essentialone:


From most comments, you will agree that people understand who a 'typical' single mother is. Those other ones you mentioned are regarded as Widows, not really single-mothers per se.

For the sake of emphasis, write it down today: A Widow is not 'really' a Single Mother. The word Single, in this context, implies Not married, either not ever married, or once married but divorced. A Single Mother can also be a mother who is presently married, but not presently married to the biological father of the lady in discourse.

Thanks, if you understand.

femi4:
Those girls that disown their father. Never judge from afar....move closer n you ll see their true colour

There was a video where they make jest of their father using him as a content. Is that the kind of woman you want as a wife? Always seeking social media validation

justified007:



Maybe you're just following them . Those girls and their mum are beyond toxic

TOBILOBA2023:


Do you really know about them in real life?

CandidAdmin:


Let's leave content creators alone. My neigbour childhood friend was raised by a single mother, they(male and female) ain't toxic.

justified007:




I never said all children raised by single parents are toxic but only responding to your comment about those twins in particular

signature2012:
It's 2023 for Godsake.
You guys should stop this stereotype.
Many of us any had a single parents in our life and we become the best of best in the society while those with both parents upbringing can't stand where we stand.

Fyi, it's still the same men that made these mothers single.

I was on IG few weeks ago, a video on Reels pop up on my page.This lady was crying bitterly and cursing the kidnappers that kidnapped her husband, got ransom money and still killed him.
She just gave birth to Twins.
I can bet the kidnappers are male like the Op.
From the video, this lady make not get married again and focus on the kids.

Though, I won't lie. Fathers play a significant role in a child growth, but when he is not there, won't the child still grow?

As a male, I have few friends who are deadbeats around me.I do fight them a lot from playing their fatherly role.You Dont have to be with the mother of your kids to play your part.

I know of one or two old men begging their kids now for forgiveness because they were not there when the kids needed them.

DEAR MEN, STOP BEING A DEADBEAT!!!!
And to the ladies, be careful out there, Dont let some little money he spent on your open your leg and assume he is responsible.Also, trying to have good character helps build a good relationship with your man.

CandidAdmin:
There's this content creator on facebook called twinz love or something

They aren't toxic and they were raised by single mothers.

Funny enough, most of you guys haven't met them.

justified007:



Since when? The same twins that said they didn't have father again and later claimed the man never took any responsibility on them until the poor man came online with receipt

VULCAN:
One of the quickest ways to identify a simp is when he writes a long epistle like this and you cannot find a single sentence where he blames a woman for her state.

Giving an example of a woman whose husband was murdered is so useless because that does represent perhaps 1 out of 100,000 single mothers!

So why use it as an example when the majority of single mothers are women who decided not to force the man to wear condoms or who chose not to take advantage of birth control which has been in existence for 60yrs.

On tiktok there are hundreds of women who openly regret leaving their husbands.

That represents the majority of single mothers.

Are there toxic men that created an environment that was impossible for the wives to remain? Yes of course, but check the circumstances that led to the marriage in the first place. The woman neglected the signs that she was marrying a monster (usually due to materialism or love of great sex)

Oga, stop simping

Inyaky:
signature2012 It's 2023 for Godsake.
You guys should stop this stereotype.
Many of us any had a single parents in our life and we become the best of best in the society while those with both parents upbringing can't stand where we stand.

Fyi, it's still the same men that made these mothers single.

I was on IG few weeks ago, a video on Reels pop up on my page.This lady was crying bitterly and cursing the kidnappers that kidnapped her husband, got ransom money and still killed him.
She just gave birth to Twins.
I can bet the kidnappers are male like the Op.
From the video, this lady make not get married again and focus on the kids.

Though, I won't lie. Fathers play a significant role in a child growth, but when he is not there, won't the child still grow?

As a male, I have few friends who are deadbeats around me.I do fight them a lot from playing their fatherly role.You Dont have to be with the mother of your kids to play your part.

I know of one or two old men begging their kids now for forgiveness because they were not there when the kids needed them.

DEAR MEN, STOP BEING A DEADBEAT!!!!
And to the ladies, be careful out there, Dont let some little money he spent on your open your leg and assume he is responsible.Also, trying to have good character helps build a good relationship with your man.



































When a responsible person speaks you know, most guys on this forum are myopic, looking at everything from one side that favors their argument, and I believe majority of thus class of people that talk bad about women were raised or comes from irresponsible home or ghetto where they have no regards for any one. A responsible and well raised man will never talk trash of women knowing that everyone came through a woman or have one in their lives.

It's also shows how shallow most Nigerian men are, you will hardly hear ladies calling men names even though they have irresponsible fathers but no week will pass without the men making a post about women on this forum, why the obsession about women, can't you guys talk about other things?

Inyaky:
signature2012 It's 2023 for Godsake.
You guys should stop this stereotype.
Many of us any had a single parents in our life and we become the best of best in the society while those with both parents upbringing can't stand where we stand.

Fyi, it's still the same men that made these mothers single.

I was on IG few weeks ago, a video on Reels pop up on my page.This lady was crying bitterly and cursing the kidnappers that kidnapped her husband, got ransom money and still killed him.
She just gave birth to Twins.
I can bet the kidnappers are male like the Op.
From the video, this lady make not get married again and focus on the kids.

Though, I won't lie. Fathers play a significant role in a child growth, but when he is not there, won't the child still grow?

As a male, I have few friends who are deadbeats around me.I do fight them a lot from playing their fatherly role.You Dont have to be with the mother of your kids to play your part.

I know of one or two old men begging their kids now for forgiveness because they were not there when the kids needed them.

DEAR MEN, STOP BEING A DEADBEAT!!!!
And to the ladies, be careful out there, Dont let some little money he spent on your open your leg and assume he is responsible.Also, trying to have good character helps build a good relationship with your man.



































When a responsible person speaks you know, most guys on this forum are myopic, looking at everything from one side that favors their argument, and I believe majority of thus class of people that talk bad about women were raised or comes from irresponsible home or ghetto where they have no regards for any one. A responsible and well raised man will never talk trash of women knowing that everyone came through a woman or have one in their lives.

It's also shows how shallow most Nigerian men are, you will hardly hear ladies calling men names even though they have irresponsible fathers but no week will pass without the men making a post about women on this forum, why the obsession about women, can't you guys talk about other things?

signature2012:


Your father, fathers father and all the male generation in your family are all Simp!!!

If they born you well, tell me anywhere you are in any part of the world, I will come to meet you and hope you say this to my face.

I can bet with my left ball you are a DEADBEAT E GOAT.

CandidAdmin:


Have you asked them why?

femi4:
Your father is your father even if he's a sh!t.

No responsible soul washes his dirty linen in the public

essentialone:


E goat is still better than you who is an E-Simp naa.

eazzzy1:
Ambitious, strong and independent. They grew up seeing their mom’s strength and the need to not rely on anyone.

Tallysmallz:
Ambitious, strong and independent. They grew up seeing their mom’s strength and the need to not rely on anyone.

CandidAdmin:


Would you say the same if it were a mom?

essentialone:
What is your experience with ladies who were raised up by single mother?

Toxic
Time Bomb
Highly Irritant and Irritable

CandidAdmin:
There's this content creator on facebook called twinz love or something

They aren't toxic and they were raised by single mothers.

Funny enough, most of you guys haven't met them.

eazzzy1:
Ambitious, strong and independent. They grew up seeing their mom’s strength and the need to not rely on anyone.