in a child growth, but when he is not there, won't the child still grow?

As a male, I have few friends who are deadbeats around me.I do fight them a lot from playing their fatherly role.You Dont have to be with the mother of your kids to play your part.

I know of one or two old men begging their kids now for forgiveness because they were not there when the kids needed them.

DEAR MEN, STOP BEING A DEADBEAT!!!!
And to the ladies, be careful out there, Dont let some little money he spent on your open your leg and assume he is responsible.Also, trying to have good character helps build a good relationship with your man.

essentialone:
"Ladies First", na the language of guy, wey want to survey nyash.

lavylilly:
Were you raised by a single parent?

essentialone:
Nope. But I know you were. So gist us about it.

eazzzy1:
Ambitious, strong and independent. They grew up seeing their mom’s strength and the need to not rely on anyone.

oluwaseyi0:
First thing that come to my mind is a non-available and run away father

Those single mother are trying, no one is perfect but the real failure is a man who will abandon his kids simply because he fell out with the wife

signature2012:
It's 2023 for Godsake.
You guys should stop this stereotype.
Many of us any had a single parents in our life and we become the best of best in the society while those with both parents upbringing can't stand where we stand.

Fyi, it's still the same men that made these mothers single.

I was on IG few weeks ago, a video on Reels pop up on my page.This lady was crying bitterly and cursing the kidnappers that kidnapped her husband, got ransom money and still killed him.
She just gave birth to Twins.
I can bet the kidnappers are male like the Op.
From the video, this lady make not get married again and focus on the kids.

Though, I won't lie. Fathers play a significant role in a child growth, but when he is not there, won't the child still grow?

As a male, I have few friends who are deadbeats around me.I do fight them a lot from playing their fatherly role.You Dont have to be with the mother of your kids to play your part.

I know of one or two old men begging their kids now for forgiveness because they were not there when the kids needed them.

DEAR MEN, STOP BEING A DEADBEAT!!!!
And to the ladies, be careful out there, Dont let some little money he spent on your open your leg and assume he is responsible.Also, trying to have good character helps build a good relationship with your man.

HenryWilliams:
Keep lying to yourself..
They grow up exact copies of their mom.
Bitter, toxic ,vengeful and utterly devilish.

Spiff20:
Nothing is wrong with them.

JASONjnr:
I was almost married a girl raised by a single mother who's father died while they were very young.

Mother's really can't raise children. They will always mislead them with women's thinking.

I remember how she told me to always listen to her that her father who refused to listen to her mother was killed and she will not allow that to happen to her husband. This made her to try to control my activities. Her mother would call her everyday asking her things about her and her relationship and she will confide with her.

I stopped discussing my plans with her because her mother would be briefed without my knowledge. Her mother controlled her and made lots of her decisions for her.

Her mother would scold her and she will transfer that to me. And if I refused to adhere to their request, her mother will call me to make the request. Out of respect I will do most of it and reject others.

This continued till the mother called me to tell me that she was giving me till a certain month to come and pay her daughter's dowry.

I had to end the marriage, even when I did Introduction.

Point is, girls raised by single mothers are very manipulative and if you want marriage, avoid them.

Currently on a talking stage with a girl raised by both parents and I tell you, she's really respectful and responsible.

Exceed15:
Hmm.. thanks for sharing. I had a bad experience myself. They are always defensive, hate sharing their things and very toxic.